The Way I See It
Dateline: Dec. 19, 2009
Communication FUNdamentals has moved permanently...

...as you can probably tell by the fact that I haven't posted here at Homeschool Blogger since June.  lol  With homeschooling and running two businesses along with all the other things I do, it just got to be too much.  In fact, I heard the Lord (and my dh) tell me to cut down on the amount of time I spent doing many of the things I had been doing.  Among those were three weekly newsletters and a weekly podcast. 

Communication FUNdamentals is alive and well over on Art of Eloquence.com. Right now I have a Video Countdown to CHRISTmas going on where I post a daily video of the most inspirational Christmas music ever!  Come by and share in the most inspirational and creative ways God's children speak to Him.  Be blessed!

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Dateline: Dec. 18, 2009
Featured Blogger ~ TOSAffiliatesCorner



How many of you are TOS Affiliates? Ever think about becoming one? I'm sure you have a lot of questions about it. Let's find out with this week's Featured Blogger the TOS Affiliates Corner!

How do you become a TOS affiliate? Find the answer on the first blog post, Welcome to the TOS Affiliate Blog!

If you become an affiliate, what kinds of ads have to go on your blog? Check out the latest TOS promotion for When I Grow Up I Wanna Be A Police Officer.

As a TOS affiliate you won't always be asking your readers to buy something. TOS loves go give away freebies! While you don't make any money off of these promotions being able to tell your readers about free gifts is always a bonus!

So if you aren't a TOS affiliate yet, what are you waiting for? Christmas break is a great time to get started because in 2010 TOS has a lot of great products coming out!

Say hi to Cheryl, the TOS affiliate coordinator and if you have any questions you can ask her in a comment.

Would you like to nominate a HSB blogger for Featured Blogger of the Week? Email me at tlinschied@thehomeschoolmagazine.com. Please keep in mind that Featured Bloggers must be at least 18 years of age and their blog must be encouraging, uplifting, and/or inspiring.

Tia Linschied
Senior Editor of HSB

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Dateline: Dec. 18, 2009
Special Words for Special Needs ~ A Beautiful Christmas Project

Merry Christmas (very soon)!!  It's time to talk about Christmas!

How do you run your homeschooling around Christmas? The season has plenty to do, but my kids demand structure. This time of year I tend to turn to my Christmas unit study. The art time in the afternoon will get turned into present making time or ornament making time. Though being Christmas time I search for more meaning in our days.

This time of year I also try to fit in outside service projects. In talking with a homeschooling mom recently she shared how they use this season to help train their children in service to others and keep it Jesus focused.

The day after Thanksgiving she and her family settle on a family that is in great need. They each give part of their Christmas gifts to feed and care for this family. Then a week before Christmas they drop this package off at the needy family's home.

You may say well there are groups out there that do that. Yes, there are. I would argue though that it is our duty as Christians to help others and what better way than just a simple exchange in love and covered in prayer. You show very clearly to your children that it IS better to give than to receive.

Thank you my friend for sharing that with me! 

Think of a way you can share the love of Christ with others. What does your family do at Christmas to make Christ an active, real part?

I pray blessings to you and may your Christmas time be productive for the Lord!


Heather lives in West Virginia. She and her husband have been homeschooling their 5 children for 8 years.  Due to a genetic disorder their children have multiple special needs. Heather is also dealing with personal health difficulties. Living life to the fullest for the glory of God is their goal!  Visit Heather's page at  www.homeschoolblogger.com/gfcfmomofmany/ or at Special Needs Homeschooling.

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Dateline: Dec. 18, 2009
Being "frugal" or . . . not

Well, while I might have been extremely busy in the past month or so, I certainly can't say I've been spending time blogging!  Yikes.  It's looking a bit neglected around this site.  Definitely calling out for some Christmas decor!

I did, however, write an article for Heart of the Matter online.  Here's the teaser . . .


Last week I was online, chatting with my sister-in-law about menus and grocery shopping. At some point during our conversation she said, “We know how to be frugal around here.”

“Right! That’s great!” I said at the time.

