Posted in Homeschooling Trends
|
I have seen the future of schooling, and it is us. Let me explain. My oldest daughter, who's 14, is supposed to be going into grade 9. Our province allows students who wish to take their courses online, through one of the school boards. So we decided to have her do Math and Science online, while I continue to teach her English, History, Social Studies, etc. Last year she took French and Science, and she quite enjoyed it. This year she's doing grade 10 Science and grade 11 Math. She could have done grade 11 Math last year, but there was no room in the class. My younger daughter, who is 12, is ready for grade 11 Math next year, but I'm going to let her wait a year before she takes it online. But teaching them at home just let them whiz through most of Saxon Math's program, and we've loved it. They're so far ahead. So even though I love homeschooling, I'm letting my daughter do some public school courses (although they still are online). Why? It's simple, really. If she has six grade 12 credits from an acredited school, then getting into university is no problem. We don't have to jump through hoops. And I've decided that this just sounds easier, and I want to make it easy for her. Besides, I'm still teaching her the important stuff! We calculated it out, and she'll be finished her grade 12 credits when she's 16. And then she has a year and a half to work full time, or write a novel, or travel, or do missions trips before university. But as we've been watching this whole process unfold, it has occurred to me that this must be the future of schooling. Think about it: it's much easier to teach online. Sure, you still need a teacher to mark the papers, but there's no physical building. You don't need gym equipment. You don't need a library. You don't need to hire a janitor, or a secretary. It's a lot cheaper. And then the kids aren't exposed to all the crap they get in high school. Why wouldn't more parents have their kids do it this way? And as governments face more budget cuts, you can bet they'll start to look at more online alternatives. Of course there are Christian online options for high school, but here in Canada most of them aren't acredited, so we went with something that absolutely was. But it just makes so much more sense. Rebecca has two Science classes a week, of about an hour and a bit each. She submits one assignment a week. And they cover the entire course curriculum. In a regular classroom you'd do 400 minutes a week, instead of their 180. You just get rid of all the wasted time. So the kids have more time for their real life. Why wouldn't this catch on? Personally, I'm still having fun teaching History and English. We're using Veritas Press' Omnibus curriculum with both she and her sister this year, although I've added some books for her to read. Over the course of the year both girls will read approximately 27 books. Next year she's doing Sonlight's Survey of British Literature, which also has 27 books. That's serious learning and serious reading. In public school English (including online), they read 4. How is that education? I'm thrilled that I can find the best education that works for my girls, and for our family. We're taking a month long missions trip to Kenya this year, and we don't have to worry about missing school in the middle of it. I really think more and more people are going to clue in to how much time is wasted in school, how poor an education it is, and how much better your life can be with real educational alternatives. So let's not shirk when people ask why we homeschool. Let's be proud! We, after all, are the future. |
Posted in Curriculum
|
It's getting near the end of the year, and likely your kids are getting tired of working. I know mine are! And now is the time that we start to question ourselves. Did we really do a good job this year? Did our children learn as much as they would have in "real" school? Am I burning out? Guilt Free Homeschooling has a great post on the likely causes of burnout in homeschooling, and I encourage you to read it! Some of her reasons: trying to match the curriculum at school; getting overly involved in outside activities; thinking you have to replicate school. I think she's totally right! I visited one homeschooling family once that sang the national anthem, did the Pledge of Allegiance, and made announcements at 9:00 just like in regular school. And then they did their subjects for twenty minutes each. It was so regimented they lost all the benefits of homeschooling! So if you're feeling tired, read this post, and then browse her site! And another tip: if your kids just aren't learning anymore, switch curriculum and end with a bang! We got rid of our geology and geography and history recently, and we're finishing the year with a novel study, using my new "Any Novel" Novel Study Guide! You can use it for all grades, 6-12, and study any novel you want! No more need for individual study guides! And you can download it immediately. You don't have to wait for shipping. Find out more here. |
Posted in Parenting
