At least in some of its derivative applications, I have learned...  Eek.  Probably is best to stick to the old-fashioned spelling.

P.S.  Just to be perfectly clear...my point in the last thread is that guilt by association, not to mention begging the question, are fallacies.  Keep that in mind when reading histrionics over an isolated incident. 

And yes, absolutism/dogmatism of any kind in parenting is best avoided.  I am in complete agreement with the comment that we must follow the Lord's leading and interpret his word wisely in bringing up our children.  That's why I loved this post I read a long while back:

Parenting By the Book