The Crochunis Clan Chronicle

Jun. 20, 2008

It's always the same thing!

I also could have entitled this entry "same stuff, different day". I don't post often but it seems like when I do its always about three things, homeschooling, pregnancy, and broken down vehicles.

Well, let me start with homeschooling. I handed in my first portfolio today. I was nervous and anxious to make sure it looked good for the school but now I just feel relief. I know I am giving my son an "appropriate education" so I have nothing to worry about, God will be my judge. So, one down and only 59 more to go !!(6 children * 10 portfolios each).

Which brings me to my next point, pregnancy. Yes, you guessed it, we are pregnant with baby #6. I am 16 weeks pregnant and just beginning to feel less tired. I was so exhausted in the 1st trimester! Everyone is saying, "you need a girl". I'm trying not to think about it at all because we may just end up with another boy. Hopefully we'll find out in another month or two. I need to know which baby clothes to pull out of the attic. Atleast we have a big enough van now!

Which leads me right into my rant about Big Blue. (which should have been named Big Dud) it lasted an entire month if that before the motor went out. Thankfully we had a warranty which covered all the repairs. So we finally got the van back (with a new engine) . Why do we have so many problems with vehicles??? Not that it matters anyway with gas being $4 a gallon we aren't going anywhere. It costs $120 to fill the tank. So much for Baltimore Inner Harbour and the beach this summer. We'll be lucky to have enough gas money to drive to church!

So there you have it. My life in a nutshell, homeschooling, being pregnant and dealing with vehicle issues. Gotta love it!

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Mar. 24, 2008

Big Blue

Well, we got a new van. The children (and Dave) lovingly refer to it as Big Blue. Its a big Dark Blue Ford E350 15 passenger van. Friends of our bought our old van in hopes of fixing it. I really hope that the Lord works a miracle and allows them to fix it! I'm so happy to have a vehicle again! The gas is expensive though so we are not going to drive around much. I hope this vehicle last us many, many years!! The Lord is good! He provides for our needs and our wants. He gives us more than we deserve. Praise the Lord God for He is worthy to be praised!
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Mar. 15, 2008

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Mar. 15, 2008

Our 10th anniversary!

Dave and I will be celebrating our 10th anniversary soon! I can't believe it!


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Mar. 15, 2008

The Crochunis Clan says Thank You!

Here's a recent picture of my children taken February 2008. This was sent as a "thank you " e-mail for gifts they recieved from my aunt.

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Mar. 15, 2008

Long time no post 2

Wow! It has been a long time since I've blogged. I think with the new baby and then the move I just got so busy that I simply forgot about this blog.
Where do I begin? Well, the "new" baby is not so new anymore. Ethan will be a year old next month. Boy time sure does fly. We've lived in Tremont almost a year and it's starting to feel like home. Don't get me wrong, I love my house but the community and living "all the way up  here" has taken some getting used to. We found a church here in Tremont a few months ago, Tremont BIC. What a blessing it was to find a church close to us! The Lord certainly was good to us. Not only is the church close but the pastor and his family are wonderful too! They are a big family like us, they homeschool, and cover. We don't 100% mesh doctrinally, but we agree enough that its not a fellowship breaker.

Dawson and Micaela played soccer in the fall. They had a good coach and the laid back atmosphere up here was refreshing. Aedan was not able to play because they do not have a U6 program. He's joining Dawson and Micaela at Bonnie Kupp's school of baton though. . They all take gymnastics and Micaela also takes Ballet.

Boy was I wrong about their not being any children in Tremont!! There are children everywhere. Dawson and Micaela have made friends with the neighbors and so far there hasn't been any major issues with that.  Micaela finally has little girls that she can play with too. Our Pastor has two little girls.

Our van is broken..again. It hasn't even been quite a year since the transmission died. The water pump went out for the 4th time and while Dave and Rick tried to fix it they broke a bolt off in the block. It's going to be difficult if not impossible to fix and with everything else that is wrong with the van (cv joints, tensioner pulley, water pump, possible issues with the head, no A/C) Dave decided we are just going to buy a new van. We don't really want to go into debt again. It's been nice having Dave home and living within our means, but it's time to upgrade to a BIG van. Maybe its all in God's timing. I'll most likely be pregnant in a few more months anyway and then we'll need a bigger van anyway!!

Well, that's all for now! I have to get to bed, tomorrow is Palm Sunday.
Ethan James (4 months)

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Apr. 24, 2007

Long time no post

Well its been a while since I posted and alot has happened. We sold our house and we have another house lined up. We will be moving May 25 which is only 23 days after my due date! Life is going to be extremely crazy for the next month. I'm not sure how the children will adjust to all the new things in thier lives. We aren't just moving down the street. We're moving about 45 minutes away and into an entirely new type of environment. Right now we live on a quiet cul-de-sac in a newer neighborhood. The neighborhood kids congregate in our "community" yard. (we are the only ones on the block that have a swingset.) In the past five years that we have lived here its had its ups and downs but overall has been a nice place to raise the children. Now we'll be living in a small town with a private yard and I don't think any of the neighbors have children. In fact I think most of the town is old folks who have lived in the town their entire lives. So its going to take some getting used to. That and the fact that this house is all the children have ever known, I think its going to be hard on them. Well it might be a little hard for me too. I have had two of my babies in this house and by the time we move will have had another here. The new baby just throws an entire other element into the mix. The kids will just be getting used to Ethan and having our schedules interrupted when BAM! its moving time!! I'm sure the Lord will see us through. It was all in His perfect timing. This move will be very good for us overall financially and family wise. Dave will be able to be home with us more and we will be living within our means. So the next time I post it will most likely be the first chapter of our new life in Tremont!
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Mar. 9, 2007

Please welcome, Ethan James

He's not here yet but we do know that its a HE now. On February 12th we went to Womb with a view and got to see Ethan clear as day!! We saw him smile, stick out his tongue, suck his thumb, and then proceed to suck his big toe!! Micaela and I were both dissapointed for about a second. (it would have been nice to have another little girl in the house, Micaela actually started to tear up when the technician said it was another boy) But the Lord is in control and He knows what is best for us and delights in giving good and perfect gifts to His children! I know Ethan will be a blessing and a wonderful addition to our testosterone dominated family!!

 

 


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Mar. 9, 2007

March Madness

No I'm not talking about basketball or any other sporting event. I'm talking about the chaos in our home right now. We put our house on the market a little over a week ago and have had about 13 showing so far! It is extremely exhausting trying to keep the house clean, no let me rephrase that, imaculate!! My laundry is 100 % caught up though and that is a praise!! And it is kinda nice at the end of the day to look around at my home before I fall into a deep sleep and see that everything is in order. But oh so tiring.

