Sep. 8, 2008 - Reflections on Week One |
One week under our belts (strange saying), and I feel like we've been back at it for months. We have encountered so much new terrain, especially with my older daughter's program, that I have been feeling very overwhelmed. I'm not handling the rest of life very well at present.
School could become all-consuming. I spend the evenings helping with homework, and planning the next day for my other three. And, the weekend hasn't been much better. Most of Saturday was spent helping my eldest with homework and trying to complete year overviews for each subject. The school that we're enrolled in would like one for each of my children by the beginning of October. I've only managed to get one partially done. Gulp.
I'm thankful that most of the extra-curriculars are being added slowly into the mix. A swift plunge into the deep end would have done me in, I think. Thankfully I get another week of relative ease before all the classes and activities will be up and running. And, I have one more week before Bible Study begins again. (Where, on earth, will I get the time to study for that?) Unfortunately, my husband is away on business this week so where the load could be light, once again I'll be carrying it alone.
We're still trying to round up books for some subjects and there are some obvious hiccups in the tentative plans I made for how our day should run. We've been fine-tuning our schedules, and discussing better ways to make the days progress rather than drag. I expect that figuring out all these details will take us well into next month.
One would assume by now that homeschooling would be a snap. But, I find that every year holds something new and with that new element comes confusion, adjustment, and reassessment. The pieces fall together a little differently every time. So the new year never looks quite like the previous one. I struggle to stay fresh and enthusiastic. Sometimes motivating the troops feels more like cracking a whip and laying down the law. |
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Sep. 8, 2008 - The Simple Woman's Daybook |
For Today...
Outside my Window...a completed fence! Our neighbors have been so patient with us over our fence. It took just about all summer for us to get it up because of Darin’s work schedule, and our permit issues with the town. Darin and I kept hoping that our dog would take the opportunity that no fence afforded to run away, but I guess she loves us too much, cause she resisted temptation for the most part, and stayed in the backyard, God bless her.
I am thinking...that my desk is driving me crazy. I’ve got my new sewing project here, a ream of cardstock, misc. paperwork that needs to be filed, Ben’s Greek books that I still need to make a schedule for, receipts, CDs, a box of file folders that I bought to make lapbooks with Henry…….
From the learning rooms...things are going well! We’re still working on last year’s Language Arts, but we’re just about done. Jack is finally figuring out that it does him no good to take one hour to memorize one small scripture verse, or to do one worksheet for Math. Lydia is still thrilled with her Teaching Textbooks. Ben is about to begin Pre-Algebra. He has one lesson left in the Teaching Textbooks Math 7.
I am thankful for...Football season! I grew up in a football home. I wasn’t an overly active participant in all the fun, but the sound of the game on the t.v. on a Sunday afternoon became one of those “comfort” sounds.
From the kitchen...I’m trying to slow things down in the kitchen lately. There’s so much going on around here during the day that I don’t always have time for anything elaborate. I’m going to do easy stuff this week like tacos, spaghetti….
I am reading...still working on More Than Dates and Dead People. I think I only read two or three pages of it this past week.
Darin and I are still reading St. Bartholomew’s Eve by G.A. Henty. This was one of the kid’s favorite history read alouds last year, so I wanted Darin to hear it. He’s slowwwwly warming up to it. There’s a lot of set-up at the beginning.
I am hoping...to get my desk cleaned off this week. That would include making a schedule for Ben’s Greek studies. Those books will stay here until I do.
I am creating...plans….seems my brain never stop, but my body does. ;-) I make more plans than I could ever accomplish in 24 hours.
I am hearing...Sophia playing with her sippy cup on the floor. She's learning to drink from it, but loves to play with it more than anything at this point. Jack is out in the backyard hitting something with a stick.
Around the house... Monday is coming in like a lion. I’ve had a minor cold this weekend that left me tired out, so the normal chores I do on the weekends did not get done. The important thing was that breakfast, lunch and dinner were all served, mostly thanks to Darin. What a guy he is.
One of my favorite things... is going for a walk around the block with Darin after the kids have gone to bed. Our dog, Joy, walks along with us.
A Few Plans For The Rest Of The Week... Ben has an orthodontist appointment, Sophia has her 9-month well-check, I’m hoping to meet a pal at Starbucks for a long overdue chat about life, and Darin and I are going to a 40th birthday party. Should be fun.
Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you...

