Saturday, November 21, 2009 - My Recovery- What it means
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My Recovery
This is MY recovery. I Own it. It belongs to ME. This is MY life, given to ME alone to live for whatever I want. I choose to live for God with my life, but He ALONE gives me the choice and free will to do whatever I wish. I am in recovery because I am in NEED of something. Living for God means that I will have to look honestly at myself and allow Him to change me through whatever means I have available. I have a right to have needs and to do what I have the ability to do in order to meet those needs. Having needs does not mean I am worth less than other people. They all have needs too, whether they acknowledge those needs or not. I choose to acknowledge my need and open up to the renewing and strengthening of my mind, body and spirit. I have the right and I feel the responsibility to seek help from safe people in my life, in order to live the best life possible. I only get one life, and it is useless to waste my time trapped in old patterns of thought and behavior that do not give life and health to me or to others around me. I do not want to continue patterns of thought, speech or behavior that injure myself or others, therefore I have entered RECOVERY.What does that mean?
Recovery-
1. The act (meaning that there is an ACTION to it), duration ( meaning it takes TIME) or an instance (meaning there may be many times of recovery for different issues) of recovering.
2. The regaining of something lost ( I have lost some of who I was created to be due to recovery issues such as addictions, abuse, anxiety, codependency, depression, anger , control or other kinds of negative behavior on my part and on the part of others, and sometimes circumstances such as illness, death, or other loss. I have lost touch with my emotions, with God and with other people as a result of these same issues)
3.Restoration to a former or better condition.( yes. I need that)
4.The extraction of useful substances from waste ( God never wastes a hurt, and I intend to let Him use mine for good. I do not want my time to be wasted either! Though others may have treated me as if I was not useful, I will bring out my usefulness and get rid of the waste)
5. In Law, the obtaining of a right by the judgment of a court.(According to the laws of my country, I have the rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. I intend to exercise those rights in my recovery.)
6- Military operations- returning of an aircraft to a base or float( ( I have a need to come down to rest to refuel and repair, like that aircraft) or
7. Returning of persons to friendly control ( I do not want to be controlled by others- this is by nature unfriendly. I do not want to be in control of other adults, this is not friendly either. I am out of control and need to be with supportive friends who will help me regain control of myself.)
8 a change for the better, a progress in development. ( yes. I need to change for the better and progress in developing health)
9 gradual healing through rest following illness or injury ( my body, mind, emotions and spirit have been wounded and have illnesses due to my recovery issues, and I need to spend time healing through rest. Sometimes rest from activities, thinking, people, work, or situations. This is all part of the process and I have permission to take the time to rest, whenever I need it, for as long as it takes. Healing and recovery are sometimes very gradual.)
10 The act of freeing from captivity or punishment ( I have been captive of my issues and I intend to be freed)
11. The act of regaining posession ( I am taking back my life from those people and things who have taken it over.)
I choose recovery for me, and not for the approval of others. Many people around me will continue in their unhealthy living. They will not stop me. I will continue and I will give it my best shot. I will do what it takes, and I will give myself permission to heal in every way possible, and will limit the influences of those things that may hinder my progress toward the goal. I know it is a life long process and I promise to be patient with myself and others. |
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Friday, November 20, 2009 - Codependent's Bill of rights 2
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- THE RIGHT TO a loving and secure relationship based on healthy mutual dependence;
- THE RIGHT TO peace and harmony in your home;
- THE RIGHT TO a stable, secure, and nurturing environment conducive to personal growth and self-discovery;
- THE RIGHT TO a healthy self-concept, knowing you are worthy, valued, and loved;
- THE RIGHT TO human dignity; to be respected and treated as an individual human being, and not be put down, demoralized, and dehumanised;
- THE RIGHT TO not live a life of “always waiting for the other shoe to drop,” never knowing whether it will be a soft slipper or steel-toed work boot;
- THE RIGHT TO a life free of the fear of emotional terrorism, physical abuse, and constant arguing;
- THE RIGHT TO a life free of nightmares, day terrors, and insecurity;
- THE RIGHT TO a life free of guilt and shame, and freedom from manipulation through guilt and shame;
- THE RIGHT TO not be emotionally drained and “all used up” from the rigor's of a codependent-addictive relationship;
- THE RIGHT TO use any possible means (short of physical assault) to positively change your own circumstances;
- THE RIGHT TO leave a physically abusive addictive relationship immediately and without advance notice to the abuser;
- THE RIGHT TO not live life on a roller coaster, going from one crisis to another;
- THE RIGHT TO go to work or school without dragging all the baggage of codependent-addictive dysfunction.
