Instead of a baby shower or leaving an open invite for hospital visits, we're going to do a post-partum Meet and Greet with the new baby.  I think this will be good for several reasons:

1. We still don't know what we "need" that is NOT large-ticket items (stroller/carseat combo and video monitor is about all that's left).    At this point, doing a baby registry would be something to do just to get "stuff," and I am so not a Stuff Person!  So it will relieve me of having to do a baby registry.  Also, having a Diaper Pounding type of Shower isn't really desirable, since I'm planning on trying out that Infant Potty Training thing.
2. When people come to a shower, they feel obligated to buy a gift.  A Meet and Greet will relieve guests of this imposed need.  Only those who really feel they want to bless us in that way will bring gifts, and by then I'll know what I "need."
3. It will relieve people of the need to visit me and the baby at the hospital.  Hospital visits are nice, but so is peace and quiet right after giving birth.
4. It will relieve people of the need to visit me and the baby at random times right when I come home from the hospital.  Who wants to keep a clean house for pop-in guests right after giving birth?
5. I'll be in the comfort of my own home with my new little baby when everybody comes over.   Nursing made easy!
6. Everyone can see the baby, b/c he won't be whisked off by nurses for shots, baths, tests, etc.
7. Plenty of seats for all the guests, unlike a hospital visit.
8. Plenty of things for guests' children to do downstairs in the school/play room, unlike a hospital visit.
9. Snacks will be available, unlike a hospital visit.
10. Dads are welcome to come, unlike a baby shower.
11. People can stop by anytime at their convenience during the Meet and Greet, unlike a baby shower.
12. The baby and I should be ready for guests by then, since we'll plan the Meet and Greet between 2 and 3 weeks after the due date.  Who knows if we'll be able to handle visitors while in the hospital?

I'm sure there are more pros that I could list, but I think I'll stop at a dozen.  I can't wait to meet my little guy and to have you all meet him, too.

Blessings!  ♥Christi