At the Dallas World Aquarium |
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Sep. 8, 2008 - Exercise Challenge |
Well, I'm still working away when I can. Is anyone else still with me? You know, I go to other ladies' blogs, and I see so many Mr. Linky's just overFLOWING with participants. It's the exercise thing, isn't it?;-) I know. I don't want to exercise either. Especially when I'm seeing no results. I just don't have an hour a day to give in order to see the results I would like, but I still think it's important to be at least moving. Is anyone else still with me?
Buehler. Buehler.
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Monday, September 8, 2008 - A New Perspective on Life... and Death |
When we were attending the church where Mike lead worship that was 20 minutes away, I began a "tradition" of going to the gas station and getting a few boxes of donut holes (the inside part of the donuts) for the kids on the way. It was just easier to get everyone ready in the morning first (Mike had to leave early to be at the church so I got myself and the kids ready each Sunday), and then have food on the way to church as a great incentive if we were running on time (and they were a VERY cheap breakfast).
Every Sunday as I waited in the vehicle with my kids while my boys ran in to buy the donut holes, I saw an older couple pull in and get out to get coffee together on their way to church. I remember thinking it was sweet, but never gave it much more thought.
I knew that the man had many health problems recently and passed away August 8th. He was seventy-two. Certainly not "young". He'd lived a long life, had five children, 17 grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. He died with his family knowing that they would be reunited in heaven. The death of this man didn't impact me in the same way as the 3 year old boy found in his backyard pond...
...until this morning...
As I went to get donut holes, I drove by a van parked on the side of the road and thought I'd seen the newly widowed wife sitting inside. I got the donuts and then drove by again... more slowly to make sure it was her. As I saw her sip coffee from her mug, I knew it was her, and as I slowed to a stop at the stop sign only several feet from where she was parked, I paused a little longer there...
Go back...
I thought about her sitting there... alone, and I since I'm such a "godly woman" who cares... I said a prayer for her in the safety of my vehicle and began to drive ahead.
Go back...
After all, I didn't want to make the woman feel uncomfortable by talking to her... I mean, what was I going to say? Surely it would be completely awkward to just stop... and the woman had been through enough.
Go back...
Besides, she may be fine and then I'd say something and make her think of her husband and make her sad.
GO BACK...
I came to another stop sign and couldn't move. I tried to reason... I tried to escape... I tried to ignore... and as I turned in the opposite direction of where I'd planned, and toward the direction I was being told to go, my son asked, "Why are you going this way?" I told him there was something I had to do.
As I put the vehicle in park and walked across the street toward where that woman sat in her van, I had no idea what would transpire, and in those several seconds I doubted...
...until she rolled her window down and I saw her tear-stained face... and then I knew... this moment was right...
She shared with me how she knew he was no longer in pain... but how she was left here... alone and she didn't understand why. She told me that when her husband was sick and bed-ridden, someone had asked what he missed, and his answer was, "going to get coffee with my wife". Those moments I'd given little thought to, were the ones he cherished... and that she now reflected on as only memories. She shared with me that this was the first Sunday that she was going to church since his death... and the first time she was having coffee... without him.
I had no words... there was nothing I could do to make it better... except to approach the throne of God together with her and so I prayed...
After we prayed, I got back into my car, dumbfounded by the encounter. I'd been lead to exactly where I needed to be, when I needed to be there... and it wasn't just for that woman either because I went away from that different... I didn't leave an "old" woman who had lost her "old" husband thinking that was just the way life was. Instead, my life came too close to a woman who was left behind... who would no longer see her husband when she woke up in the morning or kiss him before falling asleep in his arms... who was alone and was, dare I say... angry at the reality of it all. I could see myself in that woman...
She asked the same question that I've asked after the tragic death of my dear friend's son who drowned in their backyard pond... "Why God?" Why does one leave this earth while others are left behind are in so much pain? I cannot even begin to imagine the pain a parent must bare with the death of a child... but I know that I've heard from some of those parents first hand how it makes the longing for heaven that much stronger... and I thought of that woman I'd left behind drinking her coffee alone... and I knew that she longed for that day as never before too... and then I thought about my own life...
