Battling Eczema • Jan. 28, 2008

We have a darling girl in our home whom we once dubbed "Crabby Abby".  Oh my.  I'd never had nor been around a grumpier, more unhappy baby in my life.  She cried for the first 15 months of her life, until we finally could put our finger on the source of the problem-- painful eczema caused by allergies to citrus and eggs.

The hardest thing for me to learn in regards to eczema is that it doesn't have a cure.  One of the first people I spoke to told me wisely, "You'll never beat it, you just have to learn to manage it."  Once I came to grips with that fact, I set to work trying to make Abby's life as comfortable as possible.

First, the allergies.  I wanted to get to the root of the problem rather than just slap some steroids onto her skin.  She was a baby, after all, and I knew there had to be a better way.  We took her to an allergist who pin-pointed the trouble-makers as citrus and eggs.  We immediately eliminated all sources of citrus in her diet, including citric acid which is a preservative used in just. about. everything.  It wasn't easy. When she was around five years old, she announced that she wanted to eat eggs and so we told her she could, but that she had to realize what the consequences might be.  That really was a turning point in her care because she took the reigns and has nicely managed it on her own ever since.

In addition to eliminating and now allowing her to choose when and if to eat the foods that tend to cause her to flare up, we've made a few other changes.  She sleeps with a humidifier going all winter long, because the cold, dry weather exacerbates the issue.  I put a few drops of tea tree oil in the water to keep the humidifier sanitized, too.

We used pure coconut oil for several years on her patches of eczema, but this past year we've used Miracle Skin Salve exclusively.  The coconut oil was soothing but the Miracle Skin Salve not only soothes, it heals. Amazing.  We passed some on to my mother-in-law who has suffered from eczema for 75 years and she has raved about it, too.

We can't use regular laundry soap, so we use Charlie's Soap.  All natural, no dyes or perfumes, and extremely economical.  No fabric softeners, either-- we put vinegar in the washer's spin basket and not only does it soften, but it doesn't leave a scent at all.

Lastly, we try very hard to limit the time Abby is in hot water, and we don't use soap.  The combination of the two sends her into scratching fits that can be heard down the hall from her bedroom.  Again, she manages this and aside from a gentle reminder every once in awhile from me, I really don't tell her how long she should bathe or how hot the water should be.  It looks as if eczema will always be a part of her life, and the better she becomes at managing it herself, the easier it will be to live with.
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Beating Eczema - Jan. 28, 2008

Shared by paminoz
My son's wasn't as bad as Abby's but we have pretty much beaten it (and quite a few other things) by also exploring intolerances as well as allergies.

Intolerances won't show up in a skin test and are much trickier to track down.

You can read more about them by googling "Sue Dengate" and "failsafe" and reading about the diet which eliminates salicylates, amines, msg and artifical colourings etc

If I were going to do this again, however, I would do the Feingold diet as it allows you to add food back into the diet much more quickly and easily. Except I would do their phase one for longer than two weeks.

Sorry this is rushed, hope it may be a help to you even if you don't need it at the moment.
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Untitled Comment - Jan. 28, 2008

Shared by stephanie
My oldest suffers dreadfully from eczema as well (she's 4) and we've targeted hers to a grass allergy. I've been noticing it being VERY red lately because of the cold/dry air, so I'm going to explore getting a humidifier for her room ... thanks for the idea. :) We try and keep her in pants for the most part when she is outside and that helps, but she is all girl - loves her dresses - and sometimes it's hard.
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Ezcema - Jan. 28, 2008

Shared by Betty
Hi Kendra,

My 12yod has ezcema and it gets really bad under her neck and the insides of her arms. We have not been able to pin it down to any allergy because it shows up even when she has not come in contact with her offenders! Sometimes it's the weather, sometimes it's emotions, but it doesn't seem to have a whole lot of rhyme or reason.

At church, there's been a girl who has had ezcema all over her body. It was so bad that even my boys would pray for her because they felt so bad for her. The parents tried EVERYTHING!!! Finally they took her to a homeopathic doctor who looked at her whole picture (personality, physical preferences and triggers, emotional...) and gave her a homeopathic remedy. This child took ONE remedy and within two weeks was completely ezcema free for A WHOLE YEAR!