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Friday, November 20, 2009 -
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a Codependent's Bill of Rights
I have a right to all those good times that I have longed for all these years and didn't get- a right that is to enjoy good times NOW, without guilt!
I have a right to ejoy in this life, right here, right now — not just a momentary rush of euphoria but something more substantive.
I have a right to relax and have fun in a nonaddictive and nondestructive way.
I have a right to actively pursue people, places, and situations that will help me in achieving a good life.
I have the right to say no whenever I feel something is not safe or I am not ready.
I have a right to not participate in either the active or passive "crazy-making" behavior of parents, of siblings, and of others.
I have a right to take calculated risks and to experiment with new strategies.
I have a right to change my tune, my strategy, and my funny equations.
I have a right to 'mess up'; to make mistakes, to 'blow it', to disappoint myself, and to fall short of the mark.
I have a right to leave the company of people who deliberately or inadvertently put me down,
lay a guilt trip on me, manipulate or humiliate me
, including my parents, my siblings, my partner or any other member of my family.
I have a right to put an end to conversations with people who make me feel put down and humiliated.
I have a right to all my feelings.
I have a right to trust my feelings, my judgment, my hunches, my intuition.
I have a right to develop myself as a whole person emotionally, spiritually, mentally, physically, and psychologically.
I have a right to express all my feelings in a nondestructive way and at a safe time and place.
I have a right to as much time as I need to experiment with this new information and these new ideas and to initiate changes in my life.
I have a right to sort out the bill of goods my parents sold me — to take the acceptable and dump the unacceptable.
I have a right to a mentally healthy, sane way of existence,
though it will deviate in part, or all, from my parents' prescribed philosophy of life.
I have a right to carve out my place in this world.
I have a right to follow any of the above rights, to live my life the way I want to, and not wait until my dysfunctional family gets well,
gets happy, seeks help, or admits there is a problem.
I also understand that the person who troubles me the most has the same rights.
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Tuesday, April 28, 2009 - how long?
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I know... I know... you thought this was a dead blog. 'm still alive, just mostly IRL and not so much on here.
I have gotten bored of writing and haven't had much to say. So sue me. No- not literally- I can't afford it.
Any lawsuit brought against me for being an intermittant blogger should be thrown out of court on the basis of it being a STUPID reason to sue somebody.
I've been spending a lot of time with my husband lately and just being me....
School has been nothing to shout about, but it might be soon since we are starting our SUMMER next month.
What does summer mean for us this year? Last year it was a total free for all. Prior to that, it had been a
tiny bit less demanding than a regular school year. Just like, sort of unschooling with delight-led and math thrown in.
This time we have 4-h projects to work on, Trinity is going to dig and plant her very first garden, Rowan is learning all about flight (chiefly using paper airplanes) and Harley will be programming FLASH games for the Wii. The older kids will be using an apologetics course, and we will just keep forging ahead in our math curriculum.
1/2 day schedules, beginning with their chosen subjects and ending with 4-H.
Trinity is showing the one kitten that we decided to keep (Zax) also doing a photography project. Harley has dropped interior design and is only turning in Geology, while our Cloverbud, Rowan, is doing a craft project and a cooking project.
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Thursday, January 8, 2009 - Black Widow in a Fallen World
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Black Widow? Yellow Jackets.. the Fallenness of the world.
We were just finishing our reading of the story of Ulysses ( aka Homer's Odessy), when Trin announced that there was a spider living in our bathroom window. Not a surprise- spiders are welcome in our home so long as they are not dangerous ones, and our min pin Fiona does not find them ( she LOVES to snack on those!).
