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Oct. 9, 2008
Can anybody loan me an hour or two?

I can not believe how busy I am!  I feel like I go from the min. I get up until I go to bed at night.   Working with Raelynn is a real blessing but she gets distracted so easily!  I would love it if I could just get her to focus on what she is suppose to be doing. 

Daniel is also a handful.  Its more like he is three instead of five.  He gets into everything.  His latest love is the washing machine.  He will not leave it alone.  And it doesn't seem to matter how severe the punishment is, its worth it.  He will get a good (affectionately using Kim's phrase) pow pow and cry then be right back in there like it didn't phase him.  I wish I had something that I could do to keep him from doing that.  Those of you that know me, know Im strict.  I don't just let things happen, I expect my kids to obey what their parents tell them.  This one however seems to go beyond strong willed.   He reminds me of a bussiness man that will pay whatever price it takes to get what he wants.  I really need to figure out how to break that.  Spanking isn't working, talking isn't working, taking things away isn't working, finding other things for him to do isn't working.   Short of putting him in a rubber room, Im not sure what eles to do. 

Most everyone knows how into baseball Ryan is and we devote our whole spring to it.  Well he has been in fall ball this year and we are devoting all of our time to that now.  Thinking oh yay I only have one more week to go, the kids wanted to join a homeschool bowling league.  With bowling being near and dear to my heart I just had to say yes.  So now on Wens. we are trucking across town to bowl.  They are loving it so far and its not just about one kid.  So they are all happy!  Well except for Daniel, he doesn't get to bowl and he really wants to.

So with all this said, I would love to have an extra hour or two a week just for me.  No kids, no husband, no bills, no somethings that need to be worked out, no housework, just me time. 

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Oct. 9, 2008 - I'm with you!

Posted by familyis1st
If anyone else has ANOTHER hour or two to spare ME, I'd love to have it! LOL
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Oct. 13, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Christin
Hi Renee! Don't be fooled. I don't have as much time as I *think* I have! ;) Right now I'm browsing while we eat lunch. Then it's back to lessons! I do some posting at nights while the kids are sleeping and some on weekend's when Jon is home. Sometimes I do post when I shouldn't be - like this morning. I posted about a book on my other blog and it took up more time then I would've liked. So anyways! How are you doing?
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Oct. 13, 2008 - Hi Renee!

Posted by carolina
Glad to hear from you.
Have you tried a chart/reward system for him? I know sometimes different kids require different methods. Maybe you could do a chart and he starts out each day w/ a certain amount of stars or points. He gets deducted one per time he misbehaves. Then at the end of the day he gets a reward for each pt/star he has left.
Just an idea~you know him best and what will work for him.
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Oct. 13, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Homeschooling6
One thing that I do is have all the kiddos go down for quiet time 2hrs a day. I know mean mommy but during that time I blog, catch up on chores etc.

I separate my 4 & 5yr. olds most the time and that works better than having them in the same room (they share) the older kiddos 7, 8, 9 & 10 yr. olds are old enough to know that they can't come out until I ring the bell.

Just an idea, it would give you a few hours to do what you want in a limited way though. You can't take a bath or anything like that. LOL! but it is some quiet time.

Blessings,
Linda<><
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Oct. 21, 2008 - ....oh for the distractability

Posted by Anonymous
I can so understand. Isaiah, for the most part, requires me to be sitting by him for his school work. It takes up my entire morning, besides the 30-45 minutes I take to gather my thoughts online, with my tea and breakfast. We don't have a lot of sports, but there is the cub scouts and me working in the evenings....so time is busy here too, and they all wonder why the house isn't clean!?

Marja
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