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Apr. 13, 2008

My journey to Tapestry of Grace

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I have had several friends ask me about the curriculum I use - Tapestry of Grace - lately.  It is that time of year when we are all re-evaluating our homeschools and looking ahead to next year so I thought I would share the reasons why I chose this curriculum and why it works for my family.
First of all, let me start with a brief description of Tapestry (TOG):

Tapestry of Grace (TOG) is a unit study curriculum that covers most of the major subject areas for students in grades K through 12. Some features that make it especially appealing are Christian worldview studies incorporated throughout the curriculum, a chronological approach to history as the basic organizing theme, and a classical education approach based on the grammar, dialectic, and rhetoric stages of learning.  Subject areas covered include history, English (writing and literature), fine arts, some science, geography, church history including missions (more extensively covered than I recall seeing in most other curricula), Bible, and history of fine arts and sciences (reflecting a classical approach). You will need to use other resources for phonics, English grammar, math, foreign languages, and high school lab sciences. (From Cathy Duffy's 100 top picks)

We have homeschooled from the beginning and our boys are now 8, 12, 13, & 17.   I have used just about every curriculum under the sun in my quest for the one that works for our family.  NO curriculum will be right for everyone but if you have several children in wide age ranges then Tapestry might be beneficial to your family.  I will mention a few curriculums in this post - not to say they are not good curriculums - but they just did not work for our family and I will share with you why.

When I began homeschooling, I set up "school" in my home - after all, it is "HOME SCHOOLING" right!  We said our pledge to the flag, had little desks, the whole nine yards.  Complete with our Abeka textbooks/workbooks.  One for each subject.  This went on for a while but I ended up realizing that this was pretty boring!  I was becoming a slave to these workbooks and while my boys were doing the work, they just were not enjoying it.  I did not want them to end up hating school!  I felt like I was just duplicating a classroom at home.  I wanted them to learn how to learn - and not just finish workbooks. 
So, I tried a literature based curriculum - Sonlight - because of the rich literature and read alouds that we could do as a family. Sonlight was like a breath of fresh air!  We had so much fun with the great books that we read aloud or independently - we learned so much and really enjoyed it. 
But, having 4 different children it became quite expensive and a lot of work for me.  One child would be studying ancient China while another would be studying the American Revolution at the same time!  Sorry to be blunt but that was just stupid - what was I thinking! 
So then I tried unit studies - KONOS - at least we would all be studying the same things right?  That was true but it ended up being a LOT of work for me as far as research.  Also, the jumping around in history drove me nuts.  It just didn't make sense to me.  Another down side was that the majority of the history was US history or major ancient history themes (egypt, knights, etc.)  A lot of connections were lost in this method.
A lot of other curriculums were tried in between the examples above and all have their pros and cons, but I am so thankful that the Lord led me to Tapestry.  It has everything I was looking for:  a curriculum that studies history chronologically, is from a christian worldview, has the family studying together, and uses living books and classics.  It even has lots of extra activities we can add in if we want to - such as ideas for projects, vocabulary, church history, timeline, and so much more.  And all the information and ideas I need to teach each week are all in one easy to use format.

I find that my boys learn so much more with this method of 
- interesting books
- chronological history, and
- family learning
so much better than dry text books!  When the whole family is learning together, my boys have that added support and motivation which is much more conducive to learning than just duplicating a typical class room - with typical school books.
Tapestry does have it's cons - it's size alone can seem overwhelming.  The author of Tapestry Marcia Sommerville (wife of HSLDA lawyer Scott Sommerville and mother of 6) explains that Tapestry is like a buffet where you pick and choose what you will use each week - just like a food buffet - you don't try everything!  Also, there is what they call the 4 week fog.  It really takes a while to get the hang of how this curriculum is best used.  I recommend that you get the free sample weeks that Tapestry offers.  Here are the links:
Go To Egypt  
Sail To The New World

I would also recommend that you get the free Explore Tapestry Packet.  It has more information in addition to a sample CD.  You can get it here:  Explore Tapestry Packet
Take your time and slowly look through the material.  Then spend time asking questions of current Tapestry users, and peruse the Tapestry forums.  I found that most Tapestry users are happy to talk about this curriculum, to share ideas and resources and answer any questions you may have.  I am not trying to say Tapestry is "the" best curriculum for everyone, or fits for everyone's homeschool, but for us, with Tapestry of Grace, I really feel like we are finally learning together - not just doing school!



