Pondhaven
Jan. 10, 2008

One More Thing about the Accidents

I wondered when my husband bought those cars. Sure, he got them at an auction and consequently got a great deal, but what does a kid need that kind of car for? Shouldn't they drive a clunker?

In case anyone is wondering, both accidents were in Chevy S-10 Blazers. My husband had a GMC Jimmy for years--same car. We found a Jimmy at an auction right after my son's accident, and we'll be watching for another Jimmy or Blazer. As my husband says, "We crash tested two of them in the last month!" and "Things can be replaced, people can't."

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Dear God,

Thank You for giving my husband wisdom in this area, and for directing him to the right vehicles.

Thank You for the ordeals my children have been through, and for preserving them through bad weather and inexperience.

Thank You that my husband was able to get to my son within a short time of his accident here in town.

Thank You that my daughter was not alone out in the country, two hours from home. And thank You that my husband hadn't left for work yet, and my other children were able to get home quickly, so we could all go on short notice. Thank You that the parents of the twins who were riding with my daughter were also able to get there shortly after we arrived.

Thank You for all five of my children, for each trial they will traverse, for Your love for each one. Thank You for the calling You have placed on each one. Help me to be patient as You carry them through trials, or fears, or doubt. May each adversity only make them stronger and more tenacious. Lead them to truly be Christ followers.

Amen
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Jan. 10, 2008

Gratitude II

Have I mentioned being grateful recently? Oh, that's right, I did. Shortly after my son's accident on December 9, 2007. In case you didn't read that blog, it detailed the accident that totalled his car.

I'm grateful again. Always, I hope, but this week again that gratitude is bursting within me.

On Monday, January 7, my 18 year-old daughter was driving back to school after Christmas break. She was in 4-wheel drive and had studded snow tires. The car hit a patch of slush and slid right. She corrected and it slid left across the on-coming lane, into a ditch, rolled, and finally righted itself. All three passengers walked away unharmed.

Well, they didn't exactly walk away. Rescue workers arrived at the scene to find the girls still strapped in. Because all had bumped their heads against the ceiling during the roll, they were strongly urged to go to the hospital to be checked out. They were then strapped to gourneys with neck braces on and taken by ambulance. The hospital found no injury, but counselled that they should expect headaches and stiffness for 72 hours. The next morning, all awoke rested, never having had any pain or stiffness.

Truthfully, there were two injuries from the accident. My daughter received a miniscule scratch on her finger after the accident, as she picked pieces of glass off her lap. And the car? It's a goner.

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Again, dear Lord, you have proven Yourself faithful as I open my hand and allow You to carry my children. I know they must face challenges as You grow them, but I am so thankful that physical injury was not the medium of that challenge at this time. Thank You, that again, had You taken her, she was ready to meet You. And thank You for the call You placed on her life before she was born, the work yet to be completed. Carry her through this semester, as You did the last. Work in her and through her as she shines her light on campus. Amen.

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Dec. 12, 2007

Gratitude

Gratitude is what a mother feels when she hears her 17-year-old son has been involved in an accident and walked away without a scratch.

Gratitude is what she feels when she hears someone in a neighboring trailer park vaulted a fence within 10 seconds of the crash to make sure her son was okay and offer him a pair of gloves to wear while he waited.

Gratitude is what that mother feels when she learns the car slide out of control on a patch of ice and careened into a power pole--and that the pole was designed with sheer-off bolts, so it gave way rather than stopping her son's car short.

Gratitude is what she feels when she learns the combination of hitting the pole, spinning, flipping on to the driver's side, and righting of the car resulted in the insurance company considering the vehicle totaled...

...but no airbags deployed...
and did I mention the boy didn't have a single scratch, ache, or pain?

I am that mom.

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Thank You, Lord God, for Your mercy and protection over my son. Thank You that the only damage was to stuff. Thank  You that, if we had lost him, he was ready to go. Thank You that You have preserved him for a future and a hope. You are so good!

Amen
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Apr. 20, 2007

Rites of Passage, and Never Say, "Never!"

April 19, 2007: It was an exciting day at our house. Our oldest reached legal majority and our youngest hit double digits. My husband discovered, "I'll never have a child in single digits again!" I told him to watch his tongue with the "nevers"; God has a sense of humor and a surprising tendency to turn nevers on their ear!

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Dear Father,

Thank You for each of our five children. Thank You for my daughter who is the same person she was last week, yet in the eyes of the outside world she is different. Thank You that her heart is after You. Keep her, protect her, continue to woo her as she begins to take her first steps into adulthood.

Thank You, too, for my baby. Born on his sister's eighth birthday, so tiny as he squinted his eyes against the daylight. Now, ten years old. Draw, draw, draw his heart to You. I know he has chosen You. Help him to a deeper understanding, a stronger commitment.

Amen
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Apr. 20, 2007

Spring at Pondhaven

How do you know when it is spring? Oh, I don't mean when does the calendar indicate spring is officially here. Rather, what speaks spring to your spirit?

For me, it is a sense that begins creeping in around mid-February. A few days of late winter sunshine and I get the gardening bug. As the days progress, sliding in and out of rain, wind, sunshine, and widely varying temperatures, my heart longs to be outdoors in the soil and fresh air.

Before I know it, every time I travel through town I am greeted by the cheerful, carefree, bobbing yellow branches of forsythia bushes. Soon to follow are an assortment of flowering fruit trees, and of course the sweet scent of lilacs.

Have you ever planted bulbs in January? The ones I purchased last fall as a first step to landscaping our new place should have gone in the ground in October. However, life's little interruptions were in full swing, and it was December before I got started. Several sessions reaching into early March, including some where I was chipping away at frozen dirt, and I could finally say I was finished. But would anything come of it? They were planted under such adverse conditions. How exciting when the first spears began pushing through the earth, and what a thrill when blossoms appeared!

Now that spring is "officially" here, I have relished the opportunity to be outside, soaking it all in. Last year, we heaped soil in two long beds, planted everything I could think of, then left it all to the mercies of the irrigation system while we went on a 5 week whirlwind tour of the U.S. This year, my husband blessed me with the raised-bed garden of my dreams. We've spent weeks deepening the pond, hauling railroad ties, setting up the boxes, filling them with the dirt from the pond, augmenting, fertilizing, and planting. The result is not just a functional garden, but what will develop into a truly beautiful and restful place to work or relax.

During that process, God's blessing has taken my breath away! Hearing the songbirds, being immersed in the glow of the sunset, dazzled by the intensity of the rainbow. Then one day the mallards returned. There was no water yet at Pondhaven, but still they came, the drake and the female, gracefully alighting in the pond bed. Soon after, they lifted off, circled around the house, and were gone. They will be back soon.

I asked my son the same question, "
How do you know when it is spring?" Without hesitation he joyfully replied, "When the pond starts filling!"

Spring came to Pondhaven today.

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Thank You, Lord Jesus, for new life each spring. Thank You that, even as You designed the world around me to reawaken, I am called to reawaken in You.

Thank You for the labors of my family. Thank You for all the days to come, as my children grow, launch out on their own, and for each return visit. Thank You that they will see the result of their travail, remember the work we did together, and be blessed. May this home always be a haven to all who pass our way.

Amen
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Nov. 30, 2006

Autumn

Life this autumn has flowed quickly. Consequently, it has been nearly three months since I wrote.

Do you ever feel your homeschool journey would be more enjoyable if...? Educational pursuits are both a joy and a thorn for us. It seems we always struggle with lack of schedule. Between my dear husband's work hours and the public school schedule of the older children this is unavoidable. Often finding the portion of time I need to have by myself each day means staying up very late after being up early to see the older ones off. How do you spell "Sleep deprivation!?" We have also found many character-building opportunities trying to keep children from banging, bumping, yelling, arguing, laughing out loud, dropping toilet seats, slamming doors, etc.--basically staying quiet-- so Daddy can sleep. It's amazing how fast someone sleeping can become a foreign idea to an active child.

On the up side, we just completed Dorian Holt's unit study, A World of Adventure (AWOA). Designed to take one year, we stretched it out over nearly 3 1/2 years (Don't ask. Lots of interruptions, and several educational goose trails!--actually, two years is not at all uncommon.). We are now starting A New World of Adventure (ANWOA). The first read-aloud is Armstrong Sperry's Call it Courage, and this term's science is entemology--yea bugs! After spending time in Ancient Egypt, Greece and Rome, the Middle Ages, Renaissance and Reformation, and Age of Exploration, we will now focus on the Americas.

Another up side of our homeschool is that my boys are finally learning to read. My three older children (g17, b16, g13) are avid readers. The 16 year old didn't like reading instruction. I quit trying part way through 1st grade when he really bogged down. He did like his phonics program, so we continued that. In late second grade I found him on his bed reading something, so I knew it was time and we picked reading up again. My two younger sons, now 11 and 9, were much slower to catch on. Over the summer, my 9 year old finally took off. He still spends time each day reading to me, but he will also read on his own and is gaining rapidly in fluency. He has passed my 11 year old son. However, the 11 year old is also finally gaining some fluency. He doesn't enjoy reading yet, I don't find him with his nose in an unassigned book, but he doesn't balk about doing his part when we are reading the Bible, he reads directions for himself on food or toy packaging (mostly), and he is gaining self-confidence as he sees more and more success.

The problem with delayed readers is finding materials at their reading level that interest them. Most easier material seems babyish. However, we did just stumble on a series my boy and I are enjoying reading together: Adam Sharp. We get these books at our public library. Adam Sharp is an 8 year old secret agent. He gets called out of class by the "Gifted and Talented teacher." There is no G and T program at his school; it is a cover for IM-8, the agency for which this Bond-like character works. The books are 6 chapters long and on about a second-grade reading level.