I like spiders, and run to see what it is whenever one of the kids says they found one, quick to identify it.
When I went into the bathroom, there was a yellow jacket wasp in the window.
Trinity is allergic to those, so she hurried out of the bathroom, but I called her back, to tell me where she saw the spider, and we found it. The wasp was walking around and bumped into its web. I called the boys so that we could watch the spider catch its meal- or possibly its death.
I wasn't sure who would win.
The arachnid may indeed be a black or brown widow. The shiny carapace and it's color somewhere between bloody-brown and black fit the description, but she didn't let me see her belly as she worked for her meal, so the markings are unknown, while she is the right size and shape, she is doing us a service at the moment and I do not wish to disturb her.
Black widows are not usually deadly, but can make you sick. We KNOW the wasp is dangerous and able to kill one of our family members, and I don't believe in killing any creatures who are not a definite danger to us.
She has eaten her larger adversary, leaving nothing but some wings and part of an exoskeleton.
I think she has caught prey with stingers before.
She certainly seemed to know what she was doing when she shot her web at the intruder, wrapped it up a bit and then retreated to her corner, patiently waiting while the wasp struggled.
RJ asked why God does this.
I replied that it is sin coming into the world that has caused this scary thing to happen.
He asked me " So, it's ok for a spider to kill things and eat them?"
I told him that it isn't the way that God designed things to happen. Sin ruined things so that animals eat each other, and they have to do that to survive in this messed up place.
Sin hurts everyone.
It costs.
It messes up everything it touches, and you just don't know how far it will go
and what it will touch.
Earlier in the week, Harley had mentioned that he didn't understand why the ancient Hebrews had to feed their pets and live with them and love them,
but then later sacrifice them on the altar.
It's because sin costs. God wanted us to get that. It hurts.
I just finished reading a book called Three by Tedd Dekker.
It is about the sin struggle, the good, the bad and the man caught in the middle.
It was well written, and a great page turner.
How messed up IS creation, really? and does it get worse with every sin we commit or omit?
Creation groans in expectation of Christ's return.
What has sin cost us in terms of the beauty of creation? It is mind boggling to me that all this wonder we see surrounding us in nature is in fact warped and tainted.
Do we love the beauty or do we just think it is the beauty, because our sinful natures are actually in love with the messed up parts of the universe?
Is the increase of wickedness foretold in scripture causing all of these disasters we see in nature, weather changes, extinctions, etc, or are they simply a result of the first sin?
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Thursday, January 8, 2009 - The Importance of Fathers
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Thursday, September 20, 2007, 05:33 AM CST [Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord." ( Eph. 6:4)
Keeps popping into my head. We have lived for years, as a nation downplaying the roles of dads in the home. Even though women now have a lot of rights, we still tend to cling to the idea that the raising of children is the mother's job.
We have an unusual situation at our house. Because my husband is unable to work a full-time job, he is actually here with us every day. Sometimes he feels like he isn't as good as other dads, especially home school dads, because he isn't out there breaking his back to put food on the table. Praise God that we live in a place where there is a thing called social security disability, or we could not homeschool. There is still work,but it does not cover everything since it is part time.
Our being together is a direct result of his having a bad heart. A blessing in disguise. We do not know how long we will have him with us, but in this way, we can spend a LOT of time together.
This is unusual now, but up until about 100-150 years ago, fathers were in the home a lot more. Many fathers worked out of their homes, and did not go away for 8+ hours a day several days a week.
Today, our homeschool group has an enrichment day. I was not going to be there since I am sick, but I feel a bit better, and I just might go anyway. Dh will be there to help homeschool.
