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Jan. 31, 2006

Whining and Solving

Okay, this post is strictly to get my own self straightened out and less whirl-brained. I don't expect it to me very exciting, so if you're looking for a good time: Read No Further!

WHINES:

1- I can't seem to remember to give the puppy his calcium. Ever. Hip-dysplacia (sp?) runs in the fam, and I want him strong ended.

2- I have totally lost my morning routine of getting up early, spending time with my Jesus, sipping a glass of Barley-Max, and going to the gym. Our house has been chalk (chock?) full of people for weeks on end - not counting the 6 of us that normally live here, and if I don't have the same chair with the same cup, I just don't get it done.

3- I don't even want to go to the gym anymore. Even though it helps my back Tons, I just don't think it's worth leaving my babies for...

4- We've slipped quite a bit on our healthy eating. There never seems to be fruit in the house anymore, and our babies are staging a strike on salads.

5- My truck is filthy (as in mud and sand inside and out) and my house is cluttered.

6- I haven't visited Ms. Dolly (old neighbor) in forever. I'm a horrible friend.

7- About being a friend: I never think to do those nice things like make meals for sick people or call when it's been a while. Doesn't even cross my mind. I've also got three people that can't get emails and for some dumb reason I can't seem to sit down and write them a few lines.

8- We haven't done real live Math work in a couple months, I haven't taught the babies a new English worship song in probably just as long, and we've been stuck halfway through 1 Corinthians 13 in memorization for about a month now.

9- My Grandma, Ornor, was found by her neighbor after days of not leaving the house. She was dehydrated and disoriented, laying on her couch with a few bruises, and nobody knows why. Her purse is missing and she lives in a gnarly neighborhood in North Hollywood. And I'm in another country.

 

*OKAY* Before I depress myself too much, let's get onto the solving.

 

SOLUTIONS:

1- Delegate the puppy meds to Big Bro, with Little Bro as doctor's assistant.

2- Start tomorrow: up at 5am, shake my barley, and Spend Time with God.

3- Pull out the FIRM videos and see if I can start a routine without leaving the house.

4- Just talked to Husband and he's bringing home a boatload of fruit. Tonight we're working out a better shopping plan.

5- Make a fun time out of cleaning the truck tonight with the babies, and keep trying to Purge the extra house stuff.

6- Talk to Husband about when we can visit Ms Dolly. Maybe take over some Mango jelly?

7- Pray more for my friends, and ask God to make me sensitive to their needs.

8- Make a school schedule, even if we only follow it loosely.

9- I really don't know what to do about Ornor. Husband says wait until my brother gets there (he's flying from Alaska) and let him tell me what should be done. I mostly just want to Go There and Be With Her, but I don't know what help that would be - she's not exactly fond of anyone but my brother...I looked up plane flights and we could do it on the Visa, but that's debt... PRAYER. That's what I'll do until something else comes up. Pray for her health and her slavation and wisdom for our family as we decided at what point we are allowed to decide anything.

  I'm sure I'll revisit this soon, but that's where I'm at right now. :~)

 

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Feb. 1, 2006 - yes, life can sure be frustrating

Posted by debdillon
when it gets out of kilter. I've struggled with keeping up with everything (especially the people stuff like visiting/calling friends).

Hope the rest of your week goes well.

Deb

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Feb. 1, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by giggles3
Yup, I always find it helpful to write things out.
I hope and pray that your grandma is doing better and getting the help that she needs, it is hard when you live far away from someone. The Lord knows. ;O)
Have a wonderful day friend,
Christina
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Feb. 2, 2006 - Cada loco con su tema!

Posted by salome
Just a joke, since I figured you must speak Spanish down there, right?

You have three little ones, and you are living in a foreign country, as missionaries.right? Allow yourself some "Grace-Space" We can be so hard on ourselves, can't we?

I am 46 (47 this month) with a 12 ds, and 6 1/2 dd. I have found that with some health challenges, and my age, I have had to really give up so much of my expectations, and desires for perfection.

There are many days, that the math doesn't get done, or the phonics, or the correcting of papers. WEll, then I am reminded to back off from "my expectations", and allow the Lord to penetrate and provide His.

Oh and about the exercise. I used to work out 4 days a week, now if I get once a week I am doing well. I like your idea of doing it in the home, it is more likely to get done!!!

I have those nagging feelings about "visiting" with people as well. It seems like I just do not have the time , or energy for even a phone call. (maybe if I up the exercise.....)

My husband and I discuss this "season" of childrearing and homeschooling. We have decided that this is our misssion field right now. It is here for a short time. Every thing else will be there when we are finished, even the dust, right?

It sounds like you must be doing wonderful work there. Keep your chin up.Many prayers for your family.

con mucho carino, ( I do not have the Spanish N on puter!)
salome

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Feb. 2, 2006 - aghhh1

Posted by JoyB
ahhh verification number typed wrong ! had a nice long blog to you and all.. it will have to wait till tomorrow now!? thoughts to you anyway :)

buenos noches :)
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Feb. 4, 2006 - I'm making lots of changes too ...

Posted by
I feel the exact same way my dear! My counter is now loaded with fruit, the cabinets have lots of "whole" ingredients, we are slowly coming up with a school schedule (did I mention it is going s l o w l y) ..... etc, etc. I am also working on standards for our household and a daily checklist (we are too unstructured to have an actual schedule so a checklist will be perfect).

You go girl! Love and blessings ... Brooke

Edited by OurHappyFamily on Feb. 4, 2006 at 12:13 PM
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Feb. 5, 2006 - Wow...great lists!

Posted by Kg
What an inspiration for you to know what's bugging you and what is wrong with your stuff, AND then to think up viable solutions.

You are such an inspiration! I should do that, too.

Nah. Too much work. I'll just live vicariously through you, okay?

Hope everything is okay with Ornor.
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Feb. 13, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by giggles3
How is your grandma?
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Feb. 14, 2006 - Just wanted to say...

Posted by giggles3
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!
Christina
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