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"I want my daughters to be beautiful, accomplished, & good; to be admired, loved, & respected; to have a happy youth, to be well & wisely married, & to lead useful, pleasant lives, w/as little care & sorrow to try them as God sees fit to send. To be loved & chosen by a good man is the best & sweetest thing which can happen to a woman; & I sincerely hope my girls may know this beautiful experience. It is natural to think of it, Meg; right to hope & wait for it, & wise to prepare for it; so that, when the happy time comes, you may feel ready for the duties & worthy of the joy. My dear girls, I am ambitious for you, but not to have you make a dash in the world, -- marry rich men merely because they are rich, or have splendid houses, which are not homes because love is wanting. Money is a needful & precious thing, -- &, when well used, a noble thing, -- but I never want you to think it is the 1st or only prize to strive for. I'd rather see you poor men's wives, if you were happy, beloved, contented, then queens on thrones, w/o self-respect & peace... "...better be happy old maids than unhappy wives, or unmaidenly girls, running about to find husbands," said Mrs. March decidedly. "Don't be troubled, Meg; poverty seldom daunts a sincere lover. Some of the best & most honored women I know were poor girls, but so love-worthy that they were not allowed to be old maids. Leave these things to time; make this home happy, so that you may be fit for homes of your own, if they are offered you, & contented here if they are not. One thing remember, my girls: mother is always ready to be your confidant, father to be your friend; & both of us trust & hope that our daughters, whether married or single, will be the pride & comfort of our lives." ~~Marmee -- from "Little Women" ch. 9.
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Well, 16 years ago, when we started homeschooling, we knew this day would come. But I can't believe how QUICKLY it did! Saturday, we graduated, Jenna - our 'baby'! She didn't want the big outdoor ceremony like we did for Jasper in '06 (http://www.homeschoolblogger.com/Buckeyeblog/153294/) , she just wanted an open house - a more social event. We DID, however, still get her a tassle &, of course, a diploma. And I am still putting together her memory book. It was a beautiful day & we had over 100 people between 1-9:30p.m.! One of Jenna's dearest friends, Hannah S., put together a great slide show that was repeating on our T.V. whenever anyone wanted to take a retreat from the slightly high humidity or get a piece of cake (kept inside so it wouldn't melt - lol) after their hambergers & hotdogs. It was a great day! Here are a few pics for you to enjoy...
Jenna w/some of her Besties!
Jasper (DD#1 on right) w/life-long bestie, Beth, & her new beau!
Ty (in the middle)...a.k.a....Daddy...a.k.a....my sweeite...a.k.a....grill master! And co-horts.
Proud grandparents.
Various awards, trophies, newpaper articles, graduation tassle, diploma, Golden Angels homeschool volleyball team pics, etc.
THE diploma. (Thanks HSLDA!)
VOLLEYBALL!!!!!!!!!
It was a great day! Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<>< |
And what's a cookout w/old friends if it doesn't end in a grudge water fight?! (There's history behind those water fights!) lol Posted in Homeschool
USA Today Gets Homeschool Story WrongMedia Relations Department
June 16, 2009 On May 28, 2009 USA Today published a story based on a report from the National Center for Education Statistics (NCES), which is part of the Federal Department of Education, titled “The Condition of Education 2009.” The headline of the USA Today story was “Profound shift in kind of families who are homeschooling their children.” A few days later the title was changed to “More higher-income families are homeschooling their children.” Regrettably, among other problems with the article, USA Today made one blatant error and one very misleading claim. The blatant error is USA Today’s statement that homeschoolers are increasingly white. We do not understand how USA Today can reach this conclusion. Simply by reading the NCES report you will discover that the estimates for white homeschoolers, as a percentage of the entire homeschool population, were 75.3% in 1999, 77% in 2003 and 76.8% in 2007. The obvious conclusion is that for the years 1999–2007 white homeschoolers consistently represented just over three-quarters of the homeschool population. HSLDA asked the NCES to comment on the USA Today article. Below is a statement from JoAnn Webb, a spokesman for the NCES, “The percentage of all homeschoolers who are White, non-Hispanic has not changed over this period (in the mid-70 percent range).” Another misleading claim, as the revised title for the story states, is that more higher-income families are homeschooling their children. Again, USA Today failed to correctly read the report. In order to make their point, USA Today defines “higher-income” as families whose household income is over $50,000. How many people really consider $50,000 in household income “higher-income?” For comparison, according to the U.S. Census Bureau, in 2006 married-couple families with one or more related children under age 18, the median nationwide income was $74,049. It is very misleading for USA Today to boldly assert that more “higher-income” families are homeschooling when out of the 60% of families they cite as being “higher-income” — (26.8% in the $50,001–$75,000 bracket and 33.2% in the $75,001 or more bracket) the 26.8% that USA Today believes to be “higher-income” actually have below average incomes. Also, as has been confirmed by the NCES, the income figures between 1999 and 2007 were not adjusted for inflation. This means that the same type of person answering the NCES survey in 1999 that fell in the $25,001–$50,000 income bracket could easily find themselves in the $50,001–$75,000 bracket in 2007 since an income of $45,000 in 1999 becomes $55,518.63 in 2007 after adjusting for inflation. It’s a shame that in an era when hundreds of diverse media outlets are able to accurately report on the homeschool movement a major newspaper has made such simple errors. Perhaps the writer was just in a rush to be first, since his story was published on the day the NCES report was released online, or perhaps he has an agenda to falsely paint homeschoolers as rich and white, thereby dismissing the full range of people who are making tremendous sacrifices on limited budgets to ensure that the next generation receives the best education and upbringing available. Either way USA Today should make additional corrections to their factually inaccurate story. |
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From my latest installment of The Old Farmer's Almanac newsletter... Combating Critters |
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...my mom was diagnosed with dementia leading into Alheimer's. My brother & I have some hard decisions to make. Please keep my family in your prayers. Thanks.