But later, thinking back on our conversation, it left a sour taste in my mouth. . .

 

If you like, you can read the rest of the article here:



An Extravagant Life

I wrote this one way too quickly, and still haven't had the time it would require to sit and ponder where my thoughts were going, but it's a topic I'd like to come back to.  What do *you* think? 

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Dateline: Dec. 17, 2009
Special Needs Children: Bring Them Home Where They Belong

More abusive teachers are in the news, this time two teachers tortured and abused several special needs children in their care--children who couldn't speak out about what was happening to them.

Parents, even your special needs children deserve to be at home where it is safe, and where you can be there to protect them. Homeschooling special needs children can be done!

Check out these resources to start:

You can find many more resources by searching online, and don't be afraid to ask questions! Trust is a huge thing for children with special needs. Your child trusts and needs you, not a person that neither you nor your child has never met before. You wouldn't just leave your child with strangers otherwise, why do so just because that stranger works for a public school?

Tia Linschied
Senior Editor of HSB

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Dateline: Dec. 17, 2009
What I Don't Want for Christmas - A Gift Certificate of Death

Every year my mom and I play this game that we call, "What I don't want for Christmas." We just tell each other all the things we do not want, from singing fish mounts to hideous sweaters. I could be shopping in a store and something will catch my eye and I have to call my mom right away to tell her that I don't want the new Barry Manilow CD, because you never know, she may have forgotten that I despise Barry Manilow and she could be buying it for me at that very moment. I'm a good daughter for helping her to spend her money wisely.

But this . . . this is by far at the top of my I Do Not Want list. Planned Parenthood is now offering gift certificates that can be used for abortions. How would you like to get that gift? "Here Loved One, I don't want you to experience the joy a baby brings into your life because I think you're stupid and should just find your joy in material objects that don't return love, teach you valuable lessons, and brings you closer in a relationship with a Creator."

A sagerat salute to The Pilgrim over at Defending. Contending. The link in that blog post to the resource is no longer working but you can read more at Fox News.

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Dateline: Dec. 17, 2009
Communication Corner ~ Countdown To Christmas!

I'm having a video countdown to Christmas that started on December 15th.  Each day I'm uploading an inspirational or comedic video that shares the spirit of Christmas with my readers.  Check it out each day on Communication FUNdamentals!

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Dateline: Dec. 16, 2009
Background Checks for Homeschoolers?

World Net Daily reports that just may become the case for British parents who wish to homeschool their children. The law stems, in part, to a problem that some parents are using homeschooling as a way to disguise abuse. However, what the law doesn't stipulate is what is required to pass a background check, it invades the rights and privacy of parents, and presumes them guilty until proven innocent.

As I've said before, there are already laws in place--in both Britain and the U.S.--in regards to child abuse. Government agencies are refusing to back those laws up. While there are several homeschool parents in Britain who are in agreement with making tighter restrictions on themselves in order to get rid of the few who give them a bad name, they need to recognize that this bill isn't really about protecting them. It's about a government trying to find ways to slow homeschooling down--period. Find out which parties and agencies are backing this bill and I think you'll find they aren't, and never have been, friendly to homeschooling.

Tia Linschied
Senior Editor of HSB

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Dateline: Dec. 16, 2009
Homeschooling Through High School ~ The Beginning of Wisdom (Part 2 of 2)

This week at HSB's "Company Front Porch," we've been asked to focus on Christmas.  Last week, though, I began a 2-part post about studying the Bible as it relates to Homeschooling Through High School.  In continuing that topic today, I think the Lord will allow me to do both things!  Grab a cup of java or tea, and join me as we take a "mind's eye journey" back to Bethlehem.

As I write this message, we are 10 days away from Christmas Eve.  Now that I no longer have little ones in my home, my heart is more atuned to our celebration on Christmas Eve than on the morning that follows...not that the date really matters!   Drawing upon my own experiences of being in a pasture with sheep in my volunteer work at a living history farm here in Illinois, I can close my eyes and imagine the shepherds out in the fields with their flocks by night.  I think most of us can, regardless of personal experience.  We've read the story, seen it illustrated a hundred times, or watched a dramatization of it on television or on the big screen.  

