Oct. 9, 2006
Bloggin' about Bloggin'
I've been thinking about what Shannon wrote
the other day about blogging about our personal lives. I do try
to avoid saying things that would hurt, embarass or offend people in my
life if they were to read it. But in doing that, I am unable to
truly unload here. I can't talk about some of the struggles at my
church, lest a church member come here and be offended that a staff
member's wife would be honest critical. And
sometimes I can't blog about the deepest hurts and problems in my
life. I once tried to have an anonymous blog. I
still couldn't allow myself to be completely open and honest. I
didn't talk about the specific situation in my life, but I did blog
about my feelings about the situation. Someone who found it would
have known I was having problems but not exactly what the problems
were. Still, it was very private and I was afraid someone would
see it and figure out it was me. And then while I was logged in
under the wrong account (the private one), I left a comment for a
girl from my church. I realized it immediately, so I went and
deleted the blog. I wish I had saved all of the entries. I
only have a few. I don't really have a point to make, I've just
been thinking about what a blog actually is rather than what I thought
it would be.
I originally started on blogger as a way to connect with our youth at
church. (Although most of them had xanga accounts, Jason had
chosen blogger, so I followed suit.) They all migrated to
myspace, and I do have a myspace account to keep in touch with them,
but I don't blog much there. I do enjoy my homeschooling friends
over here! I love the community we share here, and I love knowing
that the things I struggle with are not unusual. Knowing that
other moms share my struggles helps me feel enouraged.
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Oct. 9, 2006 - Untitled Comment
Posted by nsremom
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I'm so sorry about your daughters arm! You and I BOTH have had quite a go of things lately. I am so tired of worrying! It's truly exhausting, isn't it?
I love having my blog, but you're right....I certainly DON'T tell it like it is most of the time for fear of someone I know reading it. If I get to where I just HAVE to talk about something I do put it as a 'friends only' read. That let's me vent without hurting anyone unintentionally.
Keep us posted on your little girl. :)
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Oct. 10, 2006 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Anonymous
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Lately I've been thinking a lot about why I blog and how I blog. I read Shannon's post too and can only hope that what I share online doesn't fit in the category of what concerns her. My blog is also for my business, and I like photography, so it's really hard to accomplish what I want, yet keep everything private.
I've tried an anonymous blog, too, but I find that on Pass the Torch I'm honest, so the anonymous blog isn't necessary. And the fact that it's my name on what I write? That helps keeps to keep not only IT positive, but the way I think about things as well.
It's an interesting discussion.
Kelly
http://www.2passthetorch.com
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Oct. 13, 2006 - How honest is too honest?
Posted by LisaLW
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My mom reads my blog from time to time, so I keep that in mind as I write. Venting about hubby, the kids, or whatever just doesn't seem appropriate. I forgot I could post things as a "friends only" read. I'll keep that in mind.
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