These two sweeties are not only sisters,  they are my granddaughters.   My younger children are their aunt and uncles,  of course.   When we're together our "play group" is 8 mos.,   4 yo,  10  yo,  12 yo and 13 yo.  My oldest daughter is 24 yo,  so we can sit and visit as adults over coffee while our children play.    There was a time I could never even imagine this scenario.

     My oldest daughter was probably a typical teen,  but as my first, we struggled through those adolescent years and wondered if we'd ever be at peace.     I spent many hours on my knees in prayer.  I offer an encouraging word to moms experiencing this struggle for the first time.   The mother-child relationship is in transition.  It doesn't last forever.    Celebrate successes more and  lecture on failures less.   In the end, the relationship is transformed!  There will  be a time when you can laugh together at past events which once seemed like crises at the time.    Despite all my mistakes,  this  "troublesome"  teen has become a lovely young lady,   attentive wife and caring mom,  whose children receive ample love and consistent discipline.

     And now my next daughter begins those adolescent years.   But she benefits from having a more relaxed mom and a big sister.   I have been strengthened in the knowledge that God is faithful in our times of need.  And as I know these years slip by too quickly,   I  fully appreciate glimpses of the lovely young lady,  caring wife and devoted, loving  mother she will someday become.

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Posted by OreoSouza

Wow! They are beautiful! Really! I believe my granddaughters are the most beautiful in the whole world, but yours are right there next to them.

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Posted by kindredspiritMom

All of your little women are so pretty! What a joy to be able to have that closeness with your adult daughter. I watch my girls getting bigger everyday and I know it will all pass too quickly. Makes me want to savor this time. Thanks for sharing!

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Posted by Theresa

Just lovely! The teenage years can be a very trying time for mothers and daughters. Some pass through it more gracefully than others, for sure. My oldest was a nightmare, but has now given me two adorable grandsons. My next teenage girl is a dream at 16 and daily makes me proud. Either way it is great to see them mature into the women they will become. Thanks for sharing.

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Posted by Mamma1420

My mom is my best friend. She still doesn't let me off the hook about how much trouble I caused as a teenager!

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Posted by eyecorn

What beautfiul children! It's very encouraging to hear that the bumpy teenage years do end and fruitful adult relationships follow!

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Posted by Prncsstefy

What a beautiful family you have!!!!

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Posted by Anonymous

I can remember when your oldest was still a highschooler and your second daughter was just starting her school years. Time flies! I agree with what you say about teens -- I wouldn't miss that stage for anything.

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