101 in 1001 • Apr. 12, 2006

Posted in Nurturing Mom

You cannot become overwhelmed before reading this entry.  If you think you might, slowly turn from your computer and walk away.  My intent is to inspire you, not put more upon you.  Certainly you can bend the rules - maybe 20 in 200?

Have you heard of making a 101 in 1001 list?  Here are the rules:

 

The Mission:
Complete 101 preset tasks in a period of 1001 days.

The Criteria:
Tasks must be specific (ie. no ambiguity in the wording) with a result that is either measurable or clearly defined. Tasks must also be realistic and stretching (ie. represent some amount of work on my part).

Why 1001 Days?
Many people have created lists in the past - frequently simple goals such as new year's resolutions. The key to beating procrastination is to set a deadline that is realistic. 1001 Days (about 2.75 years) is a better period of time than a year, because it allows you several seasons to complete the tasks, which is better for organising and timing some tasks such as overseas trips or outdoor activities.

Some common goal setting tips:
1. Be decisive. Know exactly what you want, why you want it, and how you plan to achieve it.

2. Stay Focussed. Any goal requires sustained focus from beginning to end. Constantly evaluate your progress.

3. Welcome Failure. Frequently, very little is learned from a venture that did not experience failure in some form. Failure presents the opportunity to learn and makes the success more worthy.

4. Write down your goals. It clarifies your thinking and reinforces your commitment.

5. Keep your goals in sight. Review them frequently, and ensure that they are always at the forefront of your thinking.

 

Sound like something you want to tackle?  My friend and pastor's wife Wendy and I embarked upon our lists together and we've had a lot of lively conversation about the items on each other's lists.  I'll share mine with you, and then maybe Wendy will share hers, too.

 

Begun 4 March, 2006

 

1. Complete Quiet Rest series

2. Do not complain verbally during this pregnancy (this was written when I was pregnant- hopefully it will apply again soon)

3. Close my mouth- I don’t always have to be right

4. Watch Raising Godly Children DVDs

 

 Blessing Husband

5. Clean his desk regularly

6. Schedule twice-monthly dates, including surprise lunches

7. Be involved in the hiring process   (March 2006- Katrina)

8. Plan romantic nights

9. Trust he’ll accomplish what he’s promised

10. Find a really great lounging chair for him

11. Finish reading Portofino aloud to him

12. Make his favorite meal- shish kebob, pilaf, cucumber salad twice in the summer

13. Take him to Morton’s

14. Book spa weekend in Napa

 

Blessing Our Children

15. UK with H

16. Williamsburg/DC with boys

17. Visit Adams with Ab and C

18. Teach Ab to Sew

19. Teach C to knit

20. Finish creating cooking course

21. Begin cooking course with H, N, J, and Ab

22. Swim with the kids 3x this summer

23. Keep up with Scripture memorization

24. Teach J to do laundry (March 2006)

25. Put one-on-one dates on the calendar (April 2006)

26. Verbally praise more than verbally correct

27. Have a pool party for Ab’s birthday

28. Soak and massage their feet in the winter

29. Focus on manners

30. Treat them to the LaPalooza at the Ice Cream Company

31. Have a pajama ice cream raid on a summer night

32. Have a poolside movie night

33. Take them for Shamrock Shakes (March 2006)

 

Being Busy At Home

 34. Remodel schoolroom (April 2006)

35. Re-organize books (March 2006)

36. Keep up with summer house list; get help if needed

37. Remodel kitchen (2008)

38. Drip system in veggie boxes (2006)

39. Decks re-done (2006)

40. Plant grass and trees in pasture

41. Can summer bounty (freeze what I can’t get to)

42. Keep scrapbooking updated

43. Find bench for pond

44. Find table and chairs for deck

45. Build arbor for kitchen garden entry

46. Refurnish family room

47. Hold a garage sale; donate money to charity

48. Sort, de-clutter, re-organize craft stuff in laundry room

49. Clear dead plants out of sunroom  (March 2006)

50. Get a new box for girls’ clothes and sort

 

Blessing Our Extended Family

 51. Visit Grandpa B as much as possible

52. Anniversary party for Joe and Cookie

53. Encourage Kelly as she begins to homeschool

54. Invite Casey to stay a week or two with us

55. Keep in touch with Rebekah
56. Plan TX trip; visit McDonalds, Pattys, and Hoppers

57. Finish Mom’s wrap

58. Pray faithfully for extended family

 

 Blessing Our Church Family

 59. Encourage another mom weekly at church with my words or a card

60. Meet regularly with the women Andy shepherds

61. Joyfully give Andy in service and time to the church body

62. Surprise three families with ice cream in the summer

63. Take children for three families for an overnighter


Growing as a Learning-Teacher

 64. War and Peace

65. Create a music history curriculum

66. Continue with classics

67. Finish books in the bedside basket


Growing in the Arts

 68. Take the kids to the SF Opera

69. Take the kids to the Brubeck Festival

70. Take the kids to each local museum once

71. Plan and execute another Christmas or Easter program

72. Record again

73. Plan and perform recital

74. See Sara Groves live

 

