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• Oct. 3, 2006 - The "bad" side of reading books

Most people that I've come across would agree that enticing children to read and love books is one of the best things that a parent or teacher could do. I've always agreed wholeheartedly with this and would never change my mind. However, just for the fun of it, I was trying to make it into a debate topic for the kids. At first I decided, "Reading books is good for people's mental and emotional health" is one statement that could not possibly have a negative side. After all, who could possibly argue that reading is bad for us, (apart from considering the actual content of the books in question). I didn't think anyone possibly could, so I kept trying to think of some, and to my own surprise, came up with a few.

 

OK, here goes. This is what I'd say if I was going to debate that reading books is destructive for my mental and emotional health. Reading has brought out gluttony and prejudice in me.

 

I'm not a glutton with food. I don't binge-eat but I do binge-read sometimes and that might be just as bad on the mind as the other is on the stomach. Just recently, I had a few compelling works of fiction that I kept turning the pages of until it was way past midnight and my eyelids already felt like sandpaper, just because I simply had to find out what was going to happen. It's always the same. I finally put them down and couldn't get to sleep because my mind was still whirling with the stories. And then in the morning, I was a wreck with a head that felt packed with cotton wool. Anyone else familiar with that fuzzy, depressed, achy-eyed, hard-to-think feeling?  Every time I vow never to binge-read again, but a super page-turner always puts me to the test. And then the books are over so fast, I don't get value for money. I have to show more willpower! I always say that.

 

Equally bad, I always hoped never to be accused of any sort of discrimination against anyone. I have to say, writing, as well as reading, brought this one out in me. I was flabbergasted that when we spoke about my own first couple of books to friends and acquaintances, many people said, "I don't read!" When I say many, I mean it really was many. Comments such as, "I only read commentaries in school and bluffed my way through" or "I prefer to be a do-er than a reader" or "Books never caught my interest" were rife. I hate to admit it, but this sort of comment coloured my perceptions against the people who made them. I even admitted to my husband, Andrew, "I don't understand how anyone with any sense whatsoever could go through life without reading books. Their minds must be really boring."

He shrugged and said, "I'm sure they watch soapies and sit coms on TV."

He was the one who helped me on my steps to recovery from this sort of prejudice. Andrew pointed out several people, including my own brother, a notorious non-reader who won't even read books that his own sister wrote.

"David is interested in greyhound racing," he pointed out, "but he doesn't get it in for you because you're not interested in greyhound racing. So you shouldn't hold it against him that he doesn't like reading." OK, I thought it was a fair enough comment and took it on board. More people than I ever expected hate reading, but it's their choice and I try to think none the less of them.

 

So, there you go. Absolutely anything is debatable and I could probably think of even more if I put myself to the test. Having completed this tongue-in-cheek exercise, I have to say that in spite of the binge-reading and prejudice, nothing could ever induce me to stop reading books or encourage my children not to. (But as I'll never be interested in greyhound racing, I've long since given up trying to interest my brother and other consumate book-avoiders into reading).   

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• Oct. 4, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by joyismystrength
Well, we are a lot alike! I also read until the wee hours of the morning, and then deeply regret my indulgence when my attitude is surly the next day. And, like you, I cannot imagine someone NOT reading. I have had very judgemental attitudes when I hear people say "I don't read". I think my astonishment must be written all over my face. Well, I don't "think", I "know". My jaw hitting the floor is a pretty good indicator of my response.
My question...How do people grow, mature, enlarge their thinking unless they're reading? Do they read their Bible? Hmmm...I cannot imagine having NO book on the go.
P.S. I'd rather be accused of reading too much, than not reading at all.
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• Oct. 5, 2006 - Readers Annonymous, Anyone?

Posted by LittleEblingsAcademy
Here I sit, reading your blog (on a Random Blog journey, I might add) with eyes that are drooping and a head that is spinning. Yes... I was up until the wee hours reading the latest novel to cross my nightstand. 'Dandelion Seeds' is the guilty page turner this week. Sigh......

I can totally relate to your prejudice. I think people are CRAZY if they don't get into a good book every now and again. Of course, I don't have a tv, so I roll my eyes at people who are addicted to the latest sitcom. (I used to be one of THEM, though... Isn't that strange how our perception changes??)

Well, from one reading addict to another --- it was great meeting you! :o)

Blessings, Beckie
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• Oct. 6, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by hsmom23boyz
It is hard to believe there are those who don't like to read. My hubby is one of them! My dream afternoon is a day in which I have the TIME to read, just for pleasure, it has been a while. I used to zip through 300+ page books a day, BEFORE my youngest, now seven was born. Someday.....
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• Oct. 6, 2006 - A fellow binge-reader

Posted by ComfyDenim
I, too, binge-read. I like that phrase.
Because of this knowledge about myself, I have become VERY selective in my book choices. I don't want to read about a whiney main character - or a hero that's a wimp on one page and a macho hero on the next (Consistency, people!)

I've gone through a page turner and ignore the laundry - and when the book was done had to major housework catch-up.

I've never thought about book-avoiders, though. My mom was one at one time. Until she realized that she might as well read - because that was all my dad seemed to do (her words).

Thank you for sharing your debate! It's nice to know other binge-readers are out there!

Here's to Good Books!
Huzzah!
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• Oct. 6, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by callmekate
I love to read, also. Same as you, I've stayed up too late with a good book, though my preference is nonfiction, esp. history or travel-related. Why don't these people read? I hate that, too. My own mom says she doesn't read and I want to say, "Why the heck not?" How else can one grow and learn? We don't have TV anymore but even when we did, I read more than watched. My kids and I love to read during lunch but it's not allowed during dinner (that's social time!) I will try to be more kind-hearted to these poor nonreaders who just don't get it! Maybe you could buy your brother a book about greyhound racing! :)

One of your page-turning pals, Kate
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• Oct. 7, 2006 - Bad for us--sometimes?

Posted by authorDonna
I love to read. But it really was a bad thing for me for a long time. Perhaps this will help you understand where the non-reader comes from. I lived in books. I filled my days with reading--to the detriment of my household, my social life and my schooling--yes even my schooling. It was a place where I could hide. A place where the good guy always won and the bad guy was vanquished. I got married and when my marriage didn't become what I wanted it to be, I buried myself in the written world. One by one my children came and I hid in the pages of the latest novel hoping to avoid the stress that came from childrearing. And then one day, I realized the world--and my family--were passing me by. I set aside my book and began to live outside of the covers. I began to converse with my hubby and children, asking about their worlds, learning about the many things I had missed. I began to do more things that required physical know-how as much as mental know-how. I realized my children were beginning to follow in my footsteps as chronic readers and I began to limit them in how much time they could spend reading. It has meant so much to be able to do the things I had only read about in books. Yes reading is a valuable treasure. But like any treasure, it can consume us. It is to be, like everything else, done in moderation. That was the reading lesson I had to learn.
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