So ladies... We're going to use the "Twelve Days of Christmas" but with a twist that I'm sure your husband will enjoy ('cuz I don't think he really wants a partridge in a pear tree...). This involves some planning, so read it through and be thinking about what you can do to begin a year that will hopefully start a life long tradition! (You could do this any time of year as well, leading up to your husband's birthday, or have "Christmas in July" half way through the year.)
- In the "spirit" of the Twelve Days of Christmas, you need to begin shopping for your husband! Where ever you choose to go... the object here is to pick 12 things your husband will enjoy! (Are you following me women?) Whether it be things to wear under your everyday clothing, a "special something" to greet him in bed with, or both (after all... you have twelve days here!) be thinking of your husband and what will get his attention! Now, I know that this will not necessarily be cheap... however, if you were to ask your husband (which you can't cuz that would totally ruin the surprise!) chances are good that he would make room in the budget for something like this! You can also consider this an investment... in your marriage. Let's face it women... a woman that can love her man like this, and a marriage that can have fun, is one that is still burning with passion... and I have yet to hear, "We decided to divorce because there was just too much passion in our marriage..." God created a man and a woman, and it's not "dirty" to love each other and want to please your husband! Okay, so with that being said... begin your shopping!
- The twelfth day before Christmas is the 14th of December. You can start then, or on the 21st (taking you to New Year's Day, or for those of you "history correct people" the twelve days of Christmas is actually supposed to begin on Christmas Day... but this is your tradition so start it when you want!... (keeping in mind that this would be especially fun while visiting relatives during the holidays too! Only you and husband will know what's going on...) Whatever day you decide, try to keep it there so that it's something your husband will anticipate each year! Have all your "little blessings" bought by then so you can plan out what ones you'll be wearing when... along with any evening you might be able to get a sitter and go out (with your "surprise" on to tell him about over dinner), or a friend to watch the kids so you can stay in (and put your "gift" to use)!
- After you have your things ready, don't forget to get a card (or make one) that you will give to your husband the morning of the 14th. An idea would be:
- "To celebrate the next twelve days of Christmas I have planned a special "gift" for you each day with only you in mind! Anticipate what each will bring as we celebrate the next twelve days of Christmas... twelve you're sure not to forget!" (Don't forget to sign it, SHMILY!)
- This is also an investment in your "drawer of many blessings" drawer as well... yes, you SHOULD have one of these, so make room (throw out some clothes if you have to... your hubby would rather see you in these anyway!) We will use the "drawer of many blessings" in the future, but for now... we need to get it stocked up! You will eventually get to a point where you will be able to "recycle" here! Tee hee... Since I'm constantly changes sizes between being pregnant (yes, I absolutely buy and wear things during this time!), nursing (size D), or not either (a pathetic and cruel size A... okay... AA) I have an array of sizes in my drawer!
So with all that being said, get to work ladies! This is going to be a year your hubby won't soon forget! Don't forget to remain especially prayerful as you plan and prepare for these wonderful days. The enemy loves to seek and destroy marriages, and he will do what he can to ruin this by getting to you and your attitude. Pray for the Lord to help you be loving toward your husband (even when the kids have been arguing all day, the laundry tub overflows, or... whatever). As women, we can be so emotional which certainly can backfire when things go wrong (or not according to our plans!) Stay focused on the wonderful and endearing qualities you love in your husband (just incase he upsets you... tee hee) and the wonderful gift the Lord gave you in your husband. Be determined to succeed in this wonderful "gift" to your husband and when things get tough, fight back with the strength of the Lord!
May the Lord be glorified as we seek new ways to spark our marriage and fufill our purpose as wives!
Lovingly,
Amy |
Posted by Anonymous 
• Dec. 9, 2006 - 12 days of xmas