Do we LET the dads in our homes get in on the schooling- or do we assume we can do it best and don't want to take the time to help them understand where we are at and what the kids are learning? Do we assume that how they teach has to look exactly like how we do it? There can only be one mother- and the father's way of doing things is different. Sometimes I have a hard time accepting this. I can't count how many times I have heard my hubby talking to the kids about a school subject, and I have had the urge to jump in and try to tell him how to do this, or to just take over teaching- it is natural to me. I do not always resist the urge.I mess up quite a bit sometimes. Dh usually says something like " Am I teaching this, or do YOU want to do it? If not, let me alone- I can handle it." He can too. According to scripture, Sarah's daughters do not give in to fear. What is it that keeps me from letting go in this situation? FEAR. I don't want to mess up the kids' education. I have fear when I am not letting God be in charge, and I have to relinquish the reins.
Why not ask your husband, if you haven't lately, if there is something he would like to teach the kidlets? You might be surprised. God's word is clear- fathers must be in on their children's education- at the very least for training them in the ways of the Lord.
Some dads may be reluctant to call what they want to teach "school". sports, math, science, language, building trades, even things like cooking and textiles can and have been taught by fathers.
Here are some places to read more about dads and education
http://www.home-school.com/Articles/phs23-wescallihan.html
http://ohioline.osu.edu/flm00/fs08.html
http://www.connectforkids.org/node/4250
http://www.montana.edu/wwwpb/pubs/mt2000-08.html
What Dads have to say about homeschooling:
http://www.nhen.org/dads/default.asp?id=306
and a place on the web just for FATHERS who homeschool!
http://www.homeschooldads.com/
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Monday, December 22, 2008 - But I WANTED____ for Christmas!
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This is an awesome story, and needs to be read by all. It seems we are forgetting what made This Country Great!
I got this in my email today:
This is what Christmas is all about...
Better bundle up - the goose bumps will freeze you!! I think I need to read this every year at Christmas.
Pa never had much compassion for the lazy or those who squandered their means and then never had enough for the necessities. But for those who were genuinely in need, his heart was as big as all outdoors. It was from him that I learned the greatest joy in life comes from giving, not from receiving.
It was Christmas Eve 1881. I was fifteen years old and feeling like the world had caved in on me because there just hadn't been enough money to buy me the rifle that I'd wanted for Christmas. We did the chores early that night for some reason. I just figured Pa wanted a little extra time so we could read in the Bible.
After supper was over I took my boots off and stretched out in front of the fireplace and waited for Pa to get down the old Bible. I was still feeling sorry for myself and, to be honest, I wasn't in much of a mood to read Scriptures. But Pa didn't get the Bible, instead he bundled up again and went outside. I couldn't figure it out because we had already done all the chores. I didn't worry about it long though, I was too busy wallowing in self-pity Soon Pa came back in. It was a cold clear night out and there was ice in his beard. "Come on, Matt," he said. "Bundle up good, it's cold out tonight." I was really upset then. Not only wasn't I getting the rifle for Christmas, now Pa was dragging me out in the cold, and for no earthly reason that I could see. We'd already done all the chores, and I couldn't think of anything else that needed doing, especially not on a night like this. But I knew Pa was not very patient at one dragging one's feet when he'd told them to do something, so I got up and put my boots back on and got my cap, coat, and mittens. Ma gave me a mysterious smile as I opened the door to leave the house. Something was up, but I didn't know what..
Outside, I became even more dismayed. There in front of the house was the work team, already hitched to the big sled. Whatever it was we were going to do wasn't going to be a short, quick, little job. I could tell. We never hitched up this sled unless we were going to haul a big load. Pa was already up on the seat, reins in hand. I reluctantly climbed up beside him. The cold was already biting at me. I wasn't happy. When I was on, Pa pulled the sled around the house and stopped in front of the woodshed. He got off and I followed. "I think we'll put on the high sideboards," he said. "Here, help me." The high sideboards! It had been a bigger job than I wanted to do with just the low sideboards on, but whatever it was we were going to do would be a lot bigger with the high side boards on.
After we had exchanged the sideboards, Pa went into the woodshed and came out with an armload of wood - the wood I'd spent all summer hauling down from the mountain, and then all Fall sawing into blocks and splitting. What was he doing? Finally I said something. "Pa," I asked, "what are you doing?" You been by the Widow Jensen's lately?" he asked. The Widow Jensen lived about two miles down the road Her husband had died a year or so before and left her with three children, the oldest being eight. Sure, I'd been by, but so what?