|
I love bubble baths. They're where I relax. I even read all my library books in there (that's sort of hard on the wallet everytime I drop one!). But lately I haven't been able to relax in my bathtub very much because my daughters have decided that my bathroom should now be called "the meeting room". Whenever I take a bath, they head in to talk. That's where they want to share what's on their hearts, or just chat. And then, when I finally do get out and dry off, they want me to tuck them in. And then they want to talk some more! They're in separate rooms, and whoever I'm not with keeps calling me, saying it's their turn. My daughters are 14 and 11. It's not like they're 6. But it's gotten even more intense over the last few years. They want to talk and talk and talk. At first I was a little perturbed, because I am with my kids all the time. And sometimes I just want some time to myself! But we all laugh at how much they want to talk with me. It's a running joke. And lately, when we're taking walks, they want to hold my hand again. They haven't done that since they were little. But lately they just really like me. I'm thrilled, honestly. But here's my new theory: the more we talk to our kids, the more they want to be with us. They know that we love them, and they really bond with us. It's not that my kids don't have friends; they really do. In fact, they're often gone for much of the weekend, and my oldest daughter is constantly on the computer with her friends. They have a ton of outside activities. But they always want to talk it all over with me. There's another family I know that seems like a wonderful Christian family. And I'm sure they are. But yesterday their daughter was on the computer with my daughter, and it became clear that she was eating dinner while typing. She wasn't eating dinner with her family, even though they were all home. They were all scattered in different rooms. When we put in the time, kids open up. When we don't, they start to retreat and they look for their primary emotional support elsewhere. I want my kids to always be looking to me. It's funny, too, because my husband used to homeschool one or two days a week. About a year ago he stopped. And the girls have stopped opening up to him as much. It's really tough. But when he is home consistently for a few weeks, like when we take vacations or something, they're back to bantering with him, too. All of it just shows me that kids need our time and attention. They don't need activities. They don't need stuff. They need us. Sometimes, though, I really need a bath. By myself. And they're going to have to learn that! |
Posted in Curriculum
|
Rosetta Stone is the fastest way to learn a language and has been the #1 foreign language curriculum among homeschoolers for a while — and you can WIN the *all new* version 3 Rosetta Stone Homeschool LATIN program… FOR FREE! This is the first year you can get Latin in the brand new Version III update. This is a $259 program (and believe me it’s worth every penny!) To win this most excellent Latin program copy these paragraphs and post them in (or as) your next blog post, and/OR link to the contest from your facebook page and/OR email the information to your homeschool support group – Then go to the original page http://Jeneralities.com and leave a comment saying that you’ve posted about, or have linked to, the contest. Please make sure the link works to get back to the original contest page when you post. And good luck!
|
|
You know those days. We all have them. You struggle to get phonics done. You struggle through math. You're moving about the speed of a slug stuck on something sticky, and the kids aren't moving at all. They keep falling out of their chairs. They keep whining. And at some point, you decide to chuck it. This just isn't working for you today.
I had one of those days yesterday. I peered out the window, and I said, "You know what guys? Let's go to a sugar bush!". And we did.
For those of you not blessed enough to live in the Great White North, where we sit under mounds of snow for months on end, you do not know the joy of maple syrup. For in March, the sap begins to run. And many of our friends operate small maple syrup "factories". So we headed out to the woods, and emptied about 35 10 gallon drums of sap into even larger drums for them, all ready to boil down. It was a lot of work, but a lot of fun, too! And we came home with a whole lot of syrup. The funny part is that once we arrived home, we did actually finish geography. They didn't get that behind. But sometimes you have to know when to give up, and that's the beauty of homeschooling. When you're in school, you only take field trips on the assigned days, and who knows if those assigned days would have actually been productive ones to work? We can take off anytime when we really need a break. Our family has several places that we take off to. One is a nature conservatory/wetlands boardwalk where we look at toads and frogs and tadpoles and snakes and turtles and geese, all at different times of year, to see the changes.
