Apr. 17, 2009
A Year Later....
I find it very ironic that as I was contemplating what to do with the various blogs that I own, I realized that it has been exactly a year since I have written on this blog. I think in taking a break from this blog, I not only was rethinking what to do about writing in this forum, but also rethinking education, in general. I feel like I have gone on a bit of a journey this year. Not only has our family added a precious daughter, but we have also changed the location that we call home. There has been some adjusting to our new place in life and has caused me to think about what we do in the area of teaching our children.
Coming from a background of being educated and educating in the public school system, I feel that I have carried that mindset into our home. How was I to think that if the system didn't work for my child in public school, it would work for him at home? Well, it didn't ! As I have been praying about what direction to proceed with our children, I seemed to really connect with the idea of 'unschooling' or as some may call it, 'relaxed homeschooling'. I have also been through a series of trial and error situations trying to connect with others that have this same mindset. There were some that I could connect with on an educational level--philosophically--but were very opposed to viewpoints from a Christian perspective (this seemed to be based on some hurt inflicted by professing christians--that's a subject for another post...). Others that may have the same mindset spiritually speaking, seemed to reject the idea of unschooling. It has been only recently that I have been able to connect with other Followers of Christ that also embrace the concept of unschooling. It is nice to be able to finally feel like we are not entirely alone!
One of the resources that I have been able to get my hands on is Christian Unschooling by Teri J. Brown. This is a great way to be introduced to this concept of really thinking about educating your child in a whole new and refreshing way.
So, in regards to my writing on this blog, I feel like more doors are opening up for me to discuss educating at home or really just learning, in general. I do hope to write a bit more consistently and look forward to reading your thoughts as well.
In the Peace of Christ,
Christy
Coming from a background of being educated and educating in the public school system, I feel that I have carried that mindset into our home. How was I to think that if the system didn't work for my child in public school, it would work for him at home? Well, it didn't ! As I have been praying about what direction to proceed with our children, I seemed to really connect with the idea of 'unschooling' or as some may call it, 'relaxed homeschooling'. I have also been through a series of trial and error situations trying to connect with others that have this same mindset. There were some that I could connect with on an educational level--philosophically--but were very opposed to viewpoints from a Christian perspective (this seemed to be based on some hurt inflicted by professing christians--that's a subject for another post...). Others that may have the same mindset spiritually speaking, seemed to reject the idea of unschooling. It has been only recently that I have been able to connect with other Followers of Christ that also embrace the concept of unschooling. It is nice to be able to finally feel like we are not entirely alone!
One of the resources that I have been able to get my hands on is Christian Unschooling by Teri J. Brown. This is a great way to be introduced to this concept of really thinking about educating your child in a whole new and refreshing way.
So, in regards to my writing on this blog, I feel like more doors are opening up for me to discuss educating at home or really just learning, in general. I do hope to write a bit more consistently and look forward to reading your thoughts as well.
In the Peace of Christ,
Christy
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Apr. 17, 2008
Goodbye....for now
When I first stumbled upon Homeschool Blogger, we were just thinking of homeschooling our son. I have made some great connections with others here. I have been encouraged by many, many people in our homeschooling journey. For this I am so very thankful.
It is now 2 years later and I am finding myself without the words to type or the motivation to write in this forum. We have been quite busy with adopting a new child and I am currently finishing the school year in the public school system.....and will not be going back---yea! But I find myself wanting to write about fostering and adoption or things of a more spiritual nature----and I have other blogs for those trains of thought.
So, I am saying goodbye for now. I am not sure if anyone stills reads this blog--I have been lousy at keeping it up to date! But, if you do want to continue to read my writings, you may follow me here:
Love Each Child-- our journey through fostering and adoption
Until My Last Breath--thoughts on my relationship with God and with others
I wish you peace and many blessings upon your journey through life as you homeschool your children--
Christy :)
It is now 2 years later and I am finding myself without the words to type or the motivation to write in this forum. We have been quite busy with adopting a new child and I am currently finishing the school year in the public school system.....and will not be going back---yea! But I find myself wanting to write about fostering and adoption or things of a more spiritual nature----and I have other blogs for those trains of thought.