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Posted in Miami County Ohio Homeschooling
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I am selling our 8' x 4' chalkboard that was from the original Troy Christian School. It is in great condition & I am asking $150.00. I will even include the eraser & chalk! Haha. It served us very well for 11 of our 16 years of homeschooling.
I am also selling my complete set of YEAR 1 Tapestry of Grace -
Unfortunately, b/c of time & shipping expense - & b/c my DH is laid off - I'm only offering this to local folks who can come & pick up these goodies. By "LOCAL" I mean anyone from Miami, Montagomery, Preble, Clark, Darke, Shelby, Greene, Champaigne & other Ohio counties local to Miami. If you have any questions, let me know. Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<>< |
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Yesterday, my DH & I deep cleaned our school room (A.K.A. the laundry room, the computer room). We found things tucked - or stuffed - away that we had forgotting about. Things we hadn't seen in years. LOTS of memories after 16 years of homeschooling. It surprised & some-what saddened me that the girls didn't want to keep certain things; and as I don't want to be a pack-rat, I didn't keep them, either. We are keeping certain things b/c of sentiment & b/c our girls will most likely homeschool their children (HOPING that it is STILL LEGAL by then). Books and resources covering all age/grade levels; particularly those wonderful old readers that were once my grandmother's or my mother's or mine; and especially the McGuffey Reader's, Ray's Arithmetic, classics & old home-keeping manuals. But there are other books and resources we are keeping for other reasons. We are keeping their high school History, Government & Science books b/c, as things are changing so quickly in America, even IF homeschooling should be legal when our DDs homeschool their children, we fear that it will be strickly controlled. They may not be able to purchase books and resources containing GOD'S TRUTH about the Sciences or they may contain even more revisionist history than our public schools already spew. We want our children to be able to teach our grandchildren TRUTH. God's truth, as it applies to these subjects. We continue to pray for our beloved America, but we look to the East, as well. Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<>< |
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Outside my window...Grey, drizzly, unseasonably cool. Take THAT Al Gore! I am thinking...about the business I'm praying about starting. From the learning rooms...preparations for DD#2's homeschool graduation! I am thankful for...the small savings we had when DH got laid off 2 months ago & having been already living frugally so that not having a severance hasn't crushed us. From the kitchen...stir fry w/rice for lunch; not sure about supper. I am wearing...jeans, blue t-shirt, brown zippered hoodie. I am reading...'starting a small business' websites. I am hoping...that I have the nerve to continue on w/the small business & that my business plan is ok. I am creating...a cleaned-out school room. I am hearing...the radio. Around the house...deep cleaning the school room. So weird to think that I don't need to keep school planning in the back of my mind all summer. One of my favorite things...my log front porch swing. A few plans for the rest of the week...cleaning, cleaning, cleaning; weeding herb garden, various graduation open houses... Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you...
