Jun. 11, 2008

Cracked Pots

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An elderly Chinese woman had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole
which she carried across her neck.


One of the pots had a crack in it while the other pot was perfect and always
delivered a full portion of water.

At the end of the long walks from the stream to the house, the cracked pot
arrived only half full.

For a full two years this went on daily, with the woman bringing home only
one and a half pots of water.

Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments.

But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own 
imperfection, and miserable that it could only do half of what it had been
made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be bitter failure, it spoke to the
woman one day by the stream.

"I am ashamed of myself, because this crack in my side causes water to leak
out all the way back to your house."

The old woman smiled, "Did you notice that there are 
flowers on your side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?"

"That's because I have always known about your flaw, so I planted flower
seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you water
them."

"For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful
flowers to decorate the table.

Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to
grace the house."

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Each of us has our own unique flaw. But it's the cracks and flaws we each
have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding.

Author unknown
If you do know who the author is, please inform me so that I may give credit where credit is due. Thanks.

Jun. 10, 2008

A Must See!

You simply must pop over to Nature Notes From Above's
blog! A mama Robin has built a nest in a planter outside her kitchen window.
She is doing a great job at documenting the whole thing.  The little babies have hatched now and they sit there with their little beaks wide open, waiting to be filled. (It reminds me of us, as God's children, waiting, wide open... to be filled.)
Anyhow, go check it out! It's truly amazing!

Jun. 5, 2008

Just a note

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Just to let you know, I might not be around here very much during the next couple of days.
Canadagirl is coming for a visit and we are going to a homeschool convention.
I'm excited to meet her IRL and I'm also looking forward to the convention.


I might just drop in to say 'hi', but I probably won't be making any new posts.
I will be sure to give the details of our visit and any inspiration gained at the conference.

In the meantime,
 Thanks for stopping in!
feel free to browse around or say 'hi'.
Blessings!

Jun. 3, 2008

Birthday Wishes

Eleven years ago today, I had my first baby!
A precious baby girl, we were thrilled!

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Not only was a baby born, but a mother was born too.
I had always wanted children and wanted to be a "mama" sooo bad.  People used to talk about being 'ready' to have kids.  I didn't know what they were talking about, I felt like I'd been ready my whole life!
I read all of the parenting books I could get my hands on, I wanted to do everything 'just right'.  Did I make mistakes? Oh yes, one of them was probably trying to do everything right!
Somehow, all firstborns survive our hit and miss efforts of being a good parent!

Oh, she was such a joy! And still is!

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Where have these 11 years gone, I don't know. All year I've been teasing her that she can't turn 11, she'd have to stay 10 forever! But she's determined, 11 it must be.  And for her that means a whole new world of growing up.  For me, I'm completely freaked out!! Saying 'good-bye' to my little baby girl and 'hello' to a young lady!
I'm not ready, but thankfully I have an 'in' with her Creator, the One who blessed me with her presence and made her who she is.

(Thankfully I'm typing this, and so you don't have to see me choked with emotion!)
Happy Birthday Dear Daughter,
my happy little Chickadee!

Purple Haze by Terry Isaac
Purple Haze

Apr. 24, 2008

This is rather neat!

 Here's a fun thing to do.(If there
is absolutely nothing else that you
could do, or if you are unwinding
at the end of your day, like me.)
 
I'm a visual person and so I liked
clicking on the pictures.
 
I was also amazed at how accurate
my personality description was at
the website.

Let me know if you give it a try!

Apr. 17, 2008

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I
have reached the 16 week mark of my pregnancy!
  I always sigh a sigh of relief when I get this far because five years ago I had a miscarriage at 15 weeks.  I know there are still risks at any stage.  Being over 35(yep, I am!) puts me in a higher risk category as well.

