Mar. 15, 2008 Had to switch blogs Nov. 25, 2007 Thanksgiving Menu and comments
Turkey -
Recipe - http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Citrus-Turkey-Brine/Detail.aspx then rubbed butter and garlic between the skin and meat. Turned out super awesome. I cooked it upside down then the last hour or so turned breast side up. It was very juicy and flavorful. I will continue using this simple recipe.
Mashed Potatoes-
Did with butter, milk and garlic powder for dh's and with ricemilk and Earth Balance and garlic powder for mine. I want to do more herbs next time.
Stuffing
Dh-I need a new recipe it was with cranberries and apples. My mother did it and didn't listen to the changes in the recipe and turned out decent but horrible for dh. So I need a recipe with sausage and pine nuts again.
Mine- it was a Cashew stuffing and was (ok). I will need a new recipe also. Maybe just use the same recipe as the pinenut one but without sausage.
Green Beans- maybe do lemony or bacon in it next time.
Tossed green salad - something my mother couldn't mess up :)
Rolls- I want to do homemade next time. The ones we had were mediocre.
Olives and Cranberry Sauce.
Vegan Carrot Cake (was ok. if I made it it might have been better, though my mom followed the recipe she still doesn't do well cooking).
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Next year definately doing sweet potatoes also.
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Nov. 25, 2007 Heart Tying Strings Challenge - Week 5
November 26th - Week Five
This weeks assignment: Play a game or do a fun activity with your child.
Motivation:
Matthew 18:3 And he said: "I tell you the truth, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
Explanation -
Find a new game or activity to do with your child. It can be something simple like hide and seek..or have a pillow fight! We are not suggesting you go BUY anything here. Laugh and relax and do not think about your "to do list" while playing! Is there something your child is often asking you to do or play, and you say, "not now?" Does your child love crafts and you dislike them and keep putting your child off? Now is the week to change that and do something that your child enjoys. Plan to do this activity or game, or a variety of games or activities at least 2-3 times this week if you can. Post and tell all what you played and how fun it was, and how much fun it was to actually do stuff with your kiddos.
Purpose -
Tying heart strings to your child. To enjoy spending time with your child, and for your child to enjoy fellowshipping with you as well. This will actually help with FTO!
Final Objective -
Have a great relationship with you child(ren). Have children that can come to you with their worries and concerns, and enjoy spending time with their family more than their friends. To model and practice selflessness and fellowship.
Anecdote-
When Rivergallery was young, on rainy days when everyone was home they would pull out board games. Not just board games. Each family member picked 1-2 games, and they would hold a competition. A carnival of sorts as one game inevitably was fishing for prizes over the back of Daddy's easy chair. Who ever won the most games got to pick their reward. Before the contest they would write down what they wanted, Rivergallery always put have everyone clean her room for a week. Her dad would put help him in the garage, and Mom always put help in the kitchen. Dad usually won so after the contest they all headed into the garage. Even that work for "loosing" was fun, as they were together.
Links -
Tracy's Book Nook- http://www.tracysbooknook.com/parenting_books/1001waystoconnect.html
1001 ways to connect with our kids by James R Lucas - http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0842331549
100 Fun things to do with your Family- http://www.angelfire.com/md2/moodyfamily/100things.html
20 Fun things to do with your Kids - http://www.waidsoft.com/funkids.html
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Nov. 23, 2007 Re Heart Tying Challenge #4
Well we ended up making two types of mashed potatoes yesterday, my dh likes his with the skin on, and I can't eat dairy.
So the boys washed the potatoes with Grandma watching, then brought them to me to chop them and put them into a pot, then they carried the pot to grandma and filled it with water. Then I called them back when it was ready to mash and add milk and butter and garlic powder, they loved it, and they turned out yummy. |
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Nov. 22, 2007 What I am thankful For..
My salvation, Jesus offering himself as a sacrifice for me.
My strong, intelligent husband.
My two preschool age boys.
Loving caring parents, who are still alive and together.
My protect dog who barks whenever someone comes, so I never have nightmears anymore.
A warm home on a frosty morning.
Delicious food. From Pizza and Ice Cream to Chai tea and wheat free scones.
Long Baths with Epsom Salts or bubbles!
Naps.. especially when the kids both take one.
Funny Movies
Being able to walk without pain.. working on this one!
An electronically reclinable chair.
My 24" mac.
Wisdom.
Discernment.
Ability to create.
Wonderful art.
E-mail
Christmas Cards
Smell of Jasmine, and Sweet peas.
Daffodils and mini pumpkin gourds.
Rice Milk
Bonfires on the Beach.
Watching the stars with my dh.
The ocean, my second home.
comfy shoes
new clothes
sunsets
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Nov. 18, 2007 Heart Tying Strings Challenge - Week 4
November 19th - Week Four
This weeks assignment: Teach your child to make something in the Kitchen
Motivation-
Deuteronomy 11:13, 19 ...love the LORD your God and to serve him with all your heart and with all your soul. --- Teach these to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.
Explanation -
If we are to teach them all day long, then they must be with us. Both boys and girls should have proficiency in the Kitchen. Teach your child one recipe, it can be as simple as making a PB&J sandwich for the 4 year olds, to baking a pumpkin pie, complete with a crust. Post the recipe that you use, and any history behind it. Also of course post how it goes, and photos if possible.