While I think heaven will be great... I've been in no "rush" to get there. I have a wonderful husband that I love so passionately it makes me cry to even think of walking a step on this earth without him... I have so many precious treasures in the 8 children God has blessed us with and I pray that I will get to see each one marry Godly spouses and hold each of their children... each precious grandchild in my arms... great-grandchildren would be even better! And with that "I'll get around to heaven later" kind of attitude, I realized that at any moment my world could be shaken... a loved one could leave this earth and it wouldn't matter if it were a young one... an "old" one... a death from an illness... or a sudden "tragic" death... I would mourn regardless... and long for heaven...
And that's how God wants it... He wants me to care for everything He's given me on this earth, but he doesn't want me to become so distracted by or so content with those things (whether they be people or material things) that I put Him on the wayside to get around to after everything else. Instead, He wants me to long for heaven, and Him, as I would if my husband or a child were there... to ache for that day... to tell others of that joyous day and want to see them there too... and to feel as though something is missing that will go unfulfilled until I am there with Him forever... |
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September 7, 2008 - The Princess Does Homeschool |
Just another day of homeschool in costume.

She's making a craft from a Winter Promise book More Than Moccasins.
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Sep. 7, 2008 - Hands-On Science |
We just started using Apologia's Elementary Swimming Creatures of the Fifth Day. One of the activities is to make an ocean box. You line a box with blue paper, and as you study a sea creature, you make it out of clay or whatever you want, and then add it to your box in the position it would go in the sea. That would be in the Sunlit Zone, the Twilight Zone or the Midnight Zone. I'm using this with three kids and the thought of three boxes floating around our house just totally irritated me. I hate clutter, and yes, I would have considered those boxes clutter, rather than a teaching tool. That's me....big clutter freak! I'm sure I've mentioned on this blog before that I LOVE to throw things away. ;-)
Anyway.....We actually only have Ben with us for this study for a short time. Soon he will be off on his own, doing his own science studies. Kinda sad for me. He's 13 and in 8th grade now. I figured it's time to cut the apron strings and send him off on his own history and science studies. It's been a wonderful time schooling the oldest three together in history and science. It's hard to believe that they're all growing up....
Back to the boxes.....my idea was to line our hallway wall with blue paper and let all three add their animals to that. When I mentioned what I was going to do, Ben immediately wanted to take over the project. I was good with that and I'm so glad he did it! I would have just put blue paper up on the wall and been done with it, but he went a lot farther and made an island, the continental shelf, the sunlit zone, the continental slope, the twilight zone, the continental rise, the midnight zone AND of course, the abyssal plain. It is so neat! Here you can see his work. He's so kewl. ;-) You can see two little angler fish down in the midnight zone. And up top, courtesy of Finding Nemo, the E.A.C., dude.
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Sep. 7, 2008 - I Spent 1.24 at CVS |
Here are the things I got at CVS on mine and Darin's date night. We really know how to party. ;-)

3 Revlon Nail Polishes - 3.99 each
2 XTreme deodorant - 2.99 each
Tom's of Maine Toothpaste - 5.29
subtotal: 23.24
I used:
3 coupons for the nail polish. $2 off ($6 total)
2 coupons for the deodorant. $1 off ($2 total)
$4/$20 CVS coupon
$10 ECBs
My final total was 1.24. How kewl is that? And I earned 14.50 in ECBs!
Lately, I've had a lot of people tell me they don't need to do the CVS thing because their family is not as big as mine. A family of 7 definitely has its challenges, but to me, getting stuff for free and nearly free seems like an across-the-board thing! The whole reason for the CVS journey is not just for the adrenalin rush of getting stuff at super cheap-o prices. Although really, that would probably be enough to satisfy most. ;-)
Seriously, the main goal is to outfit your home as cheaply as you can so you're not spending all your dough needlessly. When we need body wash here in our house, we simply go to the cabinet in my bathroom and grab a bottle. I don't need to stress over adding that expense to our budget that week. I've already got it, and I got it for free, or nearly free. There's nothing in that that keeps it exclusive to large families.
Give it a try! Go to Crystal's Money Saving Mom blog and read CVS 101 and get started ASAP! :-) |
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Sep. 5, 2008 - Note Worthy Tidbits |

This looked like fun and I love this blog, so I thought I'd participate. This week's theme is school-related, so here are a few noteworthy tidbits from me:
First off, I came across some really neat homeschool quotes on a blog. She offers them for free w/ the codes to them so you can put them on your side bar. I used two of them-one from Beatrix Potter & one from Mark Twain. There's several more great ones, too:
Daily Quotes for Lifelong Learners
This next link takes you to a fantastic resource--it's called the Amazing Bible Timeline & at a glance, you can see 6000 years of Bible & world history simultaneously. We have it & it's really neat.
