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Oct. 9, 2006
Bloggin' about Bloggin'

I've been thinking about what Shannon wrote the other day about blogging about our personal lives.  I do try to avoid saying things that would hurt, embarass or offend people in my life if they were to read it.  But in doing that, I am unable to truly unload here.  I can't talk about some of the struggles at my church, lest a church member come here and be offended that a staff member's wife would be honest critical.  And sometimes I can't blog about the deepest hurts and problems in my life. 

I once tried to have an anonymous blog.  I still couldn't allow myself to be completely open and honest.  I didn't talk about the specific situation in my life, but I did blog about my feelings about the situation.  Someone who found it would have known I was having problems but not exactly what the problems were.  Still, it was very private and I was afraid someone would see it and figure out it was me.  And then while I was logged in under the wrong account (the private one), I  left a comment for a girl from my church.  I realized it immediately, so I went and deleted the blog.  I wish I had saved all of the entries.  I only have a few.
I don't really have a point to make, I've just been thinking about what a blog actually is rather than what I thought it would be. 

I originally started on blogger as a way to connect with our youth at church.  (Although most of them had xanga accounts, Jason had chosen blogger, so I followed suit.)  They all migrated to myspace, and I do have a myspace account to keep in touch with them, but I don't blog much there.  I do enjoy my homeschooling friends over here!  I love the community we share here, and I love knowing that the things I struggle with are not unusual.  Knowing that other moms share my struggles helps me feel enouraged.

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Oct. 9, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by nsremom


I'm so sorry about your daughters arm! You and I BOTH have had quite a go of things lately. I am so tired of worrying! It's truly exhausting, isn't it?

I love having my blog, but you're right....I certainly DON'T tell it like it is most of the time for fear of someone I know reading it. If I get to where I just HAVE to talk about something I do put it as a 'friends only' read. That let's me vent without hurting anyone unintentionally.

Keep us posted on your little girl. :)


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Oct. 10, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous


Lately I've been thinking a lot about why I blog and how I blog. I read Shannon's post too and can only hope that what I share online doesn't fit in the category of what concerns her. My blog is also for my business, and I like photography, so it's really hard to accomplish what I want, yet keep everything private.

I've tried an anonymous blog, too, but I find that on Pass the Torch I'm honest, so the anonymous blog isn't necessary. And the fact that it's my name on what I write? That helps keeps to keep not only IT positive, but the way I think about things as well.

It's an interesting discussion.

Kelly
http://www.2passthetorch.com


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Oct. 13, 2006 - How honest is too honest?

Posted by LisaLW


My mom reads my blog from time to time, so I keep that in mind as I write. Venting about hubby, the kids, or whatever just doesn't seem appropriate. I forgot I could post things as a "friends only" read. I'll keep that in mind.


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