Purpose -
To have children that can complete a task, enjoy cooking, baking and other kitchen tasks.
Final Objective -
To give the kids a set of staple recipes that they can recreate on their own.
Additional Information - One thing Rivergallery's mom taught her to do in the kitchen is to can peaches and pears. They would go to the valley and bring home boxes of fresh fruit. Pull out the canning jars, lids and rings. Rivergallery was in charge of peeling and peeling and peeling. Then was taught how to layer them in the jars. They would put up a good couple dozen jars every year. So involve your kids in the kitchen, have fun, create healthier food, and pass on a cherished skill.
Resources -
Recipes - http://www.allrecipes.com
Pretend Soup and other real recipes by Mollie Katzen and Ann Henderson |
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Nov. 18, 2007 Re Heart Tying Challenge #3
None of our kids are perfect, and honestly never will be as they and we are both sinners. But trying to do right by them and by God is the best we can do.
My kids doing excellent considering I have one doing each arms work and my feet too. At 4 & 5 I set my expectations high, but they are doing well.
Yesterday was a bit hard for my oldest in the morning so I saw how he woke up and didn't bombard him right away, instead waited till he got some breakfast in in. My younger woke super helpful and even was hear saying "super hero to the rescue!" He got worn out after a couple hours though, so I made him finish a certain job and then I called it a day. We got a ton done. But still had a lot to do today.
They are both obeying much better today, now that we are back to our routine. Their bedroom is clean and they are clean and fed. Now to finish up chores and do a bit of school.
My youngest really likes to play, and get into things, so I have to watch him. He isn't doing it to rebel, he does it after I have asked him to do a task and he finished it, but he didn't come to me afterwards. Instead he starts to play. So I am working on making that an obedience issue.. telling him to come when done.
I am still in pain and can't do much of anything, but they are actually helping more than they are a hindrance, so I am feeling blessed. |
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Nov. 18, 2007 Heart Tying Strings Challenge - Week 3
November 12th - Week Three
This weeks assignment: Become a student of your child.
Motivation -
Deuteronomy 4:9 (NIV)
Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them slip from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.
Explanation -
This week, your job is to observe your child's heart. Become a student of your child. WATCH his or her responses and make sure they are cheerful and obedient and he or she has his or her heart turned toward you. Watch for things like eye rolling, sighing, mumbling under his breath, subtle disobedience, slowness, and other passive aggressive behavior. Write it down or post about it and determine to address this subtle behavior and make sure your child's heart is turned toward you. (Now of course we should all be doing this all the time, but this is designed to be training US as moms to be more observant and not so distracted) Please let us know how it goes even if you want to be vague. How did your observation skills improve, post one thing you learned about your child's heart.
Purpose -
Remove hidden rebellion. Be a super aware parent. Get to know your child better, especially his/her heart. Turn your child's heart to you so you can turn it towards God.
Final Objective-
Have a Child who loves God and grows up into a strong Christan adult.
Additional Information - We are all growing together on this journey, the message-board is full of anecdotes, and ideas for this week. So for EXTRA CREDIT take a look around and post a link to something that helped you with your child this week.
Links/Book Recommendations
The main page here - http://www.raisinggodlytomatoes.com
Child Training Tips by Reb Bradley
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Nov. 8, 2007 Chore pictures Nov. 7, 2007 Ear Infections
Ear Infections
Most ear infections occur in the outer and middle ears. Often wax or irritation can be the cause of the infection. Such as damage caused by cleaning. Usually they are complications of colds, or upper respiratory infections. They may be accompanied by other cold and flu like symptoms. “IF you experience sharp, severe pain, followed by a sudden drainage of blood and/or pus from your ear you may have a perforated eardrum.”2
Symptoms- pain, itching, discharge, also it is possible to develop boils. Children often cry, pull on their ears, have trouble nursing or sucking on a bottle. Earaches can one of the most painful of childhood illnesses. (4) And parents often feel helpless as they believe it can cause hearing loss and other complications. (4) However hearing loss is incredibly rare as a result of ear infections. (4) If a child has put an object in the ear get them to a doctor immediately (4).
75% of children will have at least 3 ear infections before they are six. (3) “Otitis Media (Middle ear infection) is responsible for about 8 % of all patient visits to pediatric practices and 17% of all infections that are diagnosed (4).” However not all 17% are actually infections as it is one of the most overdiagnosed problem. (4) There is a belief that the narrowing of the Eustachian tubes is due to the toxic environment. (3)
Traditional Medicine
Most doctors prescribe a variety of medicines, as well as inserting tubes. (4) But, Dr. Mendelsohn MD, actively now opposes these measures as well as trying to avoid antibiotics(4). With an otosope what does the Dr really see? They often can’t see an infection if is it behind the ear drum it is not possible, and often redness can be due to other issues. The only case when antibiotics should be prescribed for ear infections according to Mendelsohn is when the ear is discharging pus. In controlled studies the administering of antibiotics made no difference in hearing loss, spread of infection, or mastoiditis. They may reduce the duration of pain and infection but also reduce the body’s natural immune system (4).
