Published on May 19, 2007 at 8:05 PMHomeschooling is NOT all about Textbooks
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Since I was a baby, my mom had always been in church ministries. Women’s, children’s, the works. Up into my early teen years she was the woman who could always be asked to head up this ministry or that. She was gone a lot and we were either dragged everywhere with her, left home with dad or take to one of her friends. She was not home a lot.
In 2002, we left the church we had been attending for several years due to some unbiblical things that were being done or said. After we left that church my mom found many, many great resources, which we still use today, that told her of what a mom/wife/woman was supposed to be or do. And through many years she has become the wonderful woman of God we all know and love. She has truly come a long way from that other mom who was always on the go. She has embraced her new role of being a homekeeper and has succeeded in letting it be who she is. She is one who when she finds out something that is wrong or right, she acts on it, and does what she is supposed to.
During the time that she was always gone, I fell into the world. I thought I was the best Christian. I would attend service, and Sunday school, memorize my verse and recite it to the whole class, know all the worship songs, raise my hands. I thought I was the best Christian. But I had lost my way in all my piousness. I was a fake. My parents lost my heart. I have done things in the past that I am ashamed of because my parents did not have my heart and I did not let them take it.
You would think with the way my parents are that I would have been who I was supposed to. But my heart wasn’t in the right place and I was lost.
It is a hard and long journey that I am still trekking, but I know that if I had been sent to public school, I might not be alive today. I am not even close to ending this trek back to where my parents have my complete heart. It is a hard thing to completely give it to them because I want to be in control and shouldn’t be. But I am trying my best to give it to them.
One thing that being homeschooled has taught me is that homeschooling is not all about the textbooks, or the math or science or history or grammar you learn. Its not all about school. It is about keeping your children’s hearts. Making sure that you don’t lose them to the world and satan. It is about equipping your children to raise up to the expectations that God has set for them. It is your job as a mother to keep your children’s hearts at the center of your attention and training them in all things that are holy and Godly.
Just a couple years ago, I despised my mother because I was not in the grade I was supposed to be and because it made me look dumb to all my “friends”. I was behind in school and it made me look stupid in front of my “friends”. I thought that school was sitting in a desk or at a table and doing workbooks for hours. But that is not what homeschool is like, maybe public school. But I was homeschooled, not public schooled. I have learned that you can gain more knowledge in homeschool, not by doing workbooks, but by living everyday life.
School is something everyone does. Not everyone takes their children’s hearts and molds them to be the men and women of God that they are supposed to be.
Don’t just keep your children home to teach them “school” because school will not be important when we are in heaven with God. What will be important is that they love God and did all they could to be Godly men and women on this earth.
Keep your children’s heart and you will have an even greater reward than your child getting a diploma. You will know that they love the LORD and follow his ways and you will be with them forever!!
Not only will you have their hearts, but you will be able to keep them away from satan and his evil things that happen in the world.
As a great homeschool parent reminds us, “KEEP THEM HOME WHERE THEY BELONG!”
Love...

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May 19, 2007 at 8:17 PM...Untitled Comment
Commented by BlogBoy
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I'll re your comment later tonight, I've got to go to work for a while. I was just heading outside =S
Eric
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May 19, 2007 at 9:09 PM...Untitled Comment
Commented by totustuus
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That's true. So many parents get their priorities mixed up and send their kids away to get "good educations". I really, really value a good education, but it's not as important as following God. And in homeschooling, you can give your children both a good education, and "keep their hearts" for God. We should keep our priorities straight, and be thinking in the eternal mindset - and not the earthly mindest.
I am one to hit the books rather hard, though. ;-) Nothing is wrong with focusing on textbooks!! We just can't make them top priority.
And how awesome is that?? I was your 1000th commenter!!!! :-) Congrats!!
TTYL,
<3 always!!!!!!!!!
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May 19, 2007 at 9:47 PM...Untitled Comment
Commented by TrickyNikki
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Wow, very nice post! My mom always says the same thing. Homeschool is not all about the books and such, it's about learning how to be a good person, a Christain, and leader for people who don't know what they need to do in life. Again, very nice post!
I hope you and your family are doing well!
~Nikki
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May 19, 2007 at 10:41 PM...Untitled Comment
Commented by BlogBoy
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If you only have one library card then you don't have to keep track of all of the other cards too! So when I suggested that we all get our own library cards, mom said "no."