Blessings from Ohio, Kim Wolf<>< |
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{This is the script of one of the speeches I give on Christian women's issues.} Have you ever thought of your life as being touched with destiny? Everyone one of us here…no matter the circumstances of our birth, no matter the home life we were born into, no matter our economic status – or lack there-of – have been born with the plan of God in mind. Our choice is if we will allow God to use us. Those of us who are mothers probably remember the moment we found out we were expecting for the first time. Oh, remember all those day-dreams of pink and blue. Of all the pretty little ruffles and bows we would dress our little girl in – or – as our husbands would remind us – the choice of whether our baby’s room would be decorated in …and the prayers… “Oh Lord, am I ready for this? I thought I was, now I don’t know…cause it’s gonna hurt! But, it will be worth it because I know You’ll give me the sweetest tempered, most loveable, most huggable, happy, compliant baby…but….just in case it should cry, just in case it should get sick…am I ready for this?” No matter how much we pretended to be the best mommy when we were little girls, no matter how many younger siblings we helped take care of when we were growing up, no matter how many families we babysat for when we were teenagers…there’s NOTHING like having your own baby, is there? So many things that Mom never told you about! Everything from how morning sickness doesn’t actually end at noon, to how fatigue can hit you like a smack in the face, to how much you will LOVE that baby. Isn’t it funny how changing YOUR baby’s diapers was never as bad as changing those of other babies? And no one can ever tell you about how that love will show you the heart of God and how He loves His children. Especially when it comes to what we will have to face – good and bad – when it comes to our children. Do you think that we break our heavenly Father’s heart when we disobey? Do you think, as our heavenly Father, that God’s arms burn to hold us and comfort us when He knows our future and the things that must pass, the furnaces we must walk through to become the children and have the testimony He wants us to have? I do. My husband, Ty, and I married in the fall of 1984. Our marriage began in a little country church on a beautiful fall day filled with my favorite spectrum of colors…yellows, golds, rusts, reds, burgundies, and the deeper greens of autumn. I took my farm-boy out of the country into Oh, mothers, aren’t those 1st months of pregnancy “great”?! Where were you when your 1st bout of morning sickness hit you? Mothers, and we ARE mothers during pregnancy, soon find out that our sweet little ¼” long babies cause our body to take on a mind of it’s own! My babies told my body to eat things like Taco Bell bean burritos, raspberries and ice cold tomatoes w/salt and pepper. What did yours like? Well, as with all things related to time, days turned into weeks and weeks into months. In the latter months I soon found myself so swollen that I had to switch shoes at least 3 times a day…each one gradually a little looser fitting. Then I noticed that I had NO ankles! And in the last month I had about 3 shirts and 2 pairs of pants that I could fit into…including a pair of my husband’s old sweat pants w/the elastic taken out! On my next trip to the Dr., he very quietly, very calmly told me, “I’m not worried about the baby, so don’t YOU worry, but I want to you go home, pack your bags, call your husband and have him take you the hospital. We’re going to admit you TODAY.” Well, how do you NOT worry about a thing like that? I was still 15 days short of my due date. Well, you know how those pregnancy hormones are…I told myself that since the Dr. wasn’t worried about the baby that I could handle this change of plans. It wasn’t until my husband came home to get me that I realized that something must be wrong w/ME and as soon as the door opened I fell into his poor, confused arms and sobbed. Once we got to the hospital, we went through the admitting process and I was astounded at the weight I’d gained in a week. I was also shocked that the nurses were so shocked that my legs were the same size from my hip to my ankle. Didn’t all preggos swell like this? I was equally concerned when they didn’t say ANYTHING after they took my blood pressure. When my Dr. came in, he again reassured me that the baby was fine but that I had Toxemia and I had to stay in bed until the baby was born b/c I had retained so much fluid and my blood pressure was at pre-stroke level. Mind you…he was saying this in the calmest way possible so that my blood pressure wouldn’t go up even more!! Five days passed, not only was my swelling and water gain not going down, but neither was my blood pressure. The decision was made to take our predicted 10 lb boy by c-section the next day. Before 7a.m. I was wheeled into surgery with my sweet, nervous hubby following behind me. I remember a sweet little nurse popping her head over mine as I lay on the table, saying, “Do you realize that in 5 minutes you’re going to me a mommy?!” FIVE MINUTES!! Before I knew it, the Dr. told my frightened husband to look over the little curtain to see what he had. All I can say is that LIGHT absolutely BEAMED from my husband’s face. Whatever our baby was, I knew then and there that it was beautiful. Then, to the shock of us all, the Dr. said, “It’s a GIRL!” A 7lb. 10 oz. 19” long precious baby girl! Jessica had come to join our family! The worst part about having a c-section is that all you can do after is sleep. It’s also the protocol for many hospitals to keep c-section babies in the nursery for 4 hours before bringing them into the mother’s rooms. Just in case we ever wondered, this was another opportunity for God to show us that He was watching out for our little family. During an exam a nurse noticed that the tube she was using to suction Jessica’s nose with turned and came out the other side. Just to make sure, she did it again. Same result. This was a clue that she needed to get the Dr. in to verify a suspicion…after x-rays the suspicion proved correct. Jessica was born with a Trechial Esophogial Fistula. Her esophagus actually grew into her lungs instead of going