Most people feel better within 48-72hours after taking antibiotics such as amoxicillin, cefaclor, cefime, erythromycin and sulfamethoxazole plus trimethoprim (These are the ones most often prescribed AS OF 1999)(2). If the ear infection doesn’t respond then according to conventional treatment you should talk to or contact your doctor. Analgesics can help relieve ear pain, and doctors pay prescribe something stronger than the over the counter ones (acetaminophen or ibuprofen). If the infection is related to sinus or nasal congestion, antihistamines and/or decongestants may be prescribed. “Research has not shown these medications to be helpful in actually curing ear infections, however”2 “If you have an ear infection and develop a fever, chills, dizziness or serious hearing loss, or experience a severe headache, a stiff neck, lethargy, or changes in consciousness, contact your physician immediately These can be signs of serious complications, such as meningitis or an infection that has traveled to the inner ear.”2
Many times antibiotics are prescribed because parents insist on them, not because they are needed, or helpful. The majority of EIs are viral instead of bacterial so the antibiotics do nothing. “In addition, antibiotics destroy the good bacteria in your body, which can lead to other problems.” An imbalance of bacteria can lead to repeat Eis, and antibiotics can lead to diarrhea as well as other health problems, “…if antibiotics are given for a bacterial infection, it doesn't allow the body to build up its own antibodies against the bacteria. This is why … some people will get the same bacteria type of infection over and over when using antibiotics.”(1) “Some children respond well to antibiotics; “others are put on a round-robin of antibiotics treatments (sometimes for years); and others still require surgery.”(3) “Children given antibiotics for early infections are 2-6 times more likely to develop a recurrence than children who did not receive the antibiotic treatment.” (1991 Journal of the American Medical Association quoted in 3).
“Over $3.5 billion is spent by American parents every year on the treatment of ear infections, primarily on antibiotics.”(3) The long term use of antibiotics is not yet known.(3)
For our children/Babies- They need “to get on a probiotic - acdiophilus bifidus supplement, besides the yogurt. This will help to restore …destroyed (from antibiotics, illness, stress, etc.) intestinal flora, the healthy bacteria that is the backbone of the immune system.”1 If you do a google search for probiotic and infant it brings up lots of information and links to places that sell liquid supplements. I found that the probiotics should be taken spaced out between the antibiotics, and try to give after at least an hour from the time the antibiotic is administered.
You should see a doctor if the ear pain has persisted over 48 hours, this is to rule out trauma of foreign material in the ear.
Dietary
“Eliminating all sugar, juice, dairy, and greasy/fatty foods from diet. Dairy produces and thickens mucous in the body. The others all weaken the immune system.”1 (2 and 3 concur)
Sugar- “is a challenge to the body and feeds fungal, parasitic, and bacterial infections” (3)
Milk and cheese- “ Dairy can be a mucus- forming food…” yogurt may be fine (3).
Drink lots of liquids
Nutritional
Increase the vitamin C One can actually go to the point of saturation which is outlined on this website http://www.doctoryourself.com. For Josiah I give 4,000mg a day when ill, And I take up to 18,000 mg per day. If you get diarrhea then your body has been saturated. Get a Vit C that contains “mineral-ascorbate-buffered vitamin C but no sugar”2
Take probiotic supplement. 2
Take Bioflavinoids along with the Vit C- both are anti inflammatory, for adults according to Smart Medicine take 500-1,000mg(dosage recommended for adults) of each 4-5 times daily, but you can take more as the VIT C can’t be overdosed as I noted earlier. 2
Home Remedy
Yellow Onion- antimicrobial, cut in ½ warm in oven to 200 degrees, wrap in cheese cloth, hold against ear till onion is cool, onion can be reheated and reused.
Tea Tree oil and Garlic- for itchy ears- mosten cotton swab w/ tea tree oil, dab on infected area morning and night, if to irritating dilute with mild veg or nut oil ie sunflower, almond, or olive (I RECOMMEND DILUTING especially for our young babes) 3drops tea tree to ½-1tsp carrier oil, If more help needed use 2 drops of garlic oil, After applying plug ear with cotton. (DON’T USE if ear drum is perforated!)
Peppermint- for waxy buildup, 2 drops peppermint oil. ½ tsp olive oil, warm oils, while sleeping insert as much oil as ear will hold, plug with cotton. (DON’T USE if ear drum is perforated!)
Hydrogen Peroxide- wax buildup, insert a few drops into the ear 2x/day for 2-3 days.(4)
Dr. Mendelsohn recommends “Use a heating pad; insert two drops of heated (but not hot) olive oil in the child’s ear every two hours; give whiskey by mouth, which will help the child sleep (Give 10 drops of whiskey to a small baby and up to ½ tsp to a larger one. The does can be repeated in one hour and once more in another hour, if needed.); and, if severe pain continues, use the appropriate children’s does of acetaminophen. The object is to relieve the symptoms while the body defends itself.” (4)
NOTE: NEVER USE INSTRUMENTS TO REMOVE WAX as the lining of the ear is very thin! This includes parents as well as doctors, as more damage can be done by inserting an instrument than the ear infection!