This is the song that never ends. There is always more to write about. However, with drooping eyes (it IS after 1:00a.m.) I must sign off.

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Dear God,

Thank you for my husband and each child you have entrusted to my care. Please help me be a better wife, and a better mom to each of my brood. You know their needs; help me to sort those out from all the noisy wants and desires. Help me to bless each member of my family all day.

In Christ's name,
Sharron

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Sep. 6, 2006

TWEM: Chapter 3

The Well-Educated Mind
by Susan Wise Bauer
Chapter 3 "Keeping a Journal: A Written Record of New Ideas"

Theme repeated from first two chapters and from Adler: Reading for pleasure (or merely for information) requires a different approach than truly reading--ingesting--the classics.

Bauer notes her ability to rapidly consume mystery novels while still processing the other events of her day. She reads Agatha Christie in the same way I read Elizabeth Peters, Robert Jordan, or a host of children's series authors.

(p. 35)
Bauer writes:
When we sit in front of Plato or Shakespeare or Conrad, "simply reading" isn't enough. We must learn to fix our minds, to organize our reading so that we are able to retain the skeleton of the ideas that pass before our eyes. We must not simply read, Isaac Watts tells us, but "meditate and study," an act that "transfers and conveys the notions and sentiments of others to ourselves, so as to make them properly our own."

My revision of that last line:
"...transfers and conveys the notions and sentiments of others to ourselves, so as to..." ascertain whether or not they should become properly my own. This goes back to comments in chapter two about wide-spread literacy, and equally wide-spread gullability in the face of advertising and mass media. If something is old, considered a classic, read and raved over by many through multiple generations, then I probably need to be familiar with it. However, the above qualifiers don't necessarily mean the "notions and sentiments of others" should become my own. Perhaps I'm nitpicking here about semantics, but that phrase sent up red flags. (Note added later: Chapter 4 does finally address judgement of  appropriateness of material.)

Bauer recommends keeping a journal "to organize your thoughts about your reading. What we write, we remember...."
That's me. Copious note taker. The writing fixes it for me--rarely have to re-study, just a quick scan through notes.

(pp 35-36)
Journaling--now carries personal connotation--how do you feel about ____? "...a subjective, intensively inward-focused collection of thoughts and musings."
Used to be collection of quotations--usually with no commentary or interpretation by the owner. Just copy work to help owner remember. Called "Commonplace Book."
Some were expanded--self-education best follows this form. In addition to quotes, owner recorded throughout the day snippets of responses and original writing.

(p. 36)
3-part process for reading:

1. Write out quotes as they stand out while reading.

2. after reading, sumarize briefly.

3. "[W]rite your own reactions, questions, and thoughts."

Connects objective and subjective learning. (I used to do this with Bible study. Need to start again!)

    "Education is that process by which thought is opened
    out of the soul, and associated with outward...things,
    is reflected back upon itself, and thus made conscious of
    its reality and shape. It is Self-Realization .... He who is
    seeking to know himself, should be ever seeking himself
    in external things, and by so doing will he be best able to
    find, and explore his inmost light."
                                        --Bronson Alcott, 1834 journal

(p. 36)
"The goal of classical self-education is this: not merely to 'stuff' facts into your head, but to understand them." We haven't really learned if we have just accumulated facts. The goal of classical self-education is to process that information --digest it.
Although Bauer didn't use the word "digest" on this page of the book, when I used it in my notes, I got a mental picture. Just having the book, or even quickly scanning for information is like going through a salad bar and dishing up an appetizing and eye-pleasing collection--and never eating it. It looks so lovely, but there is no benefit. You have to eat it to absorb the nutrition. You can bolt it just to get the nutritional benefit, but it is much more enjoyable if you take time to savor the flavors and textures.
To continue the metaphor, in savoring it slowly, you don't take as much in one sitting--you feel full before consuming as much as you would when bolting. Likewise, in truly reading you don't consume as much material as you would when quickly reading--or only scanning--for information.
Could the metaphor continue still? As bolting our food leads to overeating, does bolting information for pleasure reading alone give us "brain fat"? Instead of nourishing the intellect, making us mentally lean and strong, perhaps brain fat makes us intellectually flabby.
That is not to say we should never read for pleasure. Rather, everything in moderation.

(p. 37)
Bauer quotes Lydia Sigourney (19th century educator, as per p. 21 TWEM), saying she recommends summarizing often. The quote then suggests weekly.
That doesn't seem particularly often to me. That would seem to be journaling of another sort. The first being journaling as you read, including direct quotes, reflections on them, summaries, and original writing. This second kind of journaling would seem rather a mental revisiting of the first, a review over time. Both seem appropriate. After all, "Repetition is an aid to memory," according to a sermon delivered by Pastor Ted Buck in Boise, Idaho in the early 1980's. He said that several times that morning. It has been with me ever since.
Sigourney stresses that, rather than verbatim copy work, the journal should hold summaries of the original "correctly and clearly in your own language."

(pp. 37-39)
E.M. Forster's commonplace book demonstrates well the concepts of reading, quoting, summarizing, and reflecting.

(p. 39)
In one paragraph, mid-page, Bauer shares the variety of uses Thomas Merton had for his commonplace book, titled The Asian Journal.

"Classical self-education demands that you understand evaluate, and react to ideas. In your journal, you will record your own summaries of your reading; this is your tool for understanding the ideas you read. This -- the mastery of facts-- is the first stage of classical education."
                                        --Bauer

1st Step--Chapter 1--regular time to read and study.
2nd Step--Chapter 2--practice the mechanics of reading
Now...
(pp. 39-40)
3rd Step--Chapter 3--practice taking notes and then summarizing.
    1. Invest in a journal (Got it!)
    2. Keep to a schedule of reading 4 times/week (Ouch! Don't got it!)
       Guidelines:
       a) Record title of chapter, then read chapter without                    stopping. Okay to write out particular quotes.
       b) Notice major sections of chapter. After reading the 1st            time, go back and summarize each section in one                    paragraph each. "What is the most improtant point
           that the writer makes in this section? If I could                      remember only one thing from this section, what would            it be? Now what else does the writer tell me about
           this important point that I'd like to remember:" Leave            WIDE margins (2-3 inches)
       c) When done with chapter, re-read summaries, recording            reactions in the margins--change of color helpful.
Note to self: I would like to use 3 colors:
    black or blue for summaries
    red for quotes
    green or purple for reactions.


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Aug. 16, 2006

TWEM: Chapter 2


TWEM: Chapter 2
Wrestling with Books: The Act of Reading

I found the second chapter interesting; however, I'm not going to leave a lot of notes on it. It seemed to mainly focus on two things.

1) Helping readers determine how prepared they are to read the classics and offer suggestions for skill remediation if it is needed.

2) Defining the difference between reading for basic information and really reading for content. I enjoyed the quote on page 27:

"The serious reader is not attempting to assimilate a huge quantity of information as quickly as possible, but to understand a few many-sided and elusive ideas. The speed ethic shouldn't be transplanted into an endeavor that is governed by very different ideals."

And with that, I'm going to speed on into chapter 3!

Sharron

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Dear God,

Thank You for the things You have brought me through that have given me a good foundation for this study. Please be with my fellow learners, especially those who may have felt some despair at this chapter and the thought of the work of reading plus the extra work of remediation. Help each one who finds his- or herself in that position to take heart and stick to it until they begin to see the harvest of benefit.

Amen
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Aug. 14, 2006

TWEM: Chapter 1

The Great Books Reading Partnership is now proceeding through Susan Wise Bauer's The Well-Educated Mind. See http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/ClassicalMamma to find out more or to join.

I started with the Partnership when they were reading Adler's How to Read a Book. Preparing for our U.S. road trip, the trip itself, family life, and other less noble distractions prevented me from completing that study. I hope to finish it someday. However, when I returned from the trip, I found them just beginning TWEM. So I'm now joining them for that read.

The Well-Educated Mind
Chapter 1
"Training Your Own Mind: The Classical Education You Never Had"

As I am late posting, and as other members have already left great notes on this chapter, I'll try to hit some different thoughts.

Bauer opens with a quote from William Dean Howells that says, in part, "All civilization comes through literature now, especially in our country...." No one challenged this, perhaps because as a group we are all focused on reading, or perhaps because we are still buying the school-taught notion of not questioning the teacher.

I understand the intent of the quote, and it is an appropriate introduction to Bauer's text. I agree with it in principle. However, there is far more to civilization than just the printed word. Although "literature" can mean more than just written material, that does seem to be the intended connotation here.

In this exerpt, Howells does not define "civilization." I assume it to mean  all that lifts us up and unites us as people--past, present, and future. Or something lofty like that. This would include noble expressions of human thought and creativity. I would simply say "culture" if that word had not come to include a somewhat less noble connotation.

Other sources of "civilization" include: Internet, documentaries,
travel, live theatre and concerts, museums, observation, and conversation, to name a few. Some may argue that attending a performance of Shakespeare is not a very full experience unless you know the history behind it and are familiar with the language. But only reading the play in a book is a flat view. It is best to both read to prepare and then actually experience.

Granted, no one can actually travel to see everything that is worthwhile to see. But it is important to add to reading seeing live what you can, and seeing the rest through someone's sound or video recording.

That said, my other thought during the opening quote is right out of popular culture. I pictured Dr. McCoy giving Captain Kirk an ancient pair of wire-rim specs
(I think that was how it happened?), so he could more easily read his antiquated printed books.