We started getting ready to sell the house by painting the entire house from top to bottom(of course we had to spackle all the dings, scratches, and holes first!), then we had to replace the range hood, reorganize the basement, hang a towel rod in the bathroom, re-caulk our tub and pack some stuff away to declutter the house. I have to say I'm actually not looking forward to unpacking the stuff when we get to our new home because having minimal possessions makes it a lot easier for the kids to clean their rooms and looks alot neater too. I packed about 10 boxes of just kids toys and books and another 8 boxes of homeschool stuff!!

 We are having a  hard time finding that perfect house too. Which makes it extremley stressful. That and the fact that I don't know what the future holds is driving me crazy. I like to have a plan and know all the details and well...basically be in control. Which makes it incredibly hard to submit to my husband, especailly while trying to make such an important decision as which home to buy. The fact that I'm almost 33 wks pregnant doesn't help at all either. Ok so did I complain enough already!!!??! It helps to just get it all out. Now I'm going to go back to doing my laundry and finish cleaning up before my 4:00 showing.


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Jan. 9, 2007

So much to Praise Him for!!!

Some may think that this is petty, why should I rejoice so much in a material object? Well, until you are in this situation you may not fully understand. (or maybe I'm just too carnal) The Lord has seen fit to bless us with the money to fix our minivan and it is back in our driveway now!! I'm so glad after all this time to finally have a vehicle that fits our family (for now)! When the transmission died we had no money to fix it and did not forsee having any in the near future either. So the van just sat in our driveway for quite awhile. But through our loving family, we recieved enough gifts for Christmas that it added up to almost what we needed to fix the van!!

I have alot of vehicle related things to praise the Lord for lately. Not only did He allow us to get our van back, He also protected me and the children from a bad accident. I was driving my husband's station wagon when the brakes completely went out. By the grace of God it did not happen when I was going down our hill or in the midst of traffic. I was able to turn off to a side road and allow it to coast until I was able to put it in park. So we are down to one car again. But I am perfectly pleased!! The lord blessed us with our van and with safety, what more can I ask for?

I also have to praise Him for our littlest blessing growing inside of me. I went to see the midwife yesterday and heard the heartbeat loud and clear. It was like hearing beautiful music. My baby is healthy and safe and I praise my God!! I will be 24 weeks tommorrow, so the baby is a little over a pound and about 8-10 inches crown to rump. Only 16 more weeks to go until we see this new part of our family face to face!!!

We certainly do have so much to praise the Lord for!!


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Dec. 22, 2006

Christmas time and all is well

Wow ! I haven't blogged in so long!! Time just has slipped away from me. Our family does have a lot going on this time of year. First my birthday in November and then all the preparing for Thanksgiving. Then Micaela has a birthday in December and we have holiday parties and shopping and wrapping. The the big day arrives and sometimes it feels like where did all the time go? Did we stop to focus on our Lord? Or are we just carried away by all the hustle and bustle of the season. Materialism, humnanism, and good cheer??

Well, for once I can say that our family has not been completely taken in by the distractions. We have been doing an advent celebration of sorts. Every night (or I should say most nights) we sit around the table together and Dave reads us some scripture and we pray together and sing Christmas songs. the kids are even planning a mini Christmas pageant! On Christmas day each of the kids (even Aedan and Owen) will sing a song of their choice. Aedan is singing Away in a Manger, Micaela is singing Do you hear what I hear?(with Owen's help)  and Dawson is singing Angels we have heard on high. It has been really wonderful spending time as a family together like this. I wish we would do it all year long not just for Christmas.

So, yes, all is well with us this Christmas! Praise God for His provision, His mercy, and all His blessings this Christmas and all throughout the year. God is so good to us and we have so much to be thankful for. I'm afraid that we do not thank Him and praise Him enough.


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Nov. 14, 2006

Why do I cover?

For some time now I've wanted to put into words why I cover. When put on the spot, sometimes I am unable to explain clearly and biblically why I cover. I have been tested lately in this area and I feel the need to clearly and consicely state my case so that others (and myself) can refer to it. After typing out my own words many times and deleting them each time I felt like the best thing to do would be to use a premade tract.

                                                                          Paul's Discourse

                                            on the Use of Head Coverings During Public Worship.


                                      An Exposition of

                                   1 Corinthians 11:2-1

                                 By Richard Bacon

Introduction

1 Corinthians 11:2-16: "Now I praise you, brethren, that ye remember me in all things, and keep the ordinances, as I delivered them to you. But I would have you know that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head. But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven. For if the woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered. For a man indeed ought not to cover his head, forasmuch as he is the image and glory of God: but the woman is the glory of the man. For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man. For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels. Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord. For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God. Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered? Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him? But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering. But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom, neither the churches of God."

It is important when we examine any passage of Scripture that we place it in the proper historical and textual situation; that is, in its proper context. We need to understand what has gone before the passage, and also what follows. As the saying goes, "a text without a context is a pretext."

 

Liberty of Conscience

Paul, in writing the first epistle to the Corinthians, wrote it with the intention of correcting several abuses at the church in Corinth. In the three chapters preceding this passage (chapters 8-10), he dealt with the general subject of Christian liberty. Christian liberty is the freedom we have as Christians, and Paul taught us how we are to handle that liberty in the context of the communion of the saints. In our Christian liberty, we are always to defer to the weaker brother’s conscience. Paul declared that if his eating meat caused a brother to stumble then he would refrain from eating meat "as long as the world stands" (1 Corinthians 8:13).

There is never a time when we are free to trample the conscience of a brother. The law of love bounds our Christian liberty. Because we love a brother we refrain from anything that could cause him to stumble. Please notice that Paul did not say that we are to refrain "if our actions displease a brother." That is altogether different. Many things may displease a brother. Doing that which is necessary and right may displease a brother. That is not the issue. Paul defined an offense by asking these questions: Is it going to cause him to stumble in his walk with Christ? Is it going to cause him to proceed against his conscience? That was what Paul meant by an offense.

 

Public Worship

Let us put 1 Corinthians 11:2-16 in the proper context. Paul said in verse 33 of the previous chapter, "Even as I please all men in all things, not seeking mine own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved." He then continued that statement in verse 1 of chapter 11 by adding, "Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ." 1 Corinthians 11:1 is a transitional verse. Starting at verse 2 Paul began to deal with various ordinances of public worship. From 1 Corinthians 11 verse 11 through the end of chapter 14, Paul continued to deal with behavior in public worship. Chapter 13 is an excursus in which he showed that even the gifts of the Spirit must be exercised in such a way that they, too, are bounded by the law of love. So chapters 11, 12, 13 and 14, concern public worship and its abuses. Therefore, we must understand that in 1 Corinthians 11:2-16, Paul was explaining behavior in public worship.

