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Friday, April 27, 2007

12:01 PM

Do homeschoolers really need to work on socialization?

I found this and thought it was cute... 
a homeschooling mom talking to a "public" school mom about socialization... in a "reverse" mode.
What about socialization? (from another angle)

Two women meet at a playground, where their children are swinging and
playing ball. The women are sitting on a bench watching.
Eventually, they begin to talk.
W1: Hi. My name is Maggie. My kids are the three in red shirts -- helps
me keep track of them.
W2: (Smiles) I'm Terri. Mine are in the pink and yellow shirts. Do you
come here a lot?
W1: Usually two or three times a week, after we go to the library.
W2: Wow. Where do you find the time?
W1: We home school, so we do it during the day most of the time.
W2: Some of my neighbours home school, but I send my kids to public
school.
W1: How do you do it?
W2: It's not easy. I go to all the PTO meetings and work with the kids
every day after school and stay real involved.
W1: But what about socialization? Aren't you worried about them being
cooped up all day with kids their own ages, never getting the opportunity for
natural relationships?
W2: Well, yes. But I work hard to balance that. They have some friends
who're home schooled, and we visit their grandparents almost every
month.
W1: Sounds like you're a very dedicated mom. But don't you worry about
all the opportunities they're missing out on? I mean they're so isolated
from real life -- how will they know what the world is like -- what people
do to make a living -- how to get along with all different kinds of people?
W2: Oh, we discussed that at PTO, and we started a fund to bring real
people into the classrooms. Last month, we had a policeman and a doctor come
in to talk to every class. And next month, we're having a woman from Japan
and a man from Kenya come to speak.
W1: Oh, we met a man from Japan in the grocery store the other week,
and he got to talking about his childhood in Tokyo. My kids were absolutely
fascinated. We invited him to dinner and got to meet his wife and their
three children.
W2: That's nice. Hmm. Maybe we should plan some Japanese food for the
lunchroom on Multicultural Day.
W1: Maybe your Japanese guest could eat with the children.
W2: Oh, no. She's on a very tight schedule. She has two other schools
to visit that day. It's a system-wide thing we're doing.
W1: Oh, I'm sorry. Well, maybe you'll meet someone interesting in the
grocery store sometime and you'll end up having them over for dinner.
W2: I don't think so. I never talk to people in the store -- certainly
not people who might not even speak my language. What if that Japanese man
hadn't spoken English?
W1: To tell you the truth, I never had time to think about it.
Before I even saw him, my six-year-old had asked him what he was going
to do with all the oranges he was buying.
W2: Your child talks to strangers?
W1: I was right there with him. He knows that as long as he's with me,
he can talk to anyone he wishes.
W2: But you're developing dangerous habits in him. My children never
talk to strangers.
W1: Not even when they're with you?
W2: They're never with me, except at home after school. So you see why
it's so important for them to understand that talking to strangers is a big
no-no.
W1: Yes, I do. But if they were with you, they could get to meet
interesting people and still be safe. They'd get a taste of the real world, in real
settings. They'd also get a real feel for how to tell when a situation
is dangerous or suspicious.
W2: They'll get that in the third and fifth grades in their health
courses.
W1: Well, I can tell you're a very caring mom. Let me give you my
number--if you ever want to talk, give me call. It was good to meet you.

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Comments

Saturday, April 28, 2007 - Untitled Comment

10:03 PM

Posted by drewsfamilytx
I had never seen that before-- very cool!

I think I like it...I think I'll have to share it. :-)

Thanks!
Marsha

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Saturday, April 28, 2007 - one more thing...

10:06 PM

Posted by drewsfamilytx
Have you ever read that article "No thanks, we don't believe in socialization"? I have a link on my sidebar in you haven't.

Of course, I think your post is a nice twist on the same thing!

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Sunday, April 29, 2007 - Untitled Comment

11:28 AM

Posted by moreofhim
I love this! I'm so glad you shared this. I don't get asked about socialization much anymore as my children are 16 and 18 and people can see they are socialized just fine - thank you very much - but wish I had seen this in my earlier years of HS! Would have been fun to turn the tables a few times. LOL I love all your patriotic graphics and your teddy bears! I love teddy bears and I love America. I have a red, white and blue living room - a dream for many years that finally happened a few months ago. I love it! Take care and I'll be back to visit! God bless!

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Sunday, April 29, 2007 - Untitled Comment

1:16 PM

Posted by nsremom
I followed a link from Marsha.....that was GOOD. Wow, and it was a grace filled conversation. I appreciated that. :)

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Monday, April 30, 2007 - This is great

9:26 AM

Posted by homeskoolmom
Found you from Marsha-- drews family TX.
I've never seen this before either, but I absolutely love it. Wouldn't it be great to hand a copy of this to all the naysayers?
Have a wonderful day,
Christine

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Tuesday, May 1, 2007 - Untitled Comment

2:31 AM

I LOVE IT! That is soooo true!! Kids don't really learned social skills until they are finally released from government schools and get out into the real world...which looks NOTHING like the psuedo world created within schools.
Thanks for sharing!

Jennie von Eggers
www.TimesTales.com

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