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Oct. 10, 2006

Think About It (my tribute to Laura)

Here's a question to consider:  If you could meet someone from the past, anyone, who would it be?  Leave me a comment and/or blog about it and let me know if you did.  There is no question who I'd want to meet:  Laura Ingalls Wilder.  That precious woman has been my inspiration for 34 years!  Ever since my mother (who volunteered in the library at my elementary school for 7 years) showed me the book, "On The Banks of Plum Creek", I have been a loyal fan of Laura's.  I have every book I could find that is written by her or about her.  I have an old taped recording of an interview she gave on an old radio show.  I've read books from the library about her daughter, Rose, and I think I once read a book by Rose, herself.  Rose was a well-known reporter in her day.  I love Laura's spirit, her determination, her bravery.  I also love the fact that she didn't start writing until she was older than I am.  She said she was too busy living life to write about it.  Because of her, I also have a fascination about the lives of pioneer women.  I know I'm a wimp compared to the women who lived the way of life described in letters and journals about that time period.  In Laura's writing, I find a strength of character, a love for the simple things in life, but also a bit of rebellion.  Being a bit of a rebel myself (ask my husband) I wonder if I got that trait from her as well!  It breaks my heart that her family suffered so many setbacks and some tragedies as well.  I've found this fact to be interesting:  Her mother gave birth to a son, Freddie, who lived just 9 months.  Laura, herself, had one daughter but also gave birth to a son who died shortly after.  And Rose gave birth to one child, a son, who lived only a short time also.  I've always wondered if it was genetic.  No way to find that out.  I digress ...

 

If I were to meet Laura, I would offer her tea.  I would ask a ton of questions and then I would sit back and listen, for as long as she wanted to talk.  She once said that to remember those things that happened so long ago, she would go back there in her mind and stay awhile.  Have you ever tried that?  In her time, she had no distractions like radio or TV and events that happened to her really stuck in her memory.  I've heard other women of a certain age say the same thing.  That makes me very sad.  Are there too many distractions in my life to be able to remember things well?  Something to ponder.  Anyway, I would probably want to know more about her life with her husband, Almanzo, since that's the period that isn't covered much by her, only through other writings.  I would want her to visit with me as long as she could.  And before she left, I would give her a big hug and thank her for being my inspiration and for sharing her life with the world.  She had no idea that her life would become so important to anyone when she was living it or writing about it.  I am currently reading "Little House In The Big Woods" to my children.  We've read several of her books together and some I think we've read twice.  I hope I am instilling in them the joy of reading her books. 

 

At a homeschool curriculum fair in Portland several years ago, I purchased a family photo album-type book about the Ingalls family.  As soon as we got in the car to leave, I opened up the book to the first page.  There, leaning against a tree stump, was Pa's fiddle and bow.  I started crying.  Everyone in the car was startled and I had to explain that it was like looking at something from my childhood.  No one and nothing in this life has inspired me as much as Laura.  She died just 6 years prior to my birth.  I was born too late.

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Oct. 11, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by appleleaf
Hi Kate,
I've recently read the first 3 "Little House" books to Emma. Just a few months ago when I'd finished reading her "On the Banks of Plum Creek" I was re-infected with "Little House" fever. I'd love to know is more of what life held in store for her sisters. I know Mary remained home with her parents and died within a short time of Ma, but Carrie and Grace were both married and I don't even know if they had any children. Interesting, what you said about the 3 generations of baby boys born to the Ingalls women, and very sad. I'd like to be a fly on the wall at that tea party of yours, but now that you've challenged me, I'll try to think of somebody else inspiring I'd like to invite.
Hey, it's great that your husband would fancy living in Australia. Why don't you all pay a visit to test it out? We could save you accomodation costs in the Adelaide region and show you some of the best South Aussie sights. It'd be great fun. Sad that air-fares are so pricey, as it'd be excellent to take our homeschooled families overseas.
Your blog is one of my favourites too. Somehow, after reading one of your posts, instead of typing a quick comment, I think of so much to say, it ends up as more of a letter, like this one.
Looking forward to your next one as always,
Paula
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Oct. 11, 2006 - Interesting thoughts!

Posted by cathmom
I am just finishing up reading the Little House series to my girls. I did know that about each having a son that died. I never thought about it being genetic though. To answer the other question, neither Carrie nor Grace had children. There are no living descendants of the most famous American family. I find that odd. I think the near starvation of the long winter affected Carrie greatly because of her age. In the later books, Laura is always describing her as weak, pale, tired, etc. Laura of course, was as strong as a little French horse!

I would love to visit the various sites, but I have no idea when I would ever get out west!
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Oct. 11, 2006 - Helen Keller is mine...