 

1 Corinthians 11:2-16

In chapter 11 we find two things about propriety in worship or what might be called decorum in worship. The first has to do with the relationship between men and women in worship and the second has to do with our relationships with respect to the Lord’s Supper. In both cases Paul said that there has been something that has been delivered to him, and he then passed it along as an apostolic tradition. In the first instance we find (in verse two) "remember me in all things and keep the ordinances as I delivered them to you." If we go on to the section on the Lord’s Supper (in verse 23), we find, "For I have received of the Lord that which also I have delivered unto you." So there is an apostolic "reception" of truth and there is an apostolic "passing along" of truth: a paradosis, if you will. In both cases we must deal both with propriety in worship and with apostolic injunctions.

 

Not an Easy Passage.

Having situated the passage in the context of apostolic injunctions on proper church behavior, it must be admitted from the outset that this is not an easy passage to understand. It is a passage that has stirred up considerable controversy especially in the last twenty-five to fifty years. As a difficult passage it has been used as a ‘proof text’ for all manner of false doctrine and behavior. That is why it is necessary to view the entire discourse and situate the passage in its overall context in order to understand it correctly.

"Woman’s Bible Commentary," after referring to those "chaotic verses" in 1 Corinthians 11, claims that "while this is certainly Pauline," nevertheless Paul’s arguments are "inarticulate, incomprehensible and inconsistent." While it would be wrong to suggest that this is an easy passage, nevertheless at the end of this study, I trust it shall be demonstrated that rather than being "inarticulate, incomprehensible and inconsistent" Paul was perfectly articulate, comprehensible and consistent. Paul articulates quite well the mind of Christ regarding the position of women and men in the public worship assembly.

 

The Scope of the Passage

Verses 2 and 16 form discursive "bookends" for the passage. These verses hold the passage together as bookends on a bookshelf hold certain books together. In verse 2 it is clear that we are to keep the ordinances "as I delivered them to you," and in verse 16 we read that "if any man seems to be disputatious" (or contentious), "we have no such custom, neither the churches of God."

 I propose that these two bookends form a section that deals with how women should cover themselves in the churches of God. This section of Scripture does not deal with how women are to cover themselves outside the churches of God. There may be differing opinions on the subject of headcovering outside the churches of God, and differing opinions are permitted because Scripture does not speak to the subject — certainly not in this passage. However, in this passage we do have specific instructions on how a woman is to dress and how a man is to dress in the public assembly. The first table above gives a conceptual outline of 1 Corinthians 11:2-16.

 

1. The Question of Headship.

We should look at the question of headship first because that is where Paul began. In verse 3 he explained the foundational issue as being one of headship. The phrase "the head" is used three times in this verse.

 The Greek word that is used for "man" in this verse is not the word that means "mankind in general." The word that is used here is not the Greek word anthròpos which means "mankind in general," but the Greek word anèr, which means "a man" as opposed to a woman, or "a husband" as opposed to a wife. When Paul speaks here of the anèr and of the gunè, the word used for "woman," he is speaking about males and females; he is not speaking of mankind in general. He is talking about the difference between the sexes.

Also in verse 3 Paul said something very significant. "I want you to know …." He did not say, "Here is my opinion …." He did not say, "I have taken a poll and a lot of people think…" He did not say, "Dr. Gamaliel reported that Rabbi Shammai said …." Rather Paul declared, "I want you to know …." He stated, "I want you to have some certainty about this subject." He gave apostolic authority to his statements. "I want you to know something and here is what I want you to know ¾ the head of every man is Christ, the head of the woman is man and the head of Christ is God."

Notice that there is only one "person" in the passage who does not have a "head" and that person is God. "The head of every man is Christ," "the head of the woman is the man," and "the head of Christ is God." The word that is used here for "head" is the Greek word kefalè. This Greek word does not mean "head" in the sense that a river has a head — the "source" of the river. Rather the word here for "head" is that which is "chief," that which is "in charge." Paul used a play on words in the passage on the word "head" meaning first the physical head and then "head" meaning the one who is in charge. Before this play on words can be understood, it is necessary to know that the word kefalè does not mean "source" but that it means "authority." There is not a commentary more than about twenty years old, which, in discussing 1 Corinthians 11:3, claims that the word kefalè means "source." That is a fairly recent rendering of the Greek.

Wayne Grudum, who has an excellent command of Greek sources, claims that there are 2,336 extant examples in Greek literature outside the New Testament of the word kefalè being used in Attic and Koinè and Ionic Greek. In none of the 2,336 is there a convincing example of the word kefalè meaning "source." Nearly four hundred years prior to the writing of the New Testament there are two examples in which kefalè could be interpreted to mean "source." These are the only two times out of 2,336 extant examples of that word and they are doubtful. We must conclude that the word here kefalè means "authority." It means that the man is the "authority" of the woman, Christ is the "authority" of the man, and God is the "authority" of Christ. The idea of it meaning "source" comes from the egalitarian feminist bias of those pushing that agenda in the church today.

In 1 Corinthians 15:24-28 — the same epistle written by the same apostle — Paul said, "Then cometh the end when He shall have delivered up the kingdom to God, even the Father, when He shall have put down all rule and all authority and power …." Notice the Lord will put down Rule, Authority, and Power. "For He must reign until He has put all enemies under His feet. The last enemy that shall be destroyed is death for He hath put all things under His feet, for when He sayeth, ‘all things are put under Him’ it is manifest that He is accepted which did put all things under Him. And when all things shall be subdued unto him then shall the Son also Himself be subject unto Him that put all things under Him, that God may be all in all." This is the same concept here in 1 Corinthians 15 that we see in chapter 11. God himself is the "authority" over Christ who in turn ‘reigns and rules’ over everything! The same idea is carried throughout Paul’s writings.

In Ephesians 5:23-25 Paul taught that same relationship and even used the same parallel to illustrate it. "For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, and He is the savior of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives even as Christ also loved the church, and gave Himself for it." One of the important things that Paul taught here is that, like our Christian liberty, so the law of love bounds this Christian authority. Even the authority that a husband has over his wife is hemmed in by the love that the husband is to have for the wife. It is a loving authority, but nevertheless it is a true authority. Paul concluded in verse 33, "Nevertheless, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself and the wife see that she reverence her husband."