Bauer's discussion of graduate school versus self-education hit home--I read it shortly after doing some research on scholarships for grad school. I arrived at a list of pro's and con's of self-education.

Pro's:
You can study what you want to, not what the professor decides.

You can study it for as long as you want to before moving on--no artificial syllabus to follow (Unless you are a member of the GBRP ~G~).

You don't have to divide your time for intense study between  several subjects at once.

It's cheaper--free at the library, low cost at used stores and garage sales, and
even if you have to buy new it is still far less expensive than a university.

Con's (Well, not con's exactly. Rather, reasons to still get a formal education in addition to self-education):

It's difficult to become a doctor without formal education. Or a lawyer, or a CPA, or.... Reality is that for some callings you have to jump through the hoops to get--and keep--the certification.

Some areas of interest become prohibitively expensive to pursue on your own. You may have to go through a university to get your hands on that huge telescope, awesome laboratory set up, etc.

Finding a group of like-minded people to discuss things with may be easier in a scholastic setting. GBRP is a wonderful outlet, but even a chatroom gathering isn't the same as sitting down and discussing face to face.

Page 18: "Secondary schools don't typically train us how to read seriously, how to study."

This was certainly true for me. Although I attended what were supposedly challenging classes in high school and college, I don't think I ever deeply studied a piece of literature. I do recall the discomfort I felt at marking up a book. I was taught young to mark my Bible, but was also taught young that in all other regards we don't write in books. I remember a beloved college English prof. who shared how she was always thrilled to get a book that someone else had read and notated. She enjoyed the mental conversation with that person as she read the text, read their notes, and responded to both with notes of her own.

My daughter, now a senior at the local public high school (that decision is another story for another time), has had quite another experience. She has been taking honors and IB courses. Here junior English class really tore into what they were reading. They did close reads on selected poems and passages from longer works. Tests included evaluations of literary selections. Part of her grade was based on how she marked up the books they were reading. It was a very good experience, and she is well on her way to learning to read.

"...not every book is worthy of serious attention. (p. 18)"

This is a relief. I sometimes feel irritated with myself about how fast I race through historical fiction; I must be missing so much, but the story propels me on! But it's okay to only taste some books. However, even then, some deeper process takes place over time as I find myself remembering and reprocessing sections of the story, seeking out plot holes, etc.

"...[T]he habit of leaping directly to the rhetoric stage can prevent even mature minds from learning how to read properly...Like badly taught six-year-olds, we are too quick to go straight to opinion making without the itermediate steps of understanding and evaluation. (p. 19)"

Guilty! It is much easier to read or listen lightly, then go on to form and express opinions. It is much harder to put off forming those opinions until all the information is in, pondered, chewed, looked at from different angles, and then finally conciously decided before being expressed.

Isaac Watts: "Engage not the mind in the pursuit of too many things at once.... (p. 20)"

This one I find difficult. On the one hand, I dream of a brief time of retreat; time to read, rest, think, and ponder, without all the distractions of daily life. On the other hand, I find there is a need inside of me to do a variety of things with intensity, always seeming to believe I could handle just one more thing.

Life should be found somewhere in the middle. It isn't practical to think a mother could--or should-- truly only engage her mind in one thing. Although it doesn't take deep thought to change a diaper, do a load of laundry, or put a bandaid on a knee, it does take deep thought to deal with grief, to help a child through a difficult friendship, plan and implement the education of multiple children, and fulfill whatever one's calling may be in setting the example of service to church and community. However, it is wise to prayerfully consider the load, include Bible study and subject study, and determine what the priorities of the time period should be.

When to read?

This has always been a quandry for me. Morning seems reasonable, yet I am a night person. But even then, there seems to be no consistency. At the time of my life where I find myself now, often at the mercy of my husband's changeable work schedule and with the increasing demands of outside activities as my children near adulthood, regular hours of sleep and study seem nearly impossible.

Yet, reading isn't really the problem. I'm an avid reader and nearly always carry something around with me to read. For me, the harder part is finding time to write around daily life and inevitable interruptions. For instance, I started this narrative 10 days ago, thinking I would just jot a few quick notes and move on to the next chapter. Oh well! At this point, I still hope to read in the morning, or maybe I'll read chapter two tonight, then try to write again in the morning. Either way, first I have to go save the porch furniture from the wind!

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Dear Lord,

Thank You for the opportunity to delve deeper. Help me to redeem my time in a way that is pleasing to You, ordering my days to rightly care for my family, studying Your Word, and still making space to continue educating myself. Thank You that You created me with a hunger to learn. I desire to pursue that hunger in ways that bring You glory.

Amen
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Jul. 30, 2006

Lessons from Tackweed


What I've Learned About Tackweed
OR
How Tackweed is Like Sin


What a pretty little plant! Low growing, spreading a mat of tiny, bright green leaves punctuated by small yellow flowers, and--ouch!! Speaking of punctuated!

Tackweed, puncture vine, Mexican sandbur, goathead thorns, bullhead, Texas sandbur. By any name, it is a scourge to barefeet and bicycle tires and potentially dangerous to livestock.* (Several symbols are used as footnote markers. Sorry! No superscript available.)

I've learned a lot about and from tackweed. My first encounter was outside a fenced yard in a dirt driveway in Ontario, Oregon. We learned there to carry the kids' bikes to a nearby parking lot and to never walk outside the yard in bare feet. We also learned it is almost impossible to eradicate. Then we moved to Tri-Cities, Washington. Good! Perhaps we left those goathead thorns behind forever. But not a chance. They are as persistent here as in Oregon.

How Tackweed is Like Sin

1. Tackweed is cute on the surface, but ugly underneath.
Isn't that like sin? We don't go out, see a sin for what it is, and then say, "Oh, I want to do that ugly thing." Sin is attractive on the surface. Only after we wade in do we realize the harm that is lurking there.

2. Tackweed spreads.
Sin doesn't stay in one small place, either. Like tackweed, it reaches its branches, enlarging its territory, intertwining itself in other parts of your life, enlarging the area into which it will drop its seed.

3. Tackweed only propagates by seed, but the seeds remain viable for years.
Sin propagates by seed, also. That's how negative peer pressure works. Someone else can't sin for you; but they can certainly plant the seeds of temptation in your life.
AND even when you overcome a sin, residual seed from that sin  lurks in the soil of your life for a long time, waiting and tempting you to allow it to spring to life again.

4. It IS possible to overcome tackweed!
And it IS possible to overcome sin! Of course, the best way to overcome tackweed or sin is to never let them take root in the first place. But working to overcome them is the point I am at in my own life.

My Tackweed Story

Once upon a time (last summer, actually),
there was a girl (hm., I was actually in my '40's, but still feel like a girl inside!),
who bought a piece of land.
She dreamed of the home that would be built there,
and envisioned lush and lovely gardens and pastures.

Then she found tackweed.

But it wasn't too bad. Only along the edge of the property, near the main road. So, she came out one beautiful morning in late summer (Wow! The excavator was breaking ground when I arrived--how exciting!),
gloves and garbage bag in hand (one of those white plastic shopping bags from any shopping experience),
and determined to wipe out the small infestation before it took hold too strongly.


She carefully gathered up the few plants she found, smugly confident that she had done a good job of it. As she walked farther along the roadway, she came to the neighboring property--purchased but still vacant, and alas! She discovered tackweed there, too. Being a good neighbor (Well, partly, but also because I didn't want a neighbor's infestation to get back into my carefully cleared lot),
she proceeded to pull that, too...
Until she pulled her back, landed in bed for a day or two, and had to hobble around for a week!

ASIDE
Now, granted, I could just as easily have hurt myself pulling my own tackweed, but the fact that I injured my back on my neighbor's property adds well to my comparison. How many times do we hurt outselves trying to pull sin out of our neighbor? There are times when God's Spirit urges us to say the right words or in some way be His instrument in reaching our neighbor, but God gave each of us free will. He will never forcefully pull sin out of us, unless we give Him permission to do the surgery, and if He won't do it Himself, how much less is it my job! Besides, I have enough work just trying to exterminate the sin that creeps into my own life! **

Back to the Story

A blissful year passed. The girl moved into her new home, began to cultivate her garden, and saw no new tackweed plants along the road. Then she went on vacation and left her land to its own devices. When she returned, where no tackweed had been there was now a huge forest! (Well, if 1/2 inch tall plants carpeting an 8' x 10' area can be called a forest).
Mindful of her back (and the 100 plus degree temperatures),
the girl carefully removed the new infestation, filling a large black yard-and-garden garbage bag (note the need for a MUCH larger container this time!).
She also carefully wiped the thorny seeds from her shoes and into the garbage bag each time she brought more plants to it. Multiple weeding sessions later, she finally had conquered the new growth. She knew there was still seed out there, and she would have to keep at it as it emerged, but at least...wait a minute...what is that? Ugh! More tackweed plants!


ASIDE
Sin, like tackweed, comes back year after year from the seed that is left behind. Both are also tricky. Because tackweed is low to the ground, it sometimes hides under other plants, blends in, and is hard to see until it becomes a big problem. Hm, sounds familiar. How does your "besetting sin" camouflage itself? ***

Today, the girl looks forward to several more sessions of weeding tackweed from the roadside. She recently received good advice from friends who have fought long and hard in the tackweed war.

ADVICE FROM FRIENDS ABOUT REMOVING TACKWEED:

1. Work together. Rather than just trying to pull it alone, work together to dislodge and bag it. **** It helps to work together in weeding out sin, too. Invite a friend to help hold you accountable, to distract you at times of greatest temptation, to help you get back up when you fall. And God Himself provides the third strand in the rope!

