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Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Quit Comparing!

2 Corinthians 10:12, For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.

How many times do you read someone's blog and think about how wonderful their family must be compared to yours? Some people seem to be so busy and have all kinds of exciting things going on. And after reading that for a while, you start thinking about how boring your family is, or wondering what is wrong with you since you don't get along perfectly with everyone in your family all the time. You know what I mean! Some people just seem to have it all together.

Guess what. They probably think the same thing about you! I don't mean to say you should be conceited or anything , but it's true. You don't know what other people are thinking of you. You don't hear their discussions of your blog around their dinner table later. Yep, we have family discussions over things we read on our friends' blogs. So be careful what you post!

Anyway, quit comparing your family with all of your other friends' families. Just the other day our family was at the park together, and two of my sisters were in a tree reading/writing stuff, and I for some reason I got a thought about how wonderful my own family is and how I love my family members the way we are. We aren't perfect (although you already knew that). My sisters and my parents are my best friends! I know them very well! We laugh and play together. Yes, we fight sometimes, too. But I love my family!!

I'm having a hard time figuring out what I'm trying to say. But what I want to tell you is, just slow down and take a good look at everyone in your family. And then be thankful for your family just the way you are. God put you in your family for a reason.

A while ago my mom wrote a good post pretty closely related to this one, called Digital Blogtography. Go read it, too!

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Wednesday, April 23, 2008
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Posted by Abbypie3000 at 4:01 PM
Nice post!
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Thursday, April 24, 2008
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Posted by Eyebright at 9:01 AM
I am guilty! I actually have looked at other blogs and thought, "I wish my family was like that". I do need to stop doing that. Comparing ourselves to our blog friends like THAT might be wrong, but following their example, or imitating something that they have done to improve their lives is a good thing. That is one way that we can learn how to become better at some things.

Very good post!
Have a very bright, very cheerful day!
Eyebright

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Friday, April 25, 2008
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Posted by mydevotions at 7:57 AM
I linked this up to my devotion blog. Very nicely written Alison.

Mrs. McKinley

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Friday, April 25, 2008
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Posted by crochetcrazy at 9:43 AM
Ah, that is a very good point! Thank you for sharing that with us! I got exactly what you were trying to say!

.::Renee:::.
Romans 5:8
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Friday, April 25, 2008
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Posted by crochetcrazy at 11:59 AM
Thanks! I like it too... The problem with mine, was the scroll boxes you can put HTML code in, and it won't convert it to HTML code. I hope you know what I mean, because I can't find a way to better describe it! ;-)

Have a lovely day...

.:::Renee:::.
Romans 5:8
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Friday, April 25, 2008
Hi!!
Posted by BookwormMN at 5:02 PM
Hi,
Good post, I wonder why I don't ever post anything that's not about what we have been doing, I guess because I can't word anything very well or think of anything real good to say!! But there I go comparing! I am trying to get along better and better with Anna, I have such a wonderful family!!!

We had a REALLY good time in Duluth, but I'm glad to be back!! Thanks for wishing us a good trip on my c-box!!

Love,
Amber
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Sunday, April 27, 2008
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Posted by BookwormMN at 2:15 PM
Oh, thank you soo much for your support, I feel much better now!!! You a great friend!! : }

No really, you are great (most of the time)!!! : )

Your Friend (truely),
Amber
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