We have tried to demonstrate so far that the concept of Christian authority is not unique to this passage. It is a Pauline teaching that can be found not only in other Corinthian passages but also in others of his epistles. In Ephesians 5:23 we found the language of "authority" and the language of "submission." There is one who is the authority in the church and the church is to submit to him. There is one who is in authority in a marriage and the wife is to submit to him. That is the same parallel brought out in 1 Corinthians 11:3, "the head of every man is Christ," that is to say "the authority of every man is Christ;" therefore the man is to submit to Christ. "The head of the woman is the man," therefore the woman is to submit to the man. "The head of Christ is God," therefore Christ as we saw in 1 Corinthians 15 finally delivers up the kingdom to God so that "God may be all in all." In these first few verses of the passage, Paul laid a foundation. He set forth a concept from which everything else will follow. He used the word "head" in two ways in this passage: in both a literal way and in a figurative way. In verse 4 and the first half of verse 5, the "play on words" takes place.

 

2. Headship Related to Worship Practice.

1 Corinthians 11:4 states that "Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head." If we were going to be very wooden-literal in our translation it would read, "having something down from his head." What is the play on words here? If a man has a veil hanging down from his physical head then he dishonors his authoritative head. Verse 3 explains that Christ is the head of the man. Therefore, if a man prays with a veil hanging down from his head he dishonors Christ. To continue in verse 5 we read that every woman who prays or prophesies, with an uncovered head, shames her head or dishonors her head.

 The parallel is this: when a man prays or prophesies with his head covered he dishonors his head, that is Christ. When a woman prays or prophesies with her head uncovered, she dishonors her head, her husband. At this point we should ask the question: Covered with what? Paul has not discussed that yet. Some people often jump immediately from here to verse 15, deciding Paul meant a covering of hair. We will not make that mistake. We must deal with the discourse the way in which Paul wrote it, drawing from it the lesson that Paul intended for us to learn, without imposing our own views upon the passage. Another question arises, Is he speaking only to wives? I do not think so. I believe he is speaking to anyone who has reached the age of puberty. I think he is speaking to those females who might be regarded as "women."

It might also be asked, "If one woman does not wear a covering on her head does that mean that she is shaming every man in the congregation?" No, I would not say that. However, Paul is laying out a general principle for us here. That general principle is that women pray and prophesy with their heads covered and men pray and prophesy with their heads uncovered. The issue here is not so much marriage as it is to how women dress in church. It is certainly true of wives, but it is also true of all women in the church.

Let us consider the question, "Covered with what?" Whatever it was, the people to whom Paul was writing knew what it was. I do not believe that the women of the Corinthian church would have had as much trouble understanding this passage as we might have today. I realize that there are numerous books explaining to us what life was like in the first century. The fact is, we know more about what life was like in Corinth in the first century from the pages of the New Testament than we do from any other source. In fact, almost one hundred percent of what we know about life in Corinth we learn from the pages of the New Testament. It was evident to the women in Corinth how to cover themselves.

It was also evident to the women in Corinth what the significance and shame was of a shaved head. They knew the shame that comes upon someone who is covered as a male and who is uncovered as a female. The shame does not come directly upon them, but comes upon their head, the one who is in authority over them. In the case of the man the shame does not come directly upon him if he covers his head. It comes instead upon Christ. In the case of a woman also if her head is uncovered the shame does not come directly upon her, but upon her husband. The one who is in authority over her is shamed. Paul explained that if a woman is uncovered there is a shame involved. In the later half of verse 5, Paul stated that the shame involved is the same as if she had a shaved head. Paul said, "… for that is even all one as if she were shaven."

In the springtime the sheep shearers take the sheep that have grown huge coats of wool during the winter and with larger clippers, they shave it all off. That huge woolly looking sheep is all of a sudden a skinny looking little thing, looking as though it is going to totter and fall. It is shorn or shaved. That is the word used by Paul here. It is altogether the same as if she had a "buzz" haircut. Not only that, but he used a command to do that to the woman. What a strange thing! But that is the command. Let us look at that under part three, "How This is Shameful" in verses 5b and 6.

3. How this is Shameful.

"She is one and the same with her who is shaved" or "is all one as if she were shaven. For if a woman does not cover herself, let her have her hair cut off." This is jussive command.  There is a condition. This is called a "simple conditional clause." It means that the "if" clause, the protasis, is considered true for the sake of argument. Paul said, "Let us consider the case of a woman who is uncovered." What follows from that is a jussive command ¾ "Let her also have her hair cut off." In English we do not have the particular form of speech of a jussive command, and so the "permissive" is used. Understand, however, that Paul did not simply give her permission to get a haircut. He said, "This ought to be done."

 A jussive is a "third person command." In English we have a first person command in what we call a cohortative ¾ "Let us do that." There is also an imperative, which is a second person command ¾ "You do that." This is very much like the command in James 5:13b where James said, "Is any among you merry," not "let him sing the psalms" but, "he should psalm," psalletò. It is a jussive command and it means, "he needs to do this; this is the right thing to do in this case!" If something happens, then this is the command that fits that case. Therefore, if the woman is uncovered, she is supposed to be shaved! "But," Paul said, "I know you Corinthian women already know that it is a shame for a woman to be shaved," so he continued in verse six, "but if it be a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven," (and it is) then "let her be covered." The idea of shaving here is to take a razor and remove what little hair was left by the "buzz" haircut. "If it is a shame for a woman to have her hair cut, or to have her head shaved, then let her cover herself." That is also a command.

Paul assumed that the women knew that it was a shame for their heads to be shaved. We could carry on lengthy speculations as to why the Corinthian women considered it a shame. Perhaps they thought she looked like an adulteress. Perhaps they thought an uncovered woman was usurping authority. Many things have been suggested, and the merits of each shall not be explored. We do not have the time to explore each one. Whatever the reason, it is a certainty that the Corinthian women regarded it to be a shame. However, these are not merely sociological issues. Paul assumed that shaved heads were shameful and he assumed that uncovered heads in public worship on the part of women were just as shameful. He did not say that it was shameful for a man to have a bald head or a shaved head, but he did assume that it was shameful for that to be the case for a woman. And if it is the case, then he commanded "let her be covered," or "she should be covered."

4. Reasons why there must be a difference.

In verses 7-9 we have the reasons given as to why there must be a difference. Notice the nearly poetic structure of this passage. Not only is Paul not inarticulate; he has become so eloquent at this point that he is almost writing poetry. Paul wrote, "For a man ought not to have his head covered, since he is the image and glory of God. But the woman," [????] "is the glory of man." This is a figure of speech we call an ellipsis, that is to say, something has been left out. This is very common not only in Greek poetry but in English poetry as well. "For a man ought not to have his head covered since he is the image and glory of God. But the woman, [????] …." What goes in the blank? If a man "ought not to have his head covered" what goes right below that statement to fill in the [????]

