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• 4 April 2008 - Road Rage

I had hoped to never experience this.  I was on my way to pick my 15yo son up at his Bible Study on Wed. night.  My two daughters and baby boy were in the car with me.  I was at a stop light, and looked for the traffic coming from the left--no one in my lane, so I turned right, onto a state highway in town where the speed limit is 35mph.

Only moments later, a small car tries to run me off the road (I drive a minivan), and stops the car at a 45 degree angle ON THE HIGHWAY, RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME.  I see the driver begin to get out of the car.  Stunned, I put my foot on the gas, and swerve around to get in the next lane, and keep on going. 

What does the maniac do?  He jumps back in his car, and speeds up to get right behind me.  I have no idea what is happening, or why.  I'm just thinking, get away from him, get away from him.  So, I pulled into a grocery store parking lot, thinking he will just go away.  My 12yo daughter is in the front seat.  He follows.  I decide to get onto the highway again, and turn left to go out of the parking lot, and he pulls in front of me like before, with oncoming traffic, and someone else comes up behind me.  All I can do is sit there.  He walks back to my car.

At this point, my heart is racing pretty fast.  Fear is not really what I feel, though.  I can't describe it.


I roll down my window.  This guy comes up and starts railing on me.  Complete with very foul, extremely foul language.  He says I cut him off back there.  I say, "I didn't know, I'm sorry, please calm down, just calm down.  I have three children in the car, just calm down."  He keeps up the language, and the railing.

I am looking around the whole time.  No oncoming traffic.  My foot goes back on the gas, and once again, I step on the gas.  My daughter has been saying this whole time, "Mommy, I'm scared, mommy, you're scaring me.  Mommy I'm scared."

And she is crying, and shaking, sobbing really.

The man pounds my car with his fist.  We drive away.  I tell my daughter "It's okay.  We're okay.  Every thing is all right.  We're okay.  He's not there any more."

He is done.  He doesn't follow us any more.  I'm shook up, unnerved, truly.  I pick up my cell phone--what do I do?  I mean, no use calling anyone now.  Why didn't I pick it up immediately when the first thing happened.  I so did not expect anything like this to happen.

If I cut him off, he either pulled out of the parking lot (really fast) to the left of where I was at the stop light when I looked back right to turn, or he pulled into the right lane (it was four lanes here with a middle turn lane to boot) and sped up, because I did see a car there, in the left lane, when I began to turn right.

We went to pick up my son, and my daughter is still so scared.  She is worried he's following us, and I keep reassuring her the whole way.  The baby needs to eat.  We are 15 minutes early to pick up my son.  I ask her if she wants me to feed the baby outside in the car, or just go get her brother.  Of course, she just wants to get her brother and go home.  I got her brother, and apologized to the group and to him.  Briefly, I explained to him why he had to come now while we were walking back to the car.

I didn't mention, but we had to make two more stops on the way home to drop some things off to a couple of friends while we were close to their homes.  So, first stop, dd asks me not to go inside.  No problem.  My dear friend asks me to come in.  Explaining again briefly to her what happens, she tells me it happened to her within the last week too, and someone else she observed it happening to in another parking lot within the same week.

People, this is frightening.  The local news said Police and the State Patrol locally are really cracking down on this.

On to the next house.  I really have to feed the baby.  We all go in.  My friend is talking to us a couple of minutes when her husband comes home.  As soon as I can, I asked her husband to pray for us.  This is a man, after all--reassurance from strength.  And I have known this family since my eldest was 4years old.  They're a great couple, and this man knows his bible, and is a pillar of strength, strong in his faith.  Before he even begins to pray, he calms her down and talks to her about blessing those that curse you.  Thankfully, afterwards, she is at peace.

That night, before bed, we pray for the driver.  Next morning, my daughter gets up, and tells me, she's named him.  His name is Darwin.  She tells me, it means "God loves you."

She asks each of us to pray for him.  The only reason I can think of that we had to go through this is that no one else is praying for this man.  So we have to.  And we are.

Thankfully, God stopped up my daughter's ears when Darwin was railing on me.  I know she has never heard such language, and what she did hear, it sounded totally different to her.  The worst thing she heard was him calling me "stupid" and "dumb".  Which he did say, but she didn't get the rest of it.

God is still in control. 

Praise him.  In every thing, praise the Lord.

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• 5 April 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by HeartnSoul
that is terrifying! PTL there was no gun involved. If it was a 4 lane road you would think he could just go around :P I guess that is the fruit for ppl thinking they are "gods"- they act like it! It is so nice that you are prayin for him, that is such a good witness to your children.

Thanks for stopping by :)
Denise
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• 7 April 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by CrossView
Glad you all are physically okay! =/

What a creepy thing to deal with...
From the others stories, sounds like it's someone with serious issues and that you may not have done anything.
Glad you all prayed for him!
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• 9 April 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by sajolley
This is incredibly frightening. Praise the Lord for His protection.
amanda
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• 11 April 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by kellieann
Wow...that's scary! I've never had anything more than an obscene gesture. Thanks for posting this though. If it ever happens, I think I'll be better prepared for it.
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• 14 April 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by crazybusy
Wow, that is REALLY scary!!!! Especially since it's happened to others around you recently too- I wonder if it's the same guy? How awful that he had to get so angry to do that and then to use that language in front of your children and scare your daughter like that. :( I'm really sorry that happened to you guys! I would've freaked out too! I'm glad he left you alone and nothing further happened. So neat how your dd's praying for the guy now- you guys are amazing!
Love, Alyssa
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• 19 April 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by balletmom2000
Wow, I am so thankful that you and your kids are okay. It is so frightening anymore! People are so angry and I think most of them don't even know why. It is so wonderful for you to pray for him, God has wonderful plans for you all! Thanks for stopping by my blog. I got one set up on hsblogger, so we can keep in touch! Christine
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