Seeing God's Creation

 75. Take the kids to the beach by myself each summer for a do-nothing day at Capitola

76. Walk with the kids every day during third trimester

77. Pack picnics and head to the park to sketch the ducks

78. Ice skate in Curry Village

79. Go to Forestiere Underground Gardens

80. View the next lunar eclipse

81. Pull out the telescope and leave it on the deck all summer

82. Book a weekend at Costanoa or Treebones Resort


Completing My Tasks

83. File the “To File” stack, summer 2006

84. Slim in Six after the baby is born, and complete all six weeks

85. Power 90 after SI6

86. Complete all school paperwork by August

87. Get kids’ passports

88. Finish book

89. Publish book

90. Make sure all reviews are in under the three-month mark

91. Complete funeral plans

92. Finish family tree

93. Frame and hang family tree


Managing Our Finances

94. Turn Upromise savings into 529 account

95. Save 4k for UK trip

96. Record spending for two months and come under budget

97. Give $50 each month to some unsuspecting soul (ask God’s guidance)

 

Miscellaney

98. Go one weekend a month without checking email

99. Take the kids to a UOP basketball game

100. Travel somewhere by train

101. Take care of my nails

 

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Sharing Thoughts


Passports - Apr. 12, 2006

Shared by Anonymous
Kendra--

I can help you with Passports. =) I'm a Passport agent. Send me an email and I'll get you some good info. I have some great ideas on how to make this one easy to cross off your list.

--Rebecca Redin
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Up for it! - Apr. 12, 2006

Shared by kidsus8
Okay, I am up for the challenge! I need to sit down and make a list, a long list! Thanks for sharing the idea and your list.
Blessings,
Andrea
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you are so not lazy!!! - Apr. 12, 2006

Shared by reformingmama
Thank you for posting your list. I am amazed at how inspiring it is to
actually read another persons goals. It helps me to think outside of my usual to make my own list.
Stacy and I spent the morning brainstorming possible ideas for our own lists. However, we're thinking of a much scaled-down version. Like 20 in 90 or something embarrassing like that. (Baby steps, right?)
But we are dying to know about your number 84 & 85. Can you elaborate? We are in the same place in life (having babies) and can use all the wisdom we can get regarding the health of our bodies after multiple births.
Thank you... as always you have inspired us toward good things!
Amy (& Stacy, too)
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Once again you have inspired me..... - Apr. 12, 2006

Shared by Caroline
I love the 101 in 1001 idea. I do think I will start small, as you suggested 20 in 200. I have so many things I often think about that I want to do but never get them written down and so I forget about them. This will be a great way not only for me to remember those things but to actually do them. I liked how your goals were not all just things that required work but many of them were fun things to do. I will get working on it this week.
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Numbers 84 and 85 - Apr. 12, 2006

Shared by PreschoolersandPeace
Do you REALLY want to know??? Unfortunately, Slim in Six and Power 90 are not programs that allow me to sit down to a bowl of ice cream every night. Bummer. Wish they were :)

Last year my husband and I realized we'd gotten fat. I had about 20 pounds to lose and he had, well... more. He began running but that bored me terribly so I asked a friend who was in terrific shape after three babies in four years and she said she'd been doing something called Slim in Six. I tried it and WOW! I couldn't believe the progress I made (do I sound like an infomercial or what???)

So now I have the lovely task of losing the pregnancy weight because I am no longer pregnant, and of course I am returning to what worked last time. One thing- Slim in Six initially takes 30 minutes/day but then for five weeks it is almost an hour a day. I just don't have that kind of time during the school year. So I am being as disciplined as is realistic but am also trying Power 90 this time because it is only 30 minutes /day all the way through. Both programs can be seen and purchased here: www.beachbody.com. You might want to look at the site without your dh nearby- lots of women in bikinis.

Let me know if you decide to do it- we can encourage each other!

Kendra
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Thank you - Apr. 13, 2006

Shared by tryoneverything
I just found your site list week and love it. I have just begun homeschooling two and have the challenge of one VERY active monkey, I mean toddler. And I also have a preschooler who just doesn't seem to be entertained by the typical stuff an preschoolers is entertained by. If it's tells you anything, I had to call poison control twice in one week for my 14 mod. grrr!!! Anyway, I have been praying for a way to start learning some of the things I want to learn but have no time to learn them. this is such an excellent way to organize myself and my goals.

God Bless,

karen
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How do you cross things off your list? - Apr. 13, 2006

Shared by armoorefam
I don't see a way to cross things off of a list in a blog using the control panel. How did you do that? I tried looking at the html on your page but my eyes crossed trying to wade through the code. LOL.
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Crossing Items Off the List - Apr. 13, 2006

Shared by PreschoolersandPeace
The only way I know how to do it is in Word, so I copied my list from its original Word document straight to my blog entry. Make sense? If you go to Format, then Font, then check the box that says Strikethrough, you'll get a line through your highlighted text.

HTH-
Kendra
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Great idea! - Apr. 15, 2006

Shared by GenesisFamily
Kendra,
I just love your blog, you are really inspiring. I finished my 101 in 1001 list today.
Thank you for all your great ideas!
Toni
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thank you - Apr. 16, 2006

Shared by tryoneverything
I just wanted to say thank you for posting this idea. It was truly an answer to prayer for me. I prayed all last week about my list and I started writing it on Friday. I finally finished it this evening and received tremendous approval from my dh. I posted it on my blog. I am just so excited to get this started tomorrow. I enjoy your blog. (I also enjoy your website and use your ideas alot!!!!)

God Bless, Karen
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