Another is the waterfront, where we take bike rides and watch turtles and fish. This time of year we start planning picnics occasionally, when we'll bike somewhere nice to eat, and then come home for the afternoon. I've tried doing school on these picnics, but I always find the paper blows away or someone loses a pencil. So it often sounds more idyllic than it really is! Field trips are great, but sometimes you need somewhere to disappear to, if only for an hour. That's why I love these little outdoor places we can run to. What about you? Where do you run? I'd love to know! Cross-posted at The Homeschool Post. Sheila is the author of four books, including To Love, Honor and Vacuum: When you feel more like a maid than a wife and a mother. She blogs at To Love, Honor and Vacuum! |
|
Yesterday we had a sewing party! For the last several years our family has been traveling back and forth to the Mulli Children's Home in Africa, an orphanage and home to over 850 abandoned or orphaned children. We just love it there, and the girls are making friends. But one of the great needs that they have is for sanitary supplies. Disposals, like we use, are just too expensive, and they don't have anything else. The orphanage stretches their dollars to make them go further, but they need something better. So we made a bunch of cloth sanitary pads for my mother to take over when she leaves in two weeks! She's also taking a bunch of fabric so they can make them themselves (and maybe turn it into a business!).
Take a look at this video; it's really cute (and short!): Don't you wish you were there? I have a new FREE essay planner download! It will help your children, from grades 7-12, write essays concisely and in an organized manner! Just go here. |
Posted in Curriculum
|
Thanks to all of you who entered my contest last week for some free audio downloads! We have two winners: Mickeigh and Bonnie! Congratulations! In the meantime, you can still listen to these inexpensive downloads that are SURE to help you homeschool more effectively and creatively. I have downloads on: Teaching Childrent to Write Well Drilling for the Basics (using games and other fun things to ensure your kids know the basics) Setting Goals for Your Homeschool (figuring out what you want to do, how you're going to get there, and whether or not you've arrived!) See all of them here. Thanks for dropping by! More on homeschooling soon, including why my 25 minute lunch breaks always grow to an hour and a half! |
Posted in Curriculum
|
On a forum, someone recently asked me how to help a wiggly three-year-old learn their letters. Here's what I said: 1. Buy foam letters that stick to the bathtub. They're not that expensive, and you can usually find them at toy stores or educational supply stores. This is how my kids learned to read! I'd ask them to find me the P,or the D. Eventually they were spelling DAD and POP and things like that. 2. Take them to the library and get out books every week. Make it into a routine, so they know that books are a regular part of their lives. Let them choose some, and you choose some. Read to them before bedtime each and every night. No exceptions. When you have to go out, bring books with you: to the doctor's office, to the dentist, even to the grocery store while they're sitting in the cart. Help them to entertain themselves with books. If they're wiggly when you read to them, let them act out the story and jump around. 3. The I Spy letter books can be really useful in teaching letters. And children often like them because they're puzzles. 4. Speaking of puzzles, buy any puzzles you can find with letters. Ask them what the letters are. Now, here's a little pointer. Instead of teaching the kids the name of the letters, teach them the sounds. This helps them read. Think about the name for this letter: W. It sounds nothing like its sound. But if you teach the kids the sound of it, it's a lot easier! So when they're three, teach the sounds. It won't be long before they're figuring things out! And don't forget about my giveaways this week! Go here to learn more. |
Posted in Household Organization
|
The Heart of the Matter is hosting giveaway week to celebrate their birthday and launch their new magazine! So I want to join in the fun! I'll be giving away two things: my audio download "Setting Goals for Your Homeschool", which is a 45 minute talk that helps you refocus at the beginning of a new year, and my audio download "Teaching Your Children to Write Well", about how to teach kids to excel in the art of communication. Here's more info on each: Setting Goals for Your Homeschool In this 45-minute inspirational talk, I help you formulate goals to make sure that homeschooling reaches its full potential in your home to help you guide your children into living responsible, godly, creative and productive lives that glorify God.
We cover:
Teaching Your Children to Write Well This 45-minute interactive talk covers pre-school; elementary school; middle school; and high school. I talk about the resources that I use for teaching writing; creative ways you can help your children paint word pictures without too much whining; how to choose meaningful words; how to mark writing; and more! I even have an extended section on high schoolers, detailing how to help them make arguments, how to use speeches, and more!