So, I am saying goodbye for now. I am not sure if anyone stills reads this blog--I have been lousy at keeping it up to date! But, if you do want to continue to read my writings, you may follow me here:
Love Each Child-- our journey through fostering and adoption
Until My Last Breath--thoughts on my relationship with God and with others
I wish you peace and many blessings upon your journey through life as you homeschool your children--
Christy :)
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Mar. 25, 2008
A Family's Perspective
I came across this article about one family's journey of homeschooling their children. It is a very interesting article, one that I believe will encourage you:
One of the experiences that was described by this family really touched me, I think because this is not a rare occurrence, as some would have you believe:
If you are intrigued by the small portions of this writing that I shared here, go read the entire article. The authors have also written a book called, Homeschooling, A Family's Journey, which looks to be a very interesting story of their personal walk through their adventure of homeschooling.
Christy
"There's no denying that the modern home-schooling movement was born of the desire to shake off stultifying school bureaucracies and to sidestep the uncertain mission of public schools, which is set by adults with often conflicting priorities for children. A century of ideological struggles has defined the hodge-podge taught in schools, and they persist to this day. Will schools teach evolution or intelligent design? Offer safe-s*x or abstinence-only instruction? Encourage art and dance or treat them as distractions from No Child Left Behind tests? Home-schoolers can make our own decisions based on what's best for our children."Isn't it wonderful to have the freedom to make decisions based on our children's needs and not be driven by standards and set curriculum? Why so many people still question whether this is a good thing baffles me!
One of the experiences that was described by this family really touched me, I think because this is not a rare occurrence, as some would have you believe:
"For several years, they participated in a fife and drum corps, playing colonial and traditional patriotic music, marching in parades, learning not only music and history but also teamwork, perseverance, discipline and a great deal about the communities through which they marched. This kind of experience is fairly typical of home-schooling."And another compelling thought:
"I've never heard a home-schooling parent refer to a child as "learning disabled," for instance. There are many kinds of intelligence, but conventional schools usually only focus on one. Take late reading. A conventional school education depends on written textbooks and workbooks and homework, so a child who can't read is unable to learn. But home-schoolers have developed systems and approaches that work with the kind of talent and intelligence a child has."This is an incredible thought....to think of the child as one with unique talents and abilities, not unfocused behavior and disability. This is a change of thought for some (including me), but a change that we all we do well to experience.
If you are intrigued by the small portions of this writing that I shared here, go read the entire article. The authors have also written a book called, Homeschooling, A Family's Journey, which looks to be a very interesting story of their personal walk through their adventure of homeschooling.
Christy
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Feb. 18, 2008
Adoption Update
Here's an update on our journey through Foster and Adoption. Thank you for your prayers in this situation. We truly are praising God and are amazed at His love for us!
http://www.loveeachchild.com/2008/02/18/a-breath-of-fresh-air/
http://www.loveeachchild.com/2008/02/18/a-breath-of-fresh-air/
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Feb. 4, 2008
A Meme from a Friend
I have seen this particular meme floating around the blogosphere. I thought it looked interesting, but the thought didn't amount to much of anything. When my friend, Laura from Our World is Our Classroom posted a blog entry on the 123 Meme, I knew I wanted to participate.
Here are the instructions:
The first one is a book called Right-Brained Children in a Left-Brained World, Unlocking the Potential of Your ADD Child. This book discusses the danger in your child being taught in only one method (traditional, logical, pen and paper, quizzes, tests, flash cards, etc...) and gives suggestions for thinking (and teaching) outside the box a bit. Here is an excerpt from page 123 where the author is discussing the fact that the traditional methods of teaching math bypass the right-brained child's greatest strength--the ability to access and hold images.
The second one that I want to quote is from a book that I received this past weekend at a homeschool conference. The book is called, I Miss My Time With You, and is written by Elizabeth Franklin. She shares her thoughts on the importance of making our relationship with God an essential part of our life. Here is an excerpt from this book:
So, that is my contribution to this meme....I hope it was encouraging to you. Now, let the tagging begin.
guitardylan
JacqueDixonSoulRestES
WriteInJoy
RaesFamily
pianosteve
Have a beautiful day!
Christy
Here are the instructions:
- Pick the nearest book of 123 pages or more
- Find Page 123
- Find the first 5 sentences
- Post the next 3 sentences
- Tag 5 people
The first one is a book called Right-Brained Children in a Left-Brained World, Unlocking the Potential of Your ADD Child. This book discusses the danger in your child being taught in only one method (traditional, logical, pen and paper, quizzes, tests, flash cards, etc...) and gives suggestions for thinking (and teaching) outside the box a bit. Here is an excerpt from page 123 where the author is discussing the fact that the traditional methods of teaching math bypass the right-brained child's greatest strength--the ability to access and hold images.
