Jeremiah 29:11

Jun. 21, 2007 - In my corner of the world ...

There are mommies struggling with what it means to be just moms ...

              we loved the days when we meant the whole world to our kids.

And we struggle ... missing those days when we clearly saw what our goal was! Bible stories and sleep overs and cookies and bible story crafts ... and just because we said it was a good enough reason to assume it would be fun.

And now ... if we suggest it ... the assumption is that it must be, well, not fun.

Today I saw a shift. We took action. We met them on their playing field ... literally. The battle field. An airsoft tournament.

 A day of Airsoft battles, cookies, brownies, slushies, salsa! The actual shift came in the form of a short ,impromptu Bible Study (inadequate as I was feeling) about the Armor of God. Short because I almost chickened out. But something changed in my heart sitting at that table today, talking about our kids, their struggles, our struggles, youth group, no youth group, where did we lose them, what happened to my little guy who hung on my every word, gray words/black words, curse words, boyfriends/girlfriends or not ... the main question we all had though was HOW DID WE GET HERE???

Followed quickly by How do we get back?

I love my kid! I love  your kids! And we have a job to do ladies!

Today ... we made our first steps toward taking them back ... we're taking these kids back. The world wants them. It tells them that they don't need rules, they don't need guidelines, they need freedom and self-esteem and they are entitle to what they want!

Satan wants them. He tells them that we're not on their side. That we're old fashioned and outdated and trying to control them. 

And we sit around on our hands ... and more accurately on our hearts acting as if that's true because He's telling us the same thing! 

This is a war.  

As great as these kids are ...

                    A part of each one of them wants just a little bit of the world too!

We have to stand in the gap! I'm going to stand for your family and you stand for mine.  

Ezekial 22:30 "I looked for a man among them who would build up the wall and stand before me in the gap on behalf of the land so I would not have to destroy it, but I found none."

Land was the great asset a man could have during this time ... if the land was lost, there was no hope.

As a people, one of the greatest assets we have is our children.

We took them aside today and gave them the rules for keeping their eyes protected during the game, we told the other kids ... don't hit them when they are vulnerable ... That's a bible lesson right there! We suggested strongly that they wear protective gear so that they didn't get a bruise or a bump while they were playing a game! We teach them to walk, to talk, to read, to add, to subtract, do long division, dissect frogs ... the list goes on and on ... we don't apologize for that. We don't hesitate there.

What lie of Satan have we bought into that keeps us from teaching spiritual lessons to our kids while they are together? Are we afraid they won't think we're cool? GUESS WHAT ... they don't think we're all that cool now. I'm not going to be afraid anymore!

How about you?

 

 

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Jun. 21, 2007 - Powerful Post

Posted by Loni
This is a powerful post. I am not sure what you have gone through or are going through, but it is a daily battle in keeping our children. There are so many outside influences. I think what caught my eye was the airsoft battles. When my children were young, I did not even want play guns . . . now we have teens and they have the airsoft. We also lost a son to a game - the choking game - and he accidentally died from it. It was horrible - but he learned of a game - somehow - TV - friends - camp, etc. We have homeschooled our kids all along, and yet, they do have to make their own decisions. But we can grow weary too.

I so appreciate the way you shared on your blog today. I found it through the homeschool blogger last 100 posts - and it caught my eye. I am glad I read it. Do you mind if I share your post, along with a link back to your blog, on my blog? I think it has an important message. Often on Friday's I share a guest article on my blog,a nd I would like to use this, if possible.

THANK YOU in advance.

Loni
lonistel@iserv.net
http://joyinthemorning.clubmom.com
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Jun. 21, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by quietcajun
I agree with what you are saying... and what a great analogy. I am trying to plan something cool, but meaningful for my oldest son's 13th bday and I think I just figured it out! Laser tag preceeded with a quick Bible Study on the Armor of God! Great idea!
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Jun. 21, 2007 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Tracy
This is so true, Satan has decieved us into being tip toeing around parents. We need to become bold, we are at war for our children's salvation, it is something I have and do struggle with, thanks for your post.
Tracy
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Jun. 21, 2007 - WOW! What did I miss?

Posted by LaDonna
I think I missed something truly fun today while I'm here in Indiana!! I so appreciated this post...having a teenager that keeps questioning our decisions, I've been praying the God would give us the boldness to be his PARENTS and not try to be his FRIENDS and keep him "happy!" Thanks, Amy, for reminding me to keep fighting the "GOOD" fight for my boys' souls!
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Jun. 22, 2007 - I'm glad you didn't chicken out!

Posted by sharonkay
I don't know if you have heard the lifelinepro.com spots on Love89 radio, but your bold action reminds me of a recent one.

In the commercial, houses are on fire and getting ready to explode, and the firefighter doesn't want to go in and rescue the occupants, because he might "interrupt their dinner, or seem rude".

Of course the spot is hilariously funny and obvious. Sometimes we make such grand excuses for not sharing our faith. There are people in this world dying and needing to know the saving love and grace of Jesus Christ. Our children included, there are many who need to not just have "fire insurance", but who need our savior!

I am glad you dared to step into those "uncomfortable waters". We should wade out into them knowing there is great reward, and that Jesus will be with us every step of the way.

It will not be easy. Jesus never said it would be.

He actually said the world would hate us just like it hated him.

Thanks for being his hands and feet today!
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Jun. 25, 2007 - thanks

Posted by Anonymous
hi amy

i've just seen yr comment on my blog. i hardly go there. am on www.myspace.com/maroushkatellings if you want to check that out, u r welcome

thanks for your comment
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Jul. 2, 2007 - Thank you for putting me in my place today

Posted by seekingHim
I needed to be reminded that this whole journey isn't about me!

Jennifer
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