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Jul. 22, 2008

the teen's place

Ok everyone, so I just wanted to thank you all for you suggestions.  I know it took me a long time to write a new entry, but I’ve been at camp (well I’m still at camp, but I have more time now). So I’ve been thinking and I am going to write about teens. I’ll be talking about what we as teen should aspect from other teen, adults and where our place is in the Church, our homes, and also the world. So this is also going to be split into a few parts, I’m not sure how many but I know it will be a few. So let’s get started.

First I’ll start with how I feel we should look at and be with other teens. Now just in case you didn’t know I am 18 (but I will be 19 in September) so I’m a teen too. How should we as teens be towards each other? We really need to spot be so disrespectful, if we want to be respected by others (adults, kids, teens, and God), as of now we teens as a howl do not deserve respect, we (as a howl) don’t give respect to other therefore we should not get any.  We need to stop being rude, we need to show and be responsibility. All this crud joking must stop (Ephesians 5:3-7 “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. For of this you can be sure: no immoral, impure or greedy person- such a man is an idolater- has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. Therefore do not be partners with them. ) we need to not even let others around us do them. We need to start being uplifting to one and other, all this teasing needs to come to an end. The sarcasm doesn’t help anyone. We are to use our words to help others and bring good things to the ears of those who hear us talk.

Now I don’t want you to think I’m perfect in this, because I’m really not. This is something that’s been on my mind for a long time now, and I am trying to keep a tight range on my tongue (James 1: 26-27). I know it’s hard and I don’t want to make it sound easy, because it’s not, if anyone tells you it is THEY  ARE  LEIING!!!! This is going to be something that you are always going to have to be conches of; you are going to have to work very very hard at this. But this needs to become not what we practice, but it needs to become a life style.

It goes farther than this, we need to be more than anyone expects, many people don’t expect anything from us so it’s easy to just not try doing great things. But is that how we should be? Are we not telling them that there is no rezone to have any faith in us accomplishing anything good? What then should we do to get them to know we can do great thing and be great people, who they can and should expect great things from? By doing thing on our own that they may not have even asked us to do, think about it. If we chose to learn to do things we will have to do when we’re on our own now. What will that show to those who think poorly of us? When we show we have a plane of where we are going in life, will that not show that we can go places? I want you to try this out, and tell me what you do and then what happens after you do it.

This is really something for us to work on. Let’s show every one that we can give and therefore deserve respect, let’s show then and we are responsible and therefore deserve more responsibilities. Let’s show them that we can be great roll models, and therefore deserve better ones from them.

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Jul. 23, 2008 - teens

Posted by megjo
Thanks for posting brett. I agree with you. Although sarcasm and teasing are those of my favorite things I think I do need to work on this. I think That some teasing and sarcasm is okay to a point as long as it is not crude or disreceptful.
the rest of what you said sounds like
what the harris twins have to say.

ttyl
reby

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ok so i think you know that i do bolth these thing too, and as you saw i do them alot, but i'll ask again how is it helpfull? im trying to not do it, and yes it dose not always harm someone but how do you know when it dose and dosnt?

In Him
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 10:43 AM
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Jul. 24, 2008 - <em>Untitled Comment</em>

Posted by Psycho
dude, I totally agree. Why do you think people think poorly of teens? Because we (as a whole) act poorly! And none of what you're pointing out from the Bible is easy to follow, and thank you for being brave enough to do so.

~Psycho
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hey there, thank you for understanding and agreeing, we are told in the bible that the things in life that are good and right and what God wants will be dificult to do. but we're also told that we will have help, when we stay with what God wants He bless's us with more.

Christ's Love
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 10:46 AM
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Jul. 25, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
Brett, I really like this post. I think what you've said is true, crude joking and a huge amount of sarcasm. is rude and immature.

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Jul. 26, 2008 - Hey Brett

Posted by SuperAngel
I agree! If the teenagers of the world would act like young adults instead of teenagers, there would be a better view of them! I get along so much better with adults than teenagers, because I have sorta taken myself out of the teenager culture.

Sarcasm is just a form of mocking. The Bible talks alot about mocking.
Isaiah 28:22
Now therefore be ye not mockers, lest your bands be made strong: for I have heard from the Lord GOD of hosts a consumption, even determined upon the whole earth.


If you look at the word "mock" in the new testament, you will that the only mockers were the romans, and the pharisees that mocked Jesus before He died. I do not want to place myself in their midst by mocking others!
Here is one that I thought was very important for this day and age is: Jude 1:18
How that they told you there should be mockers in the last time, who should walk after their own ungodly lusts.

Sorry for the rant! :) great article, Brett!
Miss Amanda
http://superangelsblog.com

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Miss Amanda, you should know that this is the place to "rant"...lol. these are thing that should get our blood pumping and set us into a righteous rage. we should burn with the fire of God and do all we can to turn this around. when we start feeling ok about thats when we know we have let it go way to far.

be filled with His Fire
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 10:55 AM
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Jul. 26, 2008 - :)

Posted by Anonymous
i think everything you said inn all of your blogs is so true. you make life seem so easy. but question for you, teens these days are so complicated, how can you ever tell who is the one? have you ever felt that way with anyone? and do you go out with Allysa? sounds like it

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ok well...first if it sounds like it easy re-read my post i said in it that its not, no matter what anyone eles tells you life is not easy we all know this and im sorry for making it sound like it is. The only thing i can tell about knowing if someone is the one is, when your talking with God and asking His all the time to show you He will. but no one can tell you how you will feel or what it will be like. and as to your Question if i've ever felt that way....im not sure how to answer you because im trying to deside if its God telling me or me telling me knowing that it must be in Gods time.

