I Heard it Again...
I heard it again today and I cringed.
It was the sound of the neighbour yelling at her kids. The weather is warm, windows are open and voices carry. My heart goes out to those kids every time I hear it. I'd like to give that mom a piece of my mind and let her know how it affects her kids.
It is easy to think I'm a better mom, because I would never use such fowl language. But before I let self-righteousness take over, I have to ask myself "Is my speech 'seasoned with salt as it were'? Do my words 'benefit those who listen'"
Even if I never swear at my kids, the tone of my voice can be just as cutting.
Yes, there are times when I raise my voice.
Yes, there are times when I'm pushed to anger.
And yes, I have to admit that I've snapped at my kids when I've been upset about something else.
Do I tell my children often enough how much I love them? Do I encourage and build them up? Is our home a safe-haven where kind words abound?
I pray that it is.
but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs,
that it may benefit those who listen.
Ephesians 4:29
Thankfully, the Holy Spirit keeps me in check. Thankfully there is God's Grace and a child's forgiveness. Thankfully, I have an Almighty Heavenly Father backing me up in this parenting thing.
Be in my speech, Lord. I am surrounded by these tender, young ears, who will only repeat what they hear. May my words convey unconditional love, acceptance and mercy.
These precious little seedlings need a nurturing environment to grow and blossom, with some pruning along the way, of course.