Yeah," I said, "Why?"
"I rode by just today," Pa said. "Little Jakey was out digging around in the woodpile trying to find a few chips. They're out of wood, Matt." That was all he said and then he turned and went back into the woodshed for another armload of wood. I followed him. We loaded the sled so high that I began to wonder if the horses would be able to pull it. Finally, Pa called a halt to our loading, then we went to the smoke house and Pa took down a big ham and a side of bacon. He handed them to me and told me to put them in the sled and wait. When he returned he was carrying a sack of flour over his r ight shoulder and a smaller sack of something in his left hand. "What's in the little sack?" I asked. Shoes, they're out of shoes. Little Jakey just had gunny sacks wrapped around his feet when he was out in the woodpile this morning. I got the children a little candy too. It just wouldn't be Christmas without a little candy."
We rode the two miles to Widow Jensen's pretty much in silence. I tried to think through what Pa was doing. We didn't have much by worldly standards. Of course, we did have a big woodpile, though most of what was left now was still in the form of logs that I would have to saw into blocks and split before we could use it. We also had meat and flour, so we could spare that, but I knew we didn't have any money, so why was Pa buying them shoes and candy? Really, why was he doing any of this? Widow Jensen had closer neighbors than us; it shouldn't have been our concern.
We came in from the blind side of the Jensen house and unloaded the wood as quietly as possible, then we took the meat and flour and shoes to the door. We knocked. The door opened a crack and a timid voice said, "Who is it?" "Lucas Miles, Ma'am, and my son, Matt, could we come in for a bit?"
Widow Jensen opened the door and let us in. She had a blanket wrapped around her shoulders. The children were wrapped in another and were sitting in front of the fireplace by a very small fire that hardly gave off any heat at all. Widow Jensen fumbled with a match and finally lit the lamp.
"We brought you a few things, Ma'am," Pa said and set down the sack of flour. I put the meat on the table. Then Pa handed her the sack that had the shoes in it. She opened it hesitantly and took the shoes out one pair at a time. There was a pair for her and one for each of the children - sturdy shoes, the best, shoes that would last. I watched her carefully. She bit her lower lip to keep it from trembling and then tears filled her eyes and started running down her cheeks. She looked up at Pa like she wanted to say
something, but it wouldn't come out.
"We brought a load of wood too, Ma'am," Pa said. He turned to me and said, "Matt, go bring in enough to last awhile. Let's get that fire up to size and heat this place up." I wasn't the same person when I went back out to bring in the wood I had a big lump in my throat and as mu ch as I hate to admit it, there were tears in my eyes too. In my mind I kept seeing those three kids huddled around the fireplace and their mother standing there with tears running down her cheeks with so much gratitude in her heart that she couldn't speak
My heart swelled within me and a joy that I'd never known before, filled my soul. I had given at Christmas many times before, but never when it had made so much difference. I could see we were literally saving the lives of these people.
I soon had the fire blazing and everyone's spirits soared. The kids started giggling when Pa handed them each a piece of candy and Widow Jensen looked on with a smile that probably hadn't crossed her face for a long time. She finally turned to us. "God bless you," she said. "I know the Lord has sent you. The children and I have been praying that he would send one of his angels to spare us."
In spite of myself, the lump returned to my throat and the tears welled up in my eyes again. I'd never thought of Pa in those exact terms before, but after Widow Jensen mentioned it I could see that it was probably true. I was sure that a better man than Pa had never walked the earth. I started remembering all the times he had gone out of his way for Ma and me, and many others. The list seemed endless as I thought on it.
Pa insisted that everyone try on the shoes before we left. I was amazed when they all fit and I wondered how he had known what sizes to get. Then I guessed that if he was on an errand for the Lord that the Lord would make sure he got the right sizes.