2. Be persistent. Seed is viable for years--I've heard 5 and 7 years. You can't give up after the first pulling. Even as perseverance pays off in the horticultural world, so in the spiritual world. /*/

3. A general herbicide, like Round-up, works if you spray when the plants are young and use several applications over time to keep the plants down before they go to seed. Catching temptation before it becomes sin is important, too. */*

And my final observation:
Catch tackweed--and temptation--before it takes root. If it gets to the point that you have to use Round-up, you may go through a barren time--Round-up is no respector and kills everything. Broad measures to exterminate rampant sin in your life may leave consequences that separate you from
ministry opportunities, people, or things that are dear to you. */*/*

*******

Dear Father,

Thank you for tackweed and the illustration it gives me of the effect of sin in my life. Help me to keep the seeds out whenever possible. When seeds make their way to the fertile soil of my heart, help me to be diligent in spraying them with the precious Blood of the Lamb, that they might never grow to bear fruit or drop seed in my heart.

Amen

*******
Footnotes:

* For pictures and a more thorough description of history, habitat, and control of tackweed, check out http://www.agdepartment.com/noxiousweeds/pdf/Puncturevine.pdf. I'll also add that as a link in my sidebar--can't seem to get links to appear in my text.

**Matthew 7:1-5
   "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
    "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye."

*** For more one besetting sin, see Oswald J. Smith's The Man God Uses.

****
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
  Two are better than one,
    because they have a good return for their work;
  If one falls down,
    his friend can help him up.
  But pity the man who falls
    and has no one to help him up!
  Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
    But how can one keep warm alone?
  Though one may be overpowered,
    two can defend themselves.
  A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

/*/ J
ames 1:12
    Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.

*/* James 1:14-15
...but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.

*/*/* 1 Corinthians 10:12-13
So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful that you don't fall! No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.

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Jul. 25, 2006

U.S. Trip: Ain't bug bites fun?!

During the trip, I had trouble with bug bites a couple of times. In the Washington, D.C. area, I had bites all around my ankles. They itched, but I was able to stand it by wearing low socks that didn't rub on them, and applying an Aveeno cream.


But the worst was Texarkana, TX. I didn’t see what got me. I was trying to keep up our travel blog, working late into the night at an outdoor picnic table. At first I thought they were just the old bites itching. Then I noticed a few pricks higher up. The next day I had many marks on my skin, but not much irritation. HOWEVER, over the next few days they became very itchy, grew larger, and became inflamed with heat–translation: every time we got out of the car!


I finally counted: below the knee, on my right leg alone, I found 53 bites! The other leg was comparable. Both had fewer above the knee, and I only had two or three on my arms.


I tried a couple of topical aids, but what helped me the most was simply a wet wash cloth. Because we were in the car, I could keep cool air flowing by. When I started to itch, I gently swabbed my legs with the wet cloth. But when we stepped out of the car and back into the 100 degree heat I was pretty scary-looking!


I’m fine now, except for the slight scarring, which I believe will continue to fade until no longer visible. But I'm definitely going to remember the wet wash cloth treatment: no drugs, no cost, just ahhh! Relief!


*******


Dear merciful Father,


I know that my troubles have been so light and momentary. How much worse it was for Job! I'm not sure why You created biting/stinging insects, but I know they serve a purpose in Your over all plan. But, Lord, what did they eat in the Garden?


Amen

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Jul. 25, 2006

Texarkana to home! With a few stops in between.

Posted in USA Tour
Thank you to all who have been following our progress as we travelled around the country. Our travel blog is still available at www.mytripjournal.com/herringfamily . I'm not sure how much longer it will be up, but at least a couple of weeks.

Since I last wrote, we:

* Had our longest travel day: 914 miles from Texarkana, TX, to just north of Albuquerque, NM.

* Went to Mesa Verde in Colorado and saw the cliff dwellings.

*  Stopped by Four Corners, where Colorado, Utah, New Mexico, and Arizona meet.

* Were amazed by the Grand Canyon: Average width is 10 miles, depth 5000 feet.

* Passed through Las Vegas--seen enough!

* Went to Legoland in Carlsbad, CA.

* Visited family in northern California.

* Got home at 11:00 Saturday night.

* Tremendously enjoyed being back in church Sunday morning.

* Restarted life with an exciting stream of teenagers visiting us--we love them all!!!

*******

Dear Lord,

Thank You for being with us the entire trip.
 
Thank You for only one close call in traffic, and for Your intervening hand that opened the path of safety.
 
Thank You that we had so much concentrated time with our children. Help all of us to maintain that closeness as we begin to scatter back to normal activities.
 
Thank You that I still get to teach three of them at home this year. Help me to do so in the manner You know is best for each of them.

I am so grateful!

Amen

The final memory verse of the trip: Proverbs 17:14
"Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam, so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out."

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Jul. 13, 2006

And miles to go.... Washington, D.C. to Texarkana, Texas

Posted in USA Tour

Check out updated posts and loads of pictures from our U.S. trip: www.mytripjournal.com/herringfamily.

Since my last post here on homeschool blogger, we have travelled from D.C. through Virginia, West Virginia, Kentucky, Tennesee, North Carolina, South Carolina, Georgia, Florida, Disney World, hit our farthest point from home at Kennedy Space Center, finally headed back west through more of Florida, Alabama, Mississippi, Louisiana, and we are now at Texarkana, Texas.

Thanks to all who have checked in! Please feel free to leave a message when viewing the site.

*******

Lord, You have been so good to us. Thank You for good shelter through the many thunder and rain storms we have passed through. Thank You for Your guiding hand that saved us from a freeway pile up today. Thank You for the many precious people we have met along the way. Truly, You are good! Amen

This week's verse: Proverbs 11:12

"A man who lacks judgement derides his neighbor, but a man of understanding holds his tongue."


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Jul. 4, 2006

USA Tour: Portland, ME to Washington D.C.

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Our travel blog pictures are updated through New York City. More text and pictures to come soon.
www.mytripjournal.com (Sorry--still can't add link)

Since we left Portsmouth, Maine, we:

July 1
* Drove south through Massachusetts--including through a tunnel under part of Boston, through Rhode Island, across southern Connecticut, and into New York City for a couple hours before returning "home" to the trailer in Newburgh, NY.

July 2
* Attended church, had bagels, and headed back into New York City for another partial day, including a ride on the subway.

July 3
* Drove from Newburgh, NY to Millersville, Maryland, near Washington D.C., where we will stay until Friday.

*******

Thank you, Lord, for rest this morning, and whatever celebration you may lead us to tonight, as we recognize this, the 230th anniversary of our country.

Amen

This week's verse: Proverbs 27:14:
"If a man loudly blesses his neighbor early in the morning,
     it will be taken as a curse."

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Jul. 1, 2006

USA Tour: St. Louis, MO to Portland, ME

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Check our travel blog for pictures from our trip: www.mytraveljournal.com/herringfamily.  Sorry, I've tried adding a link, but it doesn't seem to be taking. May have to cut and paste.

Since last posting on June 23, we have:

* Seen the Gateway Arch and had a great day of recreation at Six Flags in St. Louis, Missouri.

* Survived an awesome thunderstorm with torrential rains and some hail thrown in while traveling through Illinois.

* Visited our niece in the Chicago area and taken a brief jaunt into Wisconsin.

*Passed through a lot of beautiful country through Indiana, Ohio, and Pennsylvania on our way between Chicago and Buffalo, NY.

*Seen Niagara Falls at night--be sure to check out the pics on our travel blog.

* Been stranded by the flooding in New York. We spent the night in an abandoned K-Mart parking lot in Sydney, NY, with several other RV'ers and trucks.

* Escaped the flood area by going south through Pennsylvania to get to Newburgh, NY.

* Taken a car trip (left the trailer behind) up to Portland, ME, where we had a lobster dinner outside.

* Stayed the night in historic Portsmouth, New Hampshire, incorporated in 1620.

If all goes according to plan, we will return to Newburgh, NY tonight, see New York City tomorrow (Sunday), then move on to Washington D.C. for a few days over the 4th.

*******

Dear Jesus,

First I want to lift up the families who have been affected by the flooding in New York. We expect trouble with earthquakes, tornados, hurricanes, and other sudden natural disasters. It baffles us to find ourselves in danger simply from several days of rain. Please grant peace to those who have lost homes or belongings, aid those who don't know how to carry on, bless those who have worked to provide for those needs, protect those who have been injured.

I am grateful, Lord, that so few lives have been lost, but I pray Your special comfort to the families of the two truck drivers who died when the road washed out ahead of them and the young man on his way to work in the dark who died when he didn't see the damage to the road. Please also comfort the families of any others who may have died since, or in other areas we did not get news from.

Thank You, Father, for our safety. And thank You for the bonding time with our family. We are gathering a great store of collective memories.

Be with us as we continue. Help us to arrive at every appointment You have set for us, whether or not we make it to any of the ones we have.

Amen

This week's verse is Proverbs 26:17:
"Like one who siezes a dog by the ears is a passer-by who meddles in a quarrel not his own."


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Jun. 23, 2006

U.S. Trip update

Posted in USA Tour

Hello again!

My last update ended as we were preparing to enter Yellowstone National Park. Since then we have:

* Quickly toured Yellowstone, with stops at the Paint
   Pots and Old Faithful,
* Driven across Wyoming (inc. Devil's Tower),
* Across South Dakota (Mt. Rushmore),
* Into Minnesota and back,
* Through Iowa with a side trip into Nebraska,
* Into Missouri with a side trip into Kansas,
* And across Missouri.