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Apr. 13, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
I have three boys (10, 8 and 13) and we use TOG too. I banged my head up against a wall for years trying to DO Charlotte Mason. WE did workbooks/textbooks one year -boring- and I finally bought TOG. LOVE it and cannot say enough about it. I have converted about 4 families in my hs group and they love it too.
~Christy
http://isaiah5413.blogspot.com
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Apr. 13, 2008 - I Love TOG

Posted by LivingByDailyGrace
I have been using TOG for a little over a year now. I love it. I was history teacher in the public schools so I have appreciate the Christian perspective on history this curriculum has brought. unfortunately, I have found that it really hard to do the whole thing when I have really small children. My children are (almost) DD9, DS7, DD5, DS 3, and DS1. So I am it using only as my history base and just notebooking right now. I just don't have time to do the projects and such with my older two. Although it did just occur to me that they might be able to do the projects on their own as they enter the upper grammar stage. My older two children are 9 and 7. My 7 yod isn't your typical 7 yod and works on or above the level of his sister. My greatest struggle is trying to figure out how the writing portion can be fit into our days. we have another baby (our last) on the way so we've decided to just take a very relaxed approach to school until the baby is a little older. But I won't let go of TOG. I just love it too much. We're working slowly through it right now. I can't wait until my children are all old enough to really dig deeper. :)

In His Grace,

Karen
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Apr. 13, 2008 - TOG

Posted by momto7
Thanks for answering all the questions I had about this curriculum in your post. I'm more excited about this coming year than I've been in a loooong time! It seems to be set up to help us accomplish what we've wanted all along.

Great post. Very helpful.

Kari
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Apr. 14, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by MayTheyBeMightyMen
Of all of the posts you've done that I've read, this one is a "top pick" for me. I'm a little disheartened at what we've used and tried and hated. To be honest, I've wondered what would work.

Friends have suggested Konos. At first glance, that seemed a reasonable choice. What you mention about hopping around history is probably what would drive me nuts, too. My kids would have no problem, as they are happy with short spurts of activities, whether connected or disjointed. I, however, feel it's best to try periods of time that are building on each other the way history actually occurred. We can never isolate a decade, for instance, and ignore the contributions made to it by previous decades. Nor can we ignore the impact the studied decade will have on the following decades. ('Nuff said.)

I know I can't afford some of the curriculum out there. Let's face it, we are prepared to invest in our children's education, but we have our limits.

I dream of finding one of those "dream deals" or finding a friend who is not using something I can use for awhile. God will provide. We know that. ;')

I was just thrilled to read your post, and I needed you to know that! *grin* It affirms something I was thinking before with only a couple of brief intros with a couple of the mentioned "attempts" in your post.

Thanks!
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Apr. 14, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
I've been looking at ToG to see if I might want to start using it eventually. (Not this coming year, unless I could get Yr 4 used-- don't want to buy it since it's not yet 'redesigned".) It's set up the way I like to do things anyway --history-based with lots of lit & writing tied in. Now if only I could be certain that, for all the money I'd spend, I'd actually *follow* the curriculum! (Despite my best intentions, I always end up tweaking curriculum to the point where it becomes merely a "base" for making my own plan.)

Thanks for stopping by my blog! I've enjoyed browsing yours & I'm sure I'll be back.

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Apr. 14, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by 40winkzzz
Errgghh, sorry-- forgot to log in on the previous comment.
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Apr. 15, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
Dee,
I should pay you for all of this information. It's a huge help to me. I love your blog. Keep up the good work.
Kim
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Apr. 16, 2008 - TOG

Posted by earlyriser430
Thanks so much for taking the time and energy to post about TOG -- I've been curious for quite sometime about it and now I'm motivated to look into it more ~ Blessings, EMichelle
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Apr. 16, 2008 - Are you sure you haven't been looking over my shoulder?

Posted by kinchina
I could have written your post! My road to ToG has been very similar. I can't wait to get started next year!

K
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Apr. 17, 2008 - HELP!

Posted by Juliestew
Thanks for stopping by my blog. I love yours. And since you have boys and they are older than mine I have a question for you . It's a hard one. Ya ready?
My oldest son (9) questions our authority, has struggles with obedience and kindness. I'd love your input if you have one in your brood like that and the things that have worked for you guys.
Julie
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Apr. 21, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by MayTheyBeMightyMen
I really like the new "tweaks" to your blog. (Did I just overlook them before, or are they really new?) Nice picture of you. Nice little signature-thingy, too!
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Apr. 22, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by FruitfulFamily
I'm so glad you shared this. I have six children (5 of which are boys). My oldest just turned 9. I am struggling with how to do everything and what would be best to use. I never did the workbook thing (just didn't match with my educational philosophy). But I did buy KONOS (all of it---LOL). It was too much planning for me. I had $100 in library fines, and I am not a craft/project person. I didn't understand how to do many of the projects. So all 3 volumes plus other accessories sit on the bookshel. I think I should sell them! I looked at TOG last year, but decided to go with TruthQuest History. I looked at TOG 2 days ago, and I said I'd consider it when my oldest 3 get a little older. Thanks for sharing!!! Do you have any other curriculu, suggestions (all subjects)? What does your day look like (or what did it look like when the children were a little younger)? How did you get all the school work done. I fall short daily.
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Apr. 22, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by socalval
THis is great - I love how you explained the curriculum. I'm hosting Weblink Wednesday tomorrow if your intereted in coming by and taking a look. Lots of FREE weblinks. You are welcome to participate, too.

Have a great day.

Valerie
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