 The answer is obviously that she should be covered. Why ought a man not to have his head covered? What is the reason that Paul gave? Because he is the image and glory of God. God’s glory is to be uncovered in worship. This is so important that the entire passage is going to be brought together at the end on this very basis: God’s glory alone is to be seen in the public worship service. The reason he "ought not to have his head covered" is that he "is the image and glory of God." It follows that anything that brings glory to anything or anybody other than to God ought to be covered! "But the woman is the glory of man." Therefore we cover the glory of man. This passage implicitly commands us to cover the glory of man and to uncover the glory of God! Consider the brilliance of this argument! Paul argued in these verses that this involves more than just a relationship of man to woman. It certainly involves that, but the matter also involves the relationship that our worship has toward God. God’s glory is to be uncovered and man’s glory is to be covered in public worship.

 "For man is not out of woman, but woman out of man" (1 Corinthians 11:8) Once again Paul is talking about the priority of women and men. There is a chiastic structure here. The structure is A-B-B-A; man-woman-woman-man. Again, where do we find chiasms? In poetry! Paul is practically writing poetry here! He is not inarticulate; he is quite eloquent.

 In verse 8, Paul stated, "Man is not out of woman, but woman is out of man." Paul referred back to the fact that the original woman was made from the rib of a man (Genesis 2:22). The man has precedence because the man was created first. "Man was not created for the woman, but woman for the man" (1 Corinthians 11:9) The two things that he referred to in both of these passages are the precedence of man because of his prior creation and the fact that man was not created to be a help for woman. In Genesis 2:20, we read that woman was created to be a help for man, "an help meet for him." Adam was given the original task. The woman was made as a helper to him. Therefore man has precedence (headship) because of his prior creation and he has precedence (headship) because of the purpose of her creation. She was created for the very purpose of helping him. How can she not accept him as her "head?"

In Deuteronomy 22:5, we see that God claims authority over the way we dress. This passage also has something to do with the way we are covered or are uncovered in worship. "The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God." God cares if a woman dresses like a man. God cares if a man dresses like a woman. He hates it! It is an abomination to him.

In 1 Corinthians 11 Paul did not say that the woman is not the image of God. He said, however, that there is a distinction to be made between male and female. The male, Adam, was the original creation. Genesis 1:27 explains that, "God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them." We read virtually the same thing in Genesis 5:1-2, "God created man, in the likeness of God made he him; Male and female created he them." Notice in the Corinthian passage how glory and honor are tied together. It is not simply the "image of God" that God sees when he looks down on a worship service, but his glory as well. When God looks on a church worship service he sees little images of himself worshipping him. And if the worshippers are regenerate he sees little images of Christ filled with the Holy Ghost worshipping him. However, man is in a particular way the glory of God. If a man puts on a woman’s headgear and dresses like a woman, it disgraces Christ. In what sense does such a thing disgrace Christ? It is an abomination to God. Look in verses 14 and 15a, "Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him? But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering." We are going to deal with the second half of verse 15 later in our discussion, but now we need to deal with 15a. In verse 15a Paul explained that, if we know that the man is the glory of Christ or the glory of God, and if the woman is the glory of man, then the glory of the woman is her hair. Her hair is given to her for her glory. If we are going to cover every glory except God’s glory in our worship services, we are not only going to have to cover the head of the woman, we are going to have to cover the hair of the woman as well. Why? Because not only is the glory of man not to show in worship, neither is the glory of woman.

Proverbs 12:4 contains an interesting concept about a wife and her relationship to her husband. There we read: "A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband." A crown is worn on one’s head. His wife is his crown, his glory. His wife is that which shows him to be the king, that which shows forth his majesty. She is to be covered, because his glory, his majesty, his crown, his kingly estate is his wife. But if she makes him ashamed she is like "as rottenness to his bones" (Proverbs 12:4b). How does a wife make her husband ashamed? In the worship service she makes her head ashamed by uncovering her head. This is the same parallel. As you can see, this is a teaching not just of Paul but one that we find in various places of Scripture. Paul went on to adduce still more reasons.

Paul was not inconsistent in the Corinthian passage. Paul was not teaching first one thing and then another. He was not teaching first, "Let them be covered with a fabric cover" and then "Let them be covered with their hair, because their hair is covering enough." Paul was not being inconsistent. Paul was not being inarticulate. He certainly was not incomprehensible. If he were incomprehensible the feminists would not hate this passage so much. The problem that the feminists have with this passage is that Paul was altogether too comprehensible for their comfort. Many times as my wife and daughter and I have visited churches in which head covering of women is not practiced, there is a class of women who just glare at my wife and daughter when they sat down in the worship assembly with their heads covered. Why? Because they know what it means. There is no doubt in their minds what a covered woman in the worship assembly means. It means that here is a woman who has accepted a biblical role with respect to her husband, and in the case of a daughter, a woman who has accepted a biblical role with respect to her father.

Let us move on to 1 Corinthians 11:10. "For this cause ought the woman to have power on her head because of the angels." This is a difficult verse to understand. First we need to discuss what the term "angels" does not mean. It very clearly does not mean that a woman ought to have a symbol of authority upon her head because that is the way everyone else does it. Paul did not say that a woman ought to have a symbol of authority upon her head because otherwise the Corinthian prostitutes will be offended. He did not say that a woman ought to have authority upon her head because otherwise the Greek men might think that the women were available for dating. Whatever the term "angels" means, it does not say that. Paul was not making a cultural argument! He was making an argument that had to do specifically with beings that are intimately related to God’s ministry and redemption.

 

5. Authority and Angels

First of all, angels are messengers from God in heaven to his church on earth appearing at the most critical points in the history of redemption. This, of course, is not the only time that the angels appear, but it is the first thing we need to know about angels.

 In Luke 2:13-14, the "herald angels" cried out regarding the birth of Christ. In Matthew 28:5-6, "the angel answered and said to the woman" at the tomb, "Fear not ye: for I know that ye seek Jesus, which was crucified. He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay." Christ’s birth and resurrection were witnessed to by angels. So too his ascension in Acts 1:10-11, "While they looked steadfastly toward heaven as he went up, behold, two men stood by them in white apparel; Which also said, Ye men of Galilee, why stand ye gazing up into heaven? this same Jesus, which is taken up from you into heaven, shall so come in like manner as ye have seen him go into heaven."

 Second, there are angels whose business it is to guard the people of God and their children.  There is such a thing as a "guardian angel." Please do not think of those "Precious Moments" statuettes, or fat little babies with wings flying around. Angels are terrible creatures, marvelous creatures, wonderful creatures, whose business it is to guard the people of God and their children. Psalm 91:11, "He shall give his angels charge over thee to keep thee in all thy ways." Matthew 18:10, "Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven."

 hird, there is a sense in which the angels observe what is happening on the earth at least in the life of the church and in the life of his saints.  In Luke 15:10, "Likewise, I say unto you, there is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner that repenteth." So in the life of the church, when a sinner repents, there is joy among angels. There is joy "in the presence of the angels of God." Ephesians 3:10, "To the intent that now unto the principalities and powers in heavenly places might be known by the church the manifold wisdom of God." The "principalities and powers in the heavenly places" we understand may very well be these angels. See too Hebrews 12:22.