We are now at a campground outside St. Louis. Tomorrow we go to the Arch and to Six Flags.

Check us out at www.mytripjournal.com/herringfamily

*******

Thank You, Lord, for precious family time. They are growing up so quickly. I treasure this time.

Please be with each of us. We've been out about a week, and everyone is tired and a bit cranky. Help us remember to deal with all the stuff that comes up with love and respect. Thank You for the verse we found in Proverbs 20:3 this week: "It is to a man's honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel."

Help us to be people of honor, oh God, and people who honor You.

Amen


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Jun. 20, 2006

We're on our way!

Posted in USA Tour

We've launched on our trip around the U.S. If you are interested in following our progress, check out our trip blog at 
mytripjournal.com/herringfamily

So far, we've posted messages and pictures about:

Our overnight stay at North Powder, Oregon.
A Father's Day visit with family in the Boise, Idaho area.
A long car day with a terrific stop at Craters of the Moon.

Today, we are on to Yellowstone.

Sharron

*******

Oh, Father, I am so grateful that You have actually brought to pass the dream we have talked about for years. Thank You for this awesome country You have given us, and thank You for this precious dedicated time with our family. We love You!

Amen

 
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Jun. 15, 2006

USA Travel Blog

Posted in USA Tour
Hello everyone!

If you would like to follow our travels as we tour the U.S.A. you are welcome to visit our travel blog:

http://mytripjournal.com/herringfamily

We will try to post at least a couple times each week.

Thank you to all who contributed ideas about places to visit. It only confirms how vast this country is. Five weeks is a long time, but we will barely scratch the surface. Our hope is that our children will get a taste of what is here. They can then decide later as adults what areas they would like to explore further.

We are also looking forward to the bonding time.  We have always been close, but as the children get older and as interests diverge this time of being together is priceless--especially as we look at our oldest graduating next year and our 2nd child the year after that.

Sharron

*******

Dear God,

Thank You for this invaluable opportunity for making memories with our family. Thank You for all the little things about us that allow others to immediately recognize that we are related. And thank You for all the little things about us that make each of us unique. We are grateful that You saw fit to put us together. We invite You to travel with us, as we invite You to be part of all we do.

Amen

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Jun. 9, 2006

Excuses

It has been about two weeks since I've written. I have multiple categories that need new entries. However, this is not likely to be forthcoming. Life has its hectic seasons, and this is one of them.

We are nearing our big trip around the country. Several things need to be accomplished before leaving. The garden is pretty much in and will be left to its own devices and the mercy of the automatic sprinklers for much of the summer. The shed was finished over a month ago, but I'm still finishing up the painting around everything else that has been going on. Word of advice: never try to paint lattice by hand. Invest in a sprayer.

Last weekend we celebrated my daughter's 17th birthday. Her birthday is in April, but a different hectic season was happening then, so this was the soonest we could do it. Twelve wonderful girlfriends got together for the 5-hour version of Pride and Prejudice. We served a salad bar, and everyone had a great time. They are quickly approaching adulthood, and awesome young women they are.

Today we had an end-of-the-school-year party. 25+ high schoolers joined us for a relaxed afternoon of shared food and movies. This is the third year we have done this, and will probably do it for the next 10+ years.

Tomorrow my parents are coming. They haven't been to our new home since it was just an open hay field. My maternal grandparents have been through several serious health trials since December, and my parents and uncle have been sharing the burden of their care. We are so excited that they are able to come for a few days, and pray it will be a restful and regenerative visit.

They leave Monday. The rest of the week will be spent finishing up annual testing, cleaning out the fridge, cleaning the oven, assessing wardrobes, packing, planning meals, running errands, finalizing house sitters and dog sitter, etc., etc. Next Saturday we attend a 2:00 wedding and then get out of town.

Usually I'm a planner. I love researching options and planning the possibilities. However, this year has been so wild with the build, that we've barely thought beyond a basic route for our trip. However, as next fall begins my oldest child's last year of high school, this is the year if the trip is ever going to happen. So,we will be discovering America as we go.

We do want to start a blog and post a couple times a week while travelling. We'll post the link here once we set it up. If you would like to receive notice of posts to our travel blog, or future Pondhaven posts, let me know.

*******

Dear God,

Thank You for the many blessings the busy list above brings to mind.

Thank You that we can finally grow a garden again. I have missed it, and am so enjoying the process of putting it in.

Thank You for each of my children and for every friend they bring home and share with me. Help my relationship with all of them, my own and those we adopt at the door, to grow. Through those relationships may Your light shine from me, leading to those special moments when I can share You.

Thank You that Mom and Dad get to come tomorrow. Help us to BLESS them. They are weary; may they return refreshed.

And thank you for the upcoming trip. We have looked forward to this for so long, yet it always seemed a daydream. It is amazing that it is actually happening. Guide our path. I trust You have several devine appointments along the way. Help us to be where we need to be at the moment we need to be there to take our part in accomplishing Your purpose.

 I am so grateful.

Amen


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May. 26, 2006

1 Peter 3:13-16 NIV

1 Peter 3:13-16 NIV

    Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. "Do not fear what they fear; do not be frightened." But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.

I really want to discuss verse 15b, beginning with, "Always be prepared...." However, let's first examine the context from verses 13-15a.

"Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good?"

    The NIV Study Bible notes that people are not generally harmed for acts of kindness, especially if they are characterized by doing good. This is a comfort. We are often afraid of what people might think, say, or do in response to our words or actions. But we rarely face any actual harmful persecution for kindly sharing assistance or ideas, or in any other way doing good.

"BUT..."

    The word but is used three times in this passage. But, as used in all three, is a conjuction. It conjoins two ideas. Think in terms of conjoined twins; the two babies are inseparable short of major surgery. The two ideas conjoined by the word but are inseparable.

"...even if you should suffer for what is right..."

    The Greek, according to the NIV Study Bible, uses a conditional clause that is the furthest removed from stating a reality, which means this can happen but doesn't most of the time.

"...you are blessed."

    When that suffering does happen, the sufferer receives special blessing for having suffered.

"Do not fear what they fear; do not be frightened."

    Peter is quoting Isaiah here; the passage is found in Isaiah 8:12 and is clarified in verse 13-14a.
 
     Do not call conspiracy
        everything that these people call conspiracy;
     do not fear what they fear,
        and do not dread it.
     The Lord Almighty is the one you are to regard as holy,
        he is the one you are to fear,
        he is the one you are to dread,
     and he will be a sanctuary....

 Peter is writing to believers ("To God's elect, strangers in the world, scattered...." 1 Peter 1:1) who are familiar with Isaiah's writings. By mentioning the quotation, Peter draws their minds to the context of the quote, even as our minds are drawn today by the mention of a familiar line from a song or movie, or better, a familiar scripture. For example, when I write, "They that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength," your mind may automatically supply the next part: "They shall mount up with wings as eagles. They shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint." The mention of the first line brings to mind the content and promise of the larger passage.

"But..."

    There is that word again. But what? What more could Peter link than the reminder inherent in the larger passage--to fear the Lord Almighty?

"...in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord."

    Christ as Lord. Not just the distant Lord Almighty of the Old Testament, who spoke with an elect few while the general populace cowered at a distance, but the living, personal Christ, the One who bore our sorrow and was pierced for our transgressions (Isaiah 53:4-5), the one who became man and walked among us (John 1:14, Philippians 2:6-8). We are to replace fear in our hearts with the Lord Jesus Christ.

    Fear is a difficult thing to overcome. It must be replaced with something. It is like the demon that was cast out, only to return with 7 others more vile than itself (Matthew 12:43-45, Luke 11:24-26), because the heart was empty. So fear returns if it is not banished and replaced. What are we to replace it with? The confidence that Christ is Lord! Lord of my life, Lord of my circumstances, Lord of ALL.

*******
Prayer break:

Wow, Lord! I really just wanted to write about the passage still ahead. However, that little word but was at the beginning, so I felt obligated to examine the context first. I never dreamed you had so much there for me! Thank you!

*******

"Always be prepared to give an answer..."

    Yes, the Holy Spirit will speak through us, will guide us through a difficult encounter, but we must do the spiritual and mental work of preparation. Mentally, this means understanding what we believe and why we believe it.

"...to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have."

    There are times when we are called to go out and preach/teach the Gospel. But many of our best opportunities are when people see the deposit of Christ in us and ask:

    Why do you waste your Sunday mornings going to church?
    Isn't Christianity outdated?
    What do you believe about death?
    What's your opinion of...(insert current event or issue)?
    Don't all paths lead to the same place?
    Don't all religions really worship the same God?
    Why do/don't you...(insert behavior or attitude)?
    What would you do in my circumstances?

    Let's go back to that "Always be prepared..." part again. I recently attended a Josh McDowell "Beyond Belief" conference and was challenged to examine my reasons. Josh shared the 8 most common answers to questions about why we believe. From my notes, they are:

       1. It's what I was taught.
       2. My parents say so.
       3. The church says so.
       4. I learned it in seminary.
       5. I feel it.
       6. I believe it.
       7. I have faith.
       8. It changed my life.

Yet, these answers are not any different than those an adherent to another religion might give. What makes Christianity different?

    McDowell set out as a college student to prove Christianity was false.  His historical research led him to the surprising realization that it must be true, and eventually to a relationship with Jesus. 

    Briefly put, our reason must be the evidences of fulfilled prophecy and the historical accuracy of scripture.