But that's NOT where I wish to take us.  I want to go deeper than just that.  I want to go back into the Old Testament, and set the stage for that event which took place out in those fields.  To do this, I'd like to introduce to you a dear friend of mine, Cindy Zeigler, mother of 4 homeschool graduates (all of whom are now married and 3 of whom are missionaries), and author of several of the best Bible studies our family has ever gone through.  In "Understanding the Bible: A Biblical Survey," we read the following (note: Cindy uses the NASB translation in her materials, so that is what is quoted here)

Shortly after the onset of Judah's captivity, the city of Jerusalem was destroyed by the Babylonian king, Nebuchadnezzer.  Then, after the Medes and Persians overtook Babylon, and after the 70 year period of Judah's captivity, Judah was allowed to go back to their land and rebuild Jerusalem, the wall, and the temple.  There were three post-exilic prophets -- Haggai, Zacharia, and Malachi -- each telling of the plans the Lord has yet for Israel.  After the Word of the Lord came to Malachi, the final prophet, there was a long period of silence from Heaven -- 400 years.

The prophecy of Amos came to bear on the Jews.  Amos, after being told by a priest to leave the Northern kingdom and go prophecy in the Southern kingdom (Amos 7:12), uttered these words:

Amos 8:11  "Behold, days are coming," declares the Lord GOD, "When I will send a famine on the land, Not a famine for bread or a thirst for water, But rather for hearing the words of the LORD..."

So there was silence.

The voice of Heaven was not heard by the ears of earth.

...for 400 years.

...four hundred long years!

And...

A woman who was called barren,

bore a son, and they called him John.

Suddenly a bright light shown in the darkness...

...a star shining in the east.

A virgin had conceived and had borne a Son, and they called Him Immanuel, "God with us."

Then a voice was heard...

...a voice crying in the wilderness

...calling the people to

"Repent for the Kingdom of the Heavens was at hand."

Now, jumping ahead in the study, we come to the First Advent of Christ in fulfillment of so much prophecy...Cindy writes:


Not far from the city of Bethlehem was a place where shepherds were keeping watch over a flock of sheep.  After "Immanuel" was born, an angel appeared to these shepherds.

 

Luke 2

8     And in the same region there were some shepherds staying out in the fields, and keeping watch over their flock by night.  9  And an angel of the Lord suddenly stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them; and they were terribly frightened.  10  And the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid; for behold, I bring you good news of a great joy which shall be for all the people;  11  for today in the city of David there has been born for you a Savior who is Christ the Lord.  12  And this will be a sign for you: you will find a baby wrapped in cloths, and lying in a manger."


13  And suddenly there appeared with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying, "Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased." 

I can only imagine the explosion of praise that erupted from the heavenly host after 400 years of silence...after the end of the waiting in the heavens for this plan from the time of the creation to finally be put in motion...I can only imagine the sheer terror of those shepherds out in the quiet of that field!!!  The NASB translation quoted uses the phrase, "terribly frightened." The KJV says "sore afraid." The NIV offers "terrified."  I put myself out there on a quiet night in the fields with a bunch of sleepy sheep and try to imagine the event...I don't know if "terrified" is even descriptive enough! 

But the greater point is this...in the continuum of measured time from the creation of the world through the end of this world, dwell upon that which has just happened...in God's plan for His people, given the "silence from Heaven" that had been the reality for 400 long years, put the event of the birth of Christ and the preaching of John the Baptist on the timeline...this is so much more, when placed in the BIG picture, than what we can all too easily isolate as the birth of the Son of God!  As big as that is, the reality of the shattering of the silence of Heaven and the beginning of this part of God's incredible plan for His people, which will be completed at the Second Advent of Christ, is so much more!!! 