Fourth, the angels are the reapers in the great harvest at the end of the world.  Matthew 13:40-42, "As therefore the tares are gathered and burned in the fire; so also shall it be in the end of this world. The Son of man shall send forth his angels, and they shall gather out of his kingdom all things that offend, and them which do iniquity; and shall cast them into a furnace of fire: there shall be wailing and gnashing of teeth." We must stop for a moment and consider these verses. If this is the context of the authority being on a woman "because of the angels," so that the angels will not pluck out of the kingdom those "things that offend" and cause "weeping and gnashing of teeth," is that not reason enough to have heads covered in worship? Is there need to adduce further reasons? In Matthew 24:31, "He shall send his angels with a great sound of a trumpet, and they shall gather together his elect from the four winds, from one end of heaven to the other." This teaches that there is not only a "plucking out" of that which offends, but there is also a "harvesting" of the elect.

 Finally, we must notice that there is a change worked in the relationship between the angels and mankind due to the great victory that Christ achieved as Captain of our salvation. "Being made so much better than the angels, as he hath by inheritance obtained a more excellent name than they" (Hebrews 1:4). Notice in 1 Corinthians 6:3, there is a promise that man shall judge the angels. "Know ye not that we shall judge angels? how much more things that pertain to this life?" The angels being spoken of here in the same book (1 Corinthians) are beings that do not pertain to this life. If we are to judge angels "how much more things that pertain to this life?" Paul is making a distinction between things that do and do not pertain to this life. How is this related to chapter eleven?

 First, we need to understand that whatever it is that a woman has on her head, it is a symbol of authority. It makes no sense to think of hair as a symbol of authority. Whatever that symbol is, it is a symbol of authority! Whatever it is that she has on her head, it indicates somebody’s authority: either hers or someone else’s. It is also visible. If you can see it, you can see that there is authority on this person. If it symbolizes authority, then it must be something you can see, a visible symbol of authority. We have symbols of authority showing us the benefits of Christ’s death. These are Baptism and the Lord’s Supper. Both of these symbols are visible. Baptism is a visible symbol of authority and the Lord’s Supper is a visible symbol of authority. The question originally was; "In what sense either in this passage or anywhere else are we given the slightest idea that hair is a symbol of authority?" My point is that if women have a symbol of authority on their heads, it must be other than hair because no where in this passage are we given the slightest indication that "hair" might be a symbol of authority. There is one verse where "hair" is called a "covering," which I will discuss later.

 Hebrews 12:22 really kind of "says it all." Hebrews 12:21, "And so terrible was the sight, that Moses said, I exceedingly fear and quake." Moses came to a very fearful place. "But ye are come to Mount Sion, and unto the city of the living God, the heavenly Jerusalem, and to an innumerable company of angels." When we come to Mount Zion; when we come to the worship service; when we gather together in an assembly; not only do we gather with God, not only do we gather with others of God’s saints, we also gather with "an innumerable company of angels." In Isaiah 6:2, we read that the angels are covered as they worship God. In this passage, Paul arguing from the greater to the lesser. He explained that if angels are covered in the presence of God, then so ought woman’s glory to be covered in the presence of God.

 There are several other places we need to examine very briefly. Revelation 2:1, "Unto the angel of the church of Ephesus write;" verse 8, "And unto the angel of the church in Smyrna write;" verse 12, "And to the angel of the church in Pergamos write;" verse 18, "And unto the angel of the church in Thyatira write;" Revelation 3:1, "And unto the angel of the church in Sardis write;" verse 7, "And to the angel of the church in Philadelphia write;" and in verse 14, "And unto the angel of the church of the Laodiceans write." In each of these seven churches in Asia Minor, there was an office or a person who was referred to as "the angel" of that church. It probably was either a pastor or an elder, but it may have been a supernatural spirit. I personally do not think it was a supernatural spirit, because I do not think that they have need of writing. I think that the pastors and elders of these churches would have that need. The Greek word used here is aggelos, which can be translated "ministering messengers," "angels," or "deputies." The word aggelos means "a messenger or deputy." The word means one who delivers a message. It does not matter which of these translations it is. Do we know what the meaning of "angels" is in the Corinthian passage? It does not really matter. In each of these instances, each was associated with the Church. Whether it is an innumerable company of supernatural spirits or whether it is a supernatural spirit in charge of a particular congregation or whether it is a pastor or a ruling elder in each instance, it is associated with the Church. Just as 1 Corinthians 11:2, 11:10 and 11:16 also associate this practice with the Church; with the assembling together of the saints.

6. Creation in the Lord.

Verse 11 states, "Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord." Why did Paul bring this up? For the same reason he brought up the responsibility of the man to love his wife in Ephesians chapter 5. If he did not bring this up, there are some men who would treat their wives like dirt. Men, that is the way we are. Men would do that. Men would take advantage of their wives if Paul did not very carefully circumscribe their authority with the law of love. This is not simply a bare authority but a loving authority. There is a mutual dependence between man and woman.

Paul continued in verses 11 and 12, "Nevertheless neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord. For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of God." Woman came forth from the man; men come forth from the woman. Each is the source of the other. This is why it was so important to understand that the meaning of "head" is "authority" and not "source." In creation the woman came from the man, and the man is therefore the source of the woman on earth. In reproduction, the man as a male child comes from the woman, and the woman is therefore the source of the man on earth. But the source of all things, both man and woman, as well as everything else, is the Lord in heaven. The Creator in heaven is "he who created all things." Verse 12, "For as the woman is of the man, even so the man also by the woman; but all things are from God (or of God)." This overcomes any possibility of a pagan or Gentile distortion of headship. Neither the man nor the woman should consider himself or herself independent of the other.

 Let us look at verses 14 and 15. I am going to skip over verse 13 because I am going to discuss verses 13 and 16 together later. Looking at the discourse itself, it seems to me that verses 14 and 15 are parenthetical. At the end of verse 13 Paul asked, "Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered?" Then he went on to ask other questions, which I believe were parenthetical to help lead the Corinthian Christians to a proper answer to the question in verse 13.