All libraries are slightingly demonic. We have favorite libraries, but they all carry bad material.
Yes, I am an absentminded writer sometimes. I don't usually mess stuff up unless I'm really mad about it. Like when I'm defending Narnia, I almost always botch it. =D But I wasn't mad when I was talking about LUCY! So I don't know why I messed it up. ;)
I really, really liked your post about abortion. Maybe you could write something about that? It would need scientific proof that life begins at conception, and some bible verses and stuff.
I have a few different programs that I use. I use Photoshop 5.5 (if you buy it get it on Ebay for real cheap) and I use Jasc Animation shop (around 35 bucks)
Well Mom decided that she is going down to KY by herself. So we're probably going to come in July. But I'm not going to tell you girls when I'm coming anymore. I'll call when I'm like an hour from your house, then you can be sure I'm coming! Lol! (actually it's not so funny =S)
Eric
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May 19, 2007 at 11:13 PM...Untitled Comment
May 20, 2007 at 1:29 AM...Thank-you!!!!
Commented by quietcajun
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This is a WONDERFUL entry. It blessed and encouraged my heart.
I was much like your mom. Everyone could count on me except my own family.
There were many times I had to chose between teaching Sunday School or staying home with my own sick child.
Finally, the Lord began to convict my stubborn heart. I thought I was doing the right things, but I began to see where I was trusting in the wrong priorities.
In the past few years we have backed away from more and more activities and programs... they were all good programs... children's choir, Missionettes, Royal Rangers (Christian scouting programs), Sunday School, etc.
We also began to limit our activities outside of church that kept us away from home far too much (dance class, homeschool band, etc.)
Just recently we even switched churches to a family-integrated congregation.
Your entry reminded me of my goals and to keep my children's hearts.
Thank-you.
On another subject... I got quite a bit done on LucyLillie's afghan today. My JoAnn's order never did show up so I had to redesign my plan, but its turning out nicely, I think!
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May 20, 2007 at 10:02 AM...Untitled Comment
Commented by DarthYxpu
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Paulie won't stay off my laptop. I came to comment here and noticed that he's still logged in. OK, I'll just comment under his name since Uncle and I are getting ready to walk to town square for a breakfast date (shocking! we never get dates!).
We'll see you this Saturday night...probably around 7 or 8 at the latest. What's for dinner? And you have that great coffee right? Do we still get that awesome room with the view upstairs? Have Lucy/Lillie waiting for me - I have a cute outfit for her. See you Sat!
-A
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May 20, 2007 at 7:15 PM...Untitled Comment
Commented by DarthYxpu
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Ok, this is actually ME now.
:D
Very well written post!
Great points!
I would like to work on your ad when we're up there, but like you said, your sister is probably going to want me to help her. :D
I feel bad that I haven't finished her ad and I know it's holding her up. So, I want to finish it for her ASAP!
Can't wait to see you guys!!!
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May 22, 2007 at 12:50 AM...Untitled Comment
Commented by mandygrace
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You make a very good point. Unlike public school, homeschooling allows parents to keep their children’s hearts. I do think being well educated helps one grow into a godly person and develop strength of character. The Bible says the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge. So yes we do need to learn “life skills,” but it’s also important that we be highly educated. I guess balance is the key. :-)
Love,
Amanda
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May 22, 2007 at 7:14 PM...Hi
Commented by walkbyfaith
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lol. No rush, just put it up whenever. :)
I used to be all upset that I wasn't in the right 'grade' also, but then I realized that all a grade is, is the level that challenges you! :) God bless, Alycia
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May 22, 2007 at 10:41 PM...Untitled Comment
Commented by Anonymous
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Hi, sorry I haven't posted in a while.
I posted a new entry.
We are going to your house Saturday!
We can see your goats, and maybe I can milk them again.
I can't wait!!!!!!!!!!!!
Levi
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May 25, 2007 at 8:58 AM...Untitled Comment
Commented by pianolove
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"Don’t just keep your children home to teach them “school” because school will not be important when we are in heaven with God. What will be important is that they love God and did all they could to be Godly men and women on this earth."
That is so true! We are going to be "dead" alot longer than we were alive!
Heather
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May 25, 2007 at 10:44 PM...Untitled Comment
Commented by IloveyouGod
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Wonderful post Amanda!! It's a blessing to read. I forget that sometimes, and it's a great reminder.
Blessings, Brooke
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