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Oct. 9, 2009

Response to latest comment...

I just received a comment on the post titled, "God-Led Child Training: Wise vs. Simple."   The comment was from an anonymous reader, and said this:

I fully agree with what you had to say in this post and many of the comments by other readers about keeping our children simple to evil, but my husband who is not walking with the Lord, doesn't share this view. He does allow them to watch kids movies that I would just throw out if it were up to me and discusses certain things in front of them that I would love to keep their ears from hearing. Right now he doesn't have a job either so I can't do much Biblical training while he's here. Please, any suggestions? I feel so helpless.

I wanted to take time to respond because I get so many comments and emails of this nature!

The first Scripture I want to share that promises help in this situation is:

And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God,
to them who are the called according to his purpose.

Romans 8:28

If you LOVE God, then ALL things work together for good.  Your marriage, your children, your life.  It will all work for good.

Do you love Him?  Not just casually.  Not just, "Of course I love Him."  But LOVE Him.  Is He first and foremost in your thoughts each day? Do you love His goodness?  Do you feel like singing forth His praises like David did?  Do you long to please Him?  If you don't...

Pray to be this way.  It starts HERE.  And it IS the solution.  It is that simple.

Master, which is the great commandment in the law?
Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.  This is the first and great (most important) commandment.  And the second is likee unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.
Matthew 22:36-40


Do you see?  ALL ELSE hangs on these first and great commandments.  Once you get this one "obeyed," everything else can fall in to place. 

Problem is, people don't love Him with all their heart (their heart is full of themselves and the things they want--Jesus does not rule in their heart).  People don't love Him with all their soul (they don't even try to walk in the spirit and die to self--and truly turn their souls over to the Lord), and they definitely don't love Him with all their mind.  Their thoughts are most often not on the Lord.  They think about God when they need Him.  They are not always thinking about how to please God because they love Him. They fill their mind with meaningless things, worldly philosophies, and all sorts of books, TV shows, movies, and more that He doesn't like.

There is a ONE STEP solution. It is simple.  You must LOVE HIM.  With all your heart, soul, mind, and strength.  If you know you don't love Him this way (and few people do),

then I beg you,

PRAY to love Him this way. 

And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive.
Matthew 21:22

Do you believe Him?

Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:
For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.
Matthew 7:7-8

ASK to love Him this way.  It is His will.  It is His commandment.  He wants you to.  If you ASK, you will receive.  And you will be changed. And everything else will fall into place.  EVERYTHING.

I recently gave a class on the subject of feeding a family on a small budget, and feeding them in a healthy way.  But I told class that I could give them any and every suggestion I had, but unless they LOVE God first, they shouldn't even bother to try to change.  Unless pleasing Jesus was their main motivation, then nothing I told them would work--they would just spin their wheels.  Hopefully, you will see that theme at the heart of most of my testimonies!

I was a "Christian" for years, and I would tell you over  and over that I loved God. But I knew deep down the love I said I had for God definitely didn't match what the Scriptures said I should have. I didn't love Him enough to obey Him. I didn't love Him enough to think about Him more than I thought about anything else.  I didn't love Him enough to just want to praise Him--the way David did.  I knew I didn't love Him that way, and I knew most people didn't.  But one day, shortly after I really began seeking God and seeking His best for my life, I heard a speaker explain this all to me, and she said the same thing I'm telling you. If you don't love Him, then pray to.

Dear  reader, we are living in a time of weakened Christianity and watered down truth.  Don't water down these truths. Don't take them lightly any  more.  So many "Christians" SAY they love Him, because it makes sense to say that. That's what Christians say.   But, they are just pretending.  Unless you can say, for sure, that you love Him, with all your heart, soul, and mind, then you must "park" here until you do. Otherwise you will just spin your wheels in your Christian walk and get nowhere, and get no help. You will just be pretending....walking a walk and talking a talk--maybe even all day and all night. But if you don't love Him, you are getting nowhere.

HAVE you been pretending?

And, if you read this blog, this is how I pray for all my blog readers continually.  Because I know it starts here.

Make it real.  Ask and pray, unceasingly, to love Him, and then you will know Him like I know Him, and He will be your ever present help in ANY situation you are in. Especially your marriage. Especially your parenting. And just especially, any kind of help you particularly need, because He loves YOU.

To read more about this, and about my thoughts on what to do if your husband isn't on board, check these prior entries:

When Your Husband Isn't On Board


Who Do You Talk To?

Marriage Vitamin Pack



But don't expect any of these entries to help you unless you LOVE Him the way He commands you to love Him--unless you truly seek first the Kingdom of God.

My fervent prayers, as always, will be with you as you seek to love Him, to know Him, and  to please Him.

Mrs. E
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Oct. 11, 2009 - Great words

Posted by momofsix
Enjoyed the post. I really like your blog name.
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Oct. 11, 2009 - thank you for your response

Posted by Anonymous
I do know that I don't love Him that way, but I have been praying in that manner ever since I got on your site and read this in your posts. Yes, I do see that's your theme and I also posted the last comment(?) on When Your Husband's Not On Board. I love the encouragement I got from reading this.

Crystal
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Oct. 13, 2009 - Untitled Comment

Posted by swordwieldingmaiden
I would agree: truth is so watered down! Thanks for this post. I'm still unmarried, but as a young Christian adult, I've had to make sure my faith was truly founded and that I did LOVE God.

Wonderful to "meet" you!
Hope you'll stop by at my blog sometime!
God bless!
WarriorMaiden
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Oct. 14, 2009 - Untitled Comment

Posted by MelissaDSC
Christianity being watered down in it's message today is definitely part of the problem. Nobody, as far as I know, ever said being a Christian was going to be easy.

Matthew 7:14 Because narrow is the gate and difficult is the way which leads to life, and there are few who find it.

Keep heart dear reader, it requires discipline on your part to seek the Lord each and every day. Call out to Him in your heart and in your mind. Focus your energies on your walk and making sure you are right with God. Do not look at what you think are the faults of your husband. Do your part to let the light of Christ shine from within you and flood your husband with love and encouragement in his daily issues.

Father God knows the issues that are present in your home and He is working on them. Do not let this Season of life be over taken by bitterness and do not let Satan have a playground in your mind. There are still ways to share Christ with your family in your conversations without sitting down and whipping out your bible.

Phillipians 3:13-14 Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead. I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call fo God in Christ Jesus.

My prayers will be with you as you seek to glorify God in your daily life. You will be blessed for your efforts.
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