Now I’m the type of person who wants to have lots of kids (like at least 10), so I want to start having kinds shortly after getting married. And seeing how I want to get married young, nether me will have finest collage (that is if all things go the way I would want them to go), we (my wife and i) my want to go to different collages, so what will we do. Well I will let her go to her collage first (if that’s what she wants but if she wants me to go first I will) and I will work and if we have any kids yet (assuming there past the point where they need to stay with their mom) I will take care of them while she does her schooling . And when it’s my turn to do my schooling she will take care of the kinds while I do my schooling. Now this is something that both my wife and I will have to be willing to do for the other. This may not work for everyone, I know that. It also depends on whether she wants to go to college. But if she does I will make that sacrifices for her, and I believe if I find “her” she will too.

I want to talk about the benefits of doing marriage and collage this way. First off, it will show right up front that we are willing to make sacrifices for each other. This will show us that we are truly committed to the other. Another benefit is that if my wife or I is taking a class that we don’t understand but the other one does, it will help us see and remember that we complete each other. This will help us chose the class’s we take, if I know the my wife is far better at this or that then I am, I will know that I don’t have to stress over it, or try to put more time in that, rather than improver and adding onto the gifts I know God has put inside of me. We will be able to know the type of ministry we’re going to go into much better than if we wanted till we both finished our schooling and got settled down in a ministry.

Now most collages have houses or apartments for married couples so there are no problems there. We could help pick the classes the other was going to take, and even help them study. Now I will admit that it would be much easier if we waited to have kids, but we’ll work it out ether way.

Now again I will say that this may not work for everyone, but that’s not because it is wrong. This form of marriage can only work one if you find the right one when you’re young, two both have to want to it this way, three you have to be seeking god with your whole hart both of you. The lack of one of these and I don’t think it would work at all. This form of partnership is in my mind the best form; you go though all your studies together, so you really know each other’s strengths and weaknesses. You get to start your own life together from the beginning.