It's officially Thanksgiving and many people will be sharing their holiday with their families and friends. We, being away from our extended family, will be enjoying a feast here at home. The kids are excited about helping to cook and prepare the meal...and of course eating their favorite dishes.
For some, though, family get-togethers bring up some of the difficult question about homeschooling. Particularly the biggest one - What about Socialization? Personally I consider this a non-issue, and basically tell that to whomever asks it. But for those of you who have to deal with the question, there's a couple resources I recommend:
First, the new ebook from TOS entitled What about Socialization? Dispelling the Myths is worth a read. Here vetern homeschoolers and a homeschool graduate share their perspective on the socialization question and on the doubts we sometimes face as homeschoolers.
And secondly, I encourage you to check out this article I wrote on what the research really says about Socilaization and homeschoolers. I wrote this a couple years ago for a college project, doing the research to see if my feeling of non-issue was really valid against the research. It is, but I'll let you read it for yourself.
Happy Thanksgiving! |
• November 27, 2008 - Untitled Comment
Their complaint on "most kids their age" is that they:
1. Do not look you in the eye when they speak.
2. Have a flimsy hand shake.
3. Speak in low inaudible voices.
4. Say "I duno" a lot.
5. Only give one or two word answers.
People say that my kids are a pleasure to talk to..........
Even before we pulled them out of public schools, I was training them to speak to people.
They would ask for help in a store (obviously with me by their side) They would order their own dinner. They would call on the phone and ask the question.......
They were never allowed to look at the ground when speaking or being spoken too.
Really.........socialization is about showing respect.
I would much rather my kids hang out with and talk to adults than their peers..........those poor kids.
Yeah, they are socialized.........but they are clueless how to converse with someone 2 or more years older than them.
:-)
Laura