7. The Natural Order of Things.

In verse 14, Paul asks, "Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?" It is a shame to "himself." In verse 15, "But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering." Her hair is a glory "to her," to herself. We need to understand that if a man has long hair, he is not shaming his head, he is shaming himself. If he would cover his head with fabric, then he would shame his head, Christ. But if he grows long hair he shames himself. If a woman uncovers her head she is shaming her husband; if she has long hair, she is glorifying herself. Here is the significant thing. Paul has explained three glories: the glory of God, the glory of man and the glory of woman. God does not share his glory with another. In the worship service, therefore, God’s glory alone is to be seen. God’s glory alone is to be uncovered. But who is the glory of God? The man. The glory and image of God is the man, the anèr. But man’s glory is to be covered. Who is man’s glory? The woman. She is to be covered. But in what sense is she to be covered? Her glory, also, must be covered. But where is her glory found? In her hair. So her hair must be covered.

 We must make this statement. The hair of a woman cannot be both the glory and that which covers the glory! "A" is not "non-A." Nothing can be both "A" and "non-A" at the same time and in the same way. Paul taught us that the object which is the glory cannot also cover the glory! And he taught us that only God’s glory is to be seen in the worship service.

We must now try to understand verse 15, "But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering." Why is a woman’s hair a glory to her? Because her hair is given to her as a "covering." The word that is used in verse 15 for "covering" is not the same word used in verse 6 for "covering." The word that is used for "covering" or "veil" in verse 6, kaluma, comes from the Greek word katakalupto, "to cover." The word in verse 15 is peribolaiou which is "a shawl, a wraparound" (peri, around, ballo, to throw) or a wrap. The Greek words that are both translated into English as covering are two very different words. If the words were the same then some could say that Paul is being inconsistent here. But the words are not the same.

8. The Question Decided.

Verses 14 and 15 form a parenthetic statement between the question in verse 13 and the answer given in verse 16. The question in verse 13 was "Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a woman pray unto God uncovered?" The question was, "Is it comely?" Verse 16, "If any man seem to be contentious (or disputatious), we have no such custom." No such custom as what? No such custom as a woman praying to God uncovered. The custom Paul mentioned was not that of being disputatious. True, we have no such custom as being disputatious either, but that was not Paul’s point. Paul’s point was that we have no such custom as a woman praying to God uncovered in the public worship.

 Is a woman praying covered culturally bound custom? Was that what Paul meant by "custom?" When Paul said, "We have no such custom" was he talking about something that was culturally bound to ancient Corinth? There is not a single indication in the passage that Paul’s intent was to appeal to custom at Corinth.

 What about the covering being a symbol of authority on her head? What kind of authority is it to which hair speaks? As already indicated, all that a woman has to do is walk into an assembly with her head covered where there are feminists present and it will be clear what that covering means. Why did Paul refer back to the creation order if this is simply a cultural custom? Why did Paul go all the way back to creation in Genesis chapters 1, 2 and 5 if this is simply something that has to do with the culture in Corinth? I think that these are questions that feminists have yet to answer.. The woman’s glory, that is her hair (in verse 15), must be covered in worship. The man’s glory, that is the woman (in verse 7), must be covered in worship. Thus only God’s glory, which is the man (in verse 7), is uncovered in worship. God will not share his glory with another (Isaiah 48:11); thus both the man’s glory and the woman’s glory must be covered. But if the man’s glory is covered, where is the covering worn? On the woman’s head. But if the woman’s glory is covered, where is the covering worn? It is worn on the woman’s head. Paul wrote about a fabric covering that covers both the man’s glory and the woman’s glory, so that the only glory that is evidenced (uncovered) in the worship service is the glory of God. This can only be accomplished when both the head and the hair of the woman are covered.

 This passage does not speak directly to the question as to whether a woman may pray in public. The passage does not speak directly to the question that either the woman ought or ought not to pray or prophesy in public. That subject is handled very clearly in 1 Corinthians 14:33 and following. But the passage we are discussing does not speak to the subject.

Concluding Remarks

We have essentially done a discourse analysis of 1 Corinthians 11:2-16. If we look at the entirety of the discourse, by the time we get to verse 15 we will find out that any other interpretation of verse 15 does not make any sense. The reason that one may think that Paul is inarticulate or inconsistent is because he is imposing his view on the passage, rather than Paul’s view. It is the one who objects to this passage who is inarticulate and inconsistent. It is this author’s contention, which has yet to be disproved, that every commentary claiming that the covering was hair has been written since the rise of egalitarian feminism.

 


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Oct. 28, 2006

Don't play with cardboard, you might poke an eye out!

Ok, well I never heard that one. It was always don't run with scissors or "you'll poke your eye out" from that terrible Christmas movie that they show over and over again all day long, every Christmas! But I digress, someone should have said don't play with cardboard or at least should have warned my oldest son and my husband!

 

Yesterday, we were blessed to be able to pick up our food co-op order. After months of not being able to place an order and fear of never being able to do so again (the company went banckrupt) We finally placed an order last week with a new company and picked our box loads of food up yesterday morning. The only downside to buying wholesale is the sheer bulk of our monthly orders and the boxes that come with them. My husband and son were busy this morning doing their part by breaking down the boxes so we could dispose of them when the accident ocurred. My son got overly enthusiastic and my husband got a lacerated eye.

 

After debating whether we should take him to the ER or not he decided to just go to the local optometrist. She confirmed his fear that his eye was indeed lacerated and she wanted him to go to the optometrical ER (I never knew such a place existed) Well, tommorrow we go back to see her again and possibly also to this mystery ER. In the mean time he is putting drops in every hour and wearing a contact in his eye to avoid scratching it any more than it already is. And guess where he is right now? AT WORK! After all that he insisted on going to work eventhough I would have to take him and pick him up and he had to wear these funny fake shades under his glasses. What a man! Always willing to work hard and provide for his family :)


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Oct. 26, 2006

Forgiveness

God knows just what we need and when we need it. I am fully convinced of this fact.

 

This week we are studying Genesis 37-50, the life of Joseph. Our topic is forgiveness. God knew however, that I needed to learn this lesson probably more than my children needed it. This week I had a major event happen in my family that caused me to lash out in anger, frustration, and sadness. It wasn't until after I acted inappropriately that I realized, WOW, I am such a hyprocrite. I am not living what I say I believe and I am not being a good example to my children. How can I talk about forgiveness all week and then be unforgiving? I went back to the person I offended and asked forgiveness. I am so glad that God is a forgiving God, that he remembers our sin no more.

 

Psalm 103:12
As far as the east is from the west, So far has He removed our transgressions from us.


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Oct. 17, 2006

Jacob the supplanter

Psalm 135:4
For the LORD hath chosen Jacob unto himself, and Israel for his peculiar treasure

 

This week in SOW our character is Jacob. Jacob means supplant-to take the place of (another), as through force, scheming, strategy, or the like. We know that Jacob has always been chosen by God to be blessed. The Bible references Jacob in 345 different verses! What a priveledge it would be to have your name eternally linked with God's. But somehow I just can't wap my mind around why God would want him to be the blessings, birthright, or inheritance. He came out grasping at his brother's (Esau) heal. He wanted to be 1st from birth. Later we read in Genesis 25 that he practically stole his brothers birthright by taking advantage of his hunger and weak-willedness. He then schemed with his mother to steal the blessing from his blind old father Isaac. He succeeded and even after that Isaac still blessed him and so did God! Why would God choose to use such a crooked man in his eternal plan?

