Peach

Feb. 7, 2006

Don't Spank Me

Ahh... to be young and fearless again.
This is how my 2yo lives life.  Fearless.

She is referred to as "Booger" around our home.  It started when she was little bitty.

I'd be changing her diaper or whatever and she'd make a mess.  I'd say, "You little booger."  And then, it was "Hey booger!!" as I scooped her up in my arms to love on her.

It's an affectionate term... we don't use it very much anymore, but she'll always be my little "booger".
Anyway, she is a booger.

 

She will be doing something, and I'll tell her to stop.  She continues or says, "No I don't".  I get up to correct her and she says, "No, I say 'Yes Ma'am'." and then proceeds to do what I told her to do, originally.  I just sit and laugh to myself.  I know I should probably discipline right away... but sometimes, I just don't.

 

Then, she'll be getting into my purse when she's out of my sight for 2 minutes.  I go in there to find the entire contents of my purse on the floor, chair, or wherever it was sitting.  She looks at me with those big blue eyes and says, "I didn't do it!" in a cute little sing-song voice.  I have to discipline.  It's the only way she'll learn that Mom's purse is off limits.  It kills me to have to discipline, though, bc she's so cute.

 

THEN, when the disciplining starts, she'll say, "Don't spank me!" behind big crocodile tears.  Uh, Hello?? Who taught her this??  I go ahead and spank and then say, "Don't tell Mommy not to spank."  After that is over, she'll reply, "I said don't spank me!!"  No way, Jose'.  Not in my house.  We don't put up with this.

 

I have to get into IMB mode.  It hurts my heart.  I don't like to correct my children.  But, I really like it less when they act up.  So, it is a requirement of me, as a good mother, to be on top of them when they do wrong.

 

She's one of those kids that is so cute, you just hate to have to discipline.  You hate to have to show her that she can't have her own way.  But, it is a must.  I must make sure that she knows that life isn't fair... that it never will be fair... but I love her, and I care for her well-being.  I want her to grow up to be a responsible adult... a light shining for Jesus wherever she goes.

 

It is my duty, as her #1 caretaker, to make sure that she knows what life is really all about.


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Feb. 7, 2006 - The Struggle of Parenthood

Posted by mitchellfamily
This is such a hard struggle, wouldn't it be nicer if we got to be grandparents first...but alas we must earn the privilege to spoil, by first raising some great kids to give us grandchildren. It is so heart wrenching to have to give them consequences and to teach them to do the right things and behave properly. But I remind myself all the time, as hard as it is some days it is worth it, to teach them self-control and accountability. Good luck on your parenting journey!
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Feb. 7, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by 3FoldChord
What is IMB mode?

She sounds cute and precocious...LOL.

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Feb. 7, 2006 - sounds familiar...

Posted by preschoolmommy
that sounds so familiar. I go thru the exact same thing w/ 2G2. She does all the same stuff (like telling me I don't want a spanking) and I have to tell her, yes, I have to. God wants me to teach you the right things to do. It's sad, but yes, it is our job. I'm glad that you care about it. I used to cry everytime I spanked 1B5. And my mom said she always cried when she punished us (I remember that!). My sis laughed and said, I never have the problem! it's obvious. her kids aren't that well behaved and she doesn't cry when she spanks (prol'y cause she rarely spanks or disciplines!). A good mommy teaches her children right from wrong, whether they break your heart or their toys! It's life
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Feb. 7, 2006 - IMB

Posted by Peach
IMB mode is "I Mean Business" LOL
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Feb. 15, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by RaisingFaith
Isn't is hard when they are sooooo adorable? Sometimes I have to force myself to imagine dd doing the same thing (or worse) at 16yo to see how not cute it really is. The other day I had to discipline her and she looked at me with those puppy dog eyes and asked sweetly, "No spanking, I go time out?"
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