Say ture to God
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 9:54 PM
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Jul. 29, 2008 - <em>Untitled Comment</em>

Posted by Azrael2112314
I think you make some sold points here, Brett. I think we fall fall victim to the mocking and the sarcasm every now and then.

I gotta agree with the person above who said she gets along better with adults rather than teenagers. With a lot of "typical" teens these days I feel out of place. I may feel a bit out of place with adults but much less so, though I do feel as if I can communicate to them better than I can with most teens.

Premo post, dude. :)

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hey man, thanx for the input... i agree with bolth you and miss amanda, i also get along beter with most adults, but when i find teens that feel the same way i cherish that relationship. we need to help eachother not fall into this thing.

With Gods Help
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 11:17 AM
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Jul. 30, 2008 - be my friend

Posted by ellie your little sister
hi brett, i have a blog now. check it out.
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Jul. 30, 2008 - hello again

Posted by elliec
mom said check your email
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Jul. 30, 2008 - your Mom is online!

Posted by julieclem
Be careful little eyes what you see
Be careful little ears what you hear
Be careful little mouths what you say
Be careful little hands what you do

Because your Father up above is looking down with LOVE
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Jul. 31, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by AnAmericanGirl
I have a prayer request, please come check it out. Thanks!!!
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Aug. 1, 2008 - Don't be like that.

Posted by Anonymous
B to the r to the e to the tt.
Thanks for reassuring me on my worrys.
my arm hurts.
speaking of teenagers I have to go to the public highschool,And personally ...I am frightend
But I am going to have a super awesome friend take me...he rocks.. he's like a brother.
I am a super dork lol...
p.s. what did you think of the bike thing?
I will sign of as...hmmm...
rebecca..sorry I forgot
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so this really cool guy who took you there whats he like...LOL your not a dork.

IN HIm
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 11:19 AM
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Aug. 1, 2008 - Question

Posted by Anonymous
Hey Brett,
I know your marriage topic was a few post back, but i have a question for ya, what are you opinions on women proposing? Yeh its normally the man doing it, but what if the women thinks they are ready and the guy wont step up. What do you think about that?

And by the way, i love all your blogs, i wish there was a guy like you in my town/school. The girl that gets your heart is a very lucky girl.

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im not going to answer this right now but i may blog about it later. and as for there not being a guy like me (not all to shure what thats means) im sure there are Godly guys nere you ask God to open you eyes.

In His time
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 11:22 AM
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Aug. 1, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
To the commenter above, I would be worried about on-line crushes. Lucky? Pleeeeeeaaaaaazzzzz!!!
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Aug. 1, 2008 - Hey!

Posted by Allysa
Hey Brett! I love this post, you did a great job. I think it is a very profitable idea to spend more time monitoring what we say. There are things that we say in a joking,sarcastic manner that still hurt. Hope camp is going well and all of your campers are treating you well.
Allysa

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hey Allysa, im glad you see that. its so important for us to think through everything befor saying thing being slow to speak, is not only what word should i use but also is this the right thing to say or diside. i can say that you do this very well, keep it up.

May God Keep your eyes open
do all things in His time
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 11:26 AM
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Aug. 7, 2008 - next blog.

Posted by Anonymous
hey Brett,
could you do your next blog on what you think about on gay marriages. and what we should do to people who are gay?

i just want someone else's opinion.

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not my next one but i may blog about it sometime.

God Strong
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 11:27 AM
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Aug. 9, 2008 - <em>Untitled Comment</em>

Posted by Sam
Brett, what are your thoughts on birth control? do you think it should be used in a christian marriage? for instance, if my future wife didn't want to have kids right away do you think it would be ok if she used birth control. I wouldn't mind, but I was just wondering if you thought it was biblical.
later!

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hey sam its cool to hear from a guy im glad to have two here now...i know i've told you in person what i think about this but if there are other people want to hear what i think about this i will blog about it later.
thanx for the post

Christ's love
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 12:08 PM
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Aug. 16, 2008 - done

Posted by Anonymous
okay brett so ive read all the post allll the comment and some of your sermons. are ya pleased now? :]
hehe

-Andyyy

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hey andy yes im happy now...lol

God Bless
brett

Edited by brettmitchell on Aug. 16, 2008 at 11:30 AM
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Aug. 16, 2008 - Untitled Comment

Posted by brettmitchell
ok well sorry its taken me so long to write back, i've been really buisy and the past 2 days have been really bad. but now i will reply to all your comments, but im going to do it diferantly. i am going to write on your comments and not write one big one because i'll forget somthing. so if you want to know what i was going to say about any of the things said go back a check the comment. thax for all the input, it means alot.

In Christ
brett
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