Anyhow, my baby is approximately 4 1/2 inches long and apparently has grown some fingernails!  I've been showing the kids pictures on the internet so they can see exactly how big the baby is.
I've also had a few dizzy spells lately.  Maybe I need more iron.
Tell me if you've had this odd pregnancy symptom:
When I lay down to go to sleep at night, my stomach starts to send up these gurgling noises.  They're kind of like a noisy, gurgling burp that travel up into my throat and I have no control over them!!
My tummy is definitely beginning to bulge, at least I still have one pair of jeans I can fit into.  I am entering that awkward stage of not fitting normal clothes, but too small to fill out maternity wear.
Thankfully, maternity clothes designers have started to make things that fit at all stages and even after pregnancy.

I have been re-reading Susan Schaeffer Macaulay's book, For the Children's Sake.(I'm re-reading it to give a book review at our support group meeting.)

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This is one of my most favourite books on children etc.
It was the first book I bought and read when we began homeschooling.  Now I always recommend to new homeschool moms when they ask what to read.
It made me cry when I first read it.  The author had put into words how I already felt about children and how they should be raised and taught.  I just never knew it until I read this book and I was so encouraged that others felt the same way.
Even if you don't follow the Charlotte Mason method of teaching, I still highly recommend reading it!

Another update on the little boy who fell.  He is at home and doing fine(Thank the Lord!), besides being tired and a little wobbly at times.  He is still on seizure meds for another week and needs to be watched closely 'just in case'.

Thanks for stopping by!
I've been adding a few new things to my blog and playing around with my new look.
Enjoy!

Apr. 15, 2008

Update

Just to give you an update, the little boy(mentioned below) is now conscious and they're taking him off the seizure medication.  Thanks for your continued prayers!

Apr. 14, 2008

A New Look!!


I'm so excited!
Yes, you are at the right blog!  As you have noticed, "Journey Through Motherhood" has a new look!
Blue is my favourite colour, and daisies are my favourite flower.  I hope you like it!

Thank-you so much to Janne, of Janne's Jabberwocky
for the design!
She did a great job and I really like it!

Now I can use other font colours! The yellow background was a little limiting!
I need to change my Cbox colour too, as it clashes!


Just another note, if you happen to stop by here today;
An urgent prayer request for a homeschool family in our support group.  Their little boy(almost 5) fell 13ft onto concrete yesterday(at a ski hill).  He is unconscious and having seizures.  Please pray for the family and that there would be no brain or spinal damage.
Thank-you so much.

Apr. 11, 2008

While You All Were Sleeping...

 
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I will not do that again!!
I'll explain:

Last night, around 6pm, during my dd's ballet class, I decided to go through the Starbuck's drive-thru.  I had a gift card from Christmas to use and I had only just recently discovered that this outlet had a drive-thru.  (A note about the 'drive-thru': I love them! Not necessarily for fast food though, but to get a cup of coffee! If I have to unload all my kids from the van to go in and get a coffee and then load them all up again, it's just not worth it! Besides, my drink would be cold! -unless, of course it's an iced cappuccino!  And having a card to pay for it makes it even easier!! Now if I could just get a jug of milk and a loaf of bread the same way!)
Back to my story:
I decided to order something different, well, I'm forced actually, because they have discontinued almond syrup-my favourite flavour to add to a latte.
In ordering a new concoction, I forgot to say "decaf
"!!
I didn't remember until I was driving away!
I had a perfectly good cup of coffee that was fully loaded.

You see, I stopped drinking caffeine a few years ago.
Yes, I know there is still some in decaf coffee and teas(and chocolate), but not as much. 
I discovered after going out for dinner one night that I couldn't get to sleep due to the coffee I had had.   Then with always being pregnant or nursing a baby, I just cut it out of my diet.

So, I thought I'd just drink half of it.  I couldn't let it go to waste!
I ended up drinking a little more than half, it was good(I ordered something with caramel added that I couldn't pronounce.) and I figured it was early enough in the evening.

