Jul. 7, 2008 - Mondays On Mothering -- Happy Hearts
Mondays On Mothering
On Happy Hearts
I love seeing my children respond to discipline, instruction, or chore time with happy hearts. I think one of the reasons this has had so much of a positive impact on me recently is because of the very bad attitudes we have been dealing with when chores become necessary. I have started really noticing and praising when any of my children do approach a chore with a happy, cheerful attitude. One child in particular struggles to find joy in spite of chores. I am hoping that by noticing and cheering those times when he comes willingly and with a smile; I will encourage more frequent positive behavior! Another child, I have noticed, almost always comes to chores or school time with a cheerful obedience. Still, I have started drawing attention to her right response with praise. All of my children could use some work in this area! I truly do love it when my children come with a smile and a willing, happy response.
What do you love about mothering? I hope you will share something with us! To post a Mondays On Mothering blog, follow these steps:
1. Write a blog post about something you love about mothering. Include a link back to my blog so others can find all Mondays On Mothering posts.
2. If you want to use my graphic; click here for the code.
3. Come to my blog, and sign the Mr. Linky on my current Mondays On Mothering post.
4. Visit the other Mondays On Mothering posts, and be encouraged. As Canada Girl always says, the best way to get a comment is to leave a comment!
The bottom line is; We try not to insist on parent-led learning or gravitate toward child-led learning. We try instead to focus on God-led learning and ask for His input and perspective on every aspect of our home school. That way, when others fuss about what Dan and I are doing and make me second guess our decisions -- I can go back to our decision process and find God's fingerprints, reminding me that this is His way.