Dance in the Rain

Dec. 15, 2008 - wishing....

I'm going to totally shock every conservative good Christian girl that reads this.

I want a boyfriend. Alot. Right now. Not only that, I have my eye on a certain boy. But he doesn't care two cents for me. (haha, when has your crush EVER liked you in return?)

Ok, admit it: you want the exact same thing. I think every girl in the world does. And if you're a boy reading this...sorry, my eyes weren't set on YOU! Kidding...

But unfortunately for me, I've decided not to kiss or anything until I meet my husband and I'm only sixteen, which means I probably wouldn't marry a boyfriend even if I had one, which in turn means I can't have a boyfriend. *Sigh* Life is sooo hard.

Anyhoo...someone tell me it'll be worth the wait.

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Dec. 16, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by doinghardthings

This is my take on it.
I think that if your not planning on getting married... you don't need a boyfriend. Do you seriously think you would get married at 16? probably not. It's possible at 17 but i think it would be more acceptable at 18.

And yes.... I think that setting high standards are a good thing. Like saving your first kiss for your wedding day.
Idk... I'm 15 and I'm not gonna worry about getting a boyfriend.

I definitely don't NEED a boyfriend anyways.
I think it will save heartbreaks if you don't have them. There's nothing wrong with crushes. I've had them. and to answer your question... I've had a crush like me back. :D It was a good feeling. It made me all warm and fuzzy inside.

What I do think is a good thing is making lots of guyfriends
and becoming really close with lots of guys. Then you will have a better idea of what you want to find in your future husband.

Hope that helps!

-Kayla

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Dec. 17, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by SeaChel

I totally know where you're coming from! I've made a commitment to wait until I'm almost ready to marry before I let a guy court me (I'm not going to date). I've also made a commitment to save my first kiss for my wedding (almost all of my friends think I'm weird, but I think it will make it all the more special!). And yet, even with those commitments, I constantly find myself wanting a more-than-friends relationship with a guy! It's so hard to keep myself from having crushes, as a matter of fact I'm struggleing with one right now! I've written many songs on this subject, and I'd like to share the lyrics of one of them with you:

I met this guy today, it was great
So much in common, we could talk all day
And I liked him
Met him at a time when God felt so near
And at that time it all seemed so clear
I loved him

But wait, I wanted to save my heart
I should have stopped this from the start

'Cause I'm not ready
And he's not ready
And we're not ready for each other
And I'm not ready
And he's not ready
And he might belong to another

When he looks at me I start to blush
God, help me to get rid of this stupid crush

This other guy's so full of joy
And a happiness that can't be destroyed
And I like him
When he's around I'm never bored
And I can tell that he loves the Lord
And I love him

But wait, I wanted to save my heart
I should have stopped this from the start

'Cause I'm not ready
And he's not ready
And we're not ready for each other
And I'm not ready
And he's not ready
And he might belong to another

When he smiles at me I start to blush
God, help me to get rid of this stupid crush

Why can't I stick to my plan
To leave it all in God's hand?
Why can't he simply be my friend?
God, please help me! This has to end!

'Cause I'm not ready
And he's not ready
And we're not ready for each other
And I'm not ready
And he's not ready
And he might belong to another

When I'm around him I start to blush
When he looks at me I start to blush
When he smiles at me I start to blush
God, help me to get rid of this stupid crush!

So yeah, as you can probably tell, this subject is very close to my heart, I think about it all the time, and I struggle with it all the time! But I know that God has someone perfect for me out there and if I wait long enough, He'll bring us together. And the same goes for you! :-D

Luv ya,
~SeaChel

"Not Ready" copyright SeaChel 2008

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