Herbal Medicine
Echinacea – is antiviral works best if taken before ill, So I give it if we are going out in public etc, directions for dosage are on the bottles, I use Herbs for Kids brand.
Garlic/mullein ear drops if ears are bothering him – can get them from
Breastmilk in the ears is excellent. I also used specially formulated children's blends such as Herbs for Kids or
Cecil, the aromatherapy snake
Breastmilk, olive oil or steep garlic cloves in olive oil and use that
Cat’s Claw- Enhances immune response and is antibacterial for adults take 500mg of extract 3x/day- not sure about this for children.2
Goldenseal- is antibacterial and soothes mucous membranes. Stimulates immune system Can be taken with Echinacea- in fact there are often combination formulas available.2
Garlic- as an antibacterial, antiviral, and antiparasitivc take 500mg 3-4times per day (adult dosage), You can put warm garlic oil into the ear also (1-2TBL for adults, 1-2 drops of antimicrobial garlic oil in infected ear, with 1-2 drops of mullein flower oil).(2,3) for younger children chopped garlic can be added to mashed potatoes (for our young ones you need to be aware of gas issues if you give garlic, for older children you can give tablets. It
Mullien Oil- reduces swelling and inflammation. Heat to slightly above body temp, 1-2drops into ear. 2
Oregano- antibacterial 75-100mg 3x/day (adult dosage)
Herbal decongestant (3).
St John’s Wort oil- for pain, add a drop or two per ear. Calms nerve sensitivity and helps ease discomfort.
Noni Juice – scientific studies on Noni - http://www.cnw.com/~timo/scien/scientific.html can be dropped directly into the ear and can be taken internally
Immune System Boosters
Daily Vitamins- “KAL makes Immuno-Raptors, a naturally flavored and colored (with beets! ) chewable immune-boosting blend of Vita A, Vita C w/bioflavanoids, and Zinc, all of which will greatly enhance immune function.”(1)
Noni Juice – scientific studies on Noni - http://www.cnw.com/~timo/scien/scientific.html
Flax seed oil – make sure to get as fresh as possible!
Zand Kids makes an excellent Insure Herbal formula with echinacea and goldenseal that you can give three times daily according to instructions. (1)
BRANDS-
Herbs for Kids
Gaia's Kids ear drops with garlic (natural antiviral/antibacterial), mullein and st. john's.
WEBSITES
Herbs can be purchased at healthfood stores, some at supermarkets, also online here
http://www.leavesandroots.com/
More info on herbs
http://www.herbs.org/
Homeopathic
Belladona- “throbbing earache that is relieved by resting with head elevated, accompanied by fever, a flushed face, dilated pupils, and hot and moist skin” (adult dosage 30x or 9c 2-3x/day for one day). (2)
Chamomilla- earache that causes intolerable pain, with irritability, anger, may have one red cheek, with hot and moist skin (adult dosage 12x, 30x, 6c, 9c 3x/day for 1-2 days). (2)
Ferrum phosphorycum- earache with fever, (adult dosage 12x or 6c every 30 min for 4 doses). (2)
Kali muruaticum- helps relieve nasal congestion and swollen glands, will help if your Eustachian tube is blocked. (adult dosage 12x or 6c three times/day for 1-2days). (2)
Pulsatilla- earache with moderate fever, person desires cold, they wand fresh air. (adult dosage 30x or 9c 3x/day for 1-2 days). (2)
Mercurius dulcis often works if others failed. (adult dosage 12c or 6c 3x/day for 2 days). (2)
hylands ear tablets (2)
similiason drops (2)
Cell Salt Therapy- Ferr.Phos, Kali Mur, Nat. Mur, Kali Phos, Calc Sulph.( There is more written about these if anyone is interested) (3).
If none of the homeopathic remedies seem right you may want to contact a homeopath in your area or online.
WEBSITES
Homeopathics can be purchase at health food stores or online at http://www.abchomeopathy.com
Chart for homeopathics for acute otitis media
http://www.medscape.com/content/2003/00/45/58/455872/455872_tab.html
More information on homeopath remedies for ear infections found here-
http://www.mycustompak.com/healthNotes/Homeo/Ear_Infections_hm.htm
Another website with information on Homeopathy in general
http://www.homeopathy2health.com/index.htm
Integrative Medicine
- chiropractor for adjustments for ears.(1) Alignments can increase blood and oxygen to the ears. (3)
- osteopath for cranial therapy for ears. (1)
- behind-the-ear massage to help promote the draining of fluid. (1)
In General
Do not lay on your back, lie on the uninfected side. Prop head up with pillows (for adults). (2) For infants prop up mattress with towels etc under the mattress, so their head is raised. Also if not rolling yet you can place them on their sides with a special wedge pillow. If they are already rolling they may HATE the pillow .
Apply warm compresses- some will feel better with warm other with cold. (2)
Avoid air travel- due to pressure change, same can be said for car rides that contain a change in elevation. (2)
Prevention
* Give a 1/2 multivitamin + 1 100mg vitamin C (twice a day). (1)
* Flax seed oil. (1)
* Probiotic/prebiotic (not doing every day) (1)
* Wheat germ (1)
* A pinch of my zinc supplement (very small amount). (1)
* No dairy. (1)
* Organic foods as much as possible. (If meat/eggs, no growth hormones or antibiotics.) (1)
* Nontoxic cleaners around the house. (1) It is amazing the toxins in our cleaning products! EVEN bleach and ammonia, not to mention TOOTHPASTE ;).