I was wrong!
The last time I saw my alarm clock, it read 1:00am!
I went to bed around 10:30 and read for a while, but as I tried to doze off, I could feel my brain spinning!!
I lay there listening to my dear Hubby snoring breathing peacefully thinking that if I just kept still I'd fall asleep.
I thought about getting up, but I didn't really want to do that.  So, I did lots of thinking and praying.  When else do I get a chance of uninterrupted quiet, just to think and pray?  Might as well take advantage of it!

  I did eventually crash, but there will be no more caffeine for me!
At least not in that amount!

Mar. 29, 2008

An Announcement!!

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I'm pregnant!!

There, it's out! I said it!
I was thinking of all these creative ways I could announce it, but I just decided to come out and say it.  I don't know what has taken me so long either.  I could've been subconsciously worried that something would happen.  That's always at the back of my mind.

I am 13 weeks along and due the first week of October.
I got to hear the heartbeat yesterday!
I love that! So tiny and yet so alive!

I don't get very sick during my pregnancies, just occasional nausea.  I am, however, really tired! I can't seem to make it through the day without a nap.(One reason why I haven't been around here as much.)

So, this is baby #6 for us and our kids are excited.  Chickadee wants another sister to even out the score.  For years she was the only girl(and the only girl cousin as well!) until our last baby(who is still 'my baby'!), but another female would even out the hormone levels around here!

We're so glad our house is big enough! The kids already share bedrooms, but I might have to lose my beloved schoolroom!  I'm alright with that, we will still have a 'school area', just not in it's very own room.
What we do need is more seats in our van!
If God can give us a house, the van should be no problem!

Well, thats my big, happy, exciting news!
I'll definitely keep you updated!

PS. On some blogs I've been to, I've seen little black and white buttons depicting the baby's growth(not a 'ticker'), does anyone know where I can get one of those?
Thanks!


Mar. 2, 2008

Abrasions!!

I had a very eventful night last night! Let me explain...

Around 9pm, I was sitting here, at my computer, checking email and browsing around The Homeschool Lounge.  I had my lovely little 18 month old daughter sitting on my lap.  She was all ready for bed and interested in what I was doing.  As any 18 month old is, she was very curious as to the items on the desk(she knows the computer is 'off limits').  Without warning she picked up a photo from a stack on the desk and flung it over her head, poking me in the eye with it.  It hurt like crazy, as I had no time to protect myself.  She started to cry because of my reaction; yelping "Ow,ow,ow"! 

It bothered me for a while, but after I put her to bed, I went upstairs to watch 'Trading Spaces'.  It seemed to help to focus on the TV, as long as I kept my eye open and didn't rub it.

Well, bedtime eventually came and when I went to close my eyes, it really hurt.  I was so tired and really wanted to close my eyes, but couldn't!
Hubby, my 'knight in shining armour' said that he would run out the pharmacy(we have one that's open until midnight) to get me some eye drops.
When he returned, some minutes later, he said, "Get dressed, we have to go to the hospital."
"What?!" was my reply.
When he told the pharmacist what had happened, she said we should go to the hospital to have it checked out.

So he got a family friend, who lives close, to come and sit on our couch, while we went off to emergency.  It was midnight by now, and I was grumpy because I couldn't go to sleep, that was all I really wanted!

It was 2 hours before we finally saw a doctor, who told me that I had a corneal abrasion.
He put my head in this nifty contraption, shone lights in my eye and dropped all sorts of interesting things in it.  Oddly, I started to feel like I was going to faint.  Medical procedures freak me out.  I didn't faint, phew.  The freezing felt especially nice, as for once it didn't feel like I had a log floating around in there.  He said that the eye should heal itself, but it would take a day(24hrs) or two before it was back to normal.

We were home by 3 am, and now I was hungry but too tired to eat.  I finally was able to drop into bed and the kids slept in until 8am! That was nice, but still not quite as many hours as I need to function normally.

My eye is way better today, still tender, but I'm able to open and close it without discomfort.  I am amazed at how such a little scratch can cause so much pain.  Thankfully it wasn't something worse.  I am also amazed at how God has made our eyes to heal themselves like that!