" Flash cards, it turns out, are fine if you take the "flash" out of them. They're visual, which helps kids with a right-brained learning style, but they're a nightmare for ADD kids because they demand quick processing, which is not congruent with their learning style. Rush a visual learner and he's out of his game."I don't know about you, but this is extremely helpful for me. It is difficult to teach your child in one method, not receive the desired results and find out that it's not going to happen unless they are able to "see" what you are trying to teach. And with some children, we need to see the world from their perspective, before we are able to effectively teach them.
The second one that I want to quote is from a book that I received this past weekend at a homeschool conference. The book is called, I Miss My Time With You, and is written by Elizabeth Franklin. She shares her thoughts on the importance of making our relationship with God an essential part of our life. Here is an excerpt from this book:
"He wants you to know Him intimately. Don't allow anything to stand in the way of a living, precious, intimate, "in love with God' kind of relationship. That's what He wants with you."I haven't read this book, so I can't speak for it's entirety just yet, but as for this excerpt, I can say a definite "Amen!" I think we too often get caught up in the daily pressures of all that we "need" to do, or so we think, and miss what is essential to our life. If we don't have that intimate relationship with God, how do we think we are going to be able to handle the pressures that come our way?
So, that is my contribution to this meme....I hope it was encouraging to you. Now, let the tagging begin.
guitardylan
JacqueDixonSoulRestES
WriteInJoy
RaesFamily
pianosteve
Have a beautiful day!
Christy
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Jan. 18, 2008
Homeschooled Children with Special Needs
Because I am still 'in the system', at least part time, I am given the privilege (I say this sooo tongue in cheek) of learning the latest news in the world of Special Education. Most of the time, the news pertains to new theories or ideas to use with children that are diagnosed with a disability or even a great success story of a child with a disability. This is helpful. Sometimes the news pertains to techniques, strategies and innovative curriculum. This can be helpful. And then sometimes the news highlights another brilliant idea from the public school system. This is not helpful at all.
This article really brings to the surface a problem in the public school system. The children somehow get lost in the power and money struggle and their needs go unmet. How can this happen? As someone who became a Special Education teacher for the purpose of actually helping children who would otherwise be pushed aside, this is really a tough pill to swallow. I realize this is not in my school system or even in my state, but I can honestly say this type of mentality has the potential to surface it's ugly head at any point in any system. It makes me ponder how long I can be in this system, as limited as it is......
This article really brings to the surface a problem in the public school system. The children somehow get lost in the power and money struggle and their needs go unmet. How can this happen? As someone who became a Special Education teacher for the purpose of actually helping children who would otherwise be pushed aside, this is really a tough pill to swallow. I realize this is not in my school system or even in my state, but I can honestly say this type of mentality has the potential to surface it's ugly head at any point in any system. It makes me ponder how long I can be in this system, as limited as it is......
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Jan. 3, 2008
A New Year
I am incredibly thankful for the arrival of this new year--
Christy
- For the opportunity to homeschool our son and continue to discover new aspects of his character that would otherwise be hidden
- For God's provision for our family
- For the possibility of becoming a mother again--see this blog for further details
- For the possibility of moving to another state
- For my partner in life
- For our special friends--old and new
- For the freedom to fellowship with other believers each day
- For the promise of an eternity in fellowship with our Father
Christy
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My son has given me an award...the You Make Me Smile award.
How cool that I made it to his list, although I feel that I should be giving him this award. Dylan is always trying to make me smile--he loves to laugh and he loves even more to make others laugh. And he succeeds frequently! I am so glad that God has blessed him with this desire--at moments when I need a smile or a good laugh, Dylan is there for me!
I do hope that there are moments that I make him smile as well. The truth is....we like to have a good time together, along with his dad, and we try to find moments in each day to make that possible.
So, thanks Dylan for this award! You made me smile!
I'll pass this on to others that make me smile here at HSB: Steve, Jacque, Gena, Jennifer, Sarah, Amy and Lisa
Christy :)
Nov. 24, 2007
You Make Me Smile
My son has given me an award...the You Make Me Smile award.
How cool that I made it to his list, although I feel that I should be giving him this award. Dylan is always trying to make me smile--he loves to laugh and he loves even more to make others laugh. And he succeeds frequently! I am so glad that God has blessed him with this desire--at moments when I need a smile or a good laugh, Dylan is there for me!
I do hope that there are moments that I make him smile as well. The truth is....we like to have a good time together, along with his dad, and we try to find moments in each day to make that possible.
So, thanks Dylan for this award! You made me smile!