 

But then I stop and think, why would God ever use me, love me, choose me? I am the most wretched of sinners! I deserve nothing from God, yet he continually blesses me and uses me to do His will. Not only has God been faithful to provide for my needs, He has also given me many things that I want. Just yesterday I opened the door to find the Lowe's delivery man standing there to greet me. My mother had arranged for the delivery of a new stove for me! Our stove has not been working well lately so we needed a new one and any old stove would have satisfied the need, yet I recieved just the one that I wanted! Again I don't deserve it and I don't understand it but God put it in my mothers heart to bless me with a special gift.

 

So why does God chose such imperfect people? For His glory and to emphasize His righteousness alone!!

 

1 Corinthians 1:27-29

But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty;  And base things of the world, and things which are despised, hath God chosen, yea, and things which are not, to bring to nought things that are: That no flesh should glory in his presence.


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Oct. 13, 2006

Fearfully and wonderfully made

Isn't it amazing how God forms a human life? I'm a little over 11 weeks now and the baby within me is 1 1/2 inches long, 1/4 oz., and fully formed! The bones are hardening and teethbuds are forming in the gums. The baby kicks and tumbles in its graceful water ballet.

 

 At my appointment with the midwife we will be able to hear its rapid heartbeat for the first time. Proof of life. That a living person is actually inside me.

 

 It makes me think of the Dr. Seuss book Horton hears a who, no one believed Horton that a tiny life existed on top of the flower he was protecting. But Horton boldly proclaimed "a persons a person no matter how small!"


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Oct. 12, 2006

Crayons, Paper and Pencils, oh my!

When I was picking out the wallpaper for my blog I knew right away that the crayon picture was the appropriate one. We started a new curriculum this year called SOW (student of the Word). It's a one-room-schoolhouse type curriculum, all ages learn the same thing but do assignments according to their ability. There are two tracks that you can choose from, independent reader and non-reader. Although I have one independent reader I chose to do the non-reader format this year. The kids really enjoy it. I like it too as it has kept me on track. Starting in Genesis, every week we read 1-3 chapters of the bible and memorize 1-4 key verses. There is a lot of copy work and alot of illustrating. The kids are becoming quite the artists! Especially Micaela, some days her artwork just blows me away. Our kitchen table has had papers, crayons and pencils covering it for the past ten weeks!! (except for meal times )  Aedan and Owen, when not playing with trains, are also at the table doing their "schoolwork". Aedan is learning how to write the letter "A" and working on his shapes, colors and numbers. Owen just likes to scribble on Dawson's papers when he's not looking. I just love having my children at home! Although somedays it can be tough it is the most wonderful and rewarding thing I've ever done! God alone gives me the strength and patience I need day by day and when I'm not trusting in Him it shows!

 

Lord,

Help me to have patience today and to cherish each and every day I have with my children. Help me to remember that they are a treasured gift from you. Please guide me as I teach, discipline, and love each one. I pray that they would come to know you and each one would grow up to be a Godly young adult. I thank you for the gift of life withtin me. May the baby be healthy and come safely to us in your appointed time.

Amen

 

 


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Oct. 11, 2006

Persecution, coming to a town near you

I just got an e-mail from VOM (voice of the martyrs). It was a prayer request for a young man in Pakistan who got badly beaten for drinking from a common cup. He was working in the heat of the day and went to a well to get a drink. He used a common cup that was attached to the well by a chain. The cup and well were designated for the poor. A muslim man saw him and began to attack him, smashing the cup and calling others over to beat him as well. "A Christian dog polluted our cup" was their cry. By the grace of God he survived.

 

What does that have to do with us you say? Well, here's another story I recently read. A mother of 12 was arrested in Germany while her husband and children ran for the hills. Their crime? Homeschooling. Germany has had an anti-homeschooling law on the books since the days of Hitler, it was gathering dust until someone utilized it to persecute Christians.

 

Well, you say, that's Europe. We have the constitution and freedom here. Not for long. Many profesors around our country are teaching the next generation of politicians, lawyers, doctors, and teachers that it is very important to have tolerance unless you are speaking about Christianity. A professor at the Pennsylvania State University has said on his blog that we essentially need to go back to the days of the lions dens to rid ourselves of these nasty, closeminded Christians.

 

So when the day comes, will American Christians be able to stand? I'm afraid that many will fall. Persecution just does not fit with the "feel-good, purpose driven, your best life now, gospel" coming out of the vast majority of America's pulpits today.

 

Lord,

Open our eyes and give us discernment. Help us to follow after you and not our own lusts. Guide us into all truth, your Word is truth. When the time of persecution comes give us the stregnth to stand.  

 

In Jesus Holy name

Amen   


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Oct. 11, 2006

My 1st blog entry!!

I have been a big fan of a blog called Slice of Laodicea for some time now. It's good to read what's going on in the "christian" world and to see what others have to say about it. However, lately I've realized that some blogs (including slice) are just big rants for people to complain about things they don't like or groups of people that annoy them. So I decided it was time to type my own blog.

 

This blog will mainly be about my family and our adventures in homeschooling but from time to time I will comment on the church and current events. I will also write about my current pregnancy and our planned home birth. So it will really be quite an ecelectic blog!!

 

I've always wanted to keep a diary of sorts or a journal because I have the worst memory (my husband can attest to this). But I've never gotten in the habit of doing so. Hopefully this will help me to keep track of things for my childrens sake. I don't think I'll have a hard time posting new enrties since I'm such an internet addict. Is there an internet annonymous?!?!

 

Tommorow we have homeschool co-op. I'm looking forward to it because I'm teaching Spanish and I really enjoy my class. I'm dreading it to though because I've really had a hard time getting up in the morning. I try to stay up to spend some time with Dave but then I'm really exhausted come morning. It's also very hectic getting my 4 little ones ready and out the door by 8:20 am. I have been feeling nausea again too which doesn't help. Sometimes I can't eat right away which really puts a kink in my schedule. I'm 11 weeks pregnant today!! Only 3 more weeks until I enter the second trimester. I always enjoy second trimester because I get my energy back and feel really good. I also begin to really show which is nice because then I don't just look fat!

 

I have to go start lunch now and then get Math done before I fall asleep. I really need a nap today because we are having Bible Study tonight and I know I won't get to bed until late.

 

Adios!

 

 

 


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