Feb. 29, 2008

Ramblings...

I have not been feeling well this week and so I've not been around here.  I feel a little better today, although I'm still congested, at least the sinus pressure is gone.  When I have sinus pressure I just can't bear to look at the computer screen.

Amazingly enough, we did manage to get some school done.  I'm so glad my older two are reading and therefore a little more independent.  Today, however was rather weak in the educational department and everybody seems a little restless tonight.

What I really feel like doing tonight is relaxing in front of the TV watching a 'chic flick', maybe something of Jane Austen and consuming a large amount of of something cold, smooth and fruity!  I'm not sure if I'll get to do that, but one can hope....

I can't believe that tomorrow is March! I'm so glad that Spring is coming!  However Easter is rather early this year.  I like it better when it comes in April as it's usually warmer and we can hunt for eggs outside.

Last week was Hubby's birthday.  I asked the kids what kind of cake he should have and suggested that it be of something that he really likes.  Chickadee piped up and said "His second favourite thing is his kids!" (I'm guessing that she meant I was first, I forgot to ask.) Anyhow, we decorated his cake with the faces of 'his kids' and I even had to get the hair and eye colour right.

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Thanks for visiting!

Feb. 10, 2008

Sunday Thoughts

It has been a few days since I visited this place.  My absence was not on purpose, but it did help me realize a few things.

Most of my time on the computer is in the mornings or at night after the kids are in bed.  I have been getting up early(thanks to my sweet baby girl!), and so I would often go on the computer sometime after I ate breakfast and before we started school.   I was finding, however, that some of my other morning chores were not getting done.  Sometimes putting a post up on my blog can take longer than expected, especially when there are pictures to add. 

This last week, I was determined to get my morning chores done before going on the computer and found that I really didn't have any time left over.  I thought I'd have time at night, but my brain shuts down around 9pm and I'm usually too tired to stare at a computer screen.

Thus, I've been absent from here, but realizing that there are more important things that need to be attended to in my home.  It has been so good, these last few days, to get a good start on the day.  I love the outlet that blogging provides, but not at the expense of things that should be a priority.

  Sure, if I feel God leading me to share something every day, then so be it.  I love communicating with you all and visiting your blogs, but my wife and Mama role needs to come first.  It is so easy to slip into just seeing how many comments I got on a post, as if that boosts my ego.  But that's not what this blog is about, and so I release myself from that. 
I will still continue to blog, but I will no longer feel the pressure to be here everyday.

And now, I will go enjoy some homemade ice-cream that Hubby has just whipped up in his new ice-cream maker(that I bought him for Christmas!). YUM!

Blessing to you all!


 
You Are Strawberry Ice Cream
A bit shy and sensitive, you are sweet to the core.
You often find yourself on the outside looking in.
Insightful and pensive, you really understand how the world works.

You are most compatible with chocolate chip ice cream.

PS Does anyone know why my bullets look like upsidedown ?'s?

Feb. 5, 2008

I made him that way!

I was having a rather challenging day with Kingfisher.
I've mentioned him before.  He is my active son.  Yes, I know, all boys are active, but I have two others and he 'out active's' them. (Yes, I also just invented a new word, but I don't expect it will catch on!)  He is a bright kid, he knows a lot of things, but sometimes he cannot be still long enough to concentrate on learning anything.  Yes, I do let him move during 'school', but even then...

I will not dwell on my frustration.  That is not what this is about.  (If you have an active one, you know where I'm coming from.)  This is about God's faithfulness and how He gives us what we need, when we need it.

I was sweeping the kitchen floor tonight, deep in thought about our day.  I had Chuck Swindoll on in the background.  Through my thoughts I heard him quote this verse, three times in a row!

"For by Him all things were created, both in the heavens and on earth, visible and invisible, whether throngs or dominions or rulers or authorities- all things have been created by Him and for Him"
Colossians 1:16

You may wonder why that is so significant.  I'll tell you! 
When I was pregnant with this precious, little boy of mine, God gave me that exact same verse!
I stood there, broom in hand, and listened three times in a row!  And then it hit me, it was like God saying "I made him that way."