Evidence of Fulfilled Prophecy
    In his writings and in his live presentations, Josh McDowell refers to a particular study. The mathematical probability of even 8 prophecies coming true in one person was caculated by Peter Stoner and Robert Newman and published in their book, Science Speaks. The answer is one in 10 to the 17th power. That is one chance out of 100,000,000,000,000,000, or 1 in 100 quadrillion. Stoner illustrates: it would look like the state of Texas covered in 10 to the 17th power silver dollars; they would be piled two feet deep. Mark one coin, toss it in, and mix it all up. Then blindfold someone and send him out. He may travel anywhere in the state and pick up one coin. Choosing the marked coin is as likely as 8 prophecies being fulfilled in one person. (This paragraph is paraphrased from  my seminar notes and McDowell's  More than a Carpenter, p. 104).

Evidence of Historical Accuracy
    Compared to other ancient writings, there are thousands more early manuscripts of portions of the Bible available than any other text. Despite the variety of ages, languages, or sources, they are amazingly accurate in comparison to one another. Variations generally are in inconsequential details such as spellings. Many were originally written as first person accounts, which means they would have been refuted if the history in them were not accurate. However, no such refutation has been found.

    Josh compiled the findings of his research in his book, Evidence that Demands a Verdict, a later publication called More Evidence that Demands a Verdict, and finally a compilation of the two: The New Evidence that Demands a Verdict. A much shorter, more conversational book gives a condensed version of Josh's quest and findings: More than a Carpenter.

"But..."

    There it is again: but. What more could there be beyond being prepared and watching for moments when those around me ask. I'm ready, Lord! Send me out to pound the truth into their heads!


"... do this with gentleness and respect...."


    Oh...there is that.

    Jesus always honored honest questions. He loved the inquirer and knew that the questions were opening doors, leading that person closer to understanding and accepting what Jesus was teaching. He was not threatened by honest doubt. We, too, are to be gentle and respectful. We may not win the inquirer the first time they ask something, but if we answer with gentleness and respect they will be more likely to come back again and again. Each time they come, pray in your heart that your answer would be given as the Spirit desires and accepted as the Spirit intends. Then pray again afterward, in your heart, that the words would be received and pondered. Eventually, that time taken in relationship will lead to understanding. Free will still has to choose, but that decision comes easier when the person understands the choice.

"...keeping a clear conscience..."

    How many times have I spoken without thinking and my words came out harsh or disrespectful? Ouch! Once the moment has past, how I long to pull those words back again. But once delivered, you can only work to clean up the mess you've made; the stain of those words can never be fully erased. How much better to think first, deliver anything that needs be with gentleness and respect, and live with no regrets!

"...so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander."

    "...[A]shamed of their slander." What would prompt that? Respect for the message and the message bearer. If we are careful to be prepared before answering, watch for the questions when unbelievers raise them, and give those answers with gentleness and respect, our listeners will be more likely to respect us, and consequently the message we share.

*******

Oh dear Jesus, help me to keep a clear conscience before You, always setting You apart in my heart as Lord. Help me to learn what I need to learn, to see the opportunities You open for me to share, and to share what You desire accurately, with gentleness and respect, and in a fashion that evokes a hunger in the inquirer to know You.

Amen


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May. 25, 2006

How to Read a Book, Chapter 2

Notes on

HOW TO READ A BOOK: THE CLASSIC GUIDE TO INTELLIGENT READING

By Mortimer J. Adler and Charles Van Doren

 

Notes taken from the completely revised and updated version of 1972,  based on the original 1940 version.

 

 

Chapter 2 (pp. 16-20)

 

Reading, like unaided discovery, is learning from an absent teacher. We can only do that successfully if we know how” (p. 16).

 

“Francis Bacon once remarked that ‘some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested’” (p. 19).

 

4 Levels of Reading

Levels do not function independently. One builds on another, with the 4th including all of the others and more.

 

Level 1: Elementary Reading

·        Also called rudimentary reading, basic reading, initial reading.

·        Person passes from non-literacy to basic literacy.

·        Mastery means one has:

o       Learned the rudiments of the art of reading

o       Received basic training

o       Acquired initial skills

·        Generally learned in elementary school.

·        Asked of reader: “What does the sentence say?” (P. 17) (decoding words)

·        Level repeated by all readers each time they encounter something marginally familiar such as material written in a foreign language.

·        Some more mature readers still struggle with mechanics—speed reading courses generally address this level.

 

Level 2: Inspectional Reading

·        Also called skimming, pre-reading.

·        Reader given a limited time to read.

·        Aim: “…to get the most out of a book within a given time—usually a relatively short time, and always…too short a time to get out of the book everything that can be gotten” (p.18).

·        Not casual or random browsing, rather “the art of skimming systematically” (p.18).

·        Purpose: examine the surface of the book.

·        Asked of reader: “What is the book about? …What is the structure of the book? …What are its parts?” (p. 18)

·        Despite limited time to read, inspectional reading will reveal the type of book it is, i.e. novel, history, scientific treatise, etc.

·        Worth of this level often overlooked. Without it, reader is trying to simultaneously figure out both what the book is about and how to understand it—difficulty compounded.

·        Best reading you can do in a limited time.

 

Level 3: Analytical Reading

·        More complex and systematic than levels 1 and 2

·        “…thorough…complete…good reading—the best reading you can do” (p.19).

·        Best reading you can do with unlimited time.

·        Must ask many and organized questions—specifics to be discussed in Part 2.

·        Always intensely active.

·        Bacon’s chewing and digesting (see quote above from p.19).

·        Not necessary if goal is only entertainment or information.

·        Analytical reading is preeminently for the sake of understanding” (p. 19).

·        Skill in analytical reading needed to move from less understanding to more understanding.

 

Level 4: Syntopical Reading

·        Most complex and systematic of all

·        Very heavy demands on the reader, even if text is relatively simple to read.

·        Also called comparative reading

·        Not just reading one book

o       Read many books

o       Place them in relation to each other and to subject

o       “…[S]yntopical reader is able to construct an analysis of the subject that may not be in any of the books” (p.20).

·        “[M]ost active and effortful kind of reading” (p.20).

·        Not easy, rules not widely known.

·        Most rewarding reading activity.

·        More on syntopical reading in Part 4.


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Dear God,

Thank you for placing in my heart a longing to read not just more, but well. Help me to honor You in what I choose to read, the timing of my reading, my conversation about my reading. And help me not to get so caught up in the reading that I neglect the more mundane tasks of life.

I love you, Jesus!

Amen

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May. 23, 2006

How to Read a Book, Chapter 1

Notes on HOW TO READ A BOOK:
THE CLASSIC GUIDE TO INTELLIGENT READING
By Mortimer J. Adler and Charles Van Doren
 
Notes taken from the completely revised and updated version of 1972,  based on the original 1940 version.    

Chapter 1 (pp. 3-15)  

p.4, P 1: “We do not have to know everything about something in order understand it; too many facts are often as much of an obstacle to understanding as too few. There is a sense in which we moderns are inundated with facts to the detriment of understanding.”  

This quote brought to mind a recent conversation. Our pastor’s wife and I discovered we both enjoy doing research. In passing, she suggested I look into a particular word in the context of a given verse. One week and 13 typed pages later I decided I’d best be finished! Although that particular research was done from books at hand, except for Bible verses copied from an online source, we both acknowledged that use of the Internet can make it almost impossible to come to the end of any research project. There is always another rabbit trail to follow. Without a clear understanding of your purpose you could go on finding new information endlessly.  

In addition to the explosion of available information, the input we receive from many sources, like the media, is couched in such authoritative terms that we accept it as a package, spouting it as though our own, rather than going to the effort of evaluating and truly understanding. Adler uses the analogy of a tape player: the information is inserted like a cassette, ready to be played back at will with no thinking required.  

Active Reading (pp. 4-6)  

Adler discusses the ideas of passive and active reading. Absolutely passive reading is impossible. Reading, by definition, requires that at least the eyes and some degree of the mind be engaged. He points out the fallacy that the writer or speaker is active while the reader or listener is passive. He then likens reading to the relationship between pitcher and catcher: the writer or speaker pitches the ideas to the reader/listener who must catch them. Adler then asserts that the analogy breaks down because, while the ball is either caught or not, the ideas being read may be partially caught.  

I beg to differ with Adler. His analogy does not break down at that point. He simply did not take it far enough. Reading is not the passing of one ball, but many. Each idea tossed by the writer represents a different ball thrown. Each session with an author is an inning of the game, and the entire read is the game as a whole. How adept the writer is at presenting ideas and how actively the reader reads determine the final count of caught and missed balls. Seldom is the effort a total loss; generally something is gained.  

Both writer and reader have a responsibility to prepare for the game. Both start in the Little Leagues and move progressively toward the Pro’s. Building vocabulary and a base of experience is necessary for both. The writer must develop expertise of subject matter and skill of expression. The reader must develop the ability to make judgments about the reliability of the text and decisions about what to keep and process, and what to discard.  

The Goals of Reading: Reading for Information and Reading for Understanding (pp.7-11)  

When you read something that does not challenge your ability as a reader, you are merely reading for information. If you do not understand everything presented you are then in a position to use your mind to dig in and “…gradually lift yourself from a state of understanding less to one of understanding more. Such elevation, accomplished by the mind working on a book, is highly skilled reading, the kind of reading that a book which challenges your understanding deserves.” (p.8)  

Adler’s rough definition of the art of reading: “the process whereby a mind, with nothing to operate on but the symbols of the readable matter, and with no help from outside, elevates itself by the power of its own operations” (p.8). Concerning the idea of “with no help from outside”, Adler’s footnote indicates an exception given in chapter 18, which covers philosophy. 