It was breathtaking to witness, so much so, that we took our daughter about two weeks ago to the homeopathic. She was given a remedy and we are waiting to see what happens. Since my dd is older (12) she may be a little more complex so I have to take her back in 6 weeks just to make sure she doesn't need anything more.

We've also been using a cream called Resinol. We get it at a particular pharmacy and my Cuban parents always had it in the house. I had never thought of using it for ezcema. After the second application, my dd's rash was gone! IT doesn't keep it away, but it does help what's there.

I wanted to share this with you in case this may help your daughter. I do sympathize with you. It's tough.

Blessings,
Betty
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Itchy, itchy - Jan. 28, 2008

Shared by Cyndy
I have psoariasis...it is in really good shape now but when I was younger, particularly during puberty it was really bad. I remember when my parents finally sat down and we had a long talk about the fact that this was never going to completely go away and it was about managing it. I took ownership of it and my perspective changed.
My mom has exzema, I'm going to recommend some of your remedies to her.
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What works for us - Jan. 28, 2008

Shared by HarmonyArtMom
My boys have a hereditary disorder that causes they to have a bad skin condition.I have one child with such dry skin that he was as miserable as miserable can be as a young child. Two things work for us....olive oil taken from a spoon every day and another oil that we got at the pharmacy called MCT oil. It is tasteless and can be added to foods with no noticeable difference in taste or texture. It doesn't work overnight but it will work.

Something else that that helped were cold packs in the bed by his feet since his legs would itch at night and the coldness made it better. Nights were the worst time for itching and always led to bloody legs and arms. He is now 12 years old and he isn't perfect but he is much better than when he was a toddler and younger child.

I totally understand the feeling of helplessness you have as a parent when you can't find a solution to a relentless condition with your children. My journey ended with a diagnosis of something other than allergies which is what they told me from the beginning of time. We are an unusual case but I just wanted to tell you that I understand your feelings about eczema.

Sorry so long, just wanted to let you know you are not alone.
Barb-Harmony Art Mom

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managing eczema - Jan. 28, 2008

Shared by Anonymous
Two of my children have mild eczema and I've found that their skin is TONS better when we are faithful in giving them cod liver oil every day. I can see a huge difference when we've slacked off for a few days. It's hard to get enough good, essential fats into the diet and this really helps with that. The Carlson's lemon flavor really isn't bad at all (and if you chase it with orange juice it tastes like a Sweetart : ).
That might not touch severe cases but it works well for us.
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crying baby - Jan. 28, 2008

Shared by LivingByDailyGrace
I am really glad I hopped over to your blog today. My just turned one year old has been really fussy lately and I just discovered the eczema. My ped is really into preventative medicine. She also recommended the fish oil. However, she was very specific after she's done so much research. She said that DHA is important for the skin and that EPA is important for allergies. She also recommended the coconut oil but I am going to look into the oil you recommended. Thank you. Hopefully as I start to do this he will cheer up a little. Perhaps he'll even sleep better. Right now he's the sleepless wonder.

Karen
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Untitled Comment - Jan. 28, 2008

Shared by JADsmama3
My 2 daughters (5 & 2) have had to deal with eczema since birth. I have had to learn to keep up with it, but when it is extremely bad I have used their prescribed lotions. I will have to try some of these other ideas, though, because I don't like the idea of treating such little ones with the steriod stuff. Thanks for all the suggestions!!!
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Charlie's Laundry Soap - Jan. 29, 2008

Shared by anamarsy
Kendra, do you use the powder or the liquid Charlie's soap? I am interested in trying it and wondered what you recommend. Thanks!
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Liquid or Powder? - Jan. 29, 2008

Shared by PreschoolersandPeace
I have only used the powder, and I bought the big gigantic container. It is lasting fooorrrreeevvveeer :) I can't give you a real cost analysis, but I do know I have used only half the container in the last year. Amazing!


Edited by PreschoolersandPeace on Jan. 30, 2008 at 1:40 AM
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