We cover:
You can find more information about both products here! To win, all you have to do is leave a comment. I'll be pulling two winners next Sunday night! Good luck! But if you want to get something FREE, right now, I also offer a downloadable book report outline, for grades 6 and up, to help your children write a proper book report that doesn't just restate the plot. Thanks for entering! |
Posted in Parenting
|
At this New Year junction we're all busy making goals and plans, and those are good things (I have planning sheets you can use here, for FREE!). Cross-posted at my To Love, Honor and Vacuum blog. Come on over and have a look!
|
Posted in Curriculum
|
Are you busy with New Year's Resolutions? I know I am. Sometimes we vow things that there's no way we're ever going to live out. This year, I will not yell at my children (Probable time until breakage: 2.3 days). I will not get behind on the laundry (4.2 days). I will exercise (1 day). I will organize creative crafts for my children everyday (2 days). I will not eat my children’s candy (1.5 days if said candy is chocolate, 17.8 days if not). |
Posted in Curriculum
|
I felt like a slug of a mother this morning because I made all the kids rewrite their book reports. They tend to restate the plot rather than reporting on the book, no matter how much I explain. So sat down and created a detailed book report outline that will help them get it! Now it's more of a paint by numbers approach, and it's like the light went on in the kids' heads! Do you want it? You can download it free right here! And I hope it helps you, too! |
Posted in Public Schooling
|
Hi everybody! I'm sorry I don't update very often anymore, but that's because I'm usually over at my main blog, To Love, Honor and Vacuum. I update there several times a day, and just try to post homeschooling type stuff here. Anyway, I don't have anything homeschooling today, but I do have my column for this week, which was on the public school system. I thought you may enjoy it!
Remember to come by To Love, Honor and Vacuum sometime! I have a giveaway going on this week, too!
|
Posted in Curriculum
|
As a writing exercise today, I had the kids actually do something. They had to build models and then explain, step by step, how to build them. So we handed out the same Cuisenaire rods to two kids, put them in two different but adjacent rooms, and the first kid had to build the model and then dictate directions to the second. |
Posted in Curriculum
|
My kids are really into Bible quizzing. We do it through our denomination (Alliance) and is it ever fun! It's one of those things that sounds really geeky, and is, but it's still wonderful! This year we're learning Luke, and they learn it inside and out. Typical question would sound like this: Question 3 is a Multiple Answer question: Take nothing for your journey, what? Answer: No staff, no bag, no bread, no money, no extra tunic. Like I said, it's obscure. Watch a one minute video to get a feel for it here. What I love about it is that they'll never lose it. When they spend this much time getting to know a Bible book inside and out when they're young, when they're older they'll always remember things about that book, and remember a lot of their Bible verses. So it's great! If you ever have a chance to do quizzing, consider it! We're having a great time with it. Come read some of my posts about marriage and motherhood! I've even got a new podcast up! Just click over to To Love, Honor and Vacuum! |
|
You know that moment you've been dreading for almost a decade? When you kids come to you and ask, "Mommy, how are babies made?". Well, I've been through it twice. And survived. In fact, I think my daughters are better people for it! Every Tuesday I upload a new "To Love, Honor and Vacuum" podcast, and today's is a hilarious clip about telling kids about babies. And where they come from. And other fun stuff! It's not long. Just go here and you can listen while you continue to browse the net! Or you can subscribe through iTunes and then you can download all the episodes onto your iPod! Just to go iTunes and search for To Love, Honor and Vacuum. I know you'll love it!
