On one of the email lists I'm on someone posted the question today of:
"I was wondering if any of you ladies homeschooled for the reason of simply needing a purpose for you OWN life."
My reply to this was:
I can't say I'm homeschooling BECAUSE I need personal fulfillment.
But yes, that is one of the perks of homeschooling. I think anyone would be lying if they said they do NOT like it when strangers comment on "how well behaved" or "how intelligent speaking" your child is; or "what a good thing you're doing for your child", etc. Even more so when family members say things like that. Personally, I know I've gotten more statments of "proud of you" from my own father in the last 5 years we've been homeschooling than I ever recall getting as a child growing up. Not to say I wasn't a source of pride for him as a child, I'm sure I was... I just don't recall a lot of expression of it by him. My mother, has always been encouraging and proud, that continues today with our homeschooling. And I've seen, within both of my parents, a growing understanding of "what exactly it is we're doing here." LOL.
Furthermore, homeschooling feeds MY own NEED for self study. I'm not currently at a time in my life that I feel I can take college coursework again, but definitely plan to once again in the future. (CLEPing is certainly on the not too distant horizon though.) In the meantime, to read up on things, learn new things, and just plain ol' relearn side by side with my daughter, that does make me feel good.
Does that all make sense? Do I do it BECAUSE I need to feed some emptiness inside me? No. But it is nice to have the added personal benefits that I've written about. Not to mention having the CLOSE times with my daughter. Those are priceless. I'm SOOOO blessed to have been there EVERY MINUTE of her learning to read. I will never forget the moment all her hard work FINALLY paid off and in an INSTANT her fluency was there. Truly remarkable. It would have been lost to a mob of classmates had she been in a school. There are many other occasions that I've felt truly blessed for being on hand to witness, but that's just one of them.
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