Homeschooling from the Heart
My Dad and Me


For God so loved the world that He gave His
only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth on
Him should not perish but have everlasting life. John 3:16


Mar. 5, 2009
My Reluctant Reader

*Hi Robin - you asked how I'm doing ... I was humming along, then this trial in early Feb. just sapped me.  I'm still bouncing back.  But we had this amazing victory yesterday ... read on if you'd like!

* * * * *

**Note:  I just realized that I had left off the first paragraph - I had written it elsewhere, and copied and  pasted it here.  So here it is ... maybe it will make better sense now.

Isaac is 10, and he has turned his nose up at just about every book I've intro'd him to. If I say "story time" and I'm going to read to them, he begs me not to "have to come to story time." If we listen to an "Adventures in Odyssey" together, he stops me (we're listening on a tape or the internet where we can pause it) and says "I have NO idea what is going on." So comprehension has been an issue.

I had some input from Debbie Strayer a while back (author of Learning Language Arts Through Literature) on an email loop I was on, to really talk about everything we're reading.  If he can't repeat back to me what's happening, go ahead and tell him what's happening.  Stop as often as you need to, and give explanation. 

So, I went to the library the other day, and was scouring the shelves for something that would catch Isaac's attention and NOT be "twaddle."  I don't recommend that - I think that looking over book lists and deciding ahead of time is probably the better way.  But there I was ... and "Not-So-Normal Norman" by Cynthia Stowe was the book I chose.

I brought it home, and asked him to read the first chapter.  He moaned and groaned.  I urged him to go ahead.  He came back and said to me "I have no idea what this is about."  So I opened it up, and said "Let's go over the first chapter (short chapters - a child's first chapter book, so to speak).  He moaned and groaned.

By the end of it, he understood what was going on, but showed little interest in reading further.  I read the next two chapters to him, with all of the voice inflections and so on.  Now I had his interest.  I handed it to him and said "Now you read two chapters on your own."  He came back - he had read four chapters!  I KNEW he was reading further.  I could see him lying on the couch, soaking it in.  I was having my own mental celebration.

The following day, I asked him to read two more chapters.  He smiled and said "OK, I don't mind at all."  Victory!  Then, he went off for a long time, and came back having read the rest of the book.  There were 14 chapters in all.  I knew he had read more than I'd asked him, but I said "Did you read your two chapters?"  He smiled his "kind of proud" smile and said "I finished the book."  He added "It was good - it was actually really, really good."

This was huge for us - and this was just yesterday.  He still had a hard time putting into words what had happened in the book, but as I asked him a few questions it started coming.  Of course, I let him know how very pleased I was, and how proud I was of him.  His joy was written all over his face.  I think we jumped a major hurdle yesterday!


Comments

A log of our journey together - our family, home, schooling, church, beliefs, loved ones ... how it all fits.


For His Glory


Only one life
'twill soon be past

Only what's done
for Christ will last


Misc


My Amazon.com Wish List


Favorite Ministry


Answers in Genesis

Favorite Quotes


"I believe in Christianity as I believe that the sun has risen: not only because I see it, but because by it I see everything else. "

By C.S. Lewis

Hymns and Songs


I Don't Know
About Tomorrow

By Ira Stanphill

sung by Deb


Recent Posts

Just the Tip of the Iceberg on the Goodness of God
Approaching End to 1st Quarter
Beginning the New School Year
Leave Perfection to the Perfectionists
Spring!!!!
The World Has Gone Mad
My Reluctant Reader
Abe Lincoln
Q and A
Introducing Caroline
Grandma for the 4th time - Soon!
Maranatha Update and Flylady
Doing the Flylady Thing
Thanksgiving pies
Turkey Preparation - Brining
No We Can't
The U.S. of A. - What a Mess!
What's Cooking?
Important Message - Excellent Post Alert
The Truth About It - Exercise is Doable
Thankfulness and Lies
Where've I been? In court.
Attitude Issues
This year - U.S. History
The Countdown to a New School Year

Links

Home
View my profile
Archives
Friends
Email Me
My Blog's RSS
Why the Name "Pattycake"
The Pre-Trib Rapture
A Berean Heart
Weight Loss
Ruth Beechick
Trust God for Tomorrow
In Memory of Missey Gray
Creationism
Preparedness and Prov. 31
Current Events
The Walking Challenge
Guilt Free Homeschooling
Maranatha! (my other blog)





Piano by Joel - the Latest Songs

Word of Life Fellowship

Friends

TOSPUBLISHER
Buckeyeblog
ByHisGraceInColorado
devdoordeborah
spunkyhomeschool
eyecorn
creativehsmom
Dalyn
SBadgley
DMalament
DianaWaring
InnerSanctuary
HomeGrownKids
Hallmark
horsefeathers
Titus2woman
lonestaracademy
lazearbeam
goodnews
armoorefam
laurie59
FaithfulGrace
LadyTracy
dianadow
Panshrmu
mamaduso
4Blessings
iluvtheland
Play2LearnHome
Juldos

sagerats
HeartSchooling

kaitlynn7m
sherrydhoneycutt
Kristal
joyfuldoer
ElCloud

wife2elliot
writmm
kansaskat
BrokenMom
vibrantfaith
deedeeuk
Coopers4Him
8arrows
eakrabel
Youngwife
heavenlycreations

sajolley
AuntieR

Nanna
milkmamma
pattycakejunior
SeptCygnes
mamatrish
SuperAngel
JacqueDixonSoulRestES
PollyJo
BlubberBloggers
kidsus8
BattlementsofRubies
cyndiegirl72
mom24seas
ihopeyoudance
califorinagirl
homesweethomeschooler
InkTraveler
MommylovesRJ
tiredmom


KaneFamily
EmbraceLife
my6davidsons
Hediedforme
1xxand2xy4me
inhiservice
DraiochtSchool
agodlyhomemaker
melissal89
OldPathsMom
ReviewsbyHeidi
H0MEFree
kapandpen
stearnsstephanie
ChristLover
growingkids
BethanyJill
domesticangel
proverbsmama
Crashinbeck33
Flybaby

Entry 7 of 292
Last Page | Next Page