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November 8, 2007

Growing up

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Do you ever just sit back and watch your children? I know I used to a lot when they were little and playing on the floor, but now that we have a teen and a pre-teen?

As I sit back and watch these boys now...boy have they grown! They can do many things for themselves now. They handle most all their own school work without many questions. They know things I have no clue about (mainly about cars, engines and dynamics.) And Charlie, the middle son, has grown taller than me now! He's only 13, so I'm not sure how tall he will eventually be. His feet have been bigger than mine for a few years now.

So off we go to get new pants again today. He doesn't wear out his jeans like he used to. These last few pair I bought only two months ago. And they were dragging the ground when I bought them.  He still likes to sit on my lap and tell me, "I love my mommy". That's the sad part. He wants to grow up (and drive!) but he wants to stay little and cuddly. It's hard on both of us to have him growing up. I still feel the pain of the oldest (now 24) when he left home years ago. There is a void here in our house where he used to be.

Ah, but one of my favorite sayings can bring me out of the gloom of growing up. "Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional."  *grabs my American Girl doll and gives her a big hug*

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November 8, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
I am glad you have your doll. : )
I understand the void and the growing too fast of the ones that are at home. You are blessed!
Next month we are going to Applebees for our Christmas dinner.
Wanna join us? I will get you the info when I get it together.
Love,
Maria
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November 13, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Devonbunny
Thank you for that posting. I think it is so important to take time out sometimes andjust sit and watch, to take in what's going on. I did just that on Saturday, whilst we were at a sale. I didn't have any customers and I just stood watching my children interact with their peers and the adults around them. Amazing how they have grown up.

Love and blessings
Jules x (UK)
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November 13, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by SandBetweenMyToes
Exactly! I'm really starting to feel it with my 2 oldest. Although Ashley is still at home for college, I can just feel it coming in the next couple of years. It won't be long before there is a special man in her life. And Briana is leaving for college next fall. I can already feel that void you're talking about. How do you go from them being here pretty much 24/7 to being gone. I know the Lord has to be my security, but it's not a day I look forward to, even though I know it's good and right.
Letitia, who's vertically challenged 10 year old grew 1 1/4 inches very recently, and has almost grown to fit the jeans that were WAY to long 2 months ago.
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November 21, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by SandBetweenMyToes
Happy Thanksgiving!
Hey, we watched Africam again the other day!
Letitia
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November 21, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by mrssulli
I haven't stopped by in a while, but I happened to think of you the other day. I met a family at our church who used to live at or near the Johnson Bible College and was frequently there. We started out talking about Knoxville and then it progressed :) So, I thought I'd check in with you - hope you are having a great Thanksgiving week!
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