The Amazing Bible Timeline
This next link is to a blog that I learned about from another blogger. It's a "boot camp" for moms & kids. You have to read it to understand the impact of it. Once you click on the link, scroll down until you get to week 1. This really blew my socks off. It's an 8 week thing. I can't do it justice-go check it out!
Paradoxology
That's it! Hope you enjoy. |
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Sep. 4, 2008 - Just Chatter about Yesterday |
Yesterday public school started. So, we took the day off. We do some schooling thru the whole summer-here and there. It's informal, but we do get quite a bit done without feeling the whole day of school thing.
So, I like to take off the first day of p.s. Plus, it was a gorgeous day! Jonah(10) spent a good part of the day chopping wood-his choice. He told me later that he discovered that "green" wood is much harder to split. Dry wood splits a lot easier & he had to set aside the green wood. This may seem insignificant to some, but it registered in my brain that that is something he learned thru experience. Logically, it makes sense, but he also felt how the ax bounces off green wood & sinks into the dry wood. I like that.
Anyway, that's neither here nor there, but my brain works in strange ways. He was telling me this while laying in the grass and I was hanging laundry on the line. After he told me this he let out a big sigh and said, "I sure do feel sorry for the kids that are sitting in school right now."
We did end up doing our Prairie Primer unit study. One thing we learned about was making cheese-and we hope to try it. We discovered what rennet is. You must have rennet to make cheese. Guess what Pa had to do when Ma wanted to make cheese-kill a calf that was young enough that it hadn't had anything but milk yet. Rennet comes from the stomach of such a calf!! I never knew this. Well, guess what-we have all that here-but not enough heart to go and kill our calf-besides, he'll be dinner someday. So, we'll just try to find "junket" rennet tablets.
Hannah's(12) spent some time reading Farmer Boy in her room. She said she was really encouraged by it because it talked about training horses and she has a 3 yr old horse that needs training. She's worried that even when he's done being trained, he'll still be hard to ride. Almanzo's dad said of his 3 yr old trained horses that they're perfectly trained, but still have "ginger" in them. That made her feel better.
We got rid of satelite TV last week. We did it for financial reasons (although, I've wanted to do it for a long time for other reasons) and wow, what a difference. My dh has been giving Susanna her baths now (before it was sometimes) and he's been reading Where the Red Fern Grows to the kids. Our living room has become a reading room instead of a TV room-it's really wonderful! Pat & I were discussing the other day how much family time the TV actually steals away from family. Susanna(3.75) loves it when Pat gives her the bath because he does her hair now and sings "Oh Where is My Hairbrush?" from Veggie Tales. He sings it very loudly-the whole house can hear it and he really draws out the "oh where oh where oh where oh whereeeeeeeeeee....is my hairbrush?" LOL-everyone is laughing by the time he's done & all the kids end up in the bathroom laughing. I just laugh to myself downstairs.
I am so thankful we got rid of the satellite because sometimes he'd watch things that weren't necessarily bad, but was inappropriate for children-and they had to be sent out of the room-when they really wanted to hang out with Dad since he'd been gone all day.
In other news, Jonah learned a word to the wise. Never make up a game called "Rabid Dog" without explaining very carefully to the 3 yr old that you should PRETEND to bite-not REALLY bite! LOL
And, here are a couple pictures of my sweet Alyssa Rose(14 weeks). This first one is her wearing a soft wool outfit that a good friend gave to us. This outfit is for babies wearing cloth diapers without covers. The wool is the cover-and amazingly stays perfectly dry-even w/ a wet diaper. The nice thing is air gets to the derriere to help prevent diaper rash:

And here's another sweet one:
Oh, I almost forgot-Susanna & I did get to Before Five In a Row during one of the baby's naps. We're "rowing" Blueberries for Sal and it was so much fun! I had blueberries that were just for her and a tin pail. She enjoyed dropping them in and saying "kuplink, kuplank, kuplunk." We did counting with the blueberries and then we ate them.
I know we said we took off today, but what we all did was so much fun, it didn't feel like schooling. And Hannah did her math when she didn't have to because she loves Teaching Textbooks so much. I tell you what-I could be a spokesperson for them! LOL |
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