Sometimes it is so easy as parents to see the negative traits in our children more than the positive ones.  Not only that, but we need to realize that those traits could someday be used for good.  I remember hearing along time ago, before we had any kids, that God knows you and would give you the kind of kids you need.  Humbling thought.

I need to ask the Maker of my son, how He would "train him up in the way he should go". God is always faithful, I know He will tell me.


Jan. 22, 2008

Baby Noah

I just want to alert you to pray for  Baby Noah .  I know many of you have a link on your blogs to pray for him, but he's not doing very well right now.  His mom is expecting another baby soon and I'm sure she could use prayer too.  This family has been through so much with Noah, lets surround them in prayer!

"The voice of truth tells me a different story,
The voice of truth says 'This is for My glory'
Of all the voices calling out to me,
I will choose to listen and believe
The Voice of Truth"

Casting Crowns

"...He never grows faint of weary...
....He gives power to those who are tired and worn out;
He offers strength to the weak....
...They will fly high on wings like eagles..."

Isaiah 40: 28-31


Jan. 21, 2008

What does this say about me?

I bought a new purse two months ago.  It is still in the shopping bag that I brought it home in, with the tag on it!  I need a new one, desperately.  The last time I bought a new purse, I did not have a cell phone, and so my purse is small.  For the last couple of years I have wanted a new, larger one that would carry everything that I need to have with me.
One of these days...

Well, I watched Northanger Abbey last night.  It didn't live up to my expectations.  But that's how it usually is when you've read the book already.  I did like the actors that they chose for "Mr Tilney" and "Catherine".  I didn't like how they kept showing scenes from her imagination.  I also felt that the ending was very rushed, they could've developed the resolution a bit more.  Oh well, I'll keep watching the others and hope they're a little better.


Well, today I'm making Hamburger Soup for a homeschool family that has just had baby #7! Then I have to prepare to give a book review at our homeschool support group meeting tonight.
It is cold, but sunny!!
Blessings on your day!

Jan. 18, 2008

Simply Giddy!!

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'm simply giddy!!

I have just discovered that Masterpiece Theater is showing a series of Jane Austen movies! 

They are re-airing A&E versions of Pride and Prejudice and Emma, but the rest are new productions.  I have seen other versions of Persuasion (I own the one with Amanda Root and Cirian Hinds) and Mansfield Park, but I like seeing other productions. 

I could never tire of them. 

The only one I didn't really care for was the Emma with Gwenyth Paltrow.  I'm just not a big fan of her.  And I can foresee that I might not like the new version of Sense & Sensibility because I really like the one with Emma Thompson. 

Alas, I will keep an open mind!

(And just for the record, I didn't really like the Pride & Prejudice that was in the theaters a couple of years ago.  The A&E production was better by far,...by miles even!!-or kilometres, I suppose!)(I guess that's two that I haven't liked, but who's counting?)

Anyhow, even if you're not a Jane Austen fan(there is still hope!), I'm sure these movies will be good, especially if you need a 'chick flick' fix! 
Masterpiece Theater usually does a good job.  Jane Austen is so prim and proper that you don't have to worry about anything objectionable(and if there is in the movie, there wasn't any in the book!-I know, I've read them.)

You can check out some previews here:
Masterpiece Theater

And, if you ever want to engage in a little Jane Austen chit-chat(about books, characters, movies etc) you can leave a comment or use my cbox.  I'm open for discussion!

Now I'll have to get some popcorn...

Jan. 8, 2008

A Few Questions

I have a few questions that I'd like to put out to you all out there in blogland.

First: This is also a disclaimer.  For some reason, I do not get email notification when a comment has been posted. I never have.  I have posted for help on the forum, followed what was suggested and still I do not get notified.  I always try and check back for comments, but if I have ever missed a question or something, I apologize.  I do get notified on my nature study blog, which is very convenient.
So if any of you might know why it doesn't work, or how to fix it, that would be greatly appreciated!

