Living Sacrifice

Oct. 13, 2009

Facebook, anyone?

My husband and I, after avoiding it for YEARS, finally took the facebook plunge to connect with a few long lost friends--which we did, and it was nice to find them. I have mixed feelings about facebook still, but I do like how it has connected me with my family and friends--I don't miss them all so much anymore. It actually helps us stay in touch.

Two things so far, have amazed me about facebook--or about the whole email/chat/text/facebook/twitter/youtube type.  And no, I'm not going to gripe (today) about the amount of time people spend online (you know if you spend too much time on the computer without me having to say anything).

One thing I noticed is a generational shift. The kids and teens today are growing up with this type of communication. Many are not even learning how to have normal conversations because they don't have to.  My son called a friend he hadn't talked to in years--on the good, old-fashioned telephone. The friend mumbled a bit and then said, "Do you text? Are you on facebook?"  And that was the end of it.  Text language is hard for me to swallow--all the abbreviations and shortened spellings (you'll notice I NEVER use them on this blog!).  But kids are professionals at it. Kids who have struggled with spelling, grammar, and writing for years suddenly have no problems--and are actually quite amazing-- with this new language of electronic messaging.  Amazing!

No--I'm not letting my kids into this world, yet. I would like them to have cell phones, but it is not feasible at this point. We don't get service where we live, for one. The older ones both have email addresses, and they use them sparingly. The rule is Dad or I must download the messages first to check for inappropriate messages or spam, then they can read and respond with our approval. We read all outgoing messages, too. And we have caught some pretty nasty stuff showing up in the inbox from some thoughtless spammer.

This leads to the other thing I noted.  One evening during a family "church" service, we began discussing these things because we were discussing the end times. Earlier, I had commented to my husband about how amazed I was with the "reality mentality" our culture is beginning to adapt.  Because of reality TV, blogging, facebook, twitter, youtube... everyone can see themselves as a reality star. They have no problem picturing their lives with cameras pointed on them 24/7 and sharing it all with the world.  I was shocked at the nature of some of the things I saw people posting on facebook!  So personal! Did they not realize how many people were reading their words? And then I realized that people are beginning to think this is normal--willingly sharing every part of your life with everyone--and being comfortable with having your every move watched and tracked.

You may have noticed I don't chronicle our day to day lives on this blog!  Just snapshots and testimonies here and there.  This has always been one of the reasons why (along with time issues, too, of course)

But maybe, just maybe... this is staging for the end times.  Maybe this is part of how people will be so easily deceived.  Maybe they won't recognize the Antichrist and his controlling one-world government until it is too late, because they already willingly gave up their control and said, "Hey! Watch me! Every move I make! Listen to me, every word I say!"

That was the discussion we had in our family church service. We want our children to be discerning of these things.  We talked about how they are never to adhere to the teachings of man about how the end times will play out. They can listen, they can think about it. But they are to read it for themselves, pray, and meditate. If they continue to keep God first in their lives, and pray fervently that God guides them--then God will, and they will not be deceived. They will not miss something that maybe the rest of the world--even the Christian world--has become immune to. 

With God's help, as always, facebook or not, my family will follow Christ and Christ alone. We will be cautious, aware, and discerning, through continued prayer and walking in the spirit. We will overcome!

Now, that said, this blog is now on facebook, as well as me personally (some of you are already my friends). I am testing and praying, seeing how God leads. We'll see what happens. But you are welcome as my friends. Maybe by joining together we can be a community of exhortation--exhorting each other in godly living.  Maybe facebook is a good place to give testimony of all the things Christ does. Maybe not. We'll see.

In any case, this blog is on facebook under the name "Living Sacrifice" (as a person). The facebook avatar is the same as this blog avatar. 

And thank you to all who have become my friends here. I've told you before many times, if I could bake you all cookies and send them to you, I would. I am so grateful for all the encouragement and support you have given me over the past three years. You have been a blessing and a gift from God, and you remain in  my prayers continually.

--Mrs. E
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Oct. 21, 2009 - so...

Posted by ThriceBlessed
Will you still post here as well?
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Oct. 21, 2009 - Yes

Posted by mrse
This is where I will keep my blog for now. If I ever move it, I will make it very clear. My husband has been working on a new website for our family that will incorporate the articles from my past blog (Growing in Truth by Camilla Anderson) and this blog, my ebooks, my curriculum reviews, my husband's writings, a discussion board, and much more. But it is in the prayer stages right now, and will be completed in God's timing.

But I also want to share about how overwhelmed I am at seeing some of your faces on facebook. I wasn't prepared for how that was going to affect me. I am just moved to tears. I have prayed so fervently for all of you, my readers, and so many of you by name and by specific need--so often. Seeing your face--it just blesses me so! You have been so dear to my heart, such a gift from the Lord, this is the next best thing to meeting you all in person (and giving you cookies!)