I'll pass this on to others that make me smile here at HSB: Steve, Jacque, Gena, Jennifer, Sarah, Amy and Lisa
Christy :)
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Nov. 12, 2007
Sensenig Update
A came across a website that may interest some of you. It is an opportunity to go to EPCOT in FL and see everyone's favorite mouse AND enjoy a great homeschool (or disneyschool) experience! It looks like an extremely cool outing---maybe we can work it out to go--I don't know, but one can dream!
In other news, my posts here have been very sporadic, mostly due to busyness. So, just to update you on what is going on in our lives:
So, we are still in process. I do know this: The choice to homeschool our son was the absolute best thing we could do for him. He has had the freedom to express wants, desires and also needs that probably would not have been met in a public school setting. We, as his teachers, have been able to change methods and curriculum that were not working for his learning style--and it's okay! Why teach something that you and your child dread each day? It is simply not worth it--
Another thing that I'd like to share:
Steve has written an article in the current issue of TOS, entitled, Holiday Songs, More Than Tradition. Go read this article--He has done a wonderful job putting together his thoughts regarding the history of a few familiar Christmas songs. He also has several CDs available to purchase from the TOS Store.
I apologize for my infrequent posting here, but hopefully this will bring you all up to date.
Have a beautiful day!
Christy :)
In other news, my posts here have been very sporadic, mostly due to busyness. So, just to update you on what is going on in our lives:
- We are currently awaiting word for Steve on a possible job opportunity in Abingdon, VA. He has a interview in a few weeks and hopefully we will know something very soon.
- We are currently awaiting the possibility of adopting a foster child. We also should something in that regard soon. You can read about this journey at http://www.loveeachchild.com
- I am trying to juggle a few schedules (homeschooling and teaching preschoolers with special needs)
- We are still trying to adjust to a homeschool method and schedule that works for Dylan. We have adopted a more relaxed method. We have basically given him control of what he wants to learn. The reason for this change is because he seemed to be dreading school every day, so we decided to be more relaxed in our approach. To our surprise, he wanted to continue all the subjects we had planned, but he had some other ideas as to how they were presented to him. It seems to be working well---we are keeping our eyes open for any other changes that need to be made
So, we are still in process. I do know this: The choice to homeschool our son was the absolute best thing we could do for him. He has had the freedom to express wants, desires and also needs that probably would not have been met in a public school setting. We, as his teachers, have been able to change methods and curriculum that were not working for his learning style--and it's okay! Why teach something that you and your child dread each day? It is simply not worth it--
Another thing that I'd like to share:
Steve has written an article in the current issue of TOS, entitled, Holiday Songs, More Than Tradition. Go read this article--He has done a wonderful job putting together his thoughts regarding the history of a few familiar Christmas songs. He also has several CDs available to purchase from the TOS Store.
I apologize for my infrequent posting here, but hopefully this will bring you all up to date.
Have a beautiful day!
Christy :)
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Oct. 14, 2007
Homeschooling Article
Don't you love it when you are able to read a positive article about homeschooling? It is nice to be encouraged at a time when people are so eager to make judgments regarding homeschooling, in general. And to see a community of homeschoolers that provide multiple opportunities for their children, is refreshing as well.
I'm sure you'd love to read it for yourself, so go ahead and read what is happening in Western North Carolina!
Have a wonderful week!
Christy :)
HT: Tami
I'm sure you'd love to read it for yourself, so go ahead and read what is happening in Western North Carolina!
Have a wonderful week!
Christy :)
HT: Tami
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Oct. 5, 2007
Some Basic Questions
My son has tagged me with a few basic questions. So, here we go....
What color are your eyes? blue with a hint of green (try to type that in the little box on your driver's license!)
How tall are you? 5'7" (yes, if you read my son's answer to this, you'll see that he has passed me in height..sigh!)
What is your favorite cereal? Well, I usually buy the cheapest organic cereal, which this week happened to be Vanilla Granola...yummy!! ( I think Dylan even liked it!)
What kind of music do you like? Jazz, blues, anything that creates emotion within me (this usually does not include country, but hey, anything could happen)
Who are your favorite artists? My hubby (that's a given!) Norah Jones, Kathy Troccoli, Amy Grant, Selah, there are many more...too many to name here. I just love to listen to anyone who plays or sings with passion.
What are your favorite colors? blue, red, purple (the brighter the better!)
What state do you live in? NC (for now)
Do you have any blogger friends that you know IRL (in real life)? why yes, I do.... and I am looking forward to meeting many, many more
What type of gum do you chew? None really (now if you ask me what kind of chocolate I like or what drink I order when I go to Starbuck's....well, that's a horse of a different color!)