Second:  If someone does ask a question, in their comment or in my cbox, should I answer here on my blog or should I go to theirs to respond?  I just wondered if there was a particular protocol.

Third: This is a more interesting question. 

I have taken over the book purchasing for our homeschool support group library.  Basically, I look around for books I think would benefit our group, buy them and then give a review at our monthly meetings.   It's a good idea to try and find books that might not be available at the public library. 

Anyhow, our next meeting is coming up in a couple of weeks and I'm asking for suggestions. 

What are some good books you've discovered lately?

They can be curriculum related,  a how-to manual, or a really great novel.  Right now I'm reviewing a Jonathan Park CD(and I really like it, but that's another post.) so even things like that are good.

We already have some of the tried and true books like Educating the Whole Hearted Child, A Charlotte Mason Companion and The Well Trained Mind.

There are a few new members to our group this year who are just starting out, so it would be nice to get something that might benefit them.
I've been thinking of one of Sally Clarkson's books for moms.  I've read The Ministry of Motherhood and it is quite good.

So, let me know your ideas...

Thank-you so much,
Blessings!

Nov. 7, 2007

Three Things

First Thing
Well, here it is; In the last 3 days I have seen two houses already exhibiting Christmas lights!!  I realize that stores get their merchandise in early, so people can shop early, (although in Costco, it's August and that's a little bit much-unless you're my mom who shops all year round!) but to have your lights on this early???  I love Christmas and all it's decorations, but in stretching it out so long, isn't some of the specialness lost??
Just my thoughts.

Second Thing
Upon returning from Chickadee's dance class this evening, I was busy in the kitchen.  Kingfisher came in and said "Hey mom, what do worms eat?"  I was madly trying to remember something from my Biology 11 class, when I (the 'seasoned' mom of boys that I am) asked "Why do you ask?" I had remembered that he had been studying a worm on our front walk.  A goofy grin came over his face and I knew he had it inside the house.  He also knew that I was going to make him take it back outside.  "But he's my pet!" was his plea.  I did make him return it to it's natural habitat, but not without a good look first.  After all, it was 'nature'.

Third Thing
I am thinking of starting a nature blog!!  In even thinking about it, I wonder if I will have the time when I hardly have time for this one.  But something about it appeals to me.  Both
BChsMamaof3
and jenn4him
have inspired me in this direction.  I think it will help me keep track of what we've done.
I'll keep ya posted!

Oct. 7, 2007

Thankful Thoughts


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This weekend we, in Canada, celebrate our Thanksgiving holiday.
So, as is tradition, I'll share what I'm thankful for.
(and these are in no particular order)

I am thankful...

...that God let me be a 'Mama'
I have had a miscarriage, it was painful,
but I can't imagine not having any children.

...for my Husband
Divorce runs in my family
and I can't imagine being a single mom,
so I will continue to pick his socks up off the floor,
because at least I know he's coming home to me.

...for our house
God blessed us with a new house this year
that meets our family's needs.
He did it in a way only He could do.
Praise Him!

...for heat
Because I can't imagine always having to think about staying warm.

...for my husband's job
and his good boss
God has provided for us when times were financially tight,
but I know what it's like to wonder "What will we eat this week?"
This job is His provision too.

...for trees
Because God made them so beautiful
and they refresh my soul.

...that each morning brings a new day
A clean slate.
With no mistakes in it.
And that I am washed as white as snow.

Psalm 100
Shout for joy to the Lord,
all the earth.
Worship the Lord with gladness;
come before Him with joyful songs.
Know that the Lord is God.
It is He who made us,and we are His;
we are His people, the sheep of His pasture.
Enter His gates with thanksgiving
and His courts with praise;
give thanks to Him and praise His name.
For the Lord is good
and His love endures forever;
His faithfulness continues through all generations.

Blessings to you and Happy Thanksgiving wherever you may be!