Thanks again for the years of support, encouragement, and exhortations. It is because of you that I pray more, and stay accountable, and am encouraged, and don't fall when I stumble. For example, while I have been dieting, MANY times when I am tempted, I will not fall because I think of some of you whom I know are struggling, too, and who I pray for when I pray for myself. When I wander into the kitchen, considering something I don't need, I think, I will stay strong for _____'s sake. And that's just one example of many, many, many!

You'll never know in this earthly life how much you mean to me, and how much you have helped.

God bless you.

--Mrs. E

Edited by mrse on Oct. 21, 2009 at 6:26 AM
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Oct. 21, 2009 - Facebook use

Posted by Anonymous
I have a personal testimony regarding the use of Facebook. Do with it what you will, but I don't think it's coincidental that this is a very recent change made in my life.
From the very beginning that I signed up for Facebook I kind of wondered about whether I should be on it, but I thought this is a nice way to keep in touch with distant friends and maybe I would be able to be a witness to old unsaved friends of mine. However, keeping the contact with these old friends of mine led to my seeing some very wicked posts that they wrote as updates. Then over the past month or two, our pastor started mentioning Facebook in a negative light during a couple of his sermons, not to mention a deacon we know had stated to my husband that he thought Facebook was no good. Still I kept my Facebook account thinking that they didn't realize you could control who you had as friends and the type of content you might see. Then this last Sunday night (the night my four year old got baptized), a graduate from our church's college preached a message about walking in darkness verses walking in light. He talked about his battle with being under the control of video games when he was younger and then he mentioned that recently he kind of went through a similar thought process regarding Facebook and being able to witness and exhort etc.. Then some of our church's academy students asked if they could be his friends on Facebook, he wondered if it was against the Academy's rules. Then he realized (I'm sure with God's help) that if they knew he was a part of FB and there is bad content on FB, then he was putting his "blanket approval" over Facebook. Hearing him say this was enough for me. On Monday, I closed my Facebook account and felt completely liberated about something I had questioned in the back of my mind for a long time anyway. Hope this may be a help to anyone questioning.

Crystal
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Oct. 22, 2009 - Untitled Comment

Posted by 2boysmom
I have recently posted about my experiences on Facebook. Go visit my blog and read about my frustrations with it.
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Oct. 23, 2009 - Facebook

Posted by Anonymous
I have heard too many negative things about Facebook to feel comfortable using it. Former boyfriends contacting former girlfriends and even one man leaving his family for someone he met via Facebook. And then someone else I know got 2 computer viruses from it and her husband told her to close her account.

Facebook has never seemed like a good thing to me and it's not something I think I'll ever be a part of. It's kind of sad really because many great Christian bloggers are headed in that direction and I will miss reading what they have to say.

~MB
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Oct. 26, 2009 - blog

Posted by Anonymous
I would love it if you reposted some of the writings from your previous blog. Luckily I copied and saved some of them, but I would enjoy and be strengthened by re-reading others. Perhaps, here and there, you can repost some of them.
Blessings,
Debbie
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Nov. 1, 2009 - Untitled Comment

Posted by DawnBelieves
I actaully love facebook, but I have set some rules for myself because I will stay online way to long if I let myself. I have found almost my entire graduating class on facebook and that is just awesome. And I also have family that I have not spoken to or seen in over 10 years that have found me on facebook and it is awesome to be back in touch with them. I delete anyone that I befriend if they post something that I think is not good for me and I have my page set a private so that only my "friends" can see what I post. I think it is a great way to keep in touch with people. I also love the the "Devoted Woman" page. Anyone who has a facebook page should check it out. We continually pray for each other. Facebook is not much different then blogging her on homeschoolblogger.com. I mean, they are all just social networking pages. You do run across evils with facebook, yes, but you run across that anywhere you turn. I mean, it is everywhere....there is no way to hide from it. That is why it is GREAT that we are all Christians and have the power of the Holy Spirit in us. We can stand up to the evils in the world and know that in Jesus' name we are victorious! I don't think facebook is a bad thing at all. There is some accounts of viruses coming from facebook but that also can happen from any program when you download content. I don't download content from anything unless I completely trust it. One just has to know what they can and can't handle. If one can't handle having a facebook account then they shouldn't. But if they can then I say go for it! It is a great way to keep in touch with everyone. I know that without facebook I so would not keep up with as many friends and family as I do. Be Blessed, ~Dawn~
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Nov. 2, 2009 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy reading your blog and your words always encourage my heart to keep on being the woman that God has called me to be as His daughter, and a wife and mother. I'm a long time reader from your previous blog, but I haven't commented in a looong time! But I just wanted to say thanks! Also, I sent you a friend request on facebook... Amanda N. (You can see my last name on the request)
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Nov. 21, 2009 - Untitled Comment

Posted by OldPathsMom
very thought-provoking. The jury is still out for me on FB as well. I hadn't thought about the end times possibility but I think you do have a good thought there.

Have a blessed Thanksgiving! God is good!
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