Tears were running down Widow Jensen's face again when we stood up to leave. Pa took each of the kids in his big arms and gave them a hug. They clung to him and didn't want us to go. I could see that they missed their Pa, and I was glad that I still had mine.
At the door Pa turned to Widow Jensen and said, "The Mrs. wanted me to invite you and the children over for Christmas dinner tomorrow. The turkey will be more than the three of us can eat, and a man can get cantankerous if he has to eat turkey for too many meals. We'll be by to get you about eleven. It'll be nice to have some little ones around again. Matt, here, hasn't been little for quite a spell." I was the youngest. My two brothers and two sisters had all married and had moved away.
Widow Jensen nodded and said, "Thank you, Brother Miles. I don't have to say, May the Lord bless you, I know for certain that He will."
Out on the sled I felt a warmth that came from deep within and I didn't even notice the cold. When we had gone a ways, Pa turned to me and said, "Matt, I want you to know something. Your ma and me have been tucking a little money away here and there all year so we could buy that rifle for you, but we didn't have quite enough. Then yesterday a man who owed me a little money from years back came by to make things square. Your ma and me were real excited, thinking that now we could get you that rifle, and I started into town this morning to do just that,but on the way I saw little Jakey out scratching in the woodpile with his feet wrapped in those gunny sacks and I knew what I had to do. Son, I spent the money for shoes and a little candy for those children. I hope you understand."
I understood, and my eyes became wet with tears again. I understood very well, and I was so glad Pa had done it. Now the rifle seemed very low on my list of priorities. Pa had given me a lot more. He had given me the look on Widow Jensen's face and the radiant smiles of her three children.
For the rest of my life, whenever I saw any of the Jensens, or split a block of wood, I remembered, and remembering brought back that same joy I felt riding home beside Pa that night. Pa had given me much more than a rifle that night, he had given me the best Christmas of my life.
Don't be too busy today. Share this inspiring message. God bless you!
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Thursday, December 18, 2008 - Chains we can belive in
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copied from earthfrisk.com, with permission
By admin on Nov 13, 2008 in Blogging, Politics, Social Media

Friends,
Will you please take the time to read this, and if you think it worthwhile, pass it along to your email list, and ask them to read it? Even if they voted, with all good intentions, for Mr. Obama?
I am a student of history. Professionally. I have written 15 books in six languages, and have studied it all my life. I think there is something monumentally large afoot, and I do not believe it is just a banking crisis, or a mortgage crisis, or a credit crisis. Yes these exist, but they are merely single facets on a very large gemstone that is only now coming into a sharper focus.
Something of historic proportions is happening. I can sense it because I know how it feels, smells, what it looks like, and how people react to it.
Yes, a perfect storm may be brewing, but there is something happening within our country that has been evolving for about ten - fifteen years. The pace has dramatically quickened in the past two.
We demand and then codify into law the requirement that our banks make massive loans to people we know they can never pay back? Why?
We learn just days ago that the Federal Reserve, which has little or no real oversight by anyone, has “loaned” two trillion dollars (that is $2,000,000,000,000) over the past few months, but will not tell us to whom or why or disclose the terms. (news link)
That is our money. Yours and mine. And that is three times the 700B we all argued about so strenuously just this past September. Who has this money? Why do they have it? Why are the terms unavailable to us? Who asked for it? Who authorized it? I thought this was a government of “we the people,” who loaned our powers to our elected leaders. Apparently not.
We have spent two or more decades intentionally de-industrializing our economy. Why?
We have intentionally dumbed down our schools, ignored our history, and no longer teach our founding documents, why we are exceptional, and why we are worth preserving.
Students by and large cannot write, think critically, read, or articulate. Parents are not revolting, teachers are not picketing, school boards continue to back mediocrity. Why?
We have now established the precedent of protesting every close election (now violently in California over a proposition that is so controversial that it wants marriage to remain between one man and one woman)
Did you ever think such a thing possible just a decade ago?. We have corrupted our sacred political process by allowing unelected judges to write laws that radically change our way of life, and then mainstream Marxist groups like ACORN and others to turn our voting system into a banana republic. To what purpose?
