I am sinking fast.  I am trying to train my 2yr old ds.  This is my third child to train and he is by far the hardest.  So, here it is...he's afraid of the toilet.  We have had some sucesses.  He has gone numerous times and we do reward him with a piece of candy or gum, his absolute favorite.  This is our third week of trying and we don't seem to be any further ahead than when we started.  His pull-up is always wet even when he goes on the potty.  He was born with Polycystic Kidney disease, he only has one functioning kidney.  I don't know if this is a contributing factor in our training dilemma or not.  that is something I have to investigate.  So does anyone has some great tips to help.  We give him books to read, we turn the tv to his favorite shows, we let him play with cars until one fell in.  I'm not going fishing again.  I'm desperate.  Help please!