Do you live in town or in the country? In the country (but it's getting busier every day....I think it's time to move!)
Well, that was fun....thanks son! If you are reading this and want to participate, go for it! Leave a comment and let me know you did. I'd love to read your answers!
Peace,
Christy :)
What color are your eyes? blue with a hint of green (try to type that in the little box on your driver's license!)
How tall are you? 5'7" (yes, if you read my son's answer to this, you'll see that he has passed me in height..sigh!)
What is your favorite cereal? Well, I usually buy the cheapest organic cereal, which this week happened to be Vanilla Granola...yummy!! ( I think Dylan even liked it!)
What kind of music do you like? Jazz, blues, anything that creates emotion within me (this usually does not include country, but hey, anything could happen)
Who are your favorite artists? My hubby (that's a given!) Norah Jones, Kathy Troccoli, Amy Grant, Selah, there are many more...too many to name here. I just love to listen to anyone who plays or sings with passion.
What are your favorite colors? blue, red, purple (the brighter the better!)
What state do you live in? NC (for now)
Do you have any blogger friends that you know IRL (in real life)? why yes, I do.... and I am looking forward to meeting many, many more
What type of gum do you chew? None really (now if you ask me what kind of chocolate I like or what drink I order when I go to Starbuck's....well, that's a horse of a different color!)
Do you live in town or in the country? In the country (but it's getting busier every day....I think it's time to move!)
Well, that was fun....thanks son! If you are reading this and want to participate, go for it! Leave a comment and let me know you did. I'd love to read your answers!
Peace,
Christy :)
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Sep. 2, 2007
A Blog Well Written
As I wrote in my previous post, my son has started a blog. He really is loving the opportunity to write his thoughts, while meeting others. He has already connected with another blogger and they have discovered their mutual interest in guitars and music. I think this is very cool :)
We have also had the opportunity to teach him the etiquette of blogging in this experience. Knowing when you've written something that could be perceived as offensive, what to share, what not to share, what image are you trying to portray....that sort of thing. In this, I have come across some blogs of teens and I would like to just present a few questions to my readers here.
I have perceived some of these blogs as a bit offensive. Obviously, we want our teens to be able to express themselves. We don't want to contain what God wants in be expressed in them. But...How far do we let them "express themselves" before we need to rein them in? We have given our son boundaries and within those boundaries, he can express himself. Are we being too controlling? Do we have a responsibility to our teen to use this as a learning experience and teach them how to express what God has created in them?
Has anyone else seen offensive blogs on HSB written by teens? If so, how do you talk to your teen about them?
I would appreciate any thoughts on this topic, as we are in the beginning stages of helping our son communicate through blogging. Since he is enjoying it so much, we want to encourage him in his writing. We also want to be responsible in our guidance and want to see God honored in this desire.
Peace,
Christy :)
We have also had the opportunity to teach him the etiquette of blogging in this experience. Knowing when you've written something that could be perceived as offensive, what to share, what not to share, what image are you trying to portray....that sort of thing. In this, I have come across some blogs of teens and I would like to just present a few questions to my readers here.
I have perceived some of these blogs as a bit offensive. Obviously, we want our teens to be able to express themselves. We don't want to contain what God wants in be expressed in them. But...How far do we let them "express themselves" before we need to rein them in? We have given our son boundaries and within those boundaries, he can express himself. Are we being too controlling? Do we have a responsibility to our teen to use this as a learning experience and teach them how to express what God has created in them?
Has anyone else seen offensive blogs on HSB written by teens? If so, how do you talk to your teen about them?
I would appreciate any thoughts on this topic, as we are in the beginning stages of helping our son communicate through blogging. Since he is enjoying it so much, we want to encourage him in his writing. We also want to be responsible in our guidance and want to see God honored in this desire.
Peace,
Christy :)
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Aug. 26, 2007
A New Blog
One wonderful thing about being a mom is being able to share your child's accomplishments and talents with others. Our son has had many accomplishments throughout his life, but the one accomplishment that can really cause me to brag is seeing him live out the life that God has called him to live. Even though we still see some challenges ahead, we also see glimpses of the man he was created to be. I am looking forward to the years ahead, knowing that as he keeps his eyes fixed on Christ, we will see more than glimpses as he lives out his life. I realize that this would not be possible without the freedom of homeschooling. The outcome would be so different.....I know this for a fact because he was on that path that was leading him to destruction. He is on a much different path now.
