I have disappeared for a while. Not on purpose, at first I had nothing to say. Then I was busy taking care of myself, I am finally free for a bit to share what is going on with me.

Have you ever gotten so busy with taking care of your kids, husband, house... you forget to take care of yourself? I am sure I am not the only one to fall into this trap. I forgot about myself, I somehow convinced myself that everything and everyone else was more important. I would wake up and jump out of bed, throw on some clothes and rush to feed my always hungry kids.  Then we would get Alyvia off to school, start Naomi with school, tackle chores, break up fights with little ones, make lunch... Each day was busy and crazy. Then one day it hit me like a ton of bricks, since we have had Omar and Alyvia my personal quiet time is whatever I can squeeze in while in the bathroom. Not much more than a couple minutes a day. So I determined this must change. So I started putting the little ones in Elaina's room to play and SHUTTING the door, then Giving Naomi a list of assignments, with instructions not to disturb me.  Then I take out my Bible and journal and have some personal time with God.  I listen to my new New Life Church worship CD and I love my time with God, I no longer rush, like I was, I take my time and ignore all around me. The kids amazingly are fine, they play happily till I am finished. This leaves me so much more refreshed and energized and at peace. 

That first part was the most important part, but then I got thinking... HMMM maybe I should wear some makeup everyday... Those that know me well know I never wear makeup except on SUN.  So I started my day with a shower, makeup, braid my hair, and get dressed. WOW how much better I feel, even though no one but my kids sees me, I feel good. I cannot explain that but it really makes me feel better and more human?

Then I said to myself, hmm lets go a step further and walk 2x a day. WOW that was a good move. My kids often join me, but it leaves me feeling refreshed and energized.   I even went and revamped my wardrobe... GASP, SHOCK, say it ain't so JOE! Yes I bought some new pants that I love and 9 lovely new shirts in colors I love and look nice in. I even splurged and got some new pj's! That made me feel even better.

Then to top all of that off  I found an online Bible Study called The Lord's Table, I love this program ( Ok I am only on day 3 but I have been so encouraged and blessed by my mentor).  This has been a wonderful addition to my taking care of me quest. http://www.settingcaptivesfree.com/home/

Now I wonder why do we as moms forget to take care of ourselves, our souls, our bodies. Yes we need to take care of our families, but are we giving them our best when we neglect to take care of us? I do not think so, I think when we neglect ourselves we start resenting our families and others for all that they are taking out of us. Ok, maybe you are saying "NOT ME!" well, take some time and think about it, try it out, see how you feel when you take care of yourself and how that translates to your family. I know for me, I am a MUCH nicer mom when I take care of me, my guess is you will be too.

SO I challenge all my fellow friends, moms, wives, homeschoolers take care of you, let God work in and through you and see what amazing things he does in your life.

Have a happy, blessed day, may God fill your cup to overflowing as you worship him and sing his praises.

Michelle

PS. If you would like to have me email you when I write new topics send me a note at mjstahnke@aol.com

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