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• November 27, 2008 - Answering the Socialization Question

It's officially Thanksgiving and many people will be sharing their holiday with their families and friends. We, being away from our extended family, will be enjoying a feast here at home. The kids are excited about helping to cook and prepare the meal...and of course eating their favorite dishes.

For some, though, family get-togethers bring up some of the difficult question about homeschooling. Particularly the biggest one - What about Socialization?  Personally I consider this a non-issue, and basically tell that to whomever asks it. But for those of you who have to deal with the question, there's a couple resources I recommend:

First, the new ebook from TOS entitled What about Socialization? Dispelling the Myths is worth a read. Here vetern homeschoolers and a homeschool graduate share their perspective on the socialization question and on the doubts we sometimes face as homeschoolers.

And secondly, I encourage you to check out this article I wrote on what the research really says about Socilaization and homeschoolers. I wrote this a couple years ago for a college project, doing the research to see if my feeling of non-issue was really valid against the research.  It is, but I'll let you read it for yourself.

Happy Thanksgiving!

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• November 27, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Dizzy
I have been told, by several adults, that my children (18,17 and 15) are a delight to talk too.
Their complaint on "most kids their age" is that they:
1. Do not look you in the eye when they speak.
2. Have a flimsy hand shake.
3. Speak in low inaudible voices.
4. Say "I duno" a lot.
5. Only give one or two word answers.

People say that my kids are a pleasure to talk to..........

Even before we pulled them out of public schools, I was training them to speak to people.
They would ask for help in a store (obviously with me by their side) They would order their own dinner. They would call on the phone and ask the question.......
They were never allowed to look at the ground when speaking or being spoken too.
Really.........socialization is about showing respect.
I would much rather my kids hang out with and talk to adults than their peers..........those poor kids.
Yeah, they are socialized.........but they are clueless how to converse with someone 2 or more years older than them.
:-)
Laura
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• November 27, 2008 - The beauty of homeschooling

Posted by Munya
Thanks for sharing!

To me that is one of the beautiful things about homeschooling...we get to train our kids. Every moment has potential be a learning experience. We don't have to talk to our kids about an incident hours or days after it happens. We get to talk to them about it right then and there! And we get to set those expectations as to how to talk.
It is so wonderful when others say "your kids are so fun to talk to" or "your kids are so well behaved". They are kids, but it is a great thing we know that we are raising them to be real.
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Munya-land is a creation of my oldest daughter's imagination. It has its own language, its own sayings, and even its own Queen. When we returned to privately homeschooling after using a homeschool-friendly charter school, my daughter requested that our school be named for Munya-land. And so, it is. Our philosophy is centered around family, responsibility, and building the love of learning and exploration. It is a journey - one where we are constanting learning and growing - together.

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