* Open winter to air out house. (1)
Cut out dairy, especially when ill as it increase the mucus
Many moms purchase otoscopes so they can keep an eye out for redness, they can be found at a Walgreens Pharmacy for only $10, and probably online at drugstore.com
Avoid smoke (2)
Massage ear (2)
Use Elimination diet to determine if food allergies are contributing. (2)
Avoid exposure to other allergens IE pets, dust etc(2,3). This includes washing bedding and clothes in allergy free detergents before using next to the baby(2,3).
Kinesiologically test food “because poorly tolerated foods can result in the buildup of mucus, which is a precursor to many ear infections.”(3) If breastfeeding the mother can also get tested. “Common offenders include dairy, soy, wheat, corn, peanuts, chocolate, orange juice, and eggs.”(3)
References
1.Gentle Christian Mother’s Forum http://www.gentlechristianmothering.com
2.Smart Medicine For Healthier Living by Janet Zand, Allan Spreen, and James LaValle (1999).
3. Gentle Healing for Baby and Child by Andrea Candee and David Andrusia (2000)
4. How to Raise a Healthy Child… In Spite of your Doctor by Robert S. Mendelsohn M.D. (1984)
GOOD GENERAL WEBSITES
http://www.shirleys-wellness-cafe.com/infant.htm
http://www.naturalhealthschool.com/
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Nov. 6, 2007 ACLJ - petition consider signing
ACLJ emailed me
In a disconcerting power-play, school officials in one Maine public school district have cleared the way for middle school students - as young as 11 years old - to freely obtain a full range of prescription contraceptives even without their parents’ permission.
This is an outrage, and it cannot be ignored! I hope you will stand with me and the ACLJ right now through their nationwide PETITION TO PROTECT CHILDREN campaign and demand that this troubling policy be immediately revoked. The email below from the ACLJ has more information....
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What is happening right now in Portland, Maine, should actually concern you.
The Portland School Committee has overwhelmingly voted to begin distributing prescription birth control pills and patches to students in Grades 6 through 8 at King Middle School.
Add your name immediately to our online Petition to Protect Children. We must send a powerful, united message to the school district in question: Change this troubling policy immediately and hand the responsibility of school-aged children back to their parents.
It is beyond disconcerting to think that students - as young as 11 years old - can freely obtain a full range of prescription contraceptives at school ... even without their parents’ permission.
This is an outrage that cannot be ignored! Your parental authority could very well be on the line. What happens at this school could have tremendous repercussions for you and your children and grandchildren.
The King Middle School Student Health Center - serving students who are just 11 to 15 years old - has offered what they call “comprehensive reproductive healthcare,” including providing contraceptive devices since it opened in 2000.
Yet even more troubling ... while the school district’s health program is distributing contraceptives to minors, the law in Maine prohibits anyone from engaging in sexual relationships with a person under the age of 14, regardless of the age of the other person involved.
In fact, a healthcare provider is required to report all known or suspected cases of sexual relations with minors age 13 and under to the Department of Health and Human Services.
However, the Portland School Committee has taken matters into their own hands, usurping parental responsibility and state law on this issue ... not to mention sending a mixed - AND DAMAGING - message to their students.
Add your name to our online PETITION TO PROTECT CHILDREN right now and demand that this disturbing reproductive health services policy be immediately revoked at King Middle School.
We are at work on this troubling situation. I have commissioned some of our senior lawyers to prepare a legal memorandum to the school concerning the policy. We are also sending a demand letter to school officials requesting that this damaging policy be changed.
It is outrageous that young, impressionable students can get immediate access to prescription medicines, including birth control, without parental consent.
If you are as concerned as I am by the bold power-play of the Portland School Committee, then speak out by adding your name to our online PETITION TO PROTECT CHILDREN immediately.
Let’s end this radical move right now before the headline reads: Middle school birth control plan coming to a school near YOU.
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Nov. 6, 2007 Time and Priorities
There is a common thought tossed around in Christian circles, that the more time spent on something means the more you value it.
This may be true in some cases. But in general I think it is over simplified and can lead to discontentment on the part of the significant others with whom time isn't spent (as much as say tiem at work or even eating).
Most husbands work 40 hours a week, of their waking hours. Say he wakes at 7am leaves by 8:30am is at work by 9 and off by 5 and home by 5:30. Then he is in bed by 10pm every night.
So he has 6 hours a weekday plus 15 every weekend day for a total of 60 hours left. Let us assume a shower a day plus dressing etc is 1/2 hour so - 3 1/2 hours = 56 1/2 Lets add in eating breakfasts and dinners and two lunches at 1/2 hour each. So 48 1/2 hours. Other bodily issues - 30min/day 45 1/2 hours left.