into her stomach. If I would have nursed her after birth, she could have drowned. Immediately, the decision was made to take her to Children’s for surgery. The surgeon assured us that this happens in 1 in 4,000 births and that he personally does 2 of these surgeries a month. She was other-wise very healthy and because of that she sailed through a 9 hour surgery in 4 hours! In a few days, like so many other babies w/a fistula, she also had to have a trache put in. Believe me, there’s NOTHING like your baby watching every move you make while you put in her trache tube for the 1st time! The Drs were all very encouraging and she came home 5 weeks and 1 days after she was born. Jessica was home! There may be doubters, but I’m telling you that she KNEW she was home! She slept soundly and comfortably and learned to laugh in our home. One cold January, on a Saturday morning, when Jessica was 12 weeks and 4 days old, my husband got up to change her diaper and have a little Daddy Time w/her so I could get 5 more minutes in our warm bed. I heard a noise and looked up as Ty came running wide-eyed into our room. “I’m calling an ambulance! Something’s wrong w/Jessica!” I went in and she was still breathing but was limp and ashen. Everything was such a rush! The EMT’s came in, looked at her, and after taking her vitals and using a hand pump over her trache, they snatched up my baby, ran down the stairs and put her in the ambulance. I tried to get in the back but they pushed me up to the front seat w/the driver. I can tell you EXACTLY when she left this world. We were crossing the We got to Children’s and I watched them run, carrying my sweet baby into the ER…and I waited for Ty to get there as he had driven behind us. We were ushered into a little room where we called our parents and prayer warrior friends. There was a young lady who was the clergy on duty that morning who was assigned to us. I told her, “Listen, we’re Christians and I don’t want you praying any pansy prayers like you would w/unbelievers clinging to anything they can. If you pray…then you PRAY!” We prayed. She would come in and out and give us up-dates. Finally, after an hour and a half, the Dr came in and told us that she was gone. They tried so hard but she wouldn’t stay. My baby? MY BABY?! My baby that I’d had her name picked out since I was 15 years old? My baby that I sang “Jesus Loves Me” to my whole pregnancy so that she would know it when she was born? My baby that I had nearly died to have? Oh God! What has happened to our world? God, did You feel this way when Jesus died and had to be separated from You before the resurrection? How do we live through this? How DO I live through this? In John 6 Jesus told the nearly 150 disciples that to follow Him they had to eat His flesh and drink His blood. Vs. 60 says, “On hearing it, many of his disciples said, ‘This is a hard teaching. Who can accept it?’” Many of them left until practically only the 12 remained. Jesus turned to them and said, “You do not want to leave too, do you?” And for once Peter didn’t have his foot in his mouth and he said one of the most profound things anyone trying to hang on to reality could ever remember: “Lord, to whom shall we go? YOU have the words of eternal life…” The next several days were a blur of shock and sadness, but we hung on to Jesus. My body still prepared itself to feed Jessica – but she wasn’t there; my arms ached to hold her – but she wasn’t there. After weeks of all the activity that surrounds a new baby, my world just seemed to stop. But I have to tell you ladies, that God IS still on the throne! He does lift us up and He does get us through. His Son didn’t leave this world w/o scars, why should we think we should be any different? When the smoke started to clear and we got slowly got back to living life, the Lord gave me a verse I have claimed as my life verse: 2 Cor. 1:3-4 – “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, Who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.” That’s destiny. Mothers, everything we go through has the purpose of destiny behind it. Jessica was put here not only to bless our lives for 3 months, but to teach us about the heart of God toward His children. We also had 2 miscarriages between Jessica and our other beautiful daughters, Jasper and Jenna. (Did you notice that God DID give us the 5 we prayed for? Just not the way we thought He would.) But we have been able to minister to others who have gone through those same things like no others can. Because we had Jesus to rely on, we have been able to step out and do more and say more than would ever have been possible before. The Lord used what we went through to make us strong and bold for His glory…not our own. Mothers, you have been chosen to do extraordinary things! Your attitude in the “mundane” is what teaches your daughters character and perseverance and joy in their home. Your “everyday” is what shows them that life is worth living because when they grow up, they will be blessed with the privilege of caring for their children. All the wiping of bottoms and noses, all the patty-cakes, all the same stories read over and over again, all the skinned knees, the chicken pox, the school lessons, re-learning new math, field trips, talks about the facts of life, first crushes and broken hearts, graduations…and letting go. Mothers, all these things have YOUR fingerprints on them! Your fingerprints are all over your children! Your destiny is them! Because God has touched your life with destiny, because everything that He has taken you through – even what seems so boring and mundane -- has taught you something that you can pass down to your children and, in the spirit of Titus 2, pass down to the younger mothers that you know. And because of that, the Lord has written about YOU in His Word… “She is clothed with strength and dignity; She can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, And faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household And does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her: ‘Many women do noble things, But you surpass them all.’ Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; But a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.” Now THAT’S destiny!
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