Now our mortgage industry is collapsing, housing prices are in free fall, major industries are failing, our banking system is on the verge of collapse, social security is nearly bankrupt, as is medicare and our entire government, our education system is worse than a joke (I teach college and know precisely what I am talking about)–the list is staggering in its length, breadth, and depth. It is potentially 1929 x ten. And we are at war with an enemy we cannot name for fear of offending people of the same religion, who cannot wait to slit the throats of your children if they have the opportunity to do so.
And now we have elected a man no one knows anything about, who has never run so much as a Dairy Queen, let alone a town as big as Wasilla, Alaska.
All of his associations and alliances are with real radicals in their chosen fields of employment, and everything we learn about him, drip by drip, is unsettling if not downright scary (Surely you have heard him speak about his idea to create and fund a mandatory civilian defense force stronger than our military for use inside our borders? No? Oh of course. The media would never play that for you over and over and then demand he answer it. Sarah Palin’s pregnant daughter and $150,000 wardrobe is more imporant.)
Mr. Obama’s winning platform can be boiled down to one word: change.
Why?
I have never been so afraid for my country and for my children as I am now.
This man campaigned on bringing people together, something he has never, ever done in his professional life. In my assessment, Obama will divide us along philosophical lines, push us apart, and then try to realign the pieces into a new and different power structure. Change is indeed coming. And when it comes, you will never see the same nation again.
And that is only the beginning.
And I thought I would never be able to experience what the ordinary, moral German felt in the mid-1930s. In those times, the savior was a former smooth-talking rabble-rouser from the streets, about whom the average German knew next to nothing. What they did know was that he was associated with groups that shouted, shoved, and pushed around people with whom they disagreed; he edged his way onto the political stage through great oratory and promises.
Economic times were tough, people were losing jobs, and he was a great speaker. And he smiled and waved a lot.
And people, even newspapers, were afraid to speak out for fear that his “brown shirts” would bully them into submission. And then, he was duly elected to office, a full-throttled economic crisis at hand [the Great Depression]. Slowly but surely he seized the controls of government power, department by department, person by person, bureaucracy by bureaucracy. The kids joined a Youth Movement in his name, where they were taught what to think. How did he get the people on his side? He did it promising jobs to the jobless, money to the moneyless, and goodies for the military-industrial complex. He did it by indoctrinating the children, advocating gun control, health care for all, better wages, better jobs, and promising to re-instill pride once again in the country, across Europe, and across the world.
He did it with a compliant media–did you know that? And he did this all in the name of justice and . . . change. And the people surely got what they voted for.
(Look it up if you think I am exaggerating.)
Read your history books. Many people objected in 1933 and were shouted down, called names, laughed at, and made fun of. When Winston Churchill pointed out the obvious in the late 1930s while seated in the House of Lords in England (he was not yet Prime Minister), he was booed into his seat and called a crazy troublemaker. He was right, though.
Don’t forget that Germany was the most educated, cultured country in Europe. It was full of music, art, museums, hospitals, laboratories, and universities. And in less than six years–a shorter time span than just two terms of the U. S. presidency–it was rounding up its own citizens, killing others, abrogating its laws, turning children against parents, and neighbors against neighbors. All with the best of intentions, of course. The road to Hell is paved with them.
As a practical thinker, one not overly prone to emotional decisions, I have a choice: I can either believe what the objective pieces of evidence tell me (even if they make me cringe with disgust); I can believe what history is shouting to me from across the chasm of seven decades; or I can hope I am wrong by closing my eyes, having another latte, and ignoring what is transpiring around me.
Some people scoff at me, others laugh, or think I am foolish, naive, or both. Perhaps I am. But I have never been afraid to look people in the eye and tell them exactly what I believe–and why I believe it.
I pray I am wrong. I do not think I am.
Best regards
A Concerned American Citizen
Next Watch Obama’s Chief of Staff in an interview explaining how college students and others will now soon be forced to wear uniforms and be part of Obama’s Civil Defense Scheme. AKA Gestapo - See
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