Thank you God, for opening those doors for us to homeschool our son. It has been an incredible blessing.
One of the talents that our son has is the gift to write creatively, so what better way to express his thoughts than to start a blog? Yes, he has started his own.....so welcome him to HSB by visiting his blog and leaving him a comment, won't you?
In other news.....
Just wanted to share a few links with you:
Christy :)
Thank you God, for opening those doors for us to homeschool our son. It has been an incredible blessing.
One of the talents that our son has is the gift to write creatively, so what better way to express his thoughts than to start a blog? Yes, he has started his own.....so welcome him to HSB by visiting his blog and leaving him a comment, won't you?
In other news.....
Just wanted to share a few links with you:
- The Biltmore House in Asheville, NC will be having their Homeschool Days on September 19-21. We went last year and had a blast! It is a great price for some really wonderful activities. Don't miss this awesome opportunity!
- I came across a great way to make your own Homeschool ID cards. These are great for moms and dads that want to take part in Educator days for various retail outlets. It also gives the students something to carry with them for school related opportunities that come up in your local community.
Christy :)
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When we first decided to homeschool our son in August of 2006, we did not come to this decision lightly. We felt led by God to make this move to a different way of educating our child, but we had several reasons for motivating us in that direction. One of the reasons was that our son is easily led by his peers. And he was being led in a direction that was leaving us feeling more and more uncomfortable. Several of his friends at school were really trying to bring him down and our son was buying into it. I think the motivation for him was that he was being accepted by a group that he didn't have to try to impress. They accepted him (as long as he followed their lead) and he felt like he belonged. After MANY situations of our son making some pretty rebellious choices, not just towards us but also toward school teachers and administrators, we knew that we had to make a change and bring him home. We all made sacrifices, but it has been the best decision we could have ever made.
I share this to tell you about an interesting scenario. A few months ago, when my son and I were coming out of a store, we saw one of his friends from 8th grade. He was really excited to see my son and wanted to know how he was. (for the record, this particular friend has such a soft heart.....he just needs alot of love) Anyway, when I asked how he was doing and asked about high school, he basically told me that school s**ks and that he was starting a rock band, which is not all that surprising. But as the conversation went on and we asked him what he was doing at the store, his reply was, "oh, we're just bumming quarters off of people". I wanted to cry. I wanted to just take this young man and show him what it means to be wanted and also what it means to have your needs provided for. I wanted to show him the love of God.
Realizing my priority at that moment was my son's heart, we turned to leave and I just vocalized that I was so glad that he was not with that group of boys anymore. I felt that, at least for the time we have remaining to train him, that he is safe from being led to try to please others that would only lead him down a very destructive path. When I told my son , "That could have been you", he stated that he was very glad that he is being homeschooled.
I want to believe that within the next few years that he is with us, our son will develop a core belief of who he is in Christ and will not sway from that reality. I also know that ultimately, it is his choice whether he choses that path or goes in a different direction. All I know is that I am so glad that God has led us to homeschool our son, so that our voices and His voice can speak louder than what he would experience otherwise.
Jul. 15, 2007
This Is Why We Homeschool
When we first decided to homeschool our son in August of 2006, we did not come to this decision lightly. We felt led by God to make this move to a different way of educating our child, but we had several reasons for motivating us in that direction. One of the reasons was that our son is easily led by his peers. And he was being led in a direction that was leaving us feeling more and more uncomfortable. Several of his friends at school were really trying to bring him down and our son was buying into it. I think the motivation for him was that he was being accepted by a group that he didn't have to try to impress. They accepted him (as long as he followed their lead) and he felt like he belonged. After MANY situations of our son making some pretty rebellious choices, not just towards us but also toward school teachers and administrators, we knew that we had to make a change and bring him home. We all made sacrifices, but it has been the best decision we could have ever made.
I share this to tell you about an interesting scenario. A few months ago, when my son and I were coming out of a store, we saw one of his friends from 8th grade. He was really excited to see my son and wanted to know how he was. (for the record, this particular friend has such a soft heart.....he just needs alot of love) Anyway, when I asked how he was doing and asked about high school, he basically told me that school s**ks and that he was starting a rock band, which is not all that surprising. But as the conversation went on and we asked him what he was doing at the store, his reply was, "oh, we're just bumming quarters off of people". I wanted to cry. I wanted to just take this young man and show him what it means to be wanted and also what it means to have your needs provided for. I wanted to show him the love of God.
