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Sep. 13, 2008

It Happens Again

Ironically, right when I'm saying I don't have anything to right about, a prime opportunity falls into my lap.

You may or may not have noticed, but it seems like way too many Christian celebrities and authorities are coming out with their secret sin problems. Some are repentant, some are not.

Well, here's the latest. One of the classic Christian artists of the past two decades or so, Ray Boltz, has announced that he's been gay all this time. And now he's finally embracing it.

My reaction when I learned this and read the article was complete sadness, for so many reasons. And now I'm just going to write them down and get them out.

First, there's the obvious sadness that comes from finding out that he has been struggling with this for so long, and has lost the fight. Sin is depressing, but never more so than when one just decides to accept it all.

But there's another issue that bothers me equally as much. In one sentence, I don't think the Christian church is at all prepared to deal with this problem. We haven't tightened our belts and looked the homosexual issue hard in the face. We've just denounced and then ran, hoping we won't have to personally deal with it.

So, we have people like Ray Boltz, and Ted Haggard, who try to keep everything inside. And it always, always destroys them eventually.

Basically, I don't think these people ever had much of a chance to come out and get help from loving believers who actually know what they're addressing. If you read what Boltz says, it looks like he's spent his whole life hiding it, not facing it with anybody.

And honestly, how many of us would have any clue what to do if one of our friends came to us for help on this issue? Judging by my interaction with fellow Christians, most of us aren't even remotely ready. But we should be.

If we have the Spirit of Christ himself we should be able to boldly face these problems and boldly love those who struggle with them. The power of the love of Christ still applies.

Are you scared of homosexuality? I have been, I probably still am. I shouldn't be. And I shouldn't succumb to anger when news like this comes out. Ray Boltz is a victim of Satan's lies and we should all feel incredibly sorry for him. If you want to be mad, be mad at the Devil. We fight not against flesh and blood.

This will keep happening, and those who struggle will keep killing themselves over it with no hope of help, until the Church finally wakes up and decides to unashamedly reach out in love and start changing lives. Hopefully, that will happen sooner rather than later.
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Sep. 13, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by drgnfly1010
What a horrible, horrible thing. I must say, while my first response was unbelief and sadness, I immediately begain to feel angry. It angers me when people justify and indulge in their sin. People must learn to be responsible for their own actions..for their own sin. The article you linked to said that he, Ray, feels that God made him that way and therefore, won't send him to hell for it. The same could easily be said of alcholics, prostitutes, druggies, really any kind of sin! But it's sin - it's what Adam and Eve chose in the garden, and it's what we still choose to this very day. It is our own fault - and we must take responsibility each for our own sins and repent of those things, not justify them because God gave us a free will which we used to choose sin rather than Him! Sadly, it only goes to show how lost Ray really was.
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Sep. 16, 2008 - :(

Posted by Kyleigh
That is so sad.
I remember listening to "Watch the Lamb" and "The Hammer" on Good Friday maybe 5-8 years ago.
I'm still not sure what to think... it's a total surprise and for someone who claims to be a Christian and writes Christian songs to say that...
I guess really all we can do is be praying for more Grace...
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Sep. 28, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by JesusLovesU
Yeah, it's too bad that he's been so deceived. =[[

~Britta
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Oct. 15, 2008 - Ray Boltz

Posted by JeterFan2
Man I was shocked when I found he was gay!!! It's so sad!!!!!

Edited by JeterFan2 on Oct. 15, 2008 at 8:45 AM
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Nov. 2, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by throughtheblack
Although we try to deny it, you are right. People are...afraid of gays. I know I'm just a bit wierded out. But I read a magazine article (Relevant May_June 08) that said we should embrace them, and try to act as a witness to them, try to help them see God. It continued to say that Jesus hung out with the 'untouchables' of his time...which probably included homosexuals. Besides, we should care for the homosexuals, not the homosexuality....*blinkblink* Big difference.
If we step outside our comfort zones, maybe we could help someone out of this pattern of sin. Who knows, maybe someone we know....
.:Davy:.
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Nov. 13, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Jocelyndixon
I hope you're doing well. Just seeing if you updated.

Blessings!
MJ
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Nov. 15, 2008 - ...

Posted by Kyleigh
I don't know if you do tags, but I tagged you on my blog cuz I didn't have anyone else to tag cuz Cait beat me to tagging some people...
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Dec. 11, 2008 - HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Posted by SuperAngel
Hope you have a great 18th birthday, Timothy! :) Eat a piece of cake for me! :P
Amanda
http://superangelsblog.com
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Feb. 20, 2009 - i agree!

Posted by QuarterHorseCrazy
That is sad. but i guess all we can do is pray for him!
Hannah
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Mar. 5, 2009 - Untitled Comment

Posted by JoNaSlOvEr
hihi =] i'm adding you as a friend....hope ya don't mind!! Btw..go to:

www.homeschoolblogger.com/STEPHANiE

Not the JoNaSlOvEr..don't really post on that one MUCH anymore...

STEPHANiE :]] <3
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Jul. 16, 2009 - Untitled Comment

Posted by weheartmusic
Thanks for posting that. You're right; Genesis 2:24 says...

For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh.

God bless,
- Renee -
P.S. -- just in case you're wondering, I got the link to your blog from Jocelyn's (aponderingheart.com/blog)
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