 “…[T]he shock of puzzlement and perplexity that come from getting in over our depth…” (p. 9). I love this phrase! This is what we should encounter when we approach something that we must read for understanding. Sometimes we miss it, though, because we are not “…both alert and honest” (p.9). 

In addition to more than one meaning for reading—for information or for understanding--there is also more than one meaning for learning. We often associate learning with simply acquiring more facts, increasing the information we already have, but within a realm we readily understand. Adler presents another meaning of learning, that of understanding more. He gives the example of someone with some knowledge of American history reading a new text on the subject. If that text merely gives more facts the reader only learns in the first sense, information. However, if the author presents a different way of looking at the new facts as well as the ones the reader already knows, then the reader has the opportunity to increase his or her overall understanding of American history. Gaining understanding takes work. I observe that the reader must absorb the new view point, make a judgment about its validity, and determine to what extent it should or should not be assimilated. However, once it is understood, it will forever affect the way the reader approaches the subject of American history.  

Adler shares two conditions for reading for understanding: 1) “…there is initial inequality in understanding”, and 2) “…the reader must be able to overcome this inequality in some degree…” (p. 10). He states that, “In short, we can learn only from our ‘betters.’” It concerns me that, to this point, Adler has made no reference to ensuring that what you are reading for understanding is worthy of that effort, or that the effort requires any judgment on the reader’s part. I am certain that he is not implying blanket acceptance of all one might come to understand from an author. Perhaps he will address this later. The author must initially have a deeper understanding of a given subject, concept, or ideal, than the reader. The reader must gain understanding of the author’s perspective and then make and apply judgments about that understanding.  

Although only two types of reading are mentioned earlier, a third is mentioned at the end of this section: reading for entertainment. Anyone who can read at all can read for entertainment. There are no rules to be applied. Material that can be read for information or understanding can also be read for mere entertainment. However, not all material that can be read for entertainment will yield anything in the way of information or understanding.  

Reading as Learning: The Difference Between Learning by Instruction and Learning by Discovery (pp.11-14)  

I have heard it said that the best way to learn is to teach, and I have seen this in my own experience. Years ago, I substitute taught in advanced high school math classes that were barely below the last level I had studied in college. In explaining the material to the students, I gained a much clearer understanding of it myself. Perhaps as a student I had merely absorbed the facts; as a teacher I had to examine them more closely and develop a deeper understanding of why they worked the way they did.  

This is what Adler shares about the levels of reading:  

    To be informed is to know simply that something is the case. To be enlightened is to know, in addition, what it is all about: why it is the case, what its connections are with other facts, in what respects it is the same, in what respects it is different, and so forth.        
    This distinction is…between being able to remember something and being able to explain it…. If…you have gained nothing but information…you have exercised only your memory. Enlightenment is achieved only when, in addition to knowing what an author says, you know what he means and why he says it. …Being informed is a prerequisite to being enlightened. The point, however, is not to stop at being informed. (p. 11)
 

That is the key, “not to stop at being informed.” Adler notes that the Greeks had a name for those who were widely read, but not well read: sophomores. I was a sophomore in high school when a teacher or upper classman gleefully taught the true meaning of the word: soph=wise, more=foolish. Thus, a wise fool, or one who thinks himself wise but is in actuality a fool. My peer group rankled; we were no different this year than we had been in previous or would be in the future. We were not fools thinking ourselves wiser than we ought. Perhaps in some ways I am more of a sophomore now than I was then. I like to think myself to some reasonable degree learned, broadly read, intelligent. But is that the case? I appreciate Adler’s challenge to dig deeper, to wrestle with the text, to understand. Although I do this with my Bible, I rarely do with other books. Most of the thousands of pages I read every year are merely entertainment.  

History distinguishes two types of learning: by instruction, and by discovery. Learning by instruction, also called “aided discovery,” includes reading and listening. Here, the learner is being taught by someone, either a writer or a speaker. Learning by discovery, or “unaided discovery,” includes research, investigation, and reflection. Rather than the learner operating on written or spoken discourse, the learner operates on the world around him. We readily recognize the role of thought in unaided discovery; however we often underestimate it in reading or listening. If the learner is seeking understanding, reading and listening will take as high a degree of thought as unaided discovery.   The art of reading…includes all of the same skills that are involved in the art of unaided discovery: keenness of observation, readily available memory, range of imagination, and …the intellect trained in analysis and reflection. The reason for this is that reading in this sense is discovery, too—although with help instead of without it.  (p. 14)  

Present and Absent Teachers (pp. 14-15)  

Although reading and listening were grouped together in the last section, there is a significant difference. When listening, the teacher is generally present and available to answer questions. When reading, the writer usually is not present. From that standpoint, reading is more like unaided discovery. You may ask a book a question, but you must be the one to figure out the answer. For those of us who are not in school with the luxury of a teacher to ask for guidance, “…if we are disposed to go on learning and discovering, we must know how to make books teach us well” (p.15).

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Thank you, Lord, for the challenge to use the mind you have given me to dig deeply into the world around me. Thank you that the gift of reading is such a pleasure. Thank you that it often is a great source of entertainment and relaxation. Thank you that all the facts I need to know are at my fingertips through printed and Internet sources. But help me not to be content to leave it there. Help me to dig, to process, to think, to understand, so that, as I'm instructed in 1 Peter 3:15, I can always be prepared to give an answer to anyone who ask me for the reason for the hope that I have in You.

Amen


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May. 15, 2006

Ode to Toothbrushing

Posted in Poetry

Ode to Toothbrushing
Written and quoted often with great hope when my children were young.

After I've taken my last few bites
I'm careful to brush my pearly whites,
Each little tooth, and all my gums,
Cheeks, and roof, and tongue, tongue, tongue.
Then swish, and spit, and take a drink.
And then I always RINSE THE SINK!!


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May. 10, 2006

Homeschooling on a Shoestring Part 1C: Gymnastics and Such

So you found a  business that offered classes in _____, and convinced them to let you manage a homeschool program. You have enough students enrolled to begin, and you have a start date set. Now what do you do?

1. Be on hand the first day of class to greet families and meet any you have not personally met before. Put calendars in their hands, indicating class days, holidays, payment due dates, the end of the session, and any other information you deem pertinent. If families have agreed to share information, you could also give out a contact list.

2. Whether your children attend a particular class or not, you need to plan to attend at least once a month, both to collect tuition and to keep in contact with the families. Ask one parent to take roll each week and notify you if anyone stops showing up.

3. Keep careful records for each family so you will know when someone has paid ahead or is lagging behind. Although I hated to do it, I found it did help to institute a fee for late pays. I waived this if the family let me know in advance when they would be able to pay. Be sure to collect tuition in advance so there is no chance of someone quitting with a balance owing.

4. At the end of the session, there should be some slush remaining. How much will depend on how close you cut it with fees, how many late fees were paid, and if anyone left with a balance owing. If the slush is small, keep it on account for the next session. There were a few times my slush seemed larger than necessary. I generally used part of it for scholarships for a struggling family or for one with many enrollments. I also used excess slush to purchase an open gym for the families of program participants who made it to the end of the season.

5. Begin taking enrollments for the next session about a month before the current session ends. If holding a summer session, take enrollments for both summer and fall at the same time. Generally, families could participate in either or both. It is much easier to talk to parents when their kids are in class rather than waiting and having to make phone calls to everyone.

6. Continue advertising the program. If classes are full, keep a waiting list. That way, if a family has to drop out suddenly, you may be able to fill the vacancy immediately. This will relieve the first family of having to pay for classes they cannot attend. Reimburse them for any classes attended by the new student.

Next time I'll focus on creating a program without the help of a business--and you don't even have to be able to teach the subject!

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Thank You Lord, that You know even better than I the natural bents of my children. Thank You that You have provided over and over again just what we needed.

Amen


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May. 10, 2006

Homeschooling on a Shoestring Part 1B: Gymnastics and Such

Does your child want to do karate, ceramics, ballet, gymnastics, or...? Whatever the interest, you might be able to set up a program that would be free for your family and offer a low-cost option for other homeschoolers. My first opportunity to offer a long-term gymnastics program to several of my children at once came as a result of attending a friend's birthday party. And the program set up with the gym could be applied to any educational opportunity offered through a business.

The party was held as an open gym time at a local gymnastics academy. While there, a couple of homeschooling moms started talking about the idea of a homeschool gymnastics program.  A few weeks later, when neither of them were interested in pursuing the idea, I took up the torch.

I talked with the gym, and the owner was willing to work with me. We set up a program where he charged me a set amount per month per instructor hour. He also set the maximum number of students allowed in each class. We worked together
to decide what days and times were to be offered.

My basic responsibilities included finding enrollees, establishing the price per child, collecting fees, and paying the gym.


That program lasted 8 years, surviving a change of gym ownership and a transfer of management to another homeschooling mom, and only terminated when the owners eventually decided to close the gym.

How to set up and manage a homeschool program through a local business:

1. Decide what kind of activity interests your family. Check out other area offerings to determine what will make your program different. (i.e. several local gyms offer homeschool classes, but they are similarly priced to their other programs. Mine was much cheaper.)

2. Contact a local establishment that offers that activity to determine if they are interested in working with you to start  classes for homeschoolers.
    Benefits to the business:
       A. Homeschoolers can often come at times other students aren't available, thereby expanding the scope of the business. (Our classes met early afternoon, just before their regular classes were held.)
       B. The business charges the program manager a flat rate for each instructor hour and doesn't have to worry about collections for the homeschool classes.

