Yes, if you raise your kids indulged in the world, allowing them to watch most of what it is on TV, and then allow them to spend unsupervised time with the opposite sex...then yes, they will have sex.
Kids don't HAVE TO HAVE sex. It is a choice. They choose it because it looks like the best option, and they haven't been taught any self-control.
Most kids make this choice because their parents have done a poor job teaching them the Bible, building an open relationship, and teaching them that God's option...sex in marriage...is so much better than sex outside of marriage.
This stuff starts at birth. We don't let our sons watch shows where girls are scantily dressed. We try to maintain an open relationship, which leads to all sorts of STRANGE conversations. We teach them God's plan for marriage, and the consequences of going against His plan.
Could our children STILL choose to have sex? Of course. However, their free will doesn't exempt me from my job as a parent. But, I will be praying for and protecting their purity everyday until they die. That is my job, and they can't survive the hazards of this world without their parents' prayers.
So, thank you for your comment, annonymous, I hope you stop by again. |