I Heart Bloomberg by Melody Carlson sounds like a charming book, but I admit I have not had time to read it yet. I will be adding a full review to this post just as soon as I read the book. In the meantime, you can read the first chapter here.
The bottom line is; We try not to insist on parent-led learning or gravitate toward child-led learning. We try instead to focus on God-led learning and ask for His input and perspective on every aspect of our home school. That way, when others fuss about what Dan and I are doing and make me second guess our decisions -- I can go back to our decision process and find God's fingerprints, reminding me that this is His way.