|
Posted in Curriculum
|
We started off the year with the best of intentions. We were going to give school our 150%, my husband and I! We didn't need fancy curriculum with everything done for you. We knew what we wanted the kids to learn, so we bought the basic books, tons of resources, and we were going to custom-make a curriculum for science, history and geography. Now I love history. That's working out wonderfully! But after my mini-nervous breakdown because I had so much other work to do and I wasn't able to homeschool effectively, we decided we needed something else. I've been "on strike" for the last two weeks, taking a hiatus from teaching just so I can caught up on everything else. Sometimes you really need that break, and I've been extremely productive! Just look at some of the YouTube videos of myself speaking I've managed to upload! And I've got tons more in the queue ready to upload soon. But when it comes to school, I know I have to do things differently when we get back to it. And I think this time of year is a good one to admit when you bit off more than you can chew. So I just picked up the phone and ordered Alpha Omega's LifePac science. I'll keep teaching history, but we have to do Science well. And with Alpha Omega, the kids can work basically on their own. That works for me! I'll let you know how it works out. I hope I find the stuff rigorous enough (we're kind of picky that way). But in the meantime, I'm glad I'm throwing in the towel before we lose even more precious time! |
Posted in Curriculum
|
We’ve been having a bit of a crisis in our homeschool lately. I just have so much work to get caught up in with my speaking ministry–work that I’ve been putting off for years. But I can’t seem to do it at the same time as I’m homeschooling. Even if my husband takes the kids one day a week, I just can’t get everything done. So then when I am homeschooling, I’m not really paying attention to the kids. My mind is elsewhere, focusing on what I should be doing on the computer. We’ve decided, then, after an especially rough week last week, to take three weeks off to get me caught up, and then to work six weeks of homeschooling, one week off, so that I can get my work done periodically and won’t get behind. And we’re going to be schooling half days through part of the summer, too! I find they get bored and bicker in the summer anyway, so it’s just as well. This plan means, though, that three kids, ages 11, 13 and 13, need to work on their own without me for three weeks. And that is not an easy thing, because two of them gang up against the oldest girl and tell her she’s being bossy, and they try to just play chess all day. Which isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but I do want them to get other things done, too. So today, on our tour, I am going to leave you with some sites kids can go on to actually DO SOME STUFF while you need them to get out of your hair. Because, if we homeschoolers are honest, we do have those moments, don’t we? Here’s a neat one: Freely Educate. It has a mish mash of curriculum that’s available free on the internet. Some of it your kids can do themselves, like this amazing computer curriculum site. Kids can learn how to program in a graphics environment. Today, my 13-year-old nephew is starting on that one! Another one with links to “Gutenberg texts”, or books which have been published on the internet, in the project that hopes to have all books eventually online, is Old Fashioned Education. It organizes all the resources by subject matter, but if you’re going to use them to homeschool you’ll have to do a lot of work yourself organizing it! A site where they can work on their own again, which I really favour, is Interactives. All sorts of neat math and science quizzes are up online, but they’re all multimedia, and really fun. For younger kids, the Kids’ part of the National Geographic site is animated, and has a number of activities you can do. You can assign them to explore the site for twenty minutes, or something, and you’re guaranteed they’ll learn something! They also have premade activities, like this one for The Underground Railroad, which your children can take. As a Canadian teaching Canadian geography this year, I love this online activity at the Canada Atlas site that the government has. But if you want your child to just fill in an outline map in an interactive activity of several different countries, you can find those here at Your Child Learns. And the United States is included in that one! I also like their World Monuments Map Puzzle. The same site also has free online software where you can build your own medieval village, your own castle, and more! That can keep your child busy for at least twenty minutes. And that can be a godsend! Education World has an online tour of the human body, with links to great websites. I especially like The Virtual Body, and you could easily assign a child, say aged 9 and up, to look at it for 15 minutes at a time. Lots of activities there, too. The American History site also has a “Price of Freedom” learning activity, where you learn more about different historical figures. Again, the child can do this on his or her own. If you’re into Canadian history, here are some online interactive quizzes kids can take. My kids are each doing three of these today! And then, last suggestion of the tour today, the National Gallery of Art has different tours you can take, with audio, of different art time periods and mediums (media?). They look really interesting, and my kids are doing the French Impressionists from the 19th century today! I hope that gives you some ideas to keep your kids occupied if you just need some time to yourself periodically or time to get something done. I know I’m making use of these today! Have a good day! ![]()
(Cross-posted at The HSBA Post) |
Posted in Curriculum
|