3. Once a business has agreed to offer classes and has set the price per instructor hour and maximum number of students, figure out the minimum price you must charge  and the minimum number of students you must maintain to keep the program afloat. Be sure to figure in enough slush to provide enrollments for your own family and a little extra in case someone drops out unexpectedly and won't/can't pay their enrollment until a replacement student can be found.

4. Develop a contract for enrolling families, making clear how much notice is expected before dropping out (one month, until the end of a session, etc.). This protects you from being responsible for a huge bill with only a few families, and protects other families from constantly changing tuition rates. Also include information in the contract about any extra fees charged by the business (Each September or upon enrollment the gym charged a once per year per family fee for insurance.).

5. Begin publicizing the program:
    A. *Give age ranges for classes
        *Include the approx. start/end dates for commitment
        *Give a ballpark figure for cost--session or month?
        *Details are subject to sufficient enrollment

    B. Ways to publicize:
        *Contact local homeschool support groups
        *Contact churches with homeschool populations
        *Send information to local email lists
        *Spread the news by word of mouth
        *Enlist help from the first ones who show interest.

6. Set a deadline for enrollments for a particular start date. If you don't have enough enrollments, notify the business and the enrollees that the start of classes is being postponed until the next month, session, etc.

7. When you have enough students enrolled, announce the official start date of classes, collect fees, pay the business on or before the due date.

Next time I'll share part 1C which will cover what to do with the program once it is up and running.

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Dear Jesus,
I'm so grateful for the surprises You bring my way,  some of which have far-reaching affects on my life. I would never have imagined simply attending a birthday party could have been so significant. Please be with my fellow homeschooling parents who may have "stumbled" on this post. Thank You for having your hand on them as they pursue the path You have in mind for them.

Amen



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May. 8, 2006

Homeschooling on a Shoestring Part 1A: Gymnastics and Such

How can a homeschooling family on one very tight income afford to do the little extras like gymnastics, ballet, karate, or...? I have three suggestions for inexpensive or even free access to training in at least the beginning levels of the things that interest your children.

The first taste of such things for our family came through our local city recreation program. We have lived in several towns, and all have offered some sort of community education or recreation program. Most of these classes are short, lasting from one session to 8 or 10 weeks, so it is a good way to get a taste of something before making a long-term commitment.

Generally, these courses are fairly inexpensive, and often scholarships are available for resident families who cannot afford the tuition. Don't be afraid to take advantage of that money. My sister once encouraged me by sharing that as we are a working family, and as we will one day have an empty nest and our taxes will help someone else in a similar fashion, there is no shame in accepting help while we are under the full load of child-rearing.

A free way to taste a variety of activities is to co-op with one or more other families. Perhaps your friend studied ballet, but has no patience with messy projects, while you would consider yourself a clutz, but enjoy doing arts and crafts with children. Choose a span of weeks to get together on a given day and time. She takes part of the children to an appropriate space to work on beginning ballet techniques, while you take the others to the kitchen table for block printing, or collage making, or.... By setting a specific duration for these sessions both of you are able to evaluate how well it is working before deciding to continue or not.

Next time I will share the third idea for providing beginning experiences for your children.  This one provided a much needed outlet for me, as well.

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Thank you, Father, for the joy I see in my children's faces as they try out new things. Thank you for the many opportunities you have afforded us over the years. And thank you for this venue to share those ideas with others.

Amen


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May. 7, 2006

Homeschooling on a Shoestring--Introduction


Through most of the 17 years we have been homeschooling money has been very tight. God has blessed us over and over, providing what we needed when we needed it or bringing an idea to fruition that allowed us to do the otherwise unaffordable extras. My hope is that my posts about some of those experiences will help you to think in new ways about your own possibilities.

Some of the things I will share about include how my family:
* Was able to take gymnastics, ballet, karate.
* Started playing piano, violin, flute, and trumpet.
* Found a great way to swap used educational materials.
* Participated in a small church co-op.
* Participated in community theatre.

I'll also want to share information about a few other ideas implemented by other homeschoolers in my area, a couple of local co-ops, and some websites for awesome curriculum.

As I start writing, there will probably be other ideas that come to mind or other subjects raised by your comments, so please feel free to leave one, either with comments and ideas, or with questions. Let's see how far this thread will take us!

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Dear Father God, You have been so faithful through the years, providing just what we needed. Thank you, thank you! Please be with my fellow homeschoolers, especially those who are new to the journey or who have experienced recent financial hardship. May my words be uplifting to them. As they read and share, show them the way you would have them to go. Grant them the peace to walk where they hadn't seen the path you have laid out for them.

Amen!


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May. 6, 2006

Mother's Day


It was December and I was expecting child number four when my husband's job rather abruptly needed us to move to a new state. That process is a story in itself which I will perhaps share another time; however, this story is about recovering from both the move and the following months of settling.

I had long wanted to get away by myself for a few days. Mothering had been 24/7 for several years. My husband is great with older children, but the needs of young ones are not in his comfort zone, and his work schedule also required that I carry most of the daily "stuff of life". It was March, and I was now about 5 months along. I was exhausted, dispirited, I needed time to regenerate.

The budget was such that going on a retreat or staying in a hotel were out of the question. Besides, I didn't want to go on a retreat; I wanted to be ALONE! When I learned that my aunt and uncle were going out of town for a few days, I asked if I could stay in their home while they were gone.

It was a wonderful weekend. In the lovely spring sunshine I went on walks at an adult pace that actually elevated my pulse. I ate meals when I wanted to, what I wanted to, no one complained about them, and...they were still HOT! I cleaned up after myself, and only myself. I slept through the night. I read. I practiced my Easter music, played the piano, the cello, the violin. I took a bath and NO ONE banged on the door! I listened to music, I rested in silence.

I truly was refreshed when I returned home Sunday evening.

Then came Monday.

The weather took a turn for the worse. Overcast and blustery, the dogs needed to stay inside, due to the mud bath that now existed in our backyard. The kids bickered all morning. Then one of the dogs got sick--twice. Fine! Mud or not, out go the dogs.

Working to catch up the home chores, I was upstairs folding laundry when I asked my 4 1/2 year-old son to take the phone downstairs and hang it up. He cheerfully trotted off to comply. Not long after, I heard beep tones. Hmm...Nels had tried to obey, but couldn't reach to hang up the phone, so he had set it near where it belonged. I arrived at the top of the stairs to see that 22 month-old Bethany had picked it up. My little chubby-cheeked toddler cherub was now intently investigating the buttons.

"Bethany, are you calling China?"

"U-huh."

Vacation was over; life as a mother had recomenced in full force!


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Thank you, Father, for my little cherub who turned 13 this week. She is becoming such a lovely young lady! I pray your blessing over her as she continues to investigate the world around her.

And thank you for my helpful 4 1/2 year-old who is still helpful at 15 years old and 6 foot tall. His servant's heart is such a blessing.

Thank you, Lord for Jessica, now 17 and nearly grown. She is a woman after your own heart. And it really helps that she drives now!

And Father, what a blessing the two you have added since then. Trevor, whom I carried during the time of the above narrative, is now nearly 11. Jonathan, with whom you blessed us again, is 9. Both march to a different drum than the older ones did. They are a joy to my heart.

I am so grateful for my dear husband, Marty. 24 years have flown by so quickly. You have blessed us with so many precious memories, both from the seven years before children, and the 17 since.

Dear Jesus, please guide me as your servant, as Marty's wife, as mother to my 5 children, as primary teacher to 3, and in all the many places through which you take me. I joyfully anticipate the years to come. Thank you.
 
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May. 5, 2006

Why "Pondhaven"?

Everyone needs a haven--a place they can retreat from life's normal pressures, a place to rest, to regenerate, to dream, to reflect, to plan. This is my small haven. Hopefully my ruminations will encourage others, as well as providing a needed outlet for me.

But why Pondhaven?
When I was a child of about 12, my family visited my mother's aunt and uncle in beautiful Elbe, Washington. Log cabin, feather bed, forest surrounding their home, I was enchanted and felt I belonged there. I cried inside when we left, and held onto the dream of Elbe for years afterward.

Although Elbe was never truly a possibility, living in the country on a small acreage has seemed a more realistic hope. About a year ago, I came across a property that...well, it seemed to be just right. It was in the country, about 10 minutes drive from our home in town. Although we live in the fairly arid area of south central Washington, this 2+ acre lot included a seasonal irrigation pond with several huge trees growing around it.

The last year has been a whirlwind, but by God's grace that property is our new home. The water is in the pond now, a pair of mallards has taken up residence, and tonight I heard our first frog. Looking across as the water ripples, hearing several varieties of birds, seeing the sun set behind the nearby hills--this is truly a haven.

The other day I was pondering the idea of naming our home. Jefferson had Monticello, Washington had Mount Vernon, Scarlett had Terra. If I were to name our home, what would I choose? Pondhaven came to mind. I half jokingly mentioned it to my husband, figuring he would think I was nuts. As expected, Pondhaven did nothing for him. But it stuck with me. Consequently, when I discovered information about blogging in the current issue of The Old Schoolhouse, I decided to christen my effort Pondhaven.

The photo above is one offered as a template by homeschoolblogger.com. However, I hope to sometime add photos of our pond, as well.

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Dear Lord, Thank you for this place to write as I reflect, dream, plan, regenerate. May what I write here be used by you from time to time to bless and encourage someone else. May others find it a haven in the midst of all that life requires of them.


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