Settles' Home Education Program (SHEP)

May. 19, 2008

Why We've Chosen to Homeschool...and other legs of my soapbox

 I could go into great detail as to why we've chosen to homeschool. I could list the reasons as divided into categories such as, "Faith", "Socialization", "a well-rounded education" and "Special needs". However, I won't. These are just supporting characters. If I had to sum up our reasoning it would be be found in Psalm 11:3 which asks, "if the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?".

The results of a Barna Group survey revealed that only 9% of "born-again" American Christians have a Biblical worldview. This is sad beyond words. However, before we start shaking our self-righteous fingers and say "tsk tsk", let's be honest. MOST of us have allowed our culture and the status quo to dictate what we believe. Yours truly included. Sure, we may take a devout stand against evolution, abortion etc, but it is the little things that truly make up our character and show what we actually believe. Del Tackett, leader of Focus on the Family's The Truth Project, challenges us with the question "Do you really believe that what you believe is really real?". Well, do you? Is faith in the Son of God, Jesus Christ, as Savior and God and Redeemer your most obvious characteristic? Does it "leak" into EVERY aspect of your life, or is it a Sunday morning, night and/or Wed night practice? Does it dictate what you watch, read, say, willingly hear, feel, think, do and expose your children to?

For many of us, I think the answer is an obvious no. As Americans we have the luxury of becoming too comfortable. We take things for granted and in many respects become lazy. We are too lazy to educate ourselves on what is going on around us. We take the "expert's" word for it. Has anyone bothered to check out why these so-called experts are experts? And by whose standards are they experts? Are they Biblical standards or man-made?

The state, though a God-designed institution, does not have Biblical right to, or authority over, our children. God created another institution for this, it is called the Family. That is not to say that Christian parents should not send their children to public school. I am simply suggesting that we take back control and make the conscious decision of how our children are to be educated. I dare say that in most families, it is just taken for granted that Sally is going to go to preschool and then on to the local public school simply because that is just what people do. The status quo. Very few ever investigate these schools and/or their teachers and the curriculum.

My point? Few Christians would argue that this country was founded on Scripture by people who lived by Scripture. Obviously, that is not the foundation of this country today. Christian America no longer creates its culture. Instead, it has comfortably woven itself into the fabric of a pagan/secular culture, all the while performing its traditions and thinking that is enough. So, the foundation is destroyed. What are the righteous to do?

Well, we could start by building a new foundation. One that is built upon the Rock, to refer to a well-loved children's song. This includes inviting Christ back into every aspect of our lives and decisions. We can "renew our minds" and "be transformed" so we may determine what "God's will is" (Romans 12). Parents have a grave responsibility and it's not to be taken lightly. We've chosen to homeschool so we can do our part in creating a generation of God-fearing, Christ-loving, Word-seeking individuals and thereby shape the future. While I am interested in creating in Helana a love for learning and providing a sound academic foundation, I am more interested in teaching her lessons that will benefit her in eternity. By the Grace of God. While we cannot "save" our children, only their faith in Christ can do that, we can certainly hold up big road signs that point to Him.

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Apr. 20, 2008

Colors of Spring

Last Wednesday we had a "colors-of-spring" scavenger hunt.  We explored our yard for the beautiful colors God has painted with this spring.  We discussed the flowers, grass, trees and bugs we found along the way.  It was a fun way to get exercise, review our colors and learn about nature.

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Apr. 13, 2008

The Battle Begins

 

 

I have to admit, it isn’t easy making the choice to home educate Helana.  Not because I doubt my abilities, but because my extended family cannot seem to grasp the fact that I am going to homeschool.  They say things like, “when Helana goes to school….”  Or, “the Christian school would be better”.  It is enough to make me want to scream.  The fact that Helana has a language delay and other “challenges” yet to be diagnosed only fans the flames. 

However, I am unwavering in this conviction because it is just that…a conviction.  I am sure that many homeschoolers would agree that it is a calling.   God has called me to homeschool, and I trust that He will provide the wisdom and resources necessary to do so.  So, while it blows my mind that the people who have known me my entire life and were witness to not only my receiving a bachelor’s degree, but also to the rather sound and prudent decisions I have always made, doubt my determination and abilities; I will push on.  It saddens me, really, to see how indoctrinated and institutionalized even professing Christians have become in today’s society.  Sorry, but the “state” does not always know best, nor is a stranger (trained as he/she may be) an expert on my child nor are they given the responsibility by GOD to raise her.

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Apr. 7, 2008

Well, here we are!

My name is Marcia and I am the wife of Joey and mother (and educator) of Helana Grace.  Helana is 4 years old.  I homeschool her and plan on doing so for as long as God directs. 

Right now we are trying to figure out just what kind of "delay" she has, whether it be high-functioning autism, sensory-integration disorder, ADHD or something else.  There is obviously something a-typical.  As I said before, she is 4 but rarely speaks more than 2 words at a time.  We have no trouble communicating with her, we understand one another, she gets her point across but by only using one or two words.  When we go over the alphabet, sometimes she will recognize them verbally and other times not.  She will not answer you if you ask her to name a color or number or even how old she is.  She has great comprehension and memory, she just won't verbally reveal what she knows.  Furthermore, she has no interest whatsoever in learning to write.  She'll scribble but that is it. 

I am new at both being a mom and homeschooling so I'd really appreciate input from some veterans.  We are speaking with a child's psychologist at the moment who seems to think she is a sensory seeker, and based on the info I'd have to agree.  However, she of course, just like her pediatrician and everyone else I've spoken with, have no advice concerning how to homeschool her.  "Public school is best.  They can get her the help she needs. "  LOL-it's like banging my head against the wall.  I have faith that since God has called me to homeschool, He will also provide the answers and give me the proper abilities needed to educate a child with a-typical needs.

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