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September 15, 2005
Bible Study: 1 Peter 2:11-3:12

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as requested by MarinesWife

 

1 Peter 2:11-3:12

This is the second section of exhortation in the letter.  In the first part, Christians are called toward holiness.  In this section, they are exhorted to submission.  The key to understanding the section lies in verse 12: "Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us."  It is imperative that we live our lives in such a way that unbelievers can tell there is a difference between our way of living and theirs.

With that idea constantly in mind, Peter outlines four different areas in which Christians are to be in submission, and gives us an idea of what that kind of submission would look like.

 

1.  Civil government

"Submit yourselves for the Lord's sake to every authority instituted among men: whether to the king, as the supreme authority, or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right."  2:13-14

How do we demonstrate submission? "Show proper respect to everyone: Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king." 2:17 

I think Christians often think the way to submit to governors is to obey the civil law. I think more is in view here.  We ought to show respect and honor, to the office and to the people holding them.  That doesn't mean we agree with everything they say or do, but it also means "gritting your teeth and obeying the law" is not sufficient to demonstrate submission.  It is possible to deal with an enemy honorably and with respect, so it is also possible to similarly treat a governor, regardless of our like or dislike of his views or actions.  This is not how the pagans act...we are called to live differently.

 

2. Worldly Masters

"Slaves, submit yourselves to your masters with all respect, not only to those who are good and considerate, but also to those who are harsh." 2:18

How do we demonstrate submission? By showing respect (v. 18) and suffering injustice, with Christ as our example.  My husband works part-time at a local University and full-time at a local factory while he is also pastoring.  Without naming names or pointing fingers, I can easily identify areas and circumstances where he is treated unjustly. I'm sure most wives can think of injustices our husbands have been handed in their work environments.  A Christian is called to respect his employer, regardless of that employer's merit.  He is also called to suffer injustices with the same attitude that the Lord Jesus showed.  Listen to what Peter says:

"But how is it to your credit if you receive a beating for doing wrong and endure it? But if you suffer for doing good and you endure it, this is commendable before God. To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps. "He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth." When they hurled their insults at him, he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himself to him who judges justly. 1 Peter 2:20-23

This is not how the pagans act...we are called to live differently.

3.  Wives to husbands.

"Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, when they see the purity and reverence of your lives" 3:1-2

This is a commonly visited passage for women desiring to biblically submit to their husbands.  What does submission to a husband look like? Obedience and respect are the textbook answers. Peter exhorts us to at least two more. 

The first is to be beautiful.  That's a surprising answer, but it's right there in the text!  The beauty Peter speaks of is that of the gentle and quiet spirit that is precious to the Lord.  So when we cultivate gentleness and quietness (in spirit, thought, action, speech...), we are submitting to our husbands. 

The second is to be fearless like our foremother, Sarah.  This is a hard thing to accomplish in 21st century America, but it is Peter's exhortation nonetheless.  We need to let go of the reins that our husbands desire to take, and do so without worrying about what will happen if he forgets to make the mortgage payment, or if he wants to change jobs,  or move to a different location, or change churches, or use a different curriculum.  We show submission to our husbands by trusting in the One who leads our husbands.

This is not how the pagans act...we are called to live differently.

4. The Brethren

"Finally, all of you, live in harmony with one another; be sympathetic, love as brothers, be compassionate and humble." 3:8

What does submission to the brethren (particularly, the local church) look like? Peter gives a list from verse 8 to verse 12, and none of these need special explanation, but there is one that stuck out to me: seeking and pursuing peace in the body of Christ.  This is one way we can dramatically stand out from the world. Seeking peace is hard, because it often requires refusing to fight for what we think is right or important. Our congregation is going through growing pains as our attendance has grown past the capacity of our current facility.  There are all kinds of decisions and plans and discussions occurring about the best way to handle this wonderful problem. We can handle it one of two ways.  The first way would be for people to debate, persuade, convince, argue, pressure, etc., until the ones with the most power and influence get their way.  The other way is to honor the desires of others over ourselves.  To fall all over each other in trying to make sure our brothers' concerns are met. To refuse to grumble about decisions made or coalition-build to guarantee the outcome of later decisions.

This is not how the pagans act...we are called to live differently, that they may see our good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.


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September 16, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by MarinesWife


Thank you for sharing!! I'm going to have to read it again when the children aren't clamoring around me. :)


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September 16, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by AslanSchool


Thanks for posting this! I noticed that you included "fearless" in your description of the submissive wife -- it's a definition that is not often mentioned, but is really important. You defined and explained it very well -- that we should be fearless about letting our husbands lead our households. It can be so hard to do sometimes!


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September 16, 2005 - Thanks!

Posted by Puritan Mama


Thanks for writing that all out so I can refer to it again!

Just reading to the eldest yesterday out of 2 Kings and hit this verse:
"They imitated the nations around them although the LORD had ordered them "DO NOT DO AS THEY DO," and they did the things the LORD had forbidden them to do." 2 Kings 17:15b
I immediately thought of this lesson - how much do we do that "they do" - do we look different? How would anyone know?
Thanks again for sharing.


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September 16, 2005 - Submission

Posted by Anonymous


Around two years ago, I became convicted to be more submissive. My life has since changed dramatically for the better. The more I submit to my husband, the happier I am. And the easier it is to surrender things to the Lord! What a great study! Most women today are insulted by the very word "submission" -- if only they could feel my joy!

Off topic, yesterday you said you wanted my chicken dip recipe. It's up on my blog! ;-)

Have a great day!!!


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September 16, 2005 - By the way,

Posted by kentuckyjourney


I somehow got logged out. The previous comment is mine! LOL


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September 17, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by thewestiecrew


What a wonderful and timely post. I just hit the random blog button and God ministered to me through your blog. I needed many of those reminders. Thanks!
Gayle


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September 18, 2005 - Untitled Comment

Posted by sewingfanatic


Love the brotherhood of believers

In this day of the constant seeking of 'likemindedness' to the exclusion of doctrine sometimes (not everyone, it just happens so often now) I've seen a tendency to be irritated at, despise, or otherwise reject one group of believers because of a difference in methodology. This particular translation of the verse... it really speaks volumes to me.

In our desire to have a certain lifestyle, I am afraid we are excluding part of the body. I'm not sure how that translates into every day life but I can see that if a person has a weak arm with atrophied muscles, and the body refuses to use that arm in favor of the stronger limbs... the arm will eventually become useless. If a weak eye doesn't work well, they often patch the strong eye in order to strengthen the weak one. It gives me much to think about.


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