What does your man have to do in those 45 1/2 hours - Well mine is expected to keep up with the house; mow the lawn, do maintainance, electrical, plumbing and carpentry repair, car maintainance etc. He is also expected to play with the kids and take them places. He also is expected to spend time with me (his wife), and do errands if we need something specific (like pellets for the pellet stove). He then has to fit in time with friends, helping the neighbors or the church. Also hobbies, for him it is building or learning about aircraft. Also then his personal time with the Lord.
So if he only spends 5 hours with me during the week I should NOT feel slighted or that he cares about me less. For him to prove he cares about me more using this flawed "time" formula he would have to spend at least 41 hours with me a week to outweigh his work.!
For me this is often hard as his time is often filled with hobby time building an airplane or talking to other guys about airplanes and I feel pouty and left out.
Well this is as shout out and an encouragement to all you ladies. Get interested in his hobby, so that you can be involved more with him and his "spare" time. My dh lives and breathes airplanes so I have made him my hobby. So yes I know what a cowling is, and a rudder pedal and a Cessna 150 and all sorts of information that I would never have cared to know, but I care to know now because I love my dh and want to spend time with him.
I guess I get offended a bit when people judge others spiritual life by how much they are in the Word also. It is true that we should be reading it, and it should be on our lips, but if you are only reading it 1 % of your day are you any less of a Christian than someone who is reading it 100% of the day. NO. Sometimes, and most often actions speak louder than words. And if someone is reading and not doing then that is a sin IMO. Read all the holy book for sure.. But do not hide it. And do not sacrifice your family's well being so you can lock yourself in your closet to read. Or volunteer at the church 24/7 and not go to work so your family has bread on the table. |
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Nov. 6, 2007 Holiday Themed pages, information etc. Nov. 5, 2007 Heart Tying Strings Challenge - Week 2
November 5th - Week Two
This weeks assignment: Teach your child one new chore.
Motivation-
1 Thess 4:11-12 Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.
Explanation -
This does not mean you tell them the chore and walk off. This is a heart tying activity. but SHOW them how to do it and do it well, and make sure they understand your expectations. Make sure your attitude is cheerful and light and have fun with your child! Post what chore you taught or practiced and how it went. Do you think it will be a regular habit or a one time chore? Did you find it valuable to set time aside to train them to do a chore?
Purpose-
To tie strings of fellowship with your child while teaching them a valuable life long skill. To teach the children to be cheerful while doing what they need to do in their current role in the home now, as well as in the future. In addition, this will make your daily grind easier.
Final Objective-
Raise kids up to strong adults that know how to run an efficient household.
Anecdote-
Rivergallery's sons really love cleaning the floors. She gets out a medium size bowl with soapy water, and hand each boy a rag or sponge and they have a fun time soaping up everything in the kitchen. When it is sufficiently slathered Rivergallery takes a large bath towel and dries it all off. The kids are filled with happiness of doing something together. And also confident as they did a great job, on their "own".
Links-
Chore list - http://housekeeping.about.com/od/chorechart1/a/ageapprchores.htm
Another Chore List - http://www.lesliewilson.com/age-appropriate_chores.htm
Chore Chart - http://www.successfulfamilychores.com/Chore_Charts/
Fly Lady - http://www.flylady.net/
Managers of Their Chores (MOTC) - http://www.titus2.com/ecommerce/products/prod_listing.php/1150
Managers Of The Home (MOTH) - http://www.titus2.com/ecommerce/products/prod_listing.php/1100
Motivated Moms - http://www.motivatedmoms.com/
Homekeeping Journal - http://myblessedhome.blogspot.com/2006/04/home-management-binder-housewifes-best.html#article
http://myblessedhome.blogspot.com/2007/06/welcome-to-hmb-university.html#article |
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Nov. 3, 2007 How to impart Wisdom
One question the Proverbs seemed to answer for me was How do we as parents impart wisdom to our children?
Proverbs 1:7
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline.
- First you must be following the Lord.
Proverbs 2:12
Wisdom will save you from the ways of wicked men, from men whose words are perverse,
- Keep in mind the goal of imparting wisdom to our children is to save them from wickedness. So we must be decerning ourselves, and teach them right from wrong.
Proverbs 4:1
Listen, my sons, to a father's instruction; pay attention and gain understanding.
- Get their attention before you instruct them, and teach them How to listen.
Proverbs 4:5
Get wisdom, get understanding; do not forget my words or swerve from them.
- Rules are important and good, and memorization it an asset to both you and your children.
Proverbs 4:11
I guide you in the way of wisdom and lead you along straight paths.
- Think of the "I" as you the parent who is doing the leading.
Proverbs 9:10
"The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.
- Again the Lord is where we begin with wisdom.
Proverbs 10:31
The mouth of the righteous brings forth wisdom, but a perverse tongue will be cut out.
- This is very convicting, we are to righteous, and that will teach our children through us.
Proverbs 21:11
When a mocker is punished, the simple gain wisdom; when a wise man is instructed, he gets knowledge.
- punishment is Godly, and necessary for imparting wisdom.
Proverbs 23:9
Do not speak to a fool, for he will scorn the wisdom of your words
- Calm your child down before imparting wisdom to them. Whether that is a timeout for your younger, or a cool off period for your teenager.
Proverbs 29:15
The rod of correction imparts wisdom, but a child left to himself disgraces his mother.