And that brings me back to "Part 2" of last week's post regarding Bible study in the homeschool high school, and the question we began with: "What is God's mind on education?"  Here are God's inspired words: "The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding" (Proverbs 9:10).  Encourage your high schoolers to dig into the Scriptures, and to dig deep.  Untold riches are often skimmed right over by all of us when we read what to us seems "familiar territory."  I love the way that Cindy and another of my favorite authors, Diana Waring, both keep coming back to the big picture of God's unchanging plan, of His-Story (Diana's word for history), of His promise and His glory.  May we all grow in wisdom, knowledge, and understanding in these remarkable times!  

May God Bless you and yours during this Christmas Season, 

 

Lori

PS. Cindy's Bible studies are available free of charge at the link provided above and HERE.  Donations are accepted if you are able, but are not required.  This is a ministry of their church, and the call of God upon their hearts.  Studies are available digitally for download, or you may email and request a hard copy.  In either case, email and ask for a set of any DVD lectures that go with the studies.  The study I've quoted from in this week's post, "Understanding the Bible: A Biblical Survey," is recommended as a "prerequisite" and basis for all of the other studies offered.  For homeschoolers, it makes a wonderful one-semester high school study, providing a 1/2 credit (0.5 CU) in Bible.  It is 17 weeks long, with assignments 5 days a week, and a 45 minute video lecture to be viewed after completion of each week's study (we watched our DVD lectures on Saturdays, and looked very much forward to each one!).  Follow this with "Understanding Hebrews," a 16-week study, and your student will have a full year (1.0CU) of Bible for their transcript.  More important, however, will be their spiritual gain: the fear of the LORD which is the beginning of wisdom, and the knowledge of the holy which is understanding.  Whatever Bible study you choose to share with your young adults, encourage them to drink deeply from the well of God's Word!  


Lori Havens has been married to Kevin for 24 years.  They live in Illinois with their two sons, Bryan (17) and Nathan (16), and dog Sunny (9).  Lori enjoys writing, gardening, reading, and the outdoors.  She hosts the "Thursday Talkin' About Teenagers" meme at her HSB blog, "Plans4You," and is the author of "Should I Be A Nurse? A Journey of Self-Exploration for Those Considering a Career in Nursing" and  "7 Essential Questions Every Future Nurse Must Ask."      You can find her blogging at both Homeschool Blogger and Homestead Blogger  .

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Dateline: Dec. 16, 2009
Taming the Gifting Chaos

I love Christmas! Keeping focus amid the joyous busy hustle of the season is a challenge though. Especially as the children are involved in more outside responsibilities with each passing year.
 
Here in our home though, we keep it simple. We love our advent devotions, baking goodies together, and playing games as a family. Christmas day is our biggest event of the year, when cousins, grand parents, aunts and uncles come "over the river and through the woods" to our home.  (Or more accurately "over the dry creek-bed and through the prairie fields.")
 
Gift giving is part of sharing the joy, but sometimes it can seem to upstage all the other delights. We've tried a few things to ensure that presents don't distract from our focus on Christ's birth.
 
We give only a few individual gifts to each person.
 
We open our immediate family presents before the big gathering with relatives. (Typically at our own private celebration on Christmas Eve.)   When extended family comes Christmas Day we do exchange gifts and do little stocking stuffers for all, but because all the families who come have opened gifts within their individual family unit separately, packages aren't the primary dynamic of our gathering.
 
This year we are opening some of the "family gifts" in the days leading up to Christmas. Every year many of the presents are things I've purchased for the whole family: games, books, family movies or fun art supplies. We opted to open one of these family gifts following each advent devotion through the 12 days leading up to Christmas. 
 
Other families I know have a set number of gifts, such as three per person. Some do an exclusively homemade Christmas, handcrafting through the year to invest their time and skills to create thoughtful presents.

Whatever tips or traditions we employ, the goal is to remind ourselves and our children that the packages we give are just our way of celebrating the Savior and remembering the greatest gift ever--the gift of Jesus Christ!
 
Have a Merry (and Chaotically Tamed) Christmas!


Domestic Chaos Tamer and Homeschool Mom of Five, Dell writes about home, heart and hearth.

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