How very sad that she doesn't understand that J is your child...How can she not know this, am I missing something?
*sigh* how frustrating this must be fore you all....
You are in my prayers, Dawn!

You aren't missing anything. I spoke to the caseworker and apparently Bmom has asked HER the same question several times as well. Caseworker explains it out everytime. Maybe she's like a little kid who thinks 'maybe if I keep asking they'll give in sometime.' I just don't know.

Wow ... good for you for posting so quickly.