- Discipline is important, and does teach your child wisdom! Keep your child with you or how will you teach him?
Proverbs 29:20
Do you see a man who speaks in haste?
There is more hope for a fool than for him.
- Speak slowly, think before you speak and use words your children understand.
Proverbs 31:26
She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
- Your children will listen to you so be aware what is ON YOUR TONGUE.. that is a whole different study.. the tongue.. Be aware and beware is the simple saying I will leave you with.
Hope you have a wonderful weekend, see you in the new challenge in a couple days. |
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I am from feeding ducks with day-old-bread, but being scared of the geese. I am from picking strawberries and eating unwashed carrots. I am from a winding coo-coo clock, quarters and wooden toys. I am from fixing pigeons, crazy cats, and blackberries. I am from sand in my teeth, salt in my hair, and swimming in hypothermic water. I am from clam digging, shrimping, fishing at the cove, and hunting for chalk rocks. I am from drawing art galleries on the sidewalk squares, taking black and white exploding flash bulb photos of mud pies on the front stairs. I am from camping at Spruce Run, sliding down the mud on my butt, swinging into the hole with a rope swing, and rafting down to the campsite on an innertube. I am from barbie dolls, secret spies, and creating our own code language. I am from blue and red chips, broken wooden spoons, and soap.
I am from handmade valentines with taffy glued to the construction paper, Easter sundays with patent leather, seeing a green glow in the art room one Patrick's Day. I am from chicken pox on my 12th birthday which always fell on spring break so I didn't get time off of school. I am from Thanksgivings with family, and putting olives on my fingers. I am from Christmases with exciting toys and lots of lights, and Willie Wonka stories told by my dad the night we put the lights up. I am from making Christmas cookies, and thinking homemade rice tomato soup and a garage sale doll named Joy were my best presents.
I am from knowing at 5 I wanted to be baptized because Jesus was, and I wanted to go to heaven, and be God's. I am from getting baptized at 7 and being so happy to know the Lord. I am from getting my first prayer answered in Preschool.
I am from learning to read, write and do math before I entered school. I am from a grandmother and mother who loved to teach, and swearing I would never be a teacher, but realizing as an adult I had a great aptittude for it. And deciding before having children that teaching kids is what I really want to do.
I am from learning to sew over Spring breaks spent with my grandparents in the valley. I am from swimming every day over the summer, and pretending to be a mermaid or a dolphin under the water, till I would get called for lunch. I am from 2nd base, setting and point guard. I am from listening to my mother for academics and my father for work and play.
I am from a mother who taught me to love the Lord, be humble, and imparted to me knowledge and love of learning. I am from a father who taught me how to have fun, work hard, be friendly, be truthful and to love and care for family.
I am from taking 9th grade literature in 7th and 9th grade. I am from wanting to be an investigator, architect, and biologist. I am from starting to major in biology and switching to Sociology. I am from fighting against my body to do what I want/need to in life. I am from 2 car accidents, 2 knee accidents, IBS, asthma, allergies, and Chronic Fatigue. I am from two kids and a husband.
I am from tea, baths, sunsets and beautiful paintings. |
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I went to my knee specialist Friday, and he still recommends surgery so I am having surgery on Thursday. This way dh only has to take off one day of work.
It is Arthoscopic, lateral retinacular release and possible pateller shave, plus this time a distal extensor realignment. Lots of words for releasing the kneecap and realligning it.
Both my knees hurt so much I can't even sit without pain, so I am ready to be able to walk again!
I go to a naturopath, but nothing he has suggested has helped enough. |
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Oct. 31, 2007 My husband is a gem because...
1. He is smart and can keep up with me intellectually.
2. He is handy around the house and we don't have to pay for a plumber, carpenter etc.
3. He maintains our vehicles.
4. He cooks dinner whenever I need or want him to.
5. He loves his boys and enjoys spending time with them.
6. He tells the boys stories every night before bed.
7. He is a hard worker, working at a job he doesn't like but never misses a day.
8. He enjoys the outdoors, and spending time out in nature.
9. He loves the Lord and tries to follow the Lord every day. |
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Oct. 31, 2007 Prudence Proverbs and Preschoolers.
Ladies- thanks for joining in so far! We should be about 1/2 way through the Proverbs. For those of us reading the whole book this week.
As for my house we were taking about prudence in school today. So I felt it was the perfect time to discuss wisdom. As how can one be prudent if they do not have wisdom?
My boys were unsure what wisdom was, so I explained it was "smart" and "good". We then talked about who is wise and who isn't. And who is wiser than you and who isn't. They both said right away that Mommy and Daddy are wiser than they are. And my youngest said JESUS firstly! We then discussed how to know if someone is wiser. First they are usually older, and secondly they love the Lord and tell you what is right. For us Grandparents are wiser, and elderly neighbors. We talked about how adults could be unwise.. like those in prison, and we shouldn't listen to those who are fools (stupid). If they were unsure if someone was wise or not they should ask someone that they know is wise.