Posted by annointed
We share the same birthday, Miss Keller and I... and I have always been in awe of all she has accomplished despite the obstacles she endured. She has been one of the greatest inspriations in my own life, having had to overcome tragedies, including my own stepdads sudden tragic blindness when I was only 12. Somehow I felt connected to her strength during those years - became one of my dad's biggest encouragers to move beyond the limitations - he went on to climb Mt Whitney, repel off the cliffs of Palis Verde and walked the Coastline from Santa Barbara to the Mexican Border, all after being blinded. He is a champion!

I have just started reading her autobiography - it is fascinating to read her words... I feel as if I am sitting in a chair next to her as she reads aloud to me... my favorite quote - outside of the Bible is from Helen Keller: "If you keep your face towards the sun and you'll never see the shadows..." I have brought that into my own seminars and add God in the mix... my versiion: "Keep your face towards the SON and you will not see the shadows..."

RE: Laura Ingalls Wilder. My brother in law has a family connection. His last name is Whipple. I am not sure of all the details of the connection, but do know that he is a historian of sorts and is fascinating to listen to. He just registered the gravesite of the baby that died. It is located in Minnesota and He was recognized for the discovery in Kansas City this summer at an offical Ingalls center.

Pretty cool, huh?

I love your reaction to Pa's fiddle and Bow... so sweet....



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Oct. 11, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by DomesticGoddessInTraining
I love Laura too. I just found out last year, when reading "Little House in the Big Woods" to Emme, that she had written those books so late in her life! I was stunned that she had retained so much from her youth. We listened to "Little House in the Prairie" on audio at the end of this summer too -- I could picture everything clear as day.

Have you read the Charlotte or Martha years? Those were written by Melissa Wiley. Her blog is http://melissawiley.typepad.com/bonnyglen/ She and her family are driving cross country right now from W. Virginia to California to meet up with her husband at their new home. I love her blog and can't wait to read her books!

And if I could sit down to tea with anyone, it would be my grandma, except she'd want a twinkie with peanut butter and a cup of coffee, heavy on the cream :)

Sherry
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Oct. 16, 2006 - Wonderful post!

Posted by anise
I love LIW too. I haven't read everything she's written, though, like you have but your post inspires me to do so. One author whose entire works I have read (all her major published works, anyway) is Jane Austen. Of course Pride and Prejudice was my favorite, but the others are terrific as well: Persuasion, Northanger Abbey, etc. Born in 1775, she died young (42, I think). Her books have never been out of print since when they were first published.
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Oct. 17, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by CountryMomof4
Oh, that's a hard one. Can I have Laura too? I was just talking to someone yesterday about Mary. I'm very curious about her (you know being the Mother of Christ and all)..... so I guess I'd pick her.
I read your memories post! It was great! You wrote "I accepted Christ as my Savior on my knees in front of the TV after watching a Christian program. God moves in mysterious ways." Ha, that's my story too! Gotta love those kooky televangelists... yes God DOES move in mysterious ways. ~K



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Oct. 17, 2006 - Neat post....

Posted by kampsplete
I think I will read these books with my kids too. Right now we're still trying to make it through the Narnia series. I remember reading a few of the books myself when I was younger, she was a very neat lady. Thanks for sharing this...

Love, Kathy
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Oct. 18, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Rebeca
What a lovely post! I'm not sure who I would pick. I've read Farmer boy to my son and will wait until my daughter is a bit older to read the series to them both. I can't wait!
Hope you have a great day,
Rebeca
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Oct. 19, 2006 - Thanks for the Postcard!

Posted by buffalorock
Your postcard arrived today! What's is so fun is that we are studying Lewis & Clark this week (not next week or last week, THIS week! Isn't God good!).

I actually grew up going to the Banks of Plum Creek every summer for our annual 4-H Field Day. Unfortunately, due to our proximity and the familiarity our awe of Laura was a bit removed in my childhood. The Little House television series didn't help much, because CA looks NOTHING like our area, and many of the series' trips to towns in the area were very skewed. It wasn't until I got married and my DH was thrilled that I grew up so close to Walnut Grove that I realized that perhaps I had missed out on something. Now I have a lot more respect for the authoress, and her depiction of life in that era. We plan to do the Prairie Primer with our Daughters.
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Oct. 24, 2006 - Untitled Comment

Posted by Anonymous
I don't love the Rose Years books, but I cried when I saw the picture for the chapter where Pa dies...just a tombstone labeled Charles Ingalls with the date. Laura comes home to Missouri with his fiddle.

I think you can tell what great books these are because people of all ages love them. I get something different out of them every time I read them, and I have read them literally scores of times. The last time I read the Long Winter I was really struck for the first time how scary that situation was and how they suffered. It finally seemed like more than a story to me.

It is interesting that Laura and Almanzo's daughter, Rose Wilder Lane, was a staunch libertarian and individualist, after a stint as a socialist...during the 2nd world war she accepted no ration coupons and supported herself with a large garden. Knowing Pa's love for freedom and independence, which he transmitted to Laura, it makes sense that Laura's daughter would value individual freedom so highly.


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