This year my husband and I fanatically planned our curriculum before the year even began. We had stuff planned out for every subject, and had it divided up by week as to how much we had to cover to be done in this school year. And then we jumped in. And hit a curveball. It's not a bad curve ball, but it seems that if the kids work steadily, they're done everything by 11:30 or 12:00. And that's not acceptable to me. I want them working harder than that! (I have a child in grade 9 now). Perhaps that makes me a bad homeschooling parent, but I feel as if they're no writing enough this year. So we have come up with another idea. We're going to supplement our history course with novels. We normally do that anyway, but that's one aspect of this curriculum we didn't plan, because we wrote the history curriculum ourselves. We're doing only Canadian history this year, because we've never done it before. Frankly, I just don't think it's that important in understanding world events. We did a ton on the American Revolution and Plymouth Plantation and the Civil War and the English Civil War and all of that last year, but that is more important. That's the history of democracy, and it matters. You can't understand anything in world events if you don't get the importance of the American Revolution, and why the French Revolution was so different (and so violent). We used Veritas Press' Omnibus curriculum for all of that, and it was great. We couldn't find something comparable for Canada, so used a hodge podge of books that we think are pretty good. But we're short on novels. So I found this website that lists novels for each historical period, and we're going to start having them read a novel every two weeks and write a book report. It sounds like torture, but I love torture. Why else would I be doing this? If any fellow Canadians are interested, here's the site: http://www.freewebs.com/canadianhomeschool/nicolas%20%20list%20draft%20sept%2023%202006.htm Hope you enjoy it! Don't forget to visit my main blog at To Love, Honor and Vacuum! |
Posted in Personality and Homeschooling
|
Yesterday I wrote about our struggle with piano lessons for my youngest, and people have been writing to me asking if I really think I should push her so hard. So here's my parenting philosophy and the reason that we do! One of the big issues with kids today, I believe, is that the world revolves around them in a way it didn't for kids a century or two ago. In those days kids had to work, and work hard. Today, from the moment they are born, our lives revolve around our kids. They become the centre. We take them on play dates, take Mom & Tot swimming, buy them lots of toys, and expect very little out of them. Children, I believe, have a healthier sense of self when they feel self-reliant and useful. But children today aren't useful; too often they're accessories of the parents while we buy them all the latest things and try to make their lives go as smoothly as possible. But real life doesn't work that way. In real life your life only goes smoothly if you work and are responsible. But we don't have very many ways of teaching children that today. In our house the kids do work, though not nearly as hard as children used to. But they have their chores, and they make dinner occasionally, and they clean toilets. It's great. Nevertheless, I'm not sure where they actually learn the value of hard work. Because they're homeschooled, though, my kids lose out on two things they may learn at school: getting 100% for working hard, but also having to sit through something they really really don't like. On the one hand, I'm ecstatic that they don't have to go through that. I hated watching the clock inch towards 3:10 when we would get out of school. I try to make schoolwork fun for the kids, and interesting, and for the most part I think I succeed. But at the same time, at some point children need to learn the discipline to plow through something they don't like. In life sometimes we have to do things we hate for the greater good. And the sooner you realize that since you have to do it, you may as well have a good attitude about it and get it done, the better. When they complain and whine about it, they make everybody miserable. One day my girls are going to have jobs. They're going to have homes to take care of, jobs to do at church, income tax forms to fill out. You can't procrastinate forever. You have to just do it. And I want to feel that my children were trained that when distasteful things come along, you take a deep breath, work as hard as you can, and get it over with. I don't want their whole lives to be about that; I really don't. On the whole, I want them to have lives that are interesting and broadening and exciting. Occasionally, though, they do need to buckle down, and they need opportunities for that. Rebecca, my oldest, will. If she doesn't like something, she has realized that just getting it over with is the best offense. So she does. But Katie, with everything in life, doesn't. Her first instinct is to complain, whether it's schoolwork or chores or piano. If it were just piano, I might let this go, and let her learn only the way she wants to. But it's with everything in her life, and so I'm really worried that it's more of a character issue. So the reason that I am so strict with piano is that I want her to learn that valuable lesson. Practising for 25 minutes a day, hard, isn't so bad. She has the rest of the day to do things she likes, after all. And if she put her all into it, she'd be done lessons for good in a year and a half. She really would. But at the rate she's going it will take three years. I'm not trying to make her whole life hard, but learning to overcome procrastination and laziness is an important skill to teach children, and it's one I'm still battling with myself. Does that make sense? Have you ever experienced this in your home? I think Katie will be an incredible pianist one day. She's already at the point where she could play for church. But even more than that, I want her to a person who doesn't complain, who is helpful, who is the first to jump in when something needs doing and just gets it done. I think 11 is a good age to start learning that. We'll see how it turns out! Don't forget to check out my main site for more parenting articles and books on making homeschooling go more smoothly! |






