Sep. 15, 2008 - Mondays On Mothering -- Inspired by Kindness
After returning home from surgery this week, I was inspired by the kindness and gentleness of my children. From the moment I arrived home, they gathered around to make sure I was okay and to offer help. My seven year old was hanging around a little after everyone else wondered off, and I asked if he was okay. He just got a cute little happy grin on his face and said, "No, I am just glad your okay, glad to have you home." For the first few days, I needed a little extra help with gopher type errands (go for this, go for that)... my nine year old daughter was so sweet to help without complaining all day long. It seemed like every time I needed something my son was busy with another task and she ended up doing the running.
It seems odd, and just a little sad to me that my older children have had to actually ponder my death. With my illness being so very obvious, they have not been able to ignore my lack of oxygen. We have had to train them about using 911, and what to do in an emergency. I know that with this surgery in particular, the older two were more aware of how serious the situation was. While I worry that this is a bad thing; I can see our situation shaping their character in positive ways. That, at least, is one positive aspect of a generally negative experience.
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My children have been through a lot, too, with my illness and surgeries and then having their Dad have cancer and then open heart surgery. It's been a tough 3 years around here. However, I do believe that it builds a strength of character in our children and also in us. It's not pleasant, in fact, I could have done with out it, but I'm glad the Lord used it for His good in our lives.
I hope you're feeling better and stronger after your surgery!
I am glad you are feeling better. I have been praying for you all week. It's so sweet that your children are helping. : )
I'm sure it is difficult for the whole family.
Pam
Amy,
I hadn't checked in in a while. I didn't realize you were having surgery. I hope you are recovering well.
I am so glad your children are able to help out that is good.
Lori
The bottom line is; We try not to insist on parent-led learning or gravitate toward child-led learning. We try instead to focus on God-led learning and ask for His input and perspective on every aspect of our home school. That way, when others fuss about what Dan and I are doing and make me second guess our decisions -- I can go back to our decision process and find God's fingerprints, reminding me that this is His way.