Realizing my priority at that moment was my son's heart, we turned to leave and I just vocalized that I was so glad that he was not with that group of boys anymore. I felt that, at least for the time we have remaining to train him, that he is safe from being led to try to please others that would only lead him down a very destructive path. When I told my son , "That could have been you", he stated that he was very glad that he is being homeschooled.
I want to believe that within the next few years that he is with us, our son will develop a core belief of who he is in Christ and will not sway from that reality. I also know that ultimately, it is his choice whether he choses that path or goes in a different direction. All I know is that I am so glad that God has led us to homeschool our son, so that our voices and His voice can speak louder than what he would experience otherwise.
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Jul. 1, 2007
Blogger Reflection Award
Well, it's been awhile....
About a month ago, a friend gave me a nice surprise, a Blogger Reflection Award and I am just now getting around to posting about it....Sorry Jacque! Better late than never, right ? Seriously, I was very touched by her thoughtfulness to give this award to me and want to spend time talking about how this award came about.
Jacque's daughter, Jocelyn, has created the Blogger Reflection Award, with the desire that it would be an encouragement to other believers in Christ. In Jocelyn's words:
"As for my award, it is called the Blogger Reflection Award. Why? The reason for the title is because this award should make you reflect on five bloggers who have been an encouragement, a source of love, impacted you in some way, and have been a Godly example in some way. Five bloggers who when you reflect on them give you a sense of pride and joy...of knowing them and being blessed by them."
I really like the idea behind this award. There are many awards out there that are, in my opinion, just a popularity contest and that's not the direction I want to take in my motivation for writing in this blog. So, I am thrilled that Jocelyn has come up with this idea and I do pray that God blesses each person that is touched by the words of encouragement that are shared.
So, on to my choices to receive a Blogger Reflection Award:
Steve- Of course this blog would be my number one choice! My husband has a way with his words and is always an encouragement to those around him. He may challenge your thinking, but he will always do so with the love of Christ. One of the many things I love about him! He also blogs at Theological Musings.
Amy- I met Amy, her husband Gordon and their wonderful boys last December. We have become wonderful friends and I was thrilled when she began blogging a few months ago. She has incredible insights and is a true encourager in God's word. I am blessed to know her.
Rachel- Rachel is such a blessing to me. Her words of faith have been like a breath of fresh air to me. She has remained steadfast in her love and trust in God in spite of adversity. We all can learn much from Rachel's desire to follow the will of God.
Heather- Heather is someone who has encouraged me to think. To think about what the words of God truly say and why we do the things we do. She has confirmed some ideas that I already have and has opened my eyes to other concepts that I hadn't thought of before. She also blogs at Good Soil and Heart Condition. You will be encouraged.
Jennifer- Jennifer hasn't blogged in awhile, so I hope she will be encouraged to do so after reading this post. That is not my only motivation for choosing her though ! She has encouraged me, challenged me and blessed me. She is a very gentle lady and I hope that she will share some her thoughts soon....they will be worth the wait :)
Okay, so here's the deal....if I listed your name here, you can go to Jocelyn's post and read the directions on how to participate in the Blogger Reflection Award. She also has 3 choices of buttons to place on your blog.
I think the bottom line in posting about this award is that we all should strive to encourage and build each other's faith. Sometimes that comes as a challenge, sometimes that comes as offering grace, but it always should be done in the love of Christ.
Reflecting on the Peace of Christ,
Christy :)
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Jun. 16, 2007
Scholastic Warehouse Sale
I just received an email about an opportunity that I thought I would share with you. It is the Scholastic Warehouse Sale and it is taking place throughout the US. There were three locations in NC that were participating. Just click on your state and see if there is one near you! The books are at a reduced rate and if you register online, you can receive a coupon for $10 off a purchase of $50 or more. It is taking place June 21st, 22nd and 23rd.
I have been to several Scholastic Book Fairs in the past and sometimes the material can be questionable, but if are willing to weed through those books, you can find some really good deals on others that interest you.
Happy Reading!
Christy :)
I have been to several Scholastic Book Fairs in the past and sometimes the material can be questionable, but if are willing to weed through those books, you can find some really good deals on others that interest you.
Happy Reading!
Christy :)
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May. 29, 2007
A Night to Remember
This is the time of the year is when the sound of freedom is in the air... No, I am not talking about Independence Day. What I am speaking of is high school graduation. That crazy, fun and exciting time that inevitably comes around each year.