Then I discussed each other. I asked my younger son, is Josiah wiser than you. He thought and said... Sometimes. He is right. I then talked to them about discernment. That when another kid tells you something that you need to decide if it is wise or not. I gave them a good illustration. If Meisha told you to move over and there was a car coming was she wise? They said yes. Then I said if she told you to move over but there was a big hole there would you? They said no, it was not wise. I reminded them if someone tells them something that they can't tell if it is wise or not to ask someone that is wise what they think.
We went on to talk about is it better to learn things by listening to someone wiser than you, or by figuring it out yourself. At first they both said themselves. But after I explained it is safer to believe someone wiser than you they agreed. I used the illustration of someone tells them to stay out of the road. Should they go in the road to see, or should they listen to Godly counsel. They agreed listening is safer.
Finally I asked them who Mommy could go to for wisdom, they said God. And I said yes that is one reason why we pray and the Bible is God's words written for us so that we can have wisdom. And they also said Daddy, I said yes, he is wise and can help. I also said that my mother and father are older and wiser in some things so that sometimes I can go ask them if I have a question.
We then prayed for God to give us wisdom, and to help us know who is wise, and which advice is wise.. 
Here are some verses that focus on what I was trying to impart to my boys today
Proverbs 1:7
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline
Proverbs 1:8
[ Exhortations to Embrace Wisdom ] [ Warning Against Enticement ] Listen, my son, to your father's instruction and do not forsake your mother's teaching.
Proverbs 2:6
For the LORD gives wisdom, and from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.
Proverbs 2:12
Wisdom will save you from the ways of wicked men, from men whose words are perverse,
Proverbs 5:1 My son, pay attention to my wisdom, listen well to my words of insight,
Proverbs 8:12
"I, wisdom, dwell together with prudence; I possess knowledge and discretion.
Proverbs 10:13
Wisdom is found on the lips of the discerning, but a rod is for the back of him who lacks judgment.
Proverbs 10:23
A fool finds pleasure in evil conduct, but a man of understanding delights in wisdom. ("bad guys" are not wise)
Proverbs 13:10
Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice. (This is a good one as it illustrates that we are not perfect as adults we still need to take Godly counsel)
Proverbs 15:33
The fear of the LORD teaches a man wisdom, and humility comes before honor. (I think it is important for children to be able to mimic parents. So though parents are wiser than their children, and the children take comfort in that. We are also to be humbled before those who are wiser than us. Do not think ourselves higher than we ought. This will teach the children humility. And yes that God is wiser than we are. and that We are human.
I made sure to tell my children we will still fail but we still must strive to do our best for God, and that we must try and be wise about our choices. |
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Oct. 30, 2007 First four Proverbs... Any insights?
First four Proverbs... Any insights?
Here is one verse that stuck out to me Proverbs 4:1-9
1 Listen, my sons, to a father's instruction;
pay attention and gain understanding.
2 I give you sound learning,
so do not forsake my teaching.
3 When I was a boy in my father's house,
still tender, and an only child of my mother,
4 he taught me and said,
"Lay hold of my words with all your heart;
keep my commands and you will live.
5 Get wisdom, get understanding;
do not forget my words or swerve from them.
6 Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you;
love her, and she will watch over you.
7 Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom.
Though it cost all you have, [a] get understanding.
8 Esteem her, and she will exalt you;
embrace her, and she will honor you.
9 She will set a garland of grace on your head
and present you with a crown of splendor."
As parents we are to impart wisdom, even to the youngest of children. While I was an only child, implies an age of 2 years old or so these days. Not sure what was the typical time between children then, but I assume it was about the same. So at 2 years old we are to be imparting WISDOM to our children. Am I going about my day avoiding my children? Am I simply spanking when they disobey or am I also teaching them the purpose of obeying.
I want them to grow to be men full of widsom. So I am starting now. But I have to remind myself to do so, or my pride and slothfulness will get in the way of what God wants for my boys. For not only do they need to obey the Lord, I do also, and I need to go about my daily life with wisdom will embrace me also.
As parents we have a huge responsibility, especially as Christians, and especially as those who truly want to obey the word. I know I will faily, and my human nature will wreak havoc occasionally, but if I can more often keep my eyes on the Lord and my mind full of the Widsom of the Lord. It will protect me and my family.
Some practical ways to impart wisdom to the very little. Treat your dh or dh with respect as as Christ would. They will see that and feel more secure. Listen to not only your dh but also wiser couples. (Wise automatically implies God filled lives ;)). Be wise enough to know you are not 100% right 100% of the time, and be open enough to admit it. Listen to your children, comfort them so as they grow they will trust you and want to obey and will be able to learn wisdom from you, instead of having to learn it on their own.
The more we can learn from others the less mistakes we will have to make along the way. As my children have grown I have taught them to pray, that the Lord is real, and that the Easter Bunny is pretend. I teach them that Mommy is human and makes mistakes also, but I try my best. And that they should do their best to obey and that the Lord loves it when the obey their mother and father. And of course that I love them.
Finally I pray over my children when they sleep. We thank the Lord for the beautiful day, we pray to the lord and ask for healing. When I get hurt my kids are the first to pray for me. Jesus was so right on when he advised to become like a child. Children love us, even when we fail them. But we are called to do our best, and to impart wisdom. So let us stay the course, and keep on working hard to raise our children to be Men or Women of wisdom. |
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