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Sep. 14, 2006
Unsteading
I've been over to the sister site, homesteadblogger.com, just long enough to learn the modern day meaning of the word. The ladies over there all seem to lead a fairly rural, agrarian lifestyle referred to as 'homesteading'. They sew, they can, they have vegetable gardens and when possible, a few livestock. When I was a kid growing up in small town America, we just called that life. We sewed because we needed to wear clothes. We grew vegetables because we needed to eat. Several of my friends raised chickens and one of our neighbors had a goat and later a pig. Of course by neighbors, I mean people who lived in the same square mile. Houses were built on 10 acre parcels. Water came from a well. I left the public school at the end of my 1st grade year, never to return. I spent the remainder of elementary school in a one room school where the teacher wrote the assignments on the board for each grade each day and what we didn't get done in class, we took home for homework. We didn't have a soccer league, I never joined the Girl Scouts but somehow, I didn't feel deprived. Life was good. I don't live in small town America anymore. Sewing now is a hobby for those with money to burn. The dirt in my back yard won't even grow zucchini. I have a bread machine but it hasn't been out of the cupboard in more than 5 years. Livestock around here amounts to one cat we don't even like. I am not a 'homesteader'.
(Happy kids) The funny thing is, I don't have time to miss it. As 'unsteaders', we fill our lives with lots of activities that keep us on the go. My children attend a one room school not unlike the one in which I grew up. The major difference is they can start class in their pajamas. (I wore polyester pant suits to school because though girls were permitted to wear pants, they couldn't have flies. Thankfully, it was the 70s and leisure suits were all the rage.)
(Soccer Cupcakes)
Our days are filled with school and our evenings are filled with everything else: Monday - Brownies, Tuesday - Awana, Wednesday - Soccer Practice, Thursday - Soccer Practice, Friday - Soccer Practice, Saturday - 3 soccer games spread out all over town, Sunday - church. This is the fall schedule but spring looks about the same with the exception that soccer miraculously turns to baseball in the spring. Our lives are different in some ways and not so different in others. Our neighbors are a lot closer but we borrow far fewer eggs. Of course, the nearest grocery store isn't 10 miles away either. We eat out now more than we should. Of course the nearest 'frosty' is called McDonalds and it is just up the street. We swim but not in the creek. We ride bikes but not in the dirt. We stop at stop lights instead of stop signs. Instead of growing apples and pears, we have ornamental fruit trees in our yard that bear inedible fruit made to look at (this makes no sense to me).
(Chase waited for two long years to be old enough to join a soccer team and he was as pleased as punch to suit up for his first game on Saturday.)
But the important things haven't changed. Our commitment to family remains the same. Our love of country is strong. And God is the God of the unstead just as He was of the homestead. There is no shortage of ways that a willing heart can find to serve Him. Life is good.
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Sep. 14, 2006 - LMAO