Last night, my family attended a graduation for my cousin (from public school). It was a large class and an even larger group of people attending as spectators. It is held at the university convocation center--There is no way the high school gym could hold the amount of people that turn out for this event! As I was sitting there waiting for the graduates to walk, I looked around and saw lots of people I didn't know, but also I saw lots of people that really didn't show any respect for the ceremony taking place or the people in attendance. I saw some gestures being displayed, some booing and an overall lack of respect for the people that were speaking. I also looked around and saw no one else bothered by this. Was I the only one that thought this was wrong? It seemed to be the case....
I contrasted this night with an event that I attended a few weeks ago with my son. It was another graduation ceremony. But this one was held by our homeschool group. There were only 10 graduates and it was held at a local church. As each graduate was called to accept their diploma, they were joined by their parents, who were given the opportunity to speak about their child (as their teacher, as well as their parent). Then, their child had the opportunity to make a speech. Each child was extremely articulate, whether they were speaking words of wisdom or offering their gift though a song. Each child was an inspiration. And there was an overall atmosphere of people offering encouragement to one another.
These two events were quite a contrast....
Now my question is---who is the more capable of making a difference in our world?
My guess would be the second group I described....
Last night, my family attended a graduation for my cousin (from public school). It was a large class and an even larger group of people attending as spectators. It is held at the university convocation center--There is no way the high school gym could hold the amount of people that turn out for this event! As I was sitting there waiting for the graduates to walk, I looked around and saw lots of people I didn't know, but also I saw lots of people that really didn't show any respect for the ceremony taking place or the people in attendance. I saw some gestures being displayed, some booing and an overall lack of respect for the people that were speaking. I also looked around and saw no one else bothered by this. Was I the only one that thought this was wrong? It seemed to be the case....
I contrasted this night with an event that I attended a few weeks ago with my son. It was another graduation ceremony. But this one was held by our homeschool group. There were only 10 graduates and it was held at a local church. As each graduate was called to accept their diploma, they were joined by their parents, who were given the opportunity to speak about their child (as their teacher, as well as their parent). Then, their child had the opportunity to make a speech. Each child was extremely articulate, whether they were speaking words of wisdom or offering their gift though a song. Each child was an inspiration. And there was an overall atmosphere of people offering encouragement to one another.
These two events were quite a contrast....
Now my question is---who is the more capable of making a difference in our world?
My guess would be the second group I described....
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May. 21, 2007
Organic Carrot Cake
Here is a great recipe I wanted to share with you. I made it for Steve's birthday, which lasted through my birthday, then I made another one for Mother's Day. It was a great hit and I encourage you to find a reason to celebrate with this Organic Carrot Cake!
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Apr. 27, 2007
Community
It is such a blessing to have friends...Steve and I have been blessed by many friendships in the past few years. Friendships, in particular, that have taken place right here at HSB. When we first started our homeschool journey more than a year ago, we found a wonderful community here and were encouraged by the wealth of information that we have received. But honestly, we have found so much more. The relationships that we have built and the people that we have connected with have been what has encouraged us the most.
Thank you everyone that has taken the time to share your life with us...it means more than we can say in just mere words. May you be blessed in your journey as well.
If you haven't received a copy of the spring issue of The Old Schoolhouse magazine, you must get a copy. We just received ours yesterday....I haven't had a chance to read through all the articles yet, but I will....no worries, I will :)
Steve and I are featured in this issue on page 74...if you care to read more about our perspective on this adventure we are on!
Thanks again, HSB, for all the support, encouragement and love that we have been shown. Our prayer is that we will have the opportunity to share what we have received with others that cross our path in the future.
God's Blessings,
Christy :)
Thank you everyone that has taken the time to share your life with us...it means more than we can say in just mere words. May you be blessed in your journey as well.
If you haven't received a copy of the spring issue of The Old Schoolhouse magazine, you must get a copy. We just received ours yesterday....I haven't had a chance to read through all the articles yet, but I will....no worries, I will :)
Steve and I are featured in this issue on page 74...if you care to read more about our perspective on this adventure we are on!
Thanks again, HSB, for all the support, encouragement and love that we have been shown. Our prayer is that we will have the opportunity to share what we have received with others that cross our path in the future.
God's Blessings,
Christy :)
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Apr. 18, 2007
Another Article About the Treatment of Autism
I came across this article on a treatment of autism that involves ridding the body of various toxins. I have seen several treatments over the years, but this is the first time I've seen a mainstream news show cover a treatment that didn't involve using medication. It was so refreshing to see!
Click here to see the article.
Also, be sure to watch the video of the segment from CBS News. It is definitely worth watching!
Click here to see the article.
Also, be sure to watch the video of the segment from CBS News. It is definitely worth watching!