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Oct. 5, 2006 - Wierd Story and Sleep Problems

  The Sideways Screen

 

  You know the weirdest thing about my screen getting turned sideways yesterday was this: The day before yesterday I read this story about how these people played a trick on their boss and turned everything backwards and upside down, and .....the computer screen sideways. Now when I read this story I thought to myself "That is so weird, I didn't even know you could do that".

  So yesterday I am upstairs cleaning the bathroom when my dd7 comes upstairs and says "Mama, your computer screen is sideways" I thought she meant that the whole monitor was broke or something. So I ran down stairs and sure enough it was sideways. Guess who was playing at the computer?? Dd1!!! She climbed on the chair and was playing with the computer.  Isn't that the strangest thing???

  So.....I know you all are just dying to know how you can turn your screen sideways (in case you want to lay on the floor while on the computer) or upside down (maybe you would like to do a handstand while on the computer) so here it is.....you just press Ctrl+Alt+ the arrow in which ever direction you want your screen to be  TADA!!!

 

Sleep Problems

 

 Since dd1 was born, her sleep habits have been terrible. When she was a month old she would scream from 11:00pm till about 2:00am. Hubby and I would go back and forth, him walking her, me seeing if she wanted to nurse. It was exausting. She finally stopped doing this at about 6 months.

 My two oldest were always on a sleep schedule. But with dd1 it was next to impossible to get her to go to sleep in her crib. So I gave up and just let her go to sleep when we did or when she finally passed out ( I know, I know). Same with naps; I couldn't handle the hours of crying in her crib and I ended up letting her fall asleep when she felt like it.

  So after allowing a ton of bad habits I finally got frusterated and decided she had to go to sleep when I wanted her too.  I started putting her down for a nap at 1:00 and to bed at 9:00. However, she would only sleep for about 30-45 mins for her nap and she would wake up at 6:30am or 7:30am.

 For her nap I started leaving her in her crib for 2 hrs even if she woke up before that. She would always fall back to sleep. Now for her naps she almost always sleeps 2 hrs.

  Now nightime is still a different story. Although she does go to sleep fine she wakes up to nurse at about 11:30 pm and then I usually bring her in bed to nurse her, that way I can sleep. However, she is waking up about 10 times a night to nurse!!! I know this is waaay to much for a 18 month old. She also kicks us, screams, kicks the covers off ,ect  while she is in bed with us. I have tried to put her back in her crib but she just screams and screams. She might drift off to sleep but then wakes again in about 15 mins and starts screaming again, it is horrible.

  So I know I have created a monster and now I need to fix it. Any suggestions??? Or should I just let her scream in her crib till she gets the point??? All I know is that I have to do something, hubby and I are desperatly lacking in the sleep department.

 

 

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Oct. 5, 2006 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Happyhome
There are many different schools of thought on the subject. I will just share what worked for us.

We had waited a bit too long with our first to get him on a proper sleep schedule. Being our first, it was mostly trial and error. We finally decided we just had to let him cry. I tell you, the first night was so hard. He cried for 45 minutes. I knew he was fine. I would go in and rub his back every 15 minutes or so, but not say anything...just wanted him to know we were still around. The next night it was about half the time as the previous night. The third night was half that and by the fourth night he was sleeping through the night...and has been for the last 9 years! Letting them cry is not being mean. They are crying because they are wanting you to give them what they want. After awhile, they figure out it's not working and they give up the fight.

It's worth it for everyone...trust me!

Angela
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Oct. 6, 2006 - Untitled Comment
Posted by Kathy J.
I highly recommend the book "Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child". I think that the author is Dr. Mark Weisbluth. It sounds like your daughter may be overtired, and this book helps you solve that problem. It explains child sleep patterns, etc. I used this book with both of my children from the beginning, and experienced very few sleep problems. Just a warning, I have heard from my friends who have used this book that it is very unpleasant to fix an overtired child. But it is well worth it in the end when EVERYONE sleeps. :-) Good Luck!!! :-)

(P.S. If you can't find the book, one of the points that the book makes is that a child over 9 - 12 months is not waking to nurse out of hunger but out of habit. Waking to nurse over 12 months can disrupt night time sleep patterns and make the child overtired, which makes it harder for the child to fall asleep and stay asleep. It's a vicious cycle.) Take care, and have a wonderful weekend!
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Oct. 7, 2006 - Untitled Comment
Posted by shine29
Both previous comments are very good advice. While I haven't read the book, we did have trouble in our house letting them cry. DH has a very soft heart and didn't want them to cry, the bad habit we started was letting them sleep with us. I wouldn't reccommend that because our oldest one was still sleeping with us when he was 2 yrs! If it had been myself I knew that letting them cry was the best solution and that it didn't hurt them. It only teaches them that they don't get everything they want. And when she starts sleeping through the night, she will be a much happier baby! Prayin' for ya!
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Oct. 7, 2006 - Sleep
Posted by Anonymous
My dd did the same thing at 18mo.! I started weaning her (it only took about 1 1/2 months). Even after she was weaned, she still wouldn't sleep in a crib, so I let her sleep in the spare big bed (it was a double). She slept great! I could never figure it out, but for some reason she would never sleep in a crib. My guess is that she was use to sleeping in a real bed. (We co-slept from the day she was born - she was my first and I couldn't figure out how to get her to go to sleep:)) She would still crawl into bed with us, but it wasn't the production it was before. After a while, I would make a pallet on the floor on my side of the bed with quilts, and if she woke up, that is where she come sleep. Even now, when she's had a rough day she'll still come and ask to sleep on the pallet (she's 4!). I hope this will work for you. Elizabeth
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Oct. 8, 2006 - Untitled Comment
Posted by evenavapor
My son is almost 18 months and it seems about once a month or so he tests us in the sleep department.

He takes one 2 hour nap a day and that isn't a problem, but every once in a while he will try getting up in the middle of the night he wakes up just wanting to get out of his crib and be awake and play. I make sure he knows that it is time to sleep and I lay him back down, if he gets up screaming again then it becomes an obedience issue and not a sleep issue and there is no negotiation when it comes to disobedience :-)

You should refer to "To train up a child" Chapter 9, the section "a switch